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Hey all,
Wondering what the _iew is from ladies and couples in general.
What are the chances of married guys, on here without the knowledge of partners, getting a meet?
I’m no oil painting, but I wouldn’t consider myself horrible either.
Yet, I have zero success on here. Not sure what it is.
Interested in genuine thoughts and comments/feedback.
Cheers,
FIG |
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I'm guessing very slim.
All morals aside (which plays a huge part in people not wanting to have anything to do with cheaters).
There's also reliability and availability issue.
You being attached means that someone else will have to not only work around their own schedules, your schedule, but also your family schedule. Which also makes you more likely to cancel on made plans last minute too which isn't fair on anyone.
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I just love this whole default logical conclusion, which btw is totally a sophisms, that all married guys on here are cheaters. It's been repeated so many times it actually hurts the little hair I have left on my head when I read it again...
As to being doomed to a life with no sex, no, not really.
There are people here who find it hot, who don't mind cause it's your business, etc...
My personal observation in the latest bout of self inflicted masochism when I decided to poke around here again, is that a lot of people are tired, a lot of people just want to disconnect, have a bit of fun, a bit of comfort, but are not really prepared/ready/willing/having the energy to invest into the game...
Seems to me that some fresh blood is also missing, its just too settled and well trodden paths are taken again and again...
Anyhoo, good hunting! |
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Your marital status will be an issue for some people but not for everyone.
Personality is likely to be the main issue for many many more people.
You'll always find people who are interested regardless of your situation, just don't waste time on people who aren't interested. |
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By *oandFroCouple
over a year ago
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"Hey all,
Wondering what the _iew is from ladies and couples in general.
What are the chances of married guys, on here without the knowledge of partners, getting a meet?
I’m no oil painting, but I wouldn’t consider myself horrible either.
Yet, I have zero success on here. Not sure what it is.
Interested in genuine thoughts and comments/feedback.
Cheers,
FIG"
I think you are leading with honesty and openess on here, so that's a start, you may have to build up trust with who you do end up meeting, that you will be worth the extra effort.
Zero judgement here, alot of glasshouses about,and each to their own what they are looking for but I am sure there are plenty of married women in similar situations should they only be lucky enough to come on fab, as another poster just said fresh faces would be nice and I'm sure some couples would be open to inviting you. There could be advantages to you like you won't be making a long term play for the Mrs.
Anyway just my opinion Mrs c. X |
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Not too sure if this is just a whiny ‘poor me’ or even a wind up post OP.
Being ‘successful’ on here is more to do with you, your personality and the way you approach people too. Interaction is key…
Also a point to note, maybe you’ve forgotten but your profile says you’ve had a number of meets (4 meets and 1 cam), hardly “zero success”, which would be the same as me stating that I never posted on this thread 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey all,
Wondering what the _iew is from ladies and couples in general.
What are the chances of married guys, on here without the knowledge of partners, getting a meet?
I’m no oil painting, but I wouldn’t consider myself horrible either.
Yet, I have zero success on here. Not sure what it is.
Interested in genuine thoughts and comments/feedback.
Cheers,
FIG
I think you are leading with honesty and openess on here, so that's a start, you may have to build up trust with who you do end up meeting, that you will be worth the extra effort.
Zero judgement here, alot of glasshouses about,and each to their own what they are looking for but I am sure there are plenty of married women in similar situations should they only be lucky enough to come on fab, as another poster just said fresh faces would be nice and I'm sure some couples would be open to inviting you. There could be advantages to you like you won't be making a long term play for the Mrs.
Anyway just my opinion Mrs c. X"
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"Not too sure if this is just a whiny ‘poor me’ or even a wind up post OP.
Being ‘successful’ on here is more to do with you, your personality and the way you approach people too. Interaction is key…
Also a point to note, maybe you’ve forgotten but your profile says you’ve had a number of meets (4 meets and 1 cam), hardly “zero success”, which would be the same as me stating that I never posted on this thread
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Definitely not a wind up, my post is genuine.
All the meets mentioned are from years ago.
I’m willing to build up trust and a connection. My question was genuine, as most profiles seem to exclude married guys. Maybe I’m just looking at the wrong profiles ?????
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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It will narrow field a bit alright.
But the good news is that there might be a kik group for married people. There's always demand for one, from other married men at least anyway. So that might be something to look into. |
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Just to go back on the initial query…
The only issue we have with anyone who is married/attached is that they can’t always be reliable to meet as plans can and have been changed the very last minute.
(Or they do an impression of a Panda bear - Eats shoots and leaves  ) |
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"Just to go back on the initial query…
The only issue we have with anyone who is married/attached is that they can’t always be reliable to meet as plans can and have been changed the very last minute.
(Or they do an impression of a Panda bear - Eats shoots and leaves ) "
there are married ladies on here in a similar position as you n it just takes time openness n honesty to get to know them . Patience |
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If the single bi female is the nice sweet ripe fresh red pink lady apple, and couples are a bog standard granny smith and single men are the ton of normal apples that are lying around on the ground, then cheating men are the bruised old apples that ended up in someone else's garden, and you need to hop across fences and risk getting yelled at by a grumpy wife chasing you with her mop. |
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"If the single bi female is the nice sweet ripe fresh red pink lady apple, and couples are a bog standard granny smith and single men are the ton of normal apples that are lying around on the ground, then cheating men are the bruised old apples that ended up in someone else's garden, and you need to hop across fences and risk getting yelled at by a grumpy wife chasing you with her mop. "
Im loving this analogy haha! |
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"Just to go back on the initial query…
The only issue we have with anyone who is married/attached is that they can’t always be reliable to meet as plans can and have been changed the very last minute.
(Or they do an impression of a Panda bear - Eats shoots and leaves ) "
I 2nd this |
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"Just to go back on the initial query…
The only issue we have with anyone who is married/attached is that they can’t always be reliable to meet as plans can and have been changed the very last minute.
(Or they do an impression of a Panda bear - Eats shoots and leaves ) there are married ladies on here in a similar position as you n it just takes time openness n honesty to get to know them . Patience "
Hey we’re not the ones giving out.. The OP is |
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"Not too sure if this is just a whiny ‘poor me’ or even a wind up post OP.
Being ‘successful’ on here is more to do with you, your personality and the way you approach people too. Interaction is key…
Also a point to note, maybe you’ve forgotten but your profile says you’ve had a number of meets (4 meets and 1 cam), hardly “zero success”, which would be the same as me stating that I never posted on this thread
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Definitely not a wind up, my post is genuine.
All the meets mentioned are from years ago.
I’m willing to build up trust and a connection. My question was genuine, as most profiles seem to exclude married guys. Maybe I’m just looking at the wrong profiles ?????
Thanks for the replies |
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"Hey all,
Wondering what the _iew is from ladies and couples in general.
What are the chances of married guys, on here without the knowledge of partners, getting a meet?
I’m no oil painting, but I wouldn’t consider myself horrible either.
Yet, I have zero success on here. Not sure what it is.
Interested in genuine thoughts and comments/feedback.
Cheers,
FIG"
Honestly?
Cannot stand the dishonesty and disrespect. |
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"Mrs wouldn't hear of it!...But morals aside, cheating married men are a high-risk environment! Last thing you want is some scorned woman trying to contact you!!"
Thinking about it - higher risk of stis too as I can't picture a married person regularly going to the gum clinic.  |
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"Mrs wouldn't hear of it!...But morals aside, cheating married men are a high-risk environment! Last thing you want is some scorned woman trying to contact you!!
Thinking about it - higher risk of stis too as I can't picture a married person regularly going to the gum clinic. "
That’s a pretty good point that we’ve not considered.
We also agree with most of the couple responses and morals are a huge part of it for us, but even ignoring that (not that we would). Attached guys are less available for a start. We tend to be greedy with Scarlett seeing a lad often (especially at the start) and attached lads just don’t have that flexibility. If they are cheating, then we can do without the bad karma and potential justifiably upset wife calling us out in person or online. The guy won’t be able to accommodate and probably can’t put hotels on his CC so less options for play.
Also, filming is huge for us and a non-negotiable dealbreaker. Naturally, attached men tend to be camera shy |
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"Mrs wouldn't hear of it!...But morals aside, cheating married men are a high-risk environment! Last thing you want is some scorned woman trying to contact you!!"
Had that, from gf of a guy I believed was single. It was not pretty  |
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In my experience, married men are a lot more careful, responsible and honest than single men on here. They make more of an effort, rarely let you down and don’t just want to get their cocks seen to as often as possible. I’ve met - what - 3 single guys that actually do what they say on the tin.
No one knows anyone elses story and not everyones story is clear as to why they are not monogamous with their partner. The comment “sort it out with your wife” is laughable, ridiculous and downright asinine.
If you’re looking for NSA, it’s literally that. If you’re looking for a relationship, make it clear. But judging men and women because of what’s going on in their private personal lives is virtue gesturing.
And let’s be honest, if you fancy them enough, you’ll fuck then anyways. All the veris on here make that quite clear |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"In my experience, married men are a lot more careful, responsible and honest than single men on here. They make more of an effort, rarely let you down and don’t just want to get their cocks seen to as often as possible. I’ve met - what - 3 single guys that actually do what they say on the tin.
No one knows anyone elses story and not everyones story is clear as to why they are not monogamous with their partner. The comment “sort it out with your wife” is laughable, ridiculous and downright asinine.
If you’re looking for NSA, it’s literally that. If you’re looking for a relationship, make it clear. But judging men and women because of what’s going on in their private personal lives is virtue gesturing.
And let’s be honest, if you fancy them enough, you’ll fuck then anyways. All the veris on here make that quite clear"
Couldnt have said it better and the funny thing is those self rightous holier than thou detractors have no quams about meeting a married woman |
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Married is one thing but as has been said, availability of date , availability of time for meeting, reliability and can't accommodate puts you at a disadvantage from the get go. You probably can't attend party's and maybe only have an hour free to meet which again will limit who wants to meet you. Bummer really! |
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"Married is one thing but as has been said, availability of date , availability of time for meeting, reliability and can't accommodate puts you at a disadvantage from the get go. You probably can't attend party's and maybe only have an hour free to meet which again will limit who wants to meet you. Bummer really!"
Yeah. You’d think. Never been an issue in my experience. Maybe it’s the people you choose don’t want to prioritise their time accordingly? |
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"Married is one thing but as has been said, availability of date , availability of time for meeting, reliability and can't accommodate puts you at a disadvantage from the get go. You probably can't attend party's and maybe only have an hour free to meet which again will limit who wants to meet you. Bummer really!
Yeah. You’d think. Never been an issue in my experience. Maybe it’s the people you choose don’t want to prioritise their time accordingly? "
Each have their own unique availability & limitations, i am a married guy whos partner knows and encourages, i can not only meet but can also accomadate. So please dont assume married guys are trouble. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my experience, married men are a lot more careful, responsible and honest than single men on here. They make more of an effort, rarely let you down and don’t just want to get their cocks seen to as often as possible. I’ve met - what - 3 single guys that actually do what they say on the tin.
No one knows anyone elses story and not everyones story is clear as to why they are not monogamous with their partner. The comment “sort it out with your wife” is laughable, ridiculous and downright asinine.
If you’re looking for NSA, it’s literally that. If you’re looking for a relationship, make it clear. But judging men and women because of what’s going on in their private personal lives is virtue gesturing.
And let’s be honest, if you fancy them enough, you’ll fuck then anyways. All the veris on here make that quite clear"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my experience, married men are a lot more careful, responsible and honest than single men on here. They make more of an effort, rarely let you down and don’t just want to get their cocks seen to as often as possible. I’ve met - what - 3 single guys that actually do what they say on the tin.
No one knows anyone elses story and not everyones story is clear as to why they are not monogamous with their partner. The comment “sort it out with your wife” is laughable, ridiculous and downright asinine.
If you’re looking for NSA, it’s literally that. If you’re looking for a relationship, make it clear. But judging men and women because of what’s going on in their private personal lives is virtue gesturing.
And let’s be honest, if you fancy them enough, you’ll fuck then anyways. All the veris on here make that quite clear"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mrs wouldn't hear of it!...But morals aside, cheating married men are a high-risk environment! Last thing you want is some scorned woman trying to contact you!!"
Oh yeah and that's the last thing you want. |
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"Reading some of the comments here and stones and glass houses spring to mind
Why is that?
You think everyone is cheating?"
Very quick to jump to that conclusion considering i never said that and if you think i implied it the word some does not encapsulate everyone |
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I'm genuinely interested so don't take it as an attack
But why do people go to the effort of proposing, spending a fortune on a wedding, building a life with somebody if your heart just isn't in it, why go behind somebody's back who you have committed yourself to for a bit of meaningless sex, is it not more worthwhile to work on things with your partner and rebuild what it is you once had.
I'm aware men feel loved when getting Sexual intimacy from their spouse but on the other hand women require non secure intimacy, holding hands a hug a kiss the small things, studies have shown women don't 'put out' when their needs aren't being met.
I think personally if you have gone through the effort of getting married then it's worth the effort of rebuilding
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"I'm genuinely interested so don't take it as an attack
But why do people go to the effort of proposing, spending a fortune on a wedding, building a life with somebody if your heart just isn't in it, why go behind somebody's back who you have committed yourself to for a bit of meaningless sex, is it not more worthwhile to work on things with your partner and rebuild what it is you once had.
I'm aware men feel loved when getting Sexual intimacy from their spouse but on the other hand women require non secure intimacy, holding hands a hug a kiss the small things, studies have shown women don't 'put out' when their needs aren't being met.
I think personally if you have gone through the effort of getting married then it's worth the effort of rebuilding
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Are you seriously that naive? you think that people don’t change over the course of 5/10/20yrs?
Leaving one person gasping for air while the other sits back and rides roughshod over family life?
You really think that everyone is in a situation to just get up and leave a difficult situation? Do you think everyone who perhaps has a chronically ill or emotionally abusive or controlling partner can decide “ok I’m done, I want to get laid now” and pack a bag and go?
Do YOU think so little of marriage that one fancy expensive day a a pretty dress should define the rest of your life?
I’ve seen many marriages fall apart and never once have I experienced anything even close to the flippancy of which you describe a failing marriage. As for women not “putting out”?? Christ. You really havnt got a clue. |
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I don't judge anyone, there's a few married women on here and some couples don't mind about your personal status, just have to be patient and honest with people then it's their choice.
I'm a widower and everyone thinks I'm married and just lying about it so go figure that one out lol.  |
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"I'm genuinely interested so don't take it as an attack
But why do people go to the effort of proposing, spending a fortune on a wedding, building a life with somebody if your heart just isn't in it, why go behind somebody's back who you have committed yourself to for a bit of meaningless sex, is it not more worthwhile to work on things with your partner and rebuild what it is you once had.
I'm aware men feel loved when getting Sexual intimacy from their spouse but on the other hand women require non secure intimacy, holding hands a hug a kiss the small things, studies have shown women don't 'put out' when their needs aren't being met.
I think personally if you have gone through the effort of getting married then it's worth the effort of rebuilding
Are you seriously that naive? you think that people don’t change over the course of 5/10/20yrs?
Leaving one person gasping for air while the other sits back and rides roughshod over family life?
You really think that everyone is in a situation to just get up and leave a difficult situation? Do you think everyone who perhaps has a chronically ill or emotionally abusive or controlling partner can decide “ok I’m done, I want to get laid now” and pack a bag and go?
Do YOU think so little of marriage that one fancy expensive day a a pretty dress should define the rest of your life?
I’ve seen many marriages fall apart and never once have I experienced anything even close to the flippancy of which you describe a failing marriage. As for women not “putting out”?? Christ. You really havnt got a clue. "
Never been married, but been cheated on.
Genuinely much rather be dumped or ghosted.
That person broke my heart and my head, I will never be able to trust anyone in the same way, I will never be able to look at myself the same way I did before either.
I know many people who have been cheated on and all of them are broken in one way or another and will remain broken for the rest of their lives.
I know even more people who are divorced - after initial year or two of the mess of a divorce they're living a new, better life, they're dating, they suit themselves, they improved their self worth and became stronger, more independent and more adventurous.
Go figure what's better - keeping a housemate who cleans and cooks but doesn't fuck then breaking their heart if they find you cheating or actually giving that person a chance to build their own new life without holding them back even if it hurts for a bit.
Obviously not all cases are the same, but I highly doubt that everyone has these mysterious medical conditions and/or are in abusive relationships.
Vast majority of cheaters just think grass is greener on the other side and can't keep it in their pants.
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"I'm genuinely interested so don't take it as an attack
But why do people go to the effort of proposing, spending a fortune on a wedding, building a life with somebody if your heart just isn't in it, why go behind somebody's back who you have committed yourself to for a bit of meaningless sex, is it not more worthwhile to work on things with your partner and rebuild what it is you once had.
I'm aware men feel loved when getting Sexual intimacy from their spouse but on the other hand women require non secure intimacy, holding hands a hug a kiss the small things, studies have shown women don't 'put out' when their needs aren't being met.
I think personally if you have gone through the effort of getting married then it's worth the effort of rebuilding
Are you seriously that naive? you think that people don’t change over the course of 5/10/20yrs?
Leaving one person gasping for air while the other sits back and rides roughshod over family life?
You really think that everyone is in a situation to just get up and leave a difficult situation? Do you think everyone who perhaps has a chronically ill or emotionally abusive or controlling partner can decide “ok I’m done, I want to get laid now” and pack a bag and go?
Do YOU think so little of marriage that one fancy expensive day a a pretty dress should define the rest of your life?
I’ve seen many marriages fall apart and never once have I experienced anything even close to the flippancy of which you describe a failing marriage. As for women not “putting out”?? Christ. You really havnt got a clue. "
It’s never simple |
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For me it’s simple… We are on fabs as a couple. And we will be on and off the scene as a couple. Mrs has been cheated on in a previous relationship many years ago and I (Mr) have a dislike to cheaters (for whatever reason the cheater has). Just keep your cock or pussy in your pants if you are in (what is described as) a “committed” relationship.
Many times it seems that one can or likes to get their cake and eat it but the partner isn’t allowed themselves or the cheater would be just as hurt if it was the other way around.
The sex might mostly be meaningless, but it will hurt someone in the long run if it comes to light. Everyone has their own opinion and what they are happy with, but I would not knowingly want to meet a cheating married guy or women for that matter.
We did get tricked once (that we are aware off) but that is a whole other story 
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"I'm genuinely interested so don't take it as an attack
But why do people go to the effort of proposing, spending a fortune on a wedding, building a life with somebody if your heart just isn't in it, why go behind somebody's back who you have committed yourself to for a bit of meaningless sex, is it not more worthwhile to work on things with your partner and rebuild what it is you once had.
I'm aware men feel loved when getting Sexual intimacy from their spouse but on the other hand women require non secure intimacy, holding hands a hug a kiss the small things, studies have shown women don't 'put out' when their needs aren't being met.
I think personally if you have gone through the effort of getting married then it's worth the effort of rebuilding
Are you seriously that naive? you think that people don’t change over the course of 5/10/20yrs?
Leaving one person gasping for air while the other sits back and rides roughshod over family life?
You really think that everyone is in a situation to just get up and leave a difficult situation? Do you think everyone who perhaps has a chronically ill or emotionally abusive or controlling partner can decide “ok I’m done, I want to get laid now” and pack a bag and go?
Do YOU think so little of marriage that one fancy expensive day a a pretty dress should define the rest of your life?
I’ve seen many marriages fall apart and never once have I experienced anything even close to the flippancy of which you describe a failing marriage. As for women not “putting out”?? Christ. You really havnt got a clue.
It’s never simple "
It is simple really.
It either is cheating or isn't cheating.
The reason doesn't suddenly mean it isn't cheating does it?? |
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"I'm genuinely interested so don't take it as an attack
But why do people go to the effort of proposing, spending a fortune on a wedding, building a life with somebody if your heart just isn't in it, why go behind somebody's back who you have committed yourself to for a bit of meaningless sex, is it not more worthwhile to work on things with your partner and rebuild what it is you once had.
I'm aware men feel loved when getting Sexual intimacy from their spouse but on the other hand women require non secure intimacy, holding hands a hug a kiss the small things, studies have shown women don't 'put out' when their needs aren't being met.
I think personally if you have gone through the effort of getting married then it's worth the effort of rebuilding
Are you seriously that naive? you think that people don’t change over the course of 5/10/20yrs?
Leaving one person gasping for air while the other sits back and rides roughshod over family life?
You really think that everyone is in a situation to just get up and leave a difficult situation? Do you think everyone who perhaps has a chronically ill or emotionally abusive or controlling partner can decide “ok I’m done, I want to get laid now” and pack a bag and go?
Do YOU think so little of marriage that one fancy expensive day a a pretty dress should define the rest of your life?
I’ve seen many marriages fall apart and never once have I experienced anything even close to the flippancy of which you describe a failing marriage. As for women not “putting out”?? Christ. You really havnt got a clue.
It’s never simple
It is simple really.
It either is cheating or isn't cheating.
The reason doesn't suddenly mean it isn't cheating does it??"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone is entitled to choose what type of person they want, whether if they are married or not!! I've no preference to either, but theres something about a married lady that hasnt experienced much in her sex life?? |
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By *hare liasonMan
over a year ago
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Yeah… we do get a bad rap….
There are a lot of reasons for attached being on here… and everyone has their opinion on why.
My partner does not know I play on here, but we have our own agreement as we both accept our sex life broke down years ago. And since I have joined it has been an amazing experience and I have met some wonderful people who are the exact same position as myself.
But in my experience from being on here as a fabber, is being honest with fellow fabbers.
That’s why it says ‘Attached’ on my profile.
Nor do I judge any one’s reasons why they are on here, we all have our reasons. And everyone has to make their own choices.
After all we are all adults! |
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"Everyone is entitled to choose what type of person they want, whether if they are married or not!! I've no preference to either, but theres something about a married lady that hasnt experienced much in her sex life?? "
Please, don’t tell me that a married women or guy, doesn’t know what good sex is!!! In relationships it can fizzle out or not… that depends on them and their situation, but we believe that we will always have the best sex together. Intimacy and fun creates the best sex in our _iew…
But as a couple we enjoy to invite a select few people to have fun with. Not because we have bad or boring sex. It is, like we call it, a “different” experiences. So saying there are some experiences a married lady hasn’t had is absolute BS…  a cock is a cock… it is how you gel and play with another person when you meet. |
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"Yeah… we do get a bad rap….
There are a lot of reasons for attached being on here… and everyone has their opinion on why.
My partner does not know I play on here, but we have our own agreement as we both accept our sex life broke down years ago. And since I have joined it has been an amazing experience and I have met some wonderful people who are the exact same position as myself.
But in my experience from being on here as a fabber, is being honest with fellow fabbers.
That’s why it says ‘Attached’ on my profile.
Nor do I judge any one’s reasons why they are on here, we all have our reasons. And everyone has to make their own choices.
After all we are all adults!"
I don't see any reference to 'attached' on your profile.
Regardless, being married/attached is not the issue. The issue with most people is playing away without knowledge/consent and you don't come under that category.
We're very torn on the issue I must admit. As a long-time married couple, we could be on our high (moral) horse but reading posts like this just makes us feel lucky to be on here together. Most couples don't get to experience what we do because they're not on the same page. Irish society and the church have a lot to answer for there.
But our preference is not to meet people whose partner hasn't given their consent as we don't want the potential drama that it may bring. Plus we want to definitely avoid people in 'happy' marriages who are cheating because they are assholes and for no other reason. |
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By *oodieMan
over a year ago
Mayo |
"Yep, that’s what I was thinking. Seems I’m doomed to a life of no sex ??
How about fixing it with your wife? "
In fairness if that was the case he wouldn't be here, and I know what I'm talking about. Count yourself one of the lucky ones. |
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By *oodieMan
over a year ago
Mayo |
"In my experience, married men are a lot more careful, responsible and honest than single men on here. They make more of an effort, rarely let you down and don’t just want to get their cocks seen to as often as possible. I’ve met - what - 3 single guys that actually do what they say on the tin.
No one knows anyone elses story and not everyones story is clear as to why they are not monogamous with their partner. The comment “sort it out with your wife” is laughable, ridiculous and downright asinine.
If you’re looking for NSA, it’s literally that. If you’re looking for a relationship, make it clear. But judging men and women because of what’s going on in their private personal lives is virtue gesturing.
And let’s be honest, if you fancy them enough, you’ll fuck then anyways. All the veris on here make that quite clear"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forgetting any of the above debates about rights and wrongs.
From what I've seen in my time here is that if you have what it takes to be successful as a single guy your marital status won't affect that.
It might mean some people won't meet you but it certainly doesn't stop alot of guys chatting and meeting.
A shit profile and/or a bad attitude will always be far more of an obstacle. |
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Regardless, being married/attached is not the issue. The issue with most people is playing away without knowledge/consent and you don't come under that category.
We're very torn on the issue I must admit. As a long-time married couple, we could be on our high (moral) horse but reading posts like this just makes us feel lucky to be on here together. Most couples don't get to experience what we do because they're not on the same page. Irish society and the church have a lot to answer for there.
But our preference is not to meet people whose partner hasn't given their consent as we don't want the potential drama that it may bring. Plus we want to definitely avoid people in 'happy' marriages who are cheating because they are assholes and for no other reason."
You guys are cut from different stuff tho. You made your decision and that’s it.
I’ve NEVER seen you be rude or judgemental or horrid. It’s heartening cos when we met you were so lovely, the first couple I ever met and liked. Not a bitchy judgey bone in your body, regardless of my situation, which you STILL never asked about. I admire your respect and resolution. The judgey ones can all fuck off. You guys Rick. |
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over a year ago
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Regardless, being married/attached is not the issue. The issue with most people is playing away without knowledge/consent and you don't come under that category.
We're very torn on the issue I must admit. As a long-time married couple, we could be on our high (moral) horse but reading posts like this just makes us feel lucky to be on here together. Most couples don't get to experience what we do because they're not on the same page. Irish society and the church have a lot to answer for there.
But our preference is not to meet people whose partner hasn't given their consent as we don't want the potential drama that it may bring. Plus we want to definitely avoid people in 'happy' marriages who are cheating because they are assholes and for no other reason.
You guys are cut from different stuff tho. You made your decision and that’s it.
I’ve NEVER seen you be rude or judgemental or horrid. It’s heartening cos when we met you were so lovely, the first couple I ever met and liked. Not a bitchy judgey bone in your body, regardless of my situation, which you STILL never asked about. I admire your respect and resolution. The judgey ones can all fuck off. You guys Rick. "
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Regardless, being married/attached is not the issue. The issue with most people is playing away without knowledge/consent and you don't come under that category.
We're very torn on the issue I must admit. As a long-time married couple, we could be on our high (moral) horse but reading posts like this just makes us feel lucky to be on here together. Most couples don't get to experience what we do because they're not on the same page. Irish society and the church have a lot to answer for there.
But our preference is not to meet people whose partner hasn't given their consent as we don't want the potential drama that it may bring. Plus we want to definitely avoid people in 'happy' marriages who are cheating because they are assholes and for no other reason.
You guys are cut from different stuff tho. You made your decision and that’s it.
I’ve NEVER seen you be rude or judgemental or horrid. It’s heartening cos when we met you were so lovely, the first couple I ever met and liked. Not a bitchy judgey bone in your body, regardless of my situation, which you STILL never asked about. I admire your respect and resolution. The judgey ones can all fuck off. You guys Rick.
Oops "
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*dangles his legs over the ledge as he finishes drawing something with his crayons*
Ya know, these threads, no disrespect meant to anyone, really, kinda remind me of that song "The Tribute to the best ever song ever made" |
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"Just for the judgemental ones!!!
Im not one of them as im married 
Plenty of judgemental ones on here for a site that encourages open mindedness. And they aren’t always couples. "
This site might encourage open-mindness.
But it certainly does not encourage dishonesty. |
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"Just for the judgemental ones!!!
Im not one of them as im married
Plenty of judgemental ones on here for a site that encourages open mindedness. And they aren’t always couples. "
May we ask Red.
Are you married? |
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over a year ago
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"Just for the judgemental ones!!!
Im not one of them as im married
Plenty of judgemental ones on here for a site that encourages open mindedness. And they aren’t always couples. "
We all judge other people's behaviour. This is no different |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Just for the judgemental ones!!!
Im not one of them as im married
Plenty of judgemental ones on here for a site that encourages open mindedness. And they aren’t always couples.
May we ask Red.
Are you married?"
Why is that any of your business ? Have you even chatted to her? And why would you think it's okay to ask anyone such a private question on a public forum just because you obviously don't agree with her opinion. It's a forum people don't agree on it always but asking personal questions on here in my opinion is out of order. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Just for the judgemental ones!!!
Im not one of them as im married
Plenty of judgemental ones on here for a site that encourages open mindedness. And they aren’t always couples.
May we ask Red.
Are you married?"
Your old account used to take pleasure in commenting on every thread you could find critical of married people on here without their partner knowing.
Your new account seems to do the same
Why ....... |
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"Just for the judgemental ones!!!
Im not one of them as im married
Plenty of judgemental ones on here for a site that encourages open mindedness. And they aren’t always couples.
May we ask Red.
Are you married?"
No. You cant. Cause its none of your fucking business. And the fact that you ask something like that in a public forum like this just proves her point and shows how fucking high-horsed and judgemental you are. |
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"Just for the judgemental ones!!!
Im not one of them as im married
Plenty of judgemental ones on here for a site that encourages open mindedness. And they aren’t always couples.
May we ask Red.
Are you married?"
LOL!!!! You can. But my answer is “none of your goddam business”. Also some hand gestures.
My conscience is clear… pretty sure most of the couples on here can’t say the same thing… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just for the judgemental ones!!!
Im not one of them as im married
Plenty of judgemental ones on here for a site that encourages open mindedness. And they aren’t always couples.
May we ask Red.
Are you married?
LOL!!!! You can. But my answer is “none of your goddam business”. Also some hand gestures.
My conscience is clear… pretty sure most of the couples on here can’t say the same thing… "
That sounds kinda judgemental |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"Just for the judgemental ones!!!
Im not one of them as im married
Plenty of judgemental ones on here for a site that encourages open mindedness. And they aren’t always couples.
May we ask Red.
Are you married?
LOL!!!! You can. But my answer is “none of your goddam business”. Also some hand gestures.
My conscience is clear… pretty sure most of the couples on here can’t say the same thing… "
Why take a dig at "most cpls " not sure what you are trying to get at , but it seems your fairly pissed at most cpls on here
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"Just for the judgemental ones!!!
Im not one of them as im married
Plenty of judgemental ones on here for a site that encourages open mindedness. And they aren’t always couples.
May we ask Red.
Are you married?
LOL!!!! You can. But my answer is “none of your goddam business”. Also some hand gestures.
My conscience is clear… pretty sure most of the couples on here can’t say the same thing…
That sounds kinda judgemental "
Nah. I don’t make sweeping generalised unfounded statements. And I’m nice to everyone |
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over a year ago
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"Just for the judgemental ones!!!
Im not one of them as im married
Plenty of judgemental ones on here for a site that encourages open mindedness. And they aren’t always couples.
May we ask Red.
Are you married?
LOL!!!! You can. But my answer is “none of your goddam business”. Also some hand gestures.
My conscience is clear… pretty sure most of the couples on here can’t say the same thing…
That sounds kinda judgemental
Nah. I don’t make sweeping generalised unfounded statements. And I’m nice to everyone "
You did and your really not though |
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"Just for the judgemental ones!!!
Im not one of them as im married
Plenty of judgemental ones on here for a site that encourages open mindedness. And they aren’t always couples.
May we ask Red.
Are you married?
LOL!!!! You can. But my answer is “none of your goddam business”. Also some hand gestures.
My conscience is clear… pretty sure most of the couples on here can’t say the same thing…
Why take a dig at "most cpls " not sure what you are trying to get at , but it seems your fairly pissed at most cpls on here
Mrs crazy "
Goodness no. I even earlier on complimented a couple on their fairness and friendliness. You have to agree tho that most couples that lost about this topic do so with judgement and distaste. My sincere apologies if you felt swept up in that, it was not my intention. |
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"Just for the judgemental ones!!!
Im not one of them as im married
Plenty of judgemental ones on here for a site that encourages open mindedness. And they aren’t always couples.
Hand gestures hey??
Right back at you.
Enjoy. Xx
May we ask Red.
Are you married?
LOL!!!! You can. But my answer is “none of your goddam business”. Also some hand gestures.
My conscience is clear… pretty sure most of the couples on here can’t say the same thing… "
Hand gestures hey??
Right back at you. |
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"Just for the judgemental ones!!!
Im not one of them as im married
Plenty of judgemental ones on here for a site that encourages open mindedness. And they aren’t always couples.
May we ask Red.
Are you married?
LOL!!!! You can. But my answer is “none of your goddam business”. Also some hand gestures.
My conscience is clear… pretty sure most of the couples on here can’t say the same thing…
That sounds kinda judgemental
Nah. I don’t make sweeping generalised unfounded statements. And I’m nice to everyone
You did and your really not though"
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"In my experience, married men are a lot more careful, responsible and honest than single men on here. They make more of an effort, rarely let you down and don’t just want to get their cocks seen to as often as possible. I’ve met - what - 3 single guys that actually do what they say on the tin.
No one knows anyone elses story and not everyones story is clear as to why they are not monogamous with their partner. The comment “sort it out with your wife” is laughable, ridiculous and downright asinine.
If you’re looking for NSA, it’s literally that. If you’re looking for a relationship, make it clear. But judging men and women because of what’s going on in their private personal lives is virtue gesturing.
And let’s be honest, if you fancy them enough, you’ll fuck then anyways. All the veris on here make that quite clear"
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By *iam756Man
over a year ago
Dublin/Kildare |
"Hey all,
Wondering what the _iew is from ladies and couples in general.
What are the chances of married guys, on here without the knowledge of partners, getting a meet?
I’m no oil painting, but I wouldn’t consider myself horrible either.
Yet, I have zero success on here. Not sure what it is.
Interested in genuine thoughts and comments/feedback.
Cheers,
FIG
I think you are leading with honesty and openess on here, so that's a start, you may have to build up trust with who you do end up meeting, that you will be worth the extra effort.
Zero judgement here, alot of glasshouses about,and each to their own what they are looking for but I am sure there are plenty of married women in similar situations should they only be lucky enough to come on fab, as another poster just said fresh faces would be nice and I'm sure some couples would be open to inviting you. There could be advantages to you like you won't be making a long term play for the Mrs.
Anyway just my opinion Mrs c. X"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just for the judgemental ones!!!
Im not one of them as im married
Plenty of judgemental ones on here for a site that encourages open mindedness. And they aren’t always couples.
May we ask Red.
Are you married?
LOL!!!! You can. But my answer is “none of your goddam business”. Also some hand gestures.
My conscience is clear… pretty sure most of the couples on here can’t say the same thing…
Why take a dig at "most cpls " not sure what you are trying to get at , but it seems your fairly pissed at most cpls on here
Mrs crazy
Goodness no. I even earlier on complimented a couple on their fairness and friendliness. You have to agree tho that most couples that lost about this topic do so with judgement and distaste. My sincere apologies if you felt swept up in that, it was not my intention. "
Mrs C she’s pissed that she’s not getting attention and that people have copped on to what she really is so she takes a dig at couples
Says she’s not judgmental lol lol
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I’m such a hypocrite. I approach this site as honest as possible. State clearly on my profile that I’m married and require discretion because I don’t want to lie, yet the biggest lie is that I’m not telling my wife!!
It’s some form of an addiction I guess, strange as that sounds, crave the chase and the adrenaline.
We all have our reasons for doing what we do.
Some people drink, gamble, take drugs etc. I put committing adultery into a similar addiction category .
Right now I’m strung out cause I haven’t had a fix in a while ??
You’d swear reading some of the comments above that men only commit adultery! (Although yes we do outnumber ladies by a mile)
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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A well known single guy on here comes to an event. Leaves after 10 mins, sends a mail to say he had to leave as hes married and cheating on his wife and saw a couple from his home town at the event. So freaked out...
He took the place of a genuine single guy who could have had the space instead but he chose to attend depriving an actual single lad of a space.
Why the fook would anyone want that level of unreliability in their lives?
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"A well known single guy on here comes to an event. Leaves after 10 mins, sends a mail to say he had to leave as hes married and cheating on his wife and saw a couple from his home town at the event. So freaked out...
He took the place of a genuine single guy who could have had the space instead but he chose to attend depriving an actual single lad of a space.
Why the fook would anyone want that level of unreliability in their lives?
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.. and the risk!
The act of just turning up at a party before even doing anything could risk his marriage. Risks his kids growing up in a house without him. Financial ruin. For what!??
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"I’m such a hypocrite. I approach this site as honest as possible. State clearly on my profile that I’m married and require discretion because I don’t want to lie, yet the biggest lie is that I’m not telling my wife!!
It’s some form of an addiction I guess, strange as that sounds, crave the chase and the adrenaline.
We all have our reasons for doing what we do.
Some people drink, gamble, take drugs etc. I put committing adultery into a similar addiction category .
Right now I’m strung out cause I haven’t had a fix in a while ??
You’d swear reading some of the comments above that men only commit adultery! (Although yes we do outnumber ladies by a mile)
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A very honest post I must say. Cheating men here nearly always have a someone else to blame. At least you own what you do.
I'll add that it really sounds like you need to talk to someone as this is a compulsion for you. There are things like CBT that can help to recognise and alter behaviour like compulsive sexual activity. It really works. |
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over a year ago
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I’m willing to build up trust and a connection.
How some one who admits to cheat on his wife or husband can say they trustworthy and looking for connection?"
Fab honest |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
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I’m willing to build up trust and a connection.
How some one who admits to cheat on his wife or husband can say they trustworthy and looking for connection?"
Some people will say anything to get the ride. |
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over a year ago
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I’m willing to build up trust and a connection.
How some one who admits to cheat on his wife or husband can say they trustworthy and looking for connection?"
Shush or you'll be called judgemental |
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By *anandJCouple
over a year ago
Citywest |
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I’m willing to build up trust and a connection.
How some one who admits to cheat on his wife or husband can say they trustworthy and looking for connection?
Shush or you'll be called judgemental "
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I’m willing to build up trust and a connection.
How some one who admits to cheat on his wife or husband can say they trustworthy and looking for connection?
Shush or you'll be called judgemental
I wear it like a badge "
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Nobody owes anyone sex, and on here there are plenty of people in ETHICALLY non-monogamous relationships (or single) so why would people choose to deal with the drama of of a cheater.
Also I would know if that person is already okay with lying to their partner about their sexual activities, I can't trust them to be honest with me about things like STI testing.
Honestly the only thing you can do morally is go end your relationship and start a new one. If your so unhappy you'd cheat, it's already over. `
If you're on here looking for people to cheat with, you've already created a chain of digital evidence that can blow up in your face at any time.
Obviously your partner isn't that happy with you either if she doesn't want to have sex. Just let it end so you can both move on. |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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IMI there are no issues with married guys getting a meet . If someone is struggling on the site they ll need to attend to the usual issues (pics, bio, messages , availability , forum and socials presence ).
Remember some people don’t mind picking up an apple from a disputed boundary fence if it’s sufficiently tasty .
I am sure if you could ‘fix it’ with your wife you would have and would avoid the effort required to be here plus the public judgement thing.
Some married men go to an STI clinic . Some don’t . Some single people go to the STI clinic . Some don’t . Also , you can use condoms regardless of whether people are attending them .
Some married guys book hotels . Some don’t , some single people book hotels . Some don’t .
The throwaway suggestions of ‘just get divorced’ are interesting . Really ? Without knowing the circumstances and consequences ?
Also the assumptions that the lack of sex is the result of not holding hands and giving hugs is interesting . I don’t see that in the OP yet assumptions are ok because , well he is in the bruised apple category .
The assumption that it’s the non cheating partner who is cooking and cleaning is also interesting . I can give you an alternative hypothesis which is that the partner being denied sex does all the housework in the hope that this will finally ‘work’.
Having your cake and eating it is interesting . What about the cake being getting Married and the eating it being not working on your cause of low libido ?
Do agree that the leaving the fully booked social thing was shitty . And also being on here when in a marriage with a good sex life without consent .
I find the praise for the self confessed sex addict interesting . I guess it fits into the narrative of the cheater being mentally unwell in some way and requiring psychological intervention .
The Surprise expressed in seeking a connection sums it all up tbh …
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I see the difference between someone with an admitted compulsion/addiction who needs treatment... and someone who fancies a sly fuck on the side. The praise was for the openness and apparent honesty, and accepting responsibility rather than blaming his partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey all,
Wondering what the _iew is from ladies and couples in general.
What are the chances of married guys, on here without the knowledge of partners, getting a meet?
I’m no oil painting, but I wouldn’t consider myself horrible either.
Yet, I have zero success on here. Not sure what it is.
Interested in genuine thoughts and comments/feedback.
Cheers,
FIG"
I for one rather meet married guys than single .
So much less hassle or demanding or bunny boilers .
Live your fab journey for yourself .
By the way there is a nice group for attached
More than welcome 
Pm for details . |
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"Hey all,
Wondering what the _iew is from ladies and couples in general.
What are the chances of married guys, on here without the knowledge of partners, getting a meet?
I’m no oil painting, but I wouldn’t consider myself horrible either.
Yet, I have zero success on here. Not sure what it is.
Interested in genuine thoughts and comments/feedback.
Cheers,
FIG"
I hear you, its next to.impossible
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"IMI there are no issues with married guys getting a meet . If someone is struggling on the site they ll need to attend to the usual issues (pics, bio, messages , availability , forum and socials presence ).
Remember some people don’t mind picking up an apple from a disputed boundary fence if it’s sufficiently tasty .
I am sure if you could ‘fix it’ with your wife you would have and would avoid the effort required to be here plus the public judgement thing.
Some married men go to an STI clinic . Some don’t . Some single people go to the STI clinic . Some don’t . Also , you can use condoms regardless of whether people are attending them .
Some married guys book hotels . Some don’t , some single people book hotels . Some don’t .
The throwaway suggestions of ‘just get divorced’ are interesting . Really ? Without knowing the circumstances and consequences ?
Also the assumptions that the lack of sex is the result of not holding hands and giving hugs is interesting . I don’t see that in the OP yet assumptions are ok because , well he is in the bruised apple category .
The assumption that it’s the non cheating partner who is cooking and cleaning is also interesting . I can give you an alternative hypothesis which is that the partner being denied sex does all the housework in the hope that this will finally ‘work’.
Having your cake and eating it is interesting . What about the cake being getting Married and the eating it being not working on your cause of low libido ?
Do agree that the leaving the fully booked social thing was shitty . And also being on here when in a marriage with a good sex life without consent .
I find the praise for the self confessed sex addict interesting . I guess it fits into the narrative of the cheater being mentally unwell in some way and requiring psychological intervention .
The Surprise expressed in seeking a connection sums it all up tbh …
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There stands a wise and knowalageable man casting no aspersions and living his best life a breath of fresh air on such a cloudy topic loving ur outlook |
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"Hey all,
Wondering what the _iew is from ladies and couples in general.
What are the chances of married guys, on here without the
I’m no oil painting, but I wouldn’t consider myself horrible either.
Yet, I have zero success on here. Not sure what it is.
Interested in genuine thoughts and comments/feedback.
Cheers,
FIG
I for one rather meet married guys than single .
So much less hassle or demanding or bunny boilers .
Live your fab journey for yourself .
By the way there is a nice group for attached
More than welcome
Pm for details . "
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"IMI there are no issues with married guys getting a meet . If someone is struggling on the site they ll need to attend to the usual issues (pics, bio, messages , availability , forum and socials presence ).
Remember some people don’t mind picking up an apple from a disputed boundary fence if it’s sufficiently tasty .
I am sure if you could ‘fix it’ with your wife you would have and would avoid the effort required to be here plus the public judgement thing.
Some married men go to an STI clinic . Some don’t . Some single people go to the STI clinic . Some don’t . Also , you can use condoms regardless of whether people are attending them .
Some married guys book hotels . Some don’t , some single people book hotels . Some don’t .
The throwaway suggestions of ‘just get divorced’ are interesting . Really ? Without knowing the circumstances and consequences ?
Also the assumptions that the lack of sex is the result of not holding hands and giving hugs is interesting . I don’t see that in the OP yet assumptions are ok because , well he is in the bruised apple category .
The assumption that it’s the non cheating partner who is cooking and cleaning is also interesting . I can give you an alternative hypothesis which is that the partner being denied sex does all the housework in the hope that this will finally ‘work’.
Having your cake and eating it is interesting . What about the cake being getting Married and the eating it being not working on your cause of low libido ?
Do agree that the leaving the fully booked social thing was shitty . And also being on here when in a marriage with a good sex life without consent .
I find the praise for the self confessed sex addict interesting . I guess it fits into the narrative of the cheater being mentally unwell in some way and requiring psychological intervention .
The Surprise expressed in seeking a connection sums it all up tbh …
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Have to ask, what is the effort to be here?
And from the many cheating guys that we have known personally there usually is no drama at home, and they are doing it because they want more, or they are doing it because they think it is funny. |
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I guess speaking to your other half is not an idea?
Before I meet someone mine has to approve, but it does make life much simpler and fun for us as a couple, and of course much fair to other people. |
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"I guess speaking to your other half is not an idea?
Before I meet someone mine has to approve, but it does make life much simpler and fun for us as a couple, and of course much fair to other people."
Any reason why you are here as a single guy??
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"I guess speaking to your other half is not an idea?
Before I meet someone mine has to approve, but it does make life much simpler and fun for us as a couple, and of course much fair to other people.
Any reason why you are here as a single guy??
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Any particular reason as to why you constantly question why people are here. You could have so more fun if you just concentrated on yourselves. |
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"I guess speaking to your other half is not an idea?
Before I meet someone mine has to approve, but it does make life much simpler and fun for us as a couple, and of course much fair to other people.
Any reason why you are here as a single guy??
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We have a couple's profile and each one have our own single's profile.
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"I guess speaking to your other half is not an idea?
Before I meet someone mine has to approve, but it does make life much simpler and fun for us as a couple, and of course much fair to other people.
Any reason why you are here as a single guy??
Any particular reason as to why you constantly question why people are here. You could have so more fun if you just concentrated on yourselves. "
the funny part is that you are the inquisitive_lady |
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"I guess speaking to your other half is not an idea?
Before I meet someone mine has to approve, but it does make life much simpler and fun for us as a couple, and of course much fair to other people.
Any reason why you are here as a single guy??
Any particular reason as to why you constantly question why people are here. You could have so more fun if you just concentrated on yourselves.
the funny part is that you are the inquisitive_lady "
That I sure am .
That doesn't mean I am rude though. |
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"Im watching this while eating popcorn and a large coca cóla!!!
Im taking odds on inquisitive lady to win?? "
I am a lover not a fighter
Isn't that what fab is all about. |
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"I guess speaking to your other half is not an idea?
Before I meet someone mine has to approve, but it does make life much simpler and fun for us as a couple, and of course much fair to other people.
Any reason why you are here as a single guy??
Any particular reason as to why you constantly question why people are here. You could have so more fun if you just concentrated on yourselves. "
You don't know us my dear.
We have great fun on here!!
Enjoy. |
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