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How do you make friends after 40
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As the title says looking to make friends have always struggled to make friends mosy of my life as a child and into adulthood i was always very shy and lack confidence but since joining fab i have come out of my shell alot still wouldnt be the most confident person but im getting there just looking to meet other single people who are fed up spending fri and sat nites on there own lol |
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I looked into joining one too but it was too far away from me and unfortunetly i dont drive so unless its somewhere i can get a bus or train too im stuck did try to set one up myself but got no interest |
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"As the title says looking to make friends have always struggled to make friends mosy of my life as a child and into adulthood i was always very shy and lack confidence but since joining fab i have come out of my shell alot still wouldnt be the most confident person but im getting there just looking to meet other single people who are fed up spending fri and sat nites on there own lol"
Sports clubs if you play anything or clubs in general for any hobby you have.
Pub quizzes can be good.
Work outings or people in work in general
Possibly people from here although you don’t know motives |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As the title says looking to make friends have always struggled to make friends mosy of my life as a child and into adulthood i was always very shy and lack confidence but since joining fab i have come out of my shell alot still wouldnt be the most confident person but im getting there just looking to meet other single people who are fed up spending fri and sat nites on there own lol"
Walk into a room of unknowns slowly, don’t rush. Strut in. It’s only in your head. Take a breath and relax. I used to have brutal social anxiety, went to a counsellor, which included some headphones ( I would be ready to vomit at the thought of going out) one session, life changing. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Stick with the good women that are here,a lot seem to be in same boat as you.
Keep away from the men here when looking for friends tho,even your post here could be seen by some as a way in.
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Seriously......yeah of course cause all the men are predators looking for a way in..... |
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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago
galway |
"As the title says looking to make friends have always struggled to make friends mosy of my life as a child and into adulthood i was always very shy and lack confidence but since joining fab i have come out of my shell alot still wouldnt be the most confident person but im getting there just looking to meet other single people who are fed up spending fri and sat nites on there own lol"
What I have found is that come Fri/sat after working all week and looking after the kids, I'm really tired and getting out is a challenge. I too need to make new friends. This is also why I joined fab. I would only have a handful of friends now but we are all busy with our own lives and very rarely get to meet up 
You are abit far for a coffee meet otherwise I would have offered  |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
kildare |
"Stick with the good women that are here,a lot seem to be in same boat as you.
Keep away from the men here when looking for friends tho,even your post here could be seen by some as a way in.
Seriously......yeah of course cause all the men are predators looking for a way in....."
Predators??
That's your word.
She is looking for friends,lots of seemingly nice women here in same boat.
So why even try with the guys and try have to deal with the bolloxology that goes with that as a single woman here.
Presumably she does be meeting guys anyway here so friendships could naturally form that way if she was looking for men friends.
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and know each other
and I travel a lot, so easy to keep in touch 
