"No!
Why would I?
Its a brilliant site for men to meet ladies and have so much fun!!!
Id say 95% of the men would agree with me???  "
Just a generalised question. But it can be a let down at times and a turn off at others |
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"Does anyone ever feel disheartened or uninterested in this site at times? If so what’s the reasons behind it?
If you feel like that ..hide your profile and take a break "
I said above can sometimes be that way but just generally speaking wondered if anyone else ever felt that way |
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over a year ago
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"No!
Why would I?
Its a brilliant site for men to meet ladies and have so much fun!!!
Id say 95% of the men would agree with me???
Just a generalised question. But it can be a let down at times and a turn off at others "
I was being sarcastic!!!  |
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"No!
Why would I?
Its a brilliant site for men to meet ladies and have so much fun!!!
Id say 95% of the men would agree with me???
Just a generalised question. But it can be a let down at times and a turn off at others
I was being sarcastic!!! "
 thank fuck for that, I thought you were ill |
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over a year ago
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"Uninterested? Yes, you can’t be interested in something 100% of the time and it’s healthy to take breaks.
Disheartened? No. If I was letting the place get to me like that I’d remove myself."
Can you remove yourself to see if it makes it better for me though? |
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over a year ago
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Was on it years ago in London and loved it but was then off for a long time. It’s very different here in Dublin but once we got back into the swing of things it’s been fine.
But then we can be pretty direct. |
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"No!
Why would I?
Its a brilliant site for men to meet ladies and have so much fun!!!
Id say 95% of the men would agree with me???
Just a generalised question. But it can be a let down at times and a turn off at others
I was being sarcastic!!! "
Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit |
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"Uninterested? Yes, you can’t be interested in something 100% of the time and it’s healthy to take breaks.
Disheartened? No. If I was letting the place get to me like that I’d remove myself."
That’s a good way to look at it x |
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"Was on it years ago in London and loved it but was then off for a long time. It’s very different here in Dublin but once we got back into the swing of things it’s been fine.
But then we can be pretty direct. "
Do you find the directness helps then?x |
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"No!
Why would I?
Its a brilliant site for men to meet ladies and have so much fun!!!
Id say 95% of the men would agree with me???
Just a generalised question. But it can be a let down at times and a turn off at others
I was being sarcastic!!!
Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit "
Possibly true, depending on your sense of humour too!!! |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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"Uninterested? Yes, you can’t be interested in something 100% of the time and it’s healthy to take breaks.
Disheartened? No. If I was letting the place get to me like that I’d remove myself.
Can you remove yourself to see if it makes it better for me though?"
You’d pine away without me pumpkin  |
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Seems to me that there are unhappy people on both sides of the fence.
I can't escape the feeling that generally people just can't be bothered to make an effort.
Ffs, how difficult is it to go have a cuppa with someone local to yourself without the expectation that any dipping of the croissant into the pate will occur?
And if the banter is shite, we'll at least you know for sure now. |
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Yes definitely I had a fake ass last night well I think he is fake anyway(I could be wrong) he blocked me after I said no to sex on the first meet. He said he was on dating sites aswell bit I just got this really bad feeling about him maybe he knew me or just couldn't take rejection or thought I was ugly which is okay I am a realist . But yeah OP I hear you I can't even put up social and my box goes crazy so then I her overwhelmed and can't even choose or organise it ha ha. Parties are the best to meet people socially anyway. |
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"Yes definitely I had a fake ass last night well I think he is fake anyway(I could be wrong) he blocked me after I said no to sex on the first meet. He said he was on dating sites aswell bit I just got this really bad feeling about him maybe he knew me or just couldn't take rejection or thought I was ugly which is okay I am a realist . But yeah OP I hear you I can't even put up social and my box goes crazy so then I her overwhelmed and can't even choose or organise it ha ha. Parties are the best to meet people socially anyway. "
Cheeky fucker!!
Not you, him  |
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"Yes definitely I had a fake ass last night well I think he is fake anyway(I could be wrong) he blocked me after I said no to sex on the first meet. He said he was on dating sites aswell bit I just got this really bad feeling about him maybe he knew me or just couldn't take rejection or thought I was ugly which is okay I am a realist . But yeah OP I hear you I can't even put up social and my box goes crazy so then I her overwhelmed and can't even choose or organise it ha ha. Parties are the best to meet people socially anyway.
Cheeky fucker!!
Not you, him "
Ah yeah I had a social meet up and in messaging him I was clear in what I was looking for, but some just want the sex at the click of their fingers and not just guys couples aswell. I prefer to do a social and see how that goes and take it from there. Parties is different because thing's just go with the flow no pressure. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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The vicissitudes within all of our lives, no matter how optimistic our general outlook on life in the longer term,can cause a natural ebb and flow of our mood, particularly over the past two years, and this is bound to affect our outlook of this unusual lifestyle choice, colloquially known as swinging.
If the site has now lost its lustre from your specific perspective, take a break and come back with a reinvigorated outlook. |
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"No!
Why would I?
Its a brilliant site for men to meet ladies and have so much fun!!!
Id say 95% of the men would agree with me???
Just a generalised question. But it can be a let down at times and a turn off at others
I was being sarcastic!!!
Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit
Possibly true, depending on your sense of humour too!!! "
Mines must be awful then  |
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"Yes definitely I had a fake ass last night well I think he is fake anyway(I could be wrong) he blocked me after I said no to sex on the first meet. He said he was on dating sites aswell bit I just got this really bad feeling about him maybe he knew me or just couldn't take rejection or thought I was ugly which is okay I am a realist . But yeah OP I hear you I can't even put up social and my box goes crazy so then I her overwhelmed and can't even choose or organise it ha ha. Parties are the best to meet people socially anyway. "
We’ve had a few invites so thinking this is defo the route we will take. I find people can be quite pushy sometimes and it instantly puts us off x |
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over a year ago
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"Uninterested? Yes, you can’t be interested in something 100% of the time and it’s healthy to take breaks.
Disheartened? No. If I was letting the place get to me like that I’d remove myself.
Can you remove yourself to see if it makes it better for me though?"
Lol |
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"Yes definitely I had a fake ass last night well I think he is fake anyway(I could be wrong) he blocked me after I said no to sex on the first meet. He said he was on dating sites aswell bit I just got this really bad feeling about him maybe he knew me or just couldn't take rejection or thought I was ugly which is okay I am a realist . But yeah OP I hear you I can't even put up social and my box goes crazy so then I her overwhelmed and can't even choose or organise it ha ha. Parties are the best to meet people socially anyway.
We’ve had a few invites so thinking this is defo the route we will take. I find people can be quite pushy sometimes and it instantly puts us off x"
I would definitely suggest snap up the invites and yes totally turn off pushy people and even when told they are pushy continue to do so which in turn has helped me to find my confidence in using the block button. |
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"Yes definitely I had a fake ass last night well I think he is fake anyway(I could be wrong) he blocked me after I said no to sex on the first meet. He said he was on dating sites aswell bit I just got this really bad feeling about him maybe he knew me or just couldn't take rejection or thought I was ugly which is okay I am a realist . But yeah OP I hear you I can't even put up social and my box goes crazy so then I her overwhelmed and can't even choose or organise it ha ha. Parties are the best to meet people socially anyway.
We’ve had a few invites so thinking this is defo the route we will take. I find people can be quite pushy sometimes and it instantly puts us off x
I would definitely suggest snap up the invites and yes totally turn off pushy people and even when told they are pushy continue to do so which in turn has helped me to find my confidence in using the block button. "
See G is block button happy I R always try to be kind but it gets hard like lol |
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I do sometimes.. it's so disheartening getting usual ,,, ' you well ' message day in day out, have a bit of chat ye know?
Opening with a dick pic and nothing else it's old.
We've been chatting to a few couples ourselves but move over to Kik as here it's just hard to keep the flow going |
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"I do sometimes.. it's so disheartening getting usual ,,, ' you well ' message day in day out, have a bit of chat ye know?
Opening with a dick pic and nothing else it's old.
We've been chatting to a few couples ourselves but move over to Kik as here it's just hard to keep the flow going "
Yeh it is indeed. |
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Yeah very much so my profiles more hidden that out on show says it all really! But then again I've a low tolerance for bs been on and off dating sites for absolutely years thought fab was different bit still fulla idiots ?? |
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Just use it as ye like others will tell ye to try other sites and if ye are up for that then go for it the most important thing is for ye both to get what ye want from this and not what others tell ye to do trust your gut doesn’t always work but at least both of ye would agree to meet or not that’s yer decision it’s fun enjoy |
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Yeah I have periods of disinterest quite regularly. That said we meet others for sex so infrequently in really doesn't have much of an impact. It's quite difficult to sustain conversations when you only meet sporadically and I've no problem admitting that sometimes I don't have the mental energy/ I just can't be bothered to maintain that level of effort.
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Nobody said it was easy where going back to the start running in circles so let’s go back to or too the start night all hope too meet some of ye sometime |
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