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By *oulerner OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin City |
So I have this friend and he told me recently that he doesn't like women going down on him. It's a turn-off for him and while he enjoys it a lot the other way around, he's pretty sure that it'll never be a good experience if the woman does it for him.
I'm very confused by that as I feel that this is something pretty intimate and while I might enjoy down on a woman almost a bit more than one going down on me, it's very close. Thank Christ for 69 
But anyway, recently I've also been with a girl that enjoyed penetration more than me going down on her - which isn't remotely on the same levelas my friend, but still. I've also seen a profile on here that says that she doesn't like oral being done to her but she likes to please guys with her own mouth, which is much closer to the thing my friend claims.
Did you ever come access people who don't like receiving oral? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not hugely keen on receiving oral from men other than Lee because it doesn't do a lot for me, especially if it seems like a man is just going through the motions, everyone has their own likes and dislikes. |
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By *oulerner OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin City |
"I'm not hugely keen on receiving oral from men other than Lee because it doesn't do a lot for me, especially if it seems like a man is just going through the motions, everyone has their own likes and dislikes. "
I know that a lot of vaginas, or even bodies, are differently built and enjoy being stimulated in different ways, so I get that sometimes you have to figure out how to pleasure someone in a good way. Do you ever feel like if they put more effort into getting to know your body better, it would be a different story? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not hugely keen on receiving oral from men other than Lee because it doesn't do a lot for me, especially if it seems like a man is just going through the motions, everyone has their own likes and dislikes.
I know that a lot of vaginas, or even bodies, are differently built and enjoy being stimulated in different ways, so I get that sometimes you have to figure out how to pleasure someone in a good way. Do you ever feel like if they put more effort into getting to know your body better, it would be a different story?"
Possibly, but it's more likely I'll get bored with them before that |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm not hugely keen on receiving oral from men other than Lee because it doesn't do a lot for me, especially if it seems like a man is just going through the motions, everyone has their own likes and dislikes. "
Kinda this to except i don't have a partner,ifs it's not doing anything for me id rather not receive it as im not enjoying it and he's not either..... |
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"I'm not hugely keen on receiving oral from men other than Lee because it doesn't do a lot for me, especially if it seems like a man is just going through the motions, everyone has their own likes and dislikes.
I know that a lot of vaginas, or even bodies, are differently built and enjoy being stimulated in different ways, so I get that sometimes you have to figure out how to pleasure someone in a good way. Do you ever feel like if they put more effort into getting to know your body better, it would be a different story?
Possibly, but it's more likely I'll get bored with them before that "
Just get them legs apart and let's be havin' ya!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not hugely keen on receiving oral from men other than Lee because it doesn't do a lot for me, especially if it seems like a man is just going through the motions, everyone has their own likes and dislikes.
I know that a lot of vaginas, or even bodies, are differently built and enjoy being stimulated in different ways, so I get that sometimes you have to figure out how to pleasure someone in a good way. Do you ever feel like if they put more effort into getting to know your body better, it would be a different story?
Possibly, but it's more likely I'll get bored with them before that
Just get them legs apart and let's be havin' ya! "
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"I'm not hugely keen on receiving oral from men other than Lee because it doesn't do a lot for me, especially if it seems like a man is just going through the motions, everyone has their own likes and dislikes.
I know that a lot of vaginas, or even bodies, are differently built and enjoy being stimulated in different ways, so I get that sometimes you have to figure out how to pleasure someone in a good way. Do you ever feel like if they put more effort into getting to know your body better, it would be a different story?
Possibly, but it's more likely I'll get bored with them before that
Just get them legs apart and let's be havin' ya!
*swoons*"
I've been told I have that effect ladies with my charm! ??
I used to think it was the smell.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not hugely keen on receiving oral from men other than Lee because it doesn't do a lot for me, especially if it seems like a man is just going through the motions, everyone has their own likes and dislikes.
I know that a lot of vaginas, or even bodies, are differently built and enjoy being stimulated in different ways, so I get that sometimes you have to figure out how to pleasure someone in a good way. Do you ever feel like if they put more effort into getting to know your body better, it would be a different story?
Possibly, but it's more likely I'll get bored with them before that
Just get them legs apart and let's be havin' ya!
*swoons*
I've been told I have that effect ladies with my charm! ??
I used to think it was the smell. "
Honestly, either works
Now stop derailing the OP's thread! |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I wouldn't do anything sexual including give oral or receiving it if I wasn't enjoying it.
I also wouldn't want to give oral if the other person said it wasn't something they enjoy.
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By *oulerner OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin City |
"I wouldn't do anything sexual including give oral or receiving it if I wasn't enjoying it.
I also wouldn't want to give oral if the other person said it wasn't something they enjoy.
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Of course, that goes without question. But there's always a bit of a doubt if these people just haven't been tended to properly yet and if someone would do it the right way, they'd actually enjoy it.
Also I guess it somehow tickles my "challenge accepted" nerve. 
But yeah, if they'd said no, that's of course not happening. |
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"There's a female profile near me....she wont give a man a blowjob ...hates it ...always seems unusual to me but at least its out there on her profile to read "
I had a "friend" I used to meet regularly who was exactly like that. Just no, it's not going anywhere near her mouth. I'm not even that bothered about receiving oral myself but the absoluteness about it ended up creating a barrier between us.  |
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By *oulerner OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin City |
Well, I can understand the "not giving" side a bit more than the "not receiving side". I mean I was unsure if I'd like giving until I tried it (even though it looked hot in porn) but as soon as I did I was absolutely hooked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I have this friend and he told me recently that he doesn't like women going down on him. It's a turn-off for him and while he enjoys it a lot the other way around, he's pretty sure that it'll never be a good experience if the woman does it for him.
I'm very confused by that as I feel that this is something pretty intimate and while I might enjoy down on a woman almost a bit more than one going down on me, it's very close. Thank Christ for 69
But anyway, recently I've also been with a girl that enjoyed penetration more than me going down on her - which isn't remotely on the same levelas my friend, but still. I've also seen a profile on here that says that she doesn't like oral being done to her but she likes to please guys with her own mouth, which is much closer to the thing my friend claims.
Did you ever come access people who don't like receiving oral?"
Send him my way
I was never very fond of having a cock in me mouth |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"I wouldn't do anything sexual including give oral or receiving it if I wasn't enjoying it.
I also wouldn't want to give oral if the other person said it wasn't something they enjoy.
Of course, that goes without question. But there's always a bit of a doubt if these people just haven't been tended to properly yet and if someone would do it the right way, they'd actually enjoy it.
Also I guess it somehow tickles my "challenge accepted" nerve.
But yeah, if they'd said no, that's of course not happening.
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I'd say you'd be better off assuming that a woman disliking oral/not keen on it has based that claim on a fair amount of experience and isn't looking for a self proclaimed oral superman who will convince her differently.
It's just not for everyone. For me nothing beats joystick action.  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"I wouldn't do anything sexual including give oral or receiving it if I wasn't enjoying it.
I also wouldn't want to give oral if the other person said it wasn't something they enjoy.
Of course, that goes without question. But there's always a bit of a doubt if these people just haven't been tended to properly yet and if someone would do it the right way, they'd actually enjoy it.
Also I guess it somehow tickles my "challenge accepted" nerve.
But yeah, if they'd said no, that's of course not happening.
I'd say you'd be better off assuming that a woman disliking oral/not keen on it has based that claim on a fair amount of experience and isn't looking for a self proclaimed oral superman who will convince her differently.
It's just not for everyone. For me nothing beats joystick action. "
It is similar to the claim that they can make every woman squirt as well as though it's a goal all women want to achieve. |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"I wouldn't do anything sexual including give oral or receiving it if I wasn't enjoying it.
I also wouldn't want to give oral if the other person said it wasn't something they enjoy.
Of course, that goes without question. But there's always a bit of a doubt if these people just haven't been tended to properly yet and if someone would do it the right way, they'd actually enjoy it.
Also I guess it somehow tickles my "challenge accepted" nerve.
But yeah, if they'd said no, that's of course not happening.
I'd say you'd be better off assuming that a woman disliking oral/not keen on it has based that claim on a fair amount of experience and isn't looking for a self proclaimed oral superman who will convince her differently.
It's just not for everyone. For me nothing beats joystick action.
It is similar to the claim that they can make every woman squirt as well as though it's a goal all women want to achieve. "
Bubbles being burst all over the place here…. |
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I could take or leave recieving oral primarily because I don't get much from it whether that's just me or whether I haven't been lucky enough to have been with someone with better skills. So ladies......  |
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By *oulerner OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin City |
" I'd say you'd be better off assuming that a woman disliking oral/not keen on it has based that claim on a fair amount of experience and isn't looking for a self proclaimed oral superman who will convince her differently.
It's just not for everyone. For me nothing beats joystick action. "
No, I totally get that. I'm also definitely not claiming to be any expert, I just immensely enjoy giving oral. I love the taste and the moans, the focusing entirely on her pleasure, the exploring - of course that only works as long as she's enjoying it |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
Lately I've been with more women who don't like to receive it and it's exhausting. A women who enjoys oral is very easy to satisfy, a couple of licks and there done is generally how it goes. Trying to please a woman who don't like oral is exhausting. How they expect me to bash away for 2 minutes and not orgasm.
"I really don't care for oral. A mouth has no grip like a vagina or a hand. feels like leech."
Her throat has a grip though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I absolutely adore a good finger blast their the best. Me receiving some tongue action would be further down the list tbh.
I have absolutely no issues giving bj’s though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Didnt used to like it, i found it boring and too passive. Have had my mind changed on that.
Ive met guys who didnt like oral as well, and had never cum from it.
I changed their minds too.
Good sex is reciprocal.
If you are well tuned in to each other and have a good flow, its worth relaxing and seeing if what didnt work for you before might work with someone new. |
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I always found the imagery of a blow job arousing and a turn on, but rarely enjoy it performed on me, and never once cummed from one.
On the other hand I could spend hours playing with the pussy and teasing orgasms out of it...
Not sure what that classifies me as... I am sure there must be some psychological condition name for it |
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By *inion42Man
over a year ago
minionland |
Strangely I was with a woman and she didn’t particularity like receiving oral, but she really enjoyed it when I went down on her, think it’s more to do with with who your with and past experience as she said.
One persons tongue is a pleasure for another is utter pain |
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