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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We all have little things to look out for on here,
But what a rule you set for yourself when using Fab?
For me, it's never texting someone the morning after a night out, I may be a bit eager, lol!
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Nervous when sending the first message? just imagine them naked. Works best when they have naked pictures 
Be as honest as possible and if its too good to be true, it's most likely too good to be true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same as with everything in life - remain cook, calm, collected; polite, kind and with a splash of humour. I don't take anything too seriously or personally "
I like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have a few. Avoid drama
Avoid attached people playing behind their partners backs.
Have fun. "
That's true but everyone isn't in a perfect relationship, nobody can judge anyone here, we are all adults, all here for our own reasons .. we can choose who we want or don't want to meet, x lou |
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"Have a few. Avoid drama
Avoid attached people playing behind their partners backs.
Have fun.
That's true but everyone isn't in a perfect relationship, nobody can judge anyone here, we are all adults, all here for our own reasons .. we can choose who we want or don't want to meet, x lou "
Oh but they will. Do not fear that. Judgemental asses are rife here.
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"Have a few. Avoid drama
Avoid attached people playing behind their partners backs.
Have fun.
That's true but everyone isn't in a perfect relationship, nobody can judge anyone here, we are all adults, all here for our own reasons .. we can choose who we want or don't want to meet, x lou "
As swing say’s being none judgemental towards everyone who is swinging the light fantastic  |
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Anyone who has uncredited photos of someone else in their public photos are a huge no. They don’t respect privacy.
Don’t veri a coffee meet unless you aren’t meeting them again.
Check veris. Who they associate with regularly can tell you all you want to know.
Stay on speaking terms with everyone, there is no reason to be rude. Most people are kind. |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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"Check veris. Who they associate with regularly can tell you all you want to know "
That’s my number 1 rule.
Also, use fab how you want to use it, not how the holier than thou and self proclaimed “real swingers” think you should. |
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"Check veris. Who they associate with regularly can tell you all you want to know
That’s my number 1 rule.
Also, use fab how you want to use it, not how the holier than thou and self proclaimed “real swingers” think you should. "
YES!!! I said that to a friend ages ago and shocked myself with my wisdom. Just cos the relationship you end up with isn’t the reason you joined, doesn’t mean it’s not fucking amazing. Sure Jaysis, look at me!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have a few. Avoid drama
Avoid attached people playing behind their partners backs.
Have fun.
That's true but everyone isn't in a perfect relationship, nobody can judge anyone here, we are all adults, all here for our own reasons .. we can choose who we want or don't want to meet, x lou "
No judgement. If others want to fuxk around behind their partners backs that's cool. We just don't want to be part of it. Simple as that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just as in life I've learnt some people are acquaintances not friends, so I appreciate the friends.
Always a social first and make my own opinion of someone. Very mean Jack shit
And lastly don't get involved in the drama |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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When looking at a profile: could I envision myself spending a whole 24 hours with this person/couple; after the introductory period and the small talk, what would there actually to converse about; would it be just a series of awkward pauses; or: would we just get on with it!  |
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"Have a few. Avoid drama
Avoid attached people playing behind their partners backs.
Have fun.
That's true but everyone isn't in a perfect relationship, nobody can judge anyone here, we are all adults, all here for our own reasons .. we can choose who we want or don't want to meet, x lou
No judgement. If others want to fuxk around behind their partners backs that's cool. We just don't want to be part of it. Simple as that "
“No judgement” but youll happily lambaste, pass comment openly and giggle at anyone who admits to struggling or not conforming to your exacting standards. Ah. Ok!!
Simple as that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have a few. Avoid drama
Avoid attached people playing behind their partners backs.
Have fun.
That's true but everyone isn't in a perfect relationship, nobody can judge anyone here, we are all adults, all here for our own reasons .. we can choose who we want or don't want to meet, x lou
No judgement. If others want to fuxk around behind their partners backs that's cool. We just don't want to be part of it. Simple as that
“No judgement” but youll happily lambaste, pass comment openly and giggle at anyone who admits to struggling or not conforming to your exacting standards. Ah. Ok!!
Simple as that "
If you can point out where we have done that please do. Last we checked we are free to choose who we play with. It's a choice like everything else. Not our fault you have such a problem with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One "rule" as such, our relationship comes first so honesty at all times and either of us has the right to veto a third party
Otherwise we do as we do in "normal" life - avoid the shit-stirrers, shoulder chippers, blowhards, people who are constantly looking for an argument, liars, drama queens and gossips. That's second nature at this stage of our lives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One "rule" as such, our relationship comes first so honesty at all times and either of us has the right to veto a third party
Otherwise we do as we do in "normal" life - avoid the shit-stirrers, shoulder chippers, blowhards, people who are constantly looking for an argument, liars, drama queens and gossips. That's second nature at this stage of our lives."
Christ this place must be a minefield for ye at times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One "rule" as such, our relationship comes first so honesty at all times and either of us has the right to veto a third party
Otherwise we do as we do in "normal" life - avoid the shit-stirrers, shoulder chippers, blowhards, people who are constantly looking for an argument, liars, drama queens and gossips. That's second nature at this stage of our lives.
Christ this place must be a minefield for ye at times "
On the contrary, it saves us a lot of wasted time and effort and all that angst some people seem to constantly suffer from |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"Check veris. Who they associate with regularly can tell you all you want to know
That’s my number 1 rule.
Also, use fab how you want to use it, not how the holier than thou and self proclaimed “real swingers” think you should.
YES!!! I said that to a friend ages ago and shocked myself with my wisdom. Just cos the relationship you end up with isn’t the reason you joined, doesn’t mean it’s not fucking amazing. Sure Jaysis, look at me!! "
I do look at you Red 
Often, probably to often  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be yourself without compromise
Prioritise our relationship
Never take one for the team
If either of us is uncomfortable then it doesn't happen
Communicate
Don't suffer fools
Stop when it stops being fun
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One "rule" as such, our relationship comes first so honesty at all times and either of us has the right to veto a third party
Otherwise we do as we do in "normal" life - avoid the shit-stirrers, shoulder chippers, blowhards, people who are constantly looking for an argument, liars, drama queens and gossips. That's second nature at this stage of our lives.
Christ this place must be a minefield for ye at times
On the contrary, it saves us a lot of wasted time and effort and all that angst some people seem to constantly suffer from "
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