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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can be blocked for any reason....move on and don't worry about it .....ps your sign is wrong in your picture "
Eagle eye you should be doing the photo verifitying  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or verifying as opposed to what ever the hell that auto correct was 
I have dyslexia...seemed fine to me  "
I have a serious case of why am I even awake going on, that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's embarrassing and difficult telling someone (to their face) that you find them unattractive.
Perhaps they know you and got worried.... yes I'm sure thats it. "
It's really not that difficult to say "not for us thanks, best of luck" |
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"It's embarrassing and difficult telling someone (to their face) that you find them unattractive.
Perhaps they know you and got worried.... yes I'm sure thats it.
It's really not that difficult to say "not for us thanks, best of luck" "
Yes that would be better manners. I can understand the temptation is all. |
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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago
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"Why ladies just block me after getting my face pic ? Does it happen to other lads? "
This place can be incredibly frustrating OP, if you don't learn to let go and move on. It can be easier said than done bcos all of us - no matter who we are - will take rejection personally (until we learn to let it go).
You'll never know precisely why this person has blocked you but you can listen to the narrative you tell yourself about it and gain insight into your own insecurities and use that as a basis for something to work on. That will ultimately make you even more attractive as a person
Try to focus on those things within your locus of control. Have you taken your best selfie? Have you thought about how your opening message might sound compared to the countless other messages the woman receives?
Treat it as a game where you're trying to unlock the "secret of fab" and try not to get too hung up on the outcome. |
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Some people use the block button as another filter. As in they will block people they have no interest in even without being in contact previously.
Others find it easier to block after receiving a facepic rather than deal with the possibility of a why not back and/or abuse.
Personally speaking if we had been chatting with someone and then they sent a facepic and i was not attracted i would certainly write back and say not for me etc.
Everyone has their own way of using fab and its easier to concentrate on how you use it rather than try understand why other people use it the way they do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been rejected before with a response "not my type"and it wasn't even a face pic. Weeks later the same profile messaged me asking hi, how are you, what are you into?
Well my day came to spoon feed their own medicine back to them.
I will admit, it felt good to throw it back in their court. |
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By *ustyboy OP Man
over a year ago
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It’s not about stressing over a small thing it’s about some respect . If you don’t like someone just try with a simple NO at first and then block button is always handy for persistent people . |
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Plenty of reasons.
As some say it could be there’s nothing there in terms of feeling it and don’t want to hurt your feelings. Now I get they could at least just say no, however some people on here turn nasty and they might have experienced it and don’t fancy it again.
Maybe they know you and don’t want to mix vanilla life and here.
We’ve been blocked for silly things too, we look it as time saved than time or opportunity lost. |
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