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Is it just semantics?
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"If you single how can it be Swinging ...I like the term Enthusiast...certainly those on Fab like that Alternate Sex life from the norm  "
Over the years I've met quite a few single people male and female that classed themselves as swingers. Even those who omit relationship status. Some that would go mental if their significant other where to do the same. Tbh it all just made me think |
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"When I was young it was just riding, don't know where all this need for high-falutin labels came from"
Being a tribal species. We inherently take on labels. Ever wear a team you support jersey? Or inform your nationality?..county?. But also a desire to attract same. It's nothing new. |
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over a year ago
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"So if a couple meets ie a single man they're swinging and the single guy is an enthusiast? Great stuff, ye got to love labels and bundling people into groups to point out the differences...  "
This hierarchy shit turns me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I was young it was just riding, don't know where all this need for high-falutin labels came from
Being a tribal species. We inherently take on labels. Ever wear a team you support jersey? Or inform your nationality?..county?. But also a desire to attract same. It's nothing new. "
I wouldn't be seen dead in a sports jersey, where I was born I regard as an accident of birth. As you've just pointed out yourself, the interpretation of "swinging" is so disparate as to render it meaningless anyway. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"So if a couple meets ie a single man they're swinging and the single guy is an enthusiast? Great stuff, ye got to love labels and bundling people into groups to point out the differences...
This hierarchy shit turns me"
yep to both of these comments |
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I mean even as a single male (which I'm not), you could appreciate the lifestyle and be open for it. That's opposed to someone who wouldn't want that.
I guess as many other things out there, it's a spectrum  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Didn't most people on the forums admit they didn't call themselves swingers on a thread last year
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The forum represents a tiny proportion of site users, is it really representative? |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Didn't most people on the forums admit they didn't call themselves swingers on a thread last year
The forum represents a tiny proportion of site users, is it really representative? "
Well only for those on the forums everyone else is too busy riding to be on the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Didn't most people on the forums admit they didn't call themselves swingers on a thread last year
The forum represents a tiny proportion of site users, is it really representative?
Well only for those on the forums everyone else is too busy riding to be on the forums "
As opposed to just talking about it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Didn't most people on the forums admit they didn't call themselves swingers on a thread last year
The forum represents a tiny proportion of site users, is it really representative? "
I've actually been elected as single guy spokesman so yes... yes it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Didn't most people on the forums admit they didn't call themselves swingers on a thread last year
The forum represents a tiny proportion of site users, is it really representative?
I've actually been elected as single guy spokesman so yes... yes it is"
Christ on a bike, are things really that bad? |
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"So if a couple meets ie a single man they're swinging and the single guy is an enthusiast? Great stuff, ye got to love labels and bundling people into groups to point out the differences...
This hierarchy shit turns me"
I'm debating on the semantics of it. Nothing to do with hierarchy etc. Neither has lesser value in this than the other. This place would be less fun without the single people in fairness. |
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"I'm just wondering.
Is it swinging when you're a single person on here or being a casual sex enthusiast? I'm leaning towards enthusiast myself. "
I think it all depends on what kind of relationship that single person would like to pursue if they were in a couple.
If a single person is happy with lots of nsa sex, but could never be/never wants to be in a non monogamous relationship- enthusiast.
If a single person is happy with lots of nsa sex and could never see themselves in a monogamous relationship - they're a swinger.
Nobody but that individual has the right to label them though as nobody knows what that person genuinely feels inside.
In my eyes it's that easy.
Missus |
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"I'm just wondering.
Is it swinging when you're a single person on here or being a casual sex enthusiast? I'm leaning towards enthusiast myself.
I think it all depends on what kind of relationship that single person would like to pursue if they were in a couple.
If a single person is happy with lots of nsa sex, but could never be/never wants to be in a non monogamous relationship- enthusiast.
If a single person is happy with lots of nsa sex and could never see themselves in a monogamous relationship - they're a swinger.
Nobody but that individual has the right to label them though as nobody knows what that person genuinely feels inside.
In my eyes it's that easy.
Missus "
Ah. Some points I have not considered. Thank you. |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"I'm just wondering.
Is it swinging when you're a single person on here or being a casual sex enthusiast? I'm leaning towards enthusiast myself. "
If you find some _asual777 sex enthusiasts I d be interested in seeing if we get on |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"Didn't most people on the forums admit they didn't call themselves swingers on a thread last year
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I don't think it's relevant what people call themselves, it's about if the label swinger is an couple exclusive term only, I don't think it is. Anhow I'm neither a swinger nor a sexual enthusiast.  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"Didn't most people on the forums admit they didn't call themselves swingers on a thread last year
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I don't think it's relevant what people call themselves, it's about if the label swinger is an couple exclusive term only, I don't think it is. Anhow I'm neither a swinger nor a casual sex enthusiast. |
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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago
Waterford City |
"I'm just wondering.
Is it swinging when you're a single person on here or being a casual sex enthusiast? I'm leaning towards enthusiast myself.
I think it all depends on what kind of relationship that single person would like to pursue if they were in a couple.
If a single person is happy with lots of nsa sex, but could never be/never wants to be in a non monogamous relationship- enthusiast.
If a single person is happy with lots of nsa sex and could never see themselves in a monogamous relationship - they're a swinger.
Nobody but that individual has the right to label them though as nobody knows what that person genuinely feels inside.
In my eyes it's that easy.
Missus "
This is pretty much how I view it. Although I hate labels with a passion. |
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"Didn't most people on the forums admit they didn't call themselves swingers on a thread last year
The forum represents a tiny proportion of site users, is it really representative? "
This is the truth |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"So what about Tarzan, was he not a swinger till he met Jane?
Course singles are swingers..meeting couples, group scenarios, exploring their sexuality like everyone here
B x"
I knew I could rely on you to be sensible….. |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
"So what about Tarzan, was he not a swinger till he met Jane?
Course singles are swingers..meeting couples, group scenarios, exploring their sexuality like everyone here
B x
I knew I could rely on you to be sensible….. "
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