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By *s Lolly OP Woman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
Hard to believe im here just over 7yrs and until recently really didn't know what i wanted from the site and considered leaving many a time....
Now i finally do know and am enjoying the site more who knows how long more ill be here but going forward it's looking good....
Im looking for someone regularly to meet up with and attend social nights and some overnight hotel stays with me....
My question is are you enjoying the site? and are you getting what you want from it? or have you still not found what you're looking for(que U2 song)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I wasn't getting what I wanted I'd leave. Which I have done previously.
It's very easy to come and go I really don't understand the drama some people make about choosing to step away for a while |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We're here around the same length of time and can't be arsed meeting anymore, so we either found what we were looking for or decided it wasn't to be had |
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Been here 5 years and had different ideas of what I was looking for but always happy with the pace.
Lots of things I always thought I would like to explore that have been put on the back burner because of time restrictions but very happy with where I find myself.
Friendships are great, benefits even better.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We're here around the same length of time and can't be arsed meeting anymore, so we either found what we were looking for or decided it wasn't to be had "
I can relate to this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We're here around the same length of time and can't be arsed meeting anymore, so we either found what we were looking for or decided it wasn't to be had "
(Nobody can put up with us) |
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By *argus12Man
over a year ago
meath dublin / london |
"If I wasn't getting what I wanted I'd leave. Which I have done previously.
It's very easy to come and go I really don't understand the drama some people make about choosing to step away for a while"
Fully agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're here around the same length of time and can't be arsed meeting anymore, so we either found what we were looking for or decided it wasn't to be had
(Nobody can put up with us)"
We'd be the first to agree |
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I just joined this year and I've barely even begun to scratching the surface of what I would like to do, but I'm a very patient person and am sure it'll come with time
Especially once my S.O. finally gets a job with regular working hours and we'll have more time meeting with others together.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I'm here 3 or maybe 4 years. I definitely am a different woman to the one who joined here. I like how things are me now. I've made good friends and meet some people regularly so I'm happy out. There are days though when I think why bother but that I'm sure is all part and parcel of fab is about. Also I'm in a great k#k group and that is something that has made me enjoy here all the more. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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Here 3 years ....enjoy the socials a lot and the craic on the forums.
Found that someone to spend weekends away with and to go to socials together so having a bloody great time ....
Even bump into fabbers in the most unexpected places and have a laugh or a coffee |
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By *s Lolly OP Woman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
Ive made some amazing friends over the year's and been lucky to have met most of them let it be just for coffee or a five hr breakfast (BogM) ive spent a couple of hours,overnights or a fantastic weekend with them,just now im not looking for endless ping-pong messages just regular company.... |
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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago
That place in |
Joined kinda knew what I wanted, Fab totally surprised me with meeting someone,so fell in love,met some amazing people some we call friends, had some great meets,fun at socials, we are both happy at where we are both at on here |
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"Ive made some amazing friends over the year's and been lucky to have met most of them let it be just for coffee or a five hr breakfast (BogM) ive spent a couple of hours,overnights or a fantastic weekend with them,just now im not looking for endless ping-pong messages just regular company.... "
I thought it should be easy for ladies to find regular company. Gobsmacked that it's not  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you think that you get out of fab what you put in ??
So many complaints about how people are here and so many observations about other people's behaviour. |
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By *s Lolly OP Woman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"Ive made some amazing friends over the year's and been lucky to have met most of them let it be just for coffee or a five hr breakfast (BogM) ive spent a couple of hours,overnights or a fantastic weekend with them,just now im not looking for endless ping-pong messages just regular company....
I thought it should be easy for ladies to find regular company. Gobsmacked that it's not "
Unfortunately it hasn't been for me different paths on here is usually why or other factors...... |
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"Ive made some amazing friends over the year's and been lucky to have met most of them let it be just for coffee or a five hr breakfast (BogM) ive spent a couple of hours,overnights or a fantastic weekend with them,just now im not looking for endless ping-pong messages just regular company....
I thought it should be easy for ladies to find regular company. Gobsmacked that it's not "
Impossible  |
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"Do you think that you get out of fab what you put in ??
So many complaints about how people are here and so many observations about other people's behaviour. "
Well I've always managed to get my willy back, if that's what you're asking?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think that you get out of fab what you put in ??
So many complaints about how people are here and so many observations about other people's behaviour.
Well I've always managed to get my willy back, if that's what you're asking? "
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By *s Lolly OP Woman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"Do you think that you get out of fab what you put in ??
So many complaints about how people are here and so many observations about other people's behaviour. "
I put 110% into looking for a regular connection on here am i fussy 100% do i judge people on who they've met or meeting 100% through my interactions with them(forum, k*k chats and in person)and it's probably why ive not met anyone regular yet..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think that you get out of fab what you put in ??
So many complaints about how people are here and so many observations about other people's behaviour.
I put 110% into looking for a regular connection on here am i fussy 100% do i judge people on who they've met or meeting 100% through my interactions with them(forum, k*k chats and in person)and it's probably why ive not met anyone regular yet....."
My question was just in general and not aimed at you at all.
I would fully agree with being fussy. Why shouldn't you be .x |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I've been on here a few years now.Some of the people I've met through here are amazing great people who have become true friends.
As my journey on here carries on, I find what I looked for when I joined and what I want now are different and for various reasons have changed over time. But I'm very happy with my journey and especially with the close friendships I've made they make all worthwhile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think that you get out of fab what you put in ??
So many complaints about how people are here and so many observations about other people's behaviour. "
Not everyone gets out what they put in I don't think.
Most might but not always
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By *s Lolly OP Woman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"Do you think that you get out of fab what you put in ??
So many complaints about how people are here and so many observations about other people's behaviour.
I put 110% into looking for a regular connection on here am i fussy 100% do i judge people on who they've met or meeting 100% through my interactions with them(forum, k*k chats and in person)and it's probably why ive not met anyone regular yet.....
My question was just in general and not aimed at you at all.
I would fully agree with being fussy. Why shouldn't you be .x "
Ooooooooooopsie but that's my answer anyway  |
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Im only a newbie but Yes im loving the site. The ladies are friendly and bold which is always good haha for the small % that send unwanted pics or think they some type of god lol I would recommend here to somone whos looking something specific. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think that you get out of fab what you put in ??
So many complaints about how people are here and so many observations about other people's behaviour. "
Is that a complaint or an observation? |
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"Do you think that you get out of fab what you put in ??
So many complaints about how people are here and so many observations about other people's behaviour.
I put 110% into looking for a regular connection on here am i fussy 100% do i judge people on who they've met or meeting 100% through my interactions with them(forum, k*k chats and in person)and it's probably why ive not met anyone regular yet....."
"The pub, then Supermac's" and you say you're fussy?! 
But in all seriousness, stick with your standards - as long as you take all the positivity you can on your journey - that's all that matters. In the meantime, I've applied the 5 second rule to eating my out of date lunch off the floor - really, I'm not fussy at all |
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By *s Lolly OP Woman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"Do you think that you get out of fab what you put in ??
So many complaints about how people are here and so many observations about other people's behaviour.
I put 110% into looking for a regular connection on here am i fussy 100% do i judge people on who they've met or meeting 100% through my interactions with them(forum, k*k chats and in person)and it's probably why ive not met anyone regular yet.....
"The pub, then Supermac's" and you say you're fussy?!
But in all seriousness, stick with your standards - as long as you take all the positivity you can on your journey - that's all that matters. In the meantime, I've applied the 5 second rule to eating my out of date lunch off the floor - really, I'm not fussy at all "
Eh don't knock it till ye try it, it's top notch beer's n grub |
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"Do you think that you get out of fab what you put in ??
So many complaints about how people are here and so many observations about other people's behaviour.
I put 110% into looking for a regular connection on here am i fussy 100% do i judge people on who they've met or meeting 100% through my interactions with them(forum, k*k chats and in person)and it's probably why ive not met anyone regular yet.....
"The pub, then Supermac's" and you say you're fussy?!
But in all seriousness, stick with your standards - as long as you take all the positivity you can on your journey - that's all that matters. In the meantime, I've applied the 5 second rule to eating my out of date lunch off the floor - really, I'm not fussy at all "
Did you bless the lunch? Otherwise it doesnt work |
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"Do you think that you get out of fab what you put in ??
So many complaints about how people are here and so many observations about other people's behaviour.
I put 110% into looking for a regular connection on here am i fussy 100% do i judge people on who they've met or meeting 100% through my interactions with them(forum, k*k chats and in person)and it's probably why ive not met anyone regular yet.....
"The pub, then Supermac's" and you say you're fussy?!
But in all seriousness, stick with your standards - as long as you take all the positivity you can on your journey - that's all that matters. In the meantime, I've applied the 5 second rule to eating my out of date lunch off the floor - really, I'm not fussy at all
Eh don't knock it till ye try it, it's top notch beer's n grub "
Oh heck, I know - brings me back down memory lane too
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over a year ago
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"Do you think that you get out of fab what you put in ??
So many complaints about how people are here and so many observations about other people's behaviour.
Is that a complaint or an observation? "
Just my observation Casey watching how people are . It just amuses me to read people's reactions to others and their opinions. |
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"Do you think that you get out of fab what you put in ??
So many complaints about how people are here and so many observations about other people's behaviour.
I put 110% into looking for a regular connection on here am i fussy 100% do i judge people on who they've met or meeting 100% through my interactions with them(forum, k*k chats and in person)and it's probably why ive not met anyone regular yet.....
"The pub, then Supermac's" and you say you're fussy?!
But in all seriousness, stick with your standards - as long as you take all the positivity you can on your journey - that's all that matters. In the meantime, I've applied the 5 second rule to eating my out of date lunch off the floor - really, I'm not fussy at all
Did you bless the lunch? Otherwise it doesnt work "
No point, ends up in the sewer one way or another |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We haven’t been on here long so I’m the one using this place he’s on sometimes to now because there’s no football on so when we first joined I was winking messaging like a lunatic I bet most were like your one is desperate ha (still am) but come to realize if it happens for us well and good if not so be it so now we just use fab for what we want from it forums are a great craic sometimes |
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By *s Lolly OP Woman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"Do you think that you get out of fab what you put in ??
So many complaints about how people are here and so many observations about other people's behaviour.
I put 110% into looking for a regular connection on here am i fussy 100% do i judge people on who they've met or meeting 100% through my interactions with them(forum, k*k chats and in person)and it's probably why ive not met anyone regular yet.....
"The pub, then Supermac's" and you say you're fussy?!
But in all seriousness, stick with your standards - as long as you take all the positivity you can on your journey - that's all that matters. In the meantime, I've applied the 5 second rule to eating my out of date lunch off the floor - really, I'm not fussy at all
Eh don't knock it till ye try it, it's top notch beer's n grub
Oh heck, I know - brings me back down memory lane too
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Tasty and tempting food kinda like myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been here on and off for 10 years or so and met some really nice people and had amazing experiences with a few good friends along the way. I tend to go for fb's and been very lucky to have one for 4 years and others for several months.
I am again looking for a regular connection on here. And yes still 100% fussy. Lol
I feel I am close to the end of my fab journey so hoping for a friend with benefits to pass the odd lazy day with for before I finally hang my boots up for good.
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"Do you think that you get out of fab what you put in ??
So many complaints about how people are here and so many observations about other people's behaviour.
I put 110% into looking for a regular connection on here am i fussy 100% do i judge people on who they've met or meeting 100% through my interactions with them(forum, k*k chats and in person)and it's probably why ive not met anyone regular yet.....
"The pub, then Supermac's" and you say you're fussy?!
But in all seriousness, stick with your standards - as long as you take all the positivity you can on your journey - that's all that matters. In the meantime, I've applied the 5 second rule to eating my out of date lunch off the floor - really, I'm not fussy at all
Did you bless the lunch? Otherwise it doesnt work
No point, ends up in the sewer one way or another "
Positive thinking. I like that |
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"Theres a lot that dont know what they want lol"
Possibly...I'd argue that a lot of people sign up with expectations, fantasies and dreams which can't be met unless you actually meet the "right" people. And once you do meet others, they may or almost certainly will have an influence...in the sense that, in my (albeit little) experience, I would have enjoyed doing things with one person but it just didn't feel right with another.
I now find conversations rather humorous when you're asked online - well, what are you into, or get off on? How far will you go etc...Sorry, but until I meet you and get a sense of you, and how I feel around you, I can't answer that question - because boundaries change from person to person and meet to meet.
Expectations, fantasies and dreams change as we mature (or not, as the case may be ).
I've only been here a couple of years with a couple of different profiles and I can safely say that my expectations changed drastically, as have my fantasies.
And I do have fantasies which I'm pretty sure I'd never actually want to put into action - regardless of who I'm with. And that's probably one of the few reasons why there are so many "time wasters" on this site - they think they want something but are either too chicken to put it into action, given the opportunity, or just don't (want to) realise that they never would anyhow (regardless of the fake profiles, trolls and those who get off sending you down the garden path)...
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"Theres a lot that dont know what they want lol
Possibly...I'd argue that a lot of people sign up with expectations, fantasies and dreams which can't be met unless you actually meet the "right" people. And once you do meet others, they may or almost certainly will have an influence...in the sense that, in my (albeit little) experience, I would have enjoyed doing things with one person but it just didn't feel right with another.
I now find conversations rather humorous when you're asked online - well, what are you into, or get off on? How far will you go etc...Sorry, but until I meet you and get a sense of you, and how I feel around you, I can't answer that question - because boundaries change from person to person and meet to meet.
Expectations, fantasies and dreams change as we mature (or not, as the case may be ).
I've only been here a couple of years with a couple of different profiles and I can safely say that my expectations changed drastically, as have my fantasies.
And I do have fantasies which I'm pretty sure I'd never actually want to put into action - regardless of who I'm with. And that's probably one of the few reasons why there are so many "time wasters" on this site - they think they want something but are either too chicken to put it into action, given the opportunity, or just don't (want to) realise that they never would anyhow (regardless of the fake profiles, trolls and those who get off sending you down the garden path)...
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This is why fwb threads are completely pointless. Dropping your name in a thread to say you are looking for a fwb is a waste of time if you don't actually do the legwork.
You'll only find if you're compatible with someone over a period of time both meeting and talking.
You could be great friends but not compatible when naked or good in bed together but very little else in common.
Lots of people say they are are searching for a fwb but too many of those are more interested in the benefits than the friendship so it will fizzle out quickly. |
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"Theres a lot that dont know what they want lol
Possibly...I'd argue that a lot of people sign up with expectations, fantasies and dreams which can't be met unless you actually meet the "right" people. And once you do meet others, they may or almost certainly will have an influence...in the sense that, in my (albeit little) experience, I would have enjoyed doing things with one person but it just didn't feel right with another.
I now find conversations rather humorous when you're asked online - well, what are you into, or get off on? How far will you go etc...Sorry, but until I meet you and get a sense of you, and how I feel around you, I can't answer that question - because boundaries change from person to person and meet to meet.
Expectations, fantasies and dreams change as we mature (or not, as the case may be ).
I've only been here a couple of years with a couple of different profiles and I can safely say that my expectations changed drastically, as have my fantasies.
And I do have fantasies which I'm pretty sure I'd never actually want to put into action - regardless of who I'm with. And that's probably one of the few reasons why there are so many "time wasters" on this site - they think they want something but are either too chicken to put it into action, given the opportunity, or just don't (want to) realise that they never would anyhow (regardless of the fake profiles, trolls and those who get off sending you down the garden path)...
This is why fwb threads are completely pointless. Dropping your name in a thread to say you are looking for a fwb is a waste of time if you don't actually do the legwork.
You'll only find if you're compatible with someone over a period of time both meeting and talking.
You could be great friends but not compatible when naked or good in bed together but very little else in common.
Lots of people say they are are searching for a fwb but too many of those are more interested in the benefits than the friendship so it will fizzle out quickly. "
I couldn't agree more!!! And the other thing is that it's often those who can't string 2 sentences together on paper, are a hoot and vice versa (I'm not half as witty as some here might think, how could I be - I'm German after all ).
You have to meet to be able to tell - the best online conversations have fallen so, so flat when I've met people I've chatted with for a while, it's unbelievable... |
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"Do you think that you get out of fab what you put in ??
So many complaints about how people are here and so many observations about other people's behaviour.
I put 110% into looking for a regular connection on here am i fussy 100% do i judge people on who they've met or meeting 100% through my interactions with them(forum, k*k chats and in person)and it's probably why ive not met anyone regular yet....."
wow and here I was thinking that's it's difficult for men like me only.... |
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"Theres a lot that dont know what they want lol
Possibly...I'd argue that a lot of people sign up with expectations, fantasies and dreams which can't be met unless you actually meet the "right" people. And once you do meet others, they may or almost certainly will have an influence...in the sense that, in my (albeit little) experience, I would have enjoyed doing things with one person but it just didn't feel right with another.
I now find conversations rather humorous when you're asked online - well, what are you into, or get off on? How far will you go etc...Sorry, but until I meet you and get a sense of you, and how I feel around you, I can't answer that question - because boundaries change from person to person and meet to meet.
Expectations, fantasies and dreams change as we mature (or not, as the case may be ).
I've only been here a couple of years with a couple of different profiles and I can safely say that my expectations changed drastically, as have my fantasies.
And I do have fantasies which I'm pretty sure I'd never actually want to put into action - regardless of who I'm with. And that's probably one of the few reasons why there are so many "time wasters" on this site - they think they want something but are either too chicken to put it into action, given the opportunity, or just don't (want to) realise that they never would anyhow (regardless of the fake profiles, trolls and those who get off sending you down the garden path)...
This is why fwb threads are completely pointless. Dropping your name in a thread to say you are looking for a fwb is a waste of time if you don't actually do the legwork.
You'll only find if you're compatible with someone over a period of time both meeting and talking.
You could be great friends but not compatible when naked or good in bed together but very little else in common.
Lots of people say they are are searching for a fwb but too many of those are more interested in the benefits than the friendship so it will fizzle out quickly. "
Wow you put it so well!  |
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"Theres a lot that dont know what they want lol"
I sure am one of them....all confused and sexcited but rudderless. But I guess it takes time and patience to get your footing on here .. some move on, some hit pay dirt and some hang in there in the hope that they discover what the heck they were looking for  |
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"And the other thing is that it's often those who can't string 2 sentences together on paper, are a hoot and vice versa (I'm not half as witty as some here might think, how could I be - I'm German after all )."
Hey! Not all of us Germans are born with an atrophied funny bone
In fact, my (non-German) fiancée thinks that I'm the funny one in our relationship. 
Then again, most of my jokes are of the dad variety, maybe she's just too madly in love with me and finds me funny for that reason alone  |
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"And the other thing is that it's often those who can't string 2 sentences together on paper, are a hoot and vice versa (I'm not half as witty as some here might think, how could I be - I'm German after all ).
Hey! Not all of us Germans are born with an atrophied funny bone
In fact, my (non-German) fiancée thinks that I'm the funny one in our relationship.
Then again, most of my jokes are of the dad variety, maybe she's just too madly in love with me and finds me funny for that reason alone "
She's just buttering you up to make you feel good
Have you never heard of the saying: Life's a bitch, then you marry one...our aim in life, as women, is to make your lives miserable - that's what makes us happy. She's just securing the legal papers before your fall (you're getting married if I remember correctly)  |
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"I think I'm here 3 or maybe 4 years. I definitely am a different woman to the one who joined here. I like how things are me now. I've made good friends and meet some people regularly so I'm happy out. There are days though when I think why bother but that I'm sure is all part and parcel of fab is about. Also I'm in a great k#k group and that is something that has made me enjoy here all the more. "
Feel free to add.me.on the k*k group. Same username as here.
I've been on here a year I think or there abouts. Not sure I've found what I'm looking for.yet. but talking to some great people along the way so happy to stay for now |
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"Ive made some amazing friends over the year's and been lucky to have met most of them let it be just for coffee or a five hr breakfast (BogM) ive spent a couple of hours,overnights or a fantastic weekend with them,just now im not looking for endless ping-pong messages just regular company....
I thought it should be easy for ladies to find regular company. Gobsmacked that it's not
Unfortunately it hasn't been for me different paths on here is usually why or other factors......"
I'm still here for you! |
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We are around here for around 4 years, found very quickly what we were looking for made some amazing friends along with the odd shark or 2 but all in all a very positive experience, our journey continues ?? |
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