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No they bend too much like a hot dog and then tear resulting in a very sore and embarrassing trip to A&E. Put the pump away forget about the miracle pills and be happy with what you've got, you'll be so much happier |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
From experience, not all women are comfortable with a large cock.
The rest of the package is probably more important:
Charm
Courteousness
Personal presentation
Conversational ability and
Staying power! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No they bend too much like a hot dog and then tear resulting in a very sore and embarrassing trip to A&E. Put the pump away forget about the miracle pills and be happy with what you've got, you'll be so much happier"
This is sound advice.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know I'm too short to reach my wife from behind and it's a position she really enjoys. We use a dildo.. it's quite obvious that bigger gives her more pleasure but she has to be in the mood and warmed up to receive it.. |
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. Large is fine if they don’t knew what they’re doing. More often than not, any man I’ve been with that had a large cock had zero other skills.
I would actively choose a regular/medium cock over large Any day. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
No sex is better than sex with a guy who thinks having a big knob is all he needs and makes no effort. Probably along the same lines as pillow princesses it just isn't worth the effort of getting undressed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OK so from what I am getting in this thread is men with large cocks are a bit complacent.
I just wonder though I never lead with that info, I never blart it out.I feel like I'm supposed to play the feckin' romance game and eventually they get a surprise....maybe that's where I'm going wrong.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a guy with a huge cock not from Fab very disappointing meet pure meh. It was all about him...you like that big dick no not really I'm as dry as the Sahara as you forgot there's a thing called foreplay for women..so not worth the UTI for bruised bladder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK so from what I am getting in this thread is men with large cocks are a bit complacent.
I just wonder though I never lead with that info, I never blart it out.I feel like I'm supposed to play the feckin' romance game and eventually they get a surprise....maybe that's where I'm going wrong.
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'play the romance game' oh my god,
just be a decent respectful human without the any hole's a goal approach.
If you get to planning a meet you can always tell them you are well-endowed and hope its a nice surprise and not a problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met a guy with a huge cock not from Fab very disappointing meet pure meh. It was all about him...you like that big dick no not really I'm as dry as the Sahara as you forgot there's a thing called foreplay for women..so not worth the UTI for bruised bladder."
Rosy - side note!! i have to say that profile pic is  |
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"What is big ? Average ? Small ? Us guys don't see as many cocks as you would imagine"
Google is your friend on researching average penis size (5.1 - 5.5 inches erect - I looked it up for you  )
Hence I would deduce that anything less than average is considered small(er) and anything bigger than average is big(ger)...
And, obviously - if you have single men blocked, you won't be exposed to the many varying, beautiful cocks on Fab |
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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago
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Yes (generally)… a qualified yes… depends on other factors but generally yes.
A woman in a couple we once met made the observation that the average size of men from swinging couples is much larger than the average in the general male population. We can see plausible reasons around confidence in sexual prowess of men drawn to swinging as to why this may very well be the case. |
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"A woman in a couple we once met made the observation that the average size of men from swinging couples is much larger than the average in the general male population. We can see plausible reasons around confidence in sexual prowess of men drawn to swinging as to why this may very well be the case."
That's a really interesting observation! To be honest for myself it's always a bit odd when I'm browsing fab or other similar minded apps and some women are all like "only extremely well endowed need apply" or similar.
I don't think I'm small or anything and both me and my regular partner are perfectly happy with the size but it's still sometimes a bit of a punch to the ego if you read it all too often even though it really shouldn't be.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is big ? Average ? Small ? Us guys don't see as many cocks as you would imagine
Google is your friend on researching average penis size (5.1 - 5.5 inches erect - I looked it up for you )
Hence I would deduce that anything less than average is considered small(er) and anything bigger than average is big(ger)...
And, obviously - if you have single men blocked, you won't be exposed to the many varying, beautiful cocks on Fab "
 fucking this made my day 7 makes me massive just kidding but at least we know I'm not your average guy |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
From a male perspective (with a larger than average-sized penis) I personally prefer smaller women because they tend to have shorter vaginas than very tall women, and I am able to massage their cervix with my helmet, and vice-versa.
Skill, experience and choosing the right tool for the job is vital.
Massive, truly massive penises as seen in porn movies, are statistical outliers, and can be compared to the freak shows in travelling circuses in the nineteenth century.
The chances of a woman encountering a 10-12 in. penis, in real life, is almost zero! |
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Personally I prefer a bigger cock, it's part of what really turns me on and Ive generally had filthier sex with a big dick... Although maybe it just seemed dirtier being ridden hard senseless lol... And I would definitely crave a bigger cock more. Now saying that the most intense sex I had was with an average sized dick and size wasnt an issue there being fucked non stop for over two hours!
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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago
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"A lot of bullshit in this thread recently. I think the female comments here have been pretty clear it's likely not your cock that's holding you back from getting meets."
The forum police have caught us red handed. |
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"A lot of bullshit in this thread recently. I think the female comments here have been pretty clear it's likely not your cock that's holding you back from getting meets.
The forum police have caught us red handed."
Sorry I didn't realise you had a small one and were complaining that was the reason you weren't getting meets. I've seen adverts for enlargements devices. Maybe you could try that? |
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"From a male perspective (with a larger than average-sized penis) I personally prefer smaller women because they tend to have shorter vaginas than very tall women, and I am able to massage their cervix with my helmet, and vice-versa.
Skill, experience and choosing the right tool for the job is vital.
Massive, truly massive penises as seen in porn movies, are statistical outliers, and can be compared to the freak shows in travelling circuses in the nineteenth century.
The chances of a woman encountering a 10-12 in. penis, in real life, is almost zero!"
Puts hand up.
11in long and 7in girth when erect.
And he wasn’t a one off meet either. |
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"Personally I prefer a bigger cock, it's part of what really turns me on and Ive generally had filthier sex with a big dick... Although maybe it just seemed dirtier being ridden hard senseless lol... And I would definitely crave a bigger cock more. Now saying that the most intense sex I had was with an average sized dick and size wasnt an issue there being fucked non stop for over two hours!
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I’ve had bigger cocks too. And I enjoy them. However I would be hard pushed to fuck then for longer than an hour and I would get sore eventually and want to stop. Not so with the more average sized cock, I’ve literally fucked for hours on end, 3-4, then back again for more. That doesn’t happen with a large cock. |
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I’m above average pushing towards 8 and am pretty happy with it. My hands are perfected instruments of pleasure so by the time my cock gets involved it’s all good.
But seriously, I find it best to only meet woman 5ft or under and make sure they have tiny hands. That way, no matter what your cock will look huge in her hand and enormous when you get down to it. It’s the only way to be sure |
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"I’m above average pushing towards 8 and am pretty happy with it. My hands are perfected instruments of pleasure so by the time my cock gets involved it’s all good.
But seriously, I find it best to only meet woman 5ft or under and make sure they have tiny hands. That way, no matter what your cock will look huge in her hand and enormous when you get down to it. It’s the only way to be sure"
Stop worrying about it. There is no need to restrict yourself to shorter women to make your cock look bigger. 8inches is plenty. |
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"Personally I prefer a bigger cock, it's part of what really turns me on and Ive generally had filthier sex with a big dick... Although maybe it just seemed dirtier being ridden hard senseless lol... And I would definitely crave a bigger cock more. Now saying that the most intense sex I had was with an average sized dick and size wasnt an issue there being fucked non stop for over two hours!
I’ve had bigger cocks too. And I enjoy them. However I would be hard pushed to fuck then for longer than an hour and I would get sore eventually and want to stop. Not so with the more average sized cock, I’ve literally fucked for hours on end, 3-4, then back again for more. That doesn’t happen with a large cock. "
Thats an excellent point, most likely physically impossible to ride a big dick for that long lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm intrigued to find out if big cock really is better or not regardless of the old " it's how you use it " ... "
Why don’t you meet a few fellahs, take a pounding and report back.  |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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I am certainly just above average, never had any complaints most of ladies i have been with, I have been with multiple times so I think thats a good sign.
There are definitely ladies into the big dick thing which generally as a guy just a above average probably puts me off them slightly as I wouldn't want to disappoint them.
I am most definitely comfortable now with I have and also have what some guys dont have and its far more important for a lot of ladies and thats to be actually able to get it up and keep it up especially in a group of people. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
So what type of measuring device is being used
Lynx can....travel version ...is it acceptable to cheat
Sky remote ....old type is bigger
Stanley measuring tape....very dangerous
The paper measuring tape in IKEA....just as bad as the Stanley...paper cuts are a bitch in fairness when its just your fingers
So it leaves the one from the sewing box doesn't it
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"So what type of measuring device is being used
Lynx can....travel version ...is it acceptable to cheat
Sky remote ....old type is bigger
Stanley measuring tape....very dangerous
The paper measuring tape in IKEA....just as bad as the Stanley...paper cuts are a bitch in fairness when its just your fingers
So it leaves the one from the sewing box doesn't it
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Tip to butthole is the normal way no? |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"So what type of measuring device is being used
Lynx can....travel version ...is it acceptable to cheat
Sky remote ....old type is bigger
Stanley measuring tape....very dangerous
The paper measuring tape in IKEA....just as bad as the Stanley...paper cuts are a bitch in fairness when its just your fingers
So it leaves the one from the sewing box doesn't it
Tip to butthole is the normal way no?"
Still use my middle finger to the base of my thumb in fairness to check |
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This question has been asked so many times with much the same responses...everyone like something different but the main theme seems to be, just make an effort guys. Unless you've a micro penis (sorry I know some do) then the size doesn't ultimately matter, if your other skills are good rhenium your cock should just be the finisher (and even that doesn't always work for some). So put away the measuring tape, research the foreplay skills, perfect them and most ladies will be happy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This question has been asked so many times with much the same responses...everyone like something different but the main theme seems to be, just make an effort guys. Unless you've a micro penis (sorry I know some do) then the size doesn't ultimately matter, if your other skills are good rhenium your cock should just be the finisher (and even that doesn't always work for some). So put away the measuring tape, research the foreplay skills, perfect them and most ladies will be happy "
Some of the best multiple orgasms I had was from a guy who himself admitted was on the very small side. But fuck me he could please a lady in other ways. |
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"From a male perspective (with a larger than average-sized penis) I personally prefer smaller women because they tend to have shorter vaginas than very tall women, and I am able to massage their cervix with my helmet, and vice-versa.
Skill, experience and choosing the right tool for the job is vital.
Massive, truly massive penises as seen in porn movies, are statistical outliers, and can be compared to the freak shows in travelling circuses in the nineteenth century.
The chances of a woman encountering a 10-12 in. penis, in real life, is almost zero!
Puts hand up.
11in long and 7in girth when erect.
And he wasn’t a one off meet either. "
Would that be 7in in circumference or diameter? (Gulp) |
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"From a male perspective (with a larger than average-sized penis) I personally prefer smaller women because they tend to have shorter vaginas than very tall women, and I am able to massage their cervix with my helmet, and vice-versa.
Skill, experience and choosing the right tool for the job is vital.
Massive, truly massive penises as seen in porn movies, are statistical outliers, and can be compared to the freak shows in travelling circuses in the nineteenth century.
The chances of a woman encountering a 10-12 in. penis, in real life, is almost zero!
Puts hand up.
11in long and 7in girth when erect.
And he wasn’t a one off meet either.
Would that be 7in in circumference or diameter? (Gulp)"
Radius.
Nah, circumference. |
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"From a male perspective (with a larger than average-sized penis) I personally prefer smaller women because they tend to have shorter vaginas than very tall women, and I am able to massage their cervix with my helmet, and vice-versa.
Skill, experience and choosing the right tool for the job is vital.
Massive, truly massive penises as seen in porn movies, are statistical outliers, and can be compared to the freak shows in travelling circuses in the nineteenth century.
The chances of a woman encountering a 10-12 in. penis, in real life, is almost zero!
Puts hand up.
11in long and 7in girth when erect.
And he wasn’t a one off meet either.
Would that be 7in in circumference or diameter? (Gulp)
Radius.
Nah, circumference. "
Phheeeww  |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"From a male perspective (with a larger than average-sized penis) I personally prefer smaller women because they tend to have shorter vaginas than very tall women, and I am able to massage their cervix with my helmet, and vice-versa.
Skill, experience and choosing the right tool for the job is vital.
Massive, truly massive penises as seen in porn movies, are statistical outliers, and can be compared to the freak shows in travelling circuses in the nineteenth century.
The chances of a woman encountering a 10-12 in. penis, in real life, is almost zero!
Puts hand up.
11in long and 7in girth when erect.
And he wasn’t a one off meet either.
Would that be 7in in circumference or diameter? (Gulp)
Radius.
Nah, circumference.
Phheeeww "
We only get one cock one brain so we have to enjoy ourselves!!!! |
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A big cock as in a long cock, can be really painful and not that pleasurable if its owner doesn’t know what he’s doing… but it can be oh so good too with a skilled lover.
Girth is good too.
But saying that I’ve had some amazing orgasms with “normal” sized penises…
Size is definitely not a selling point for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the fantasy here may actually be better than the reality.
I absolutely love watching a woman handling and taking a big cock in porn. But in reality, I get that it might not be that practical or enjoyable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So mine is to short to be able to reach my wife from behind. I'm probably about 4 inches erect..she has a dildo which is about 6 inches and a but thicker than mine...when she uses it slowly and open for it she really reacts to it.. so I would say bigger probably is better just from a reach perspective for certain positions and girth seems to give more pleasure as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well never had any complaints! Is it huge - nope, is it small - nope does it work well yep!
Only one I’ve got and I’m making do with it!
no complaints yet!!! "
Great response Stephen has a great package but it’s how he uses it for me and with that said it’s when we communicate and it works for both |
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By *inion42Man
over a year ago
minionland |
Sometimes bigger is not better, one of my previous play partners, found it too wide no matter what lube relaxation etc we tried, so it just depends, hence why I do have a preference now for more mature woman, actually now that I recall a lot of my younger partners took a while to take it in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you think that is important than it’s important. And the the same goes for the opposite. What I mean is that small is fine, average is fine and big is fine as long as you and you’re couple or 3some or whatever the number of people involved, are feeling good having sex. |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
I suspect that many/most people attracted to men would have a hypothetical overall mark out of 10/overall view of someone prior to deciding on meeting them . Stuff like personality, hygiene , not feeling unsafe around them and reliability would probably get one to a couple marks out of 10 each as would overall looks maybe . Cock size might get say a half mark to a couple depending on how sizist they are (perhaps that’s not a word) and would rank somewhere similar Tô say location/proximity and being well dressed say. It’s In the niche category mostly but for some a very important aspect category . A bit like being well dressed and not being the other end of the country it would do one’s chances no harm to have a big cock but on its own it’s not enough . That my opinion on it anyway . You won’t get a meet just because you have a big cock but if you’re sound reliable and trustworthy on a meet you’re more likely to get one even with a cock on a smaller side when it comes to most people |
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"No sex is better than sex with a guy who thinks having a big knob is all he needs and makes no effort. Probably along the same lines as pillow princesses it just isn't worth the effort of getting undressed. "
What's a pillow princess?  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"No sex is better than sex with a guy who thinks having a big knob is all he needs and makes no effort. Probably along the same lines as pillow princesses it just isn't worth the effort of getting undressed.
What's a pillow princess? "
Someone who just lies there expecting the other person to do all the work and pleasure them . |
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"No sex is better than sex with a guy who thinks having a big knob is all he needs and makes no effort. Probably along the same lines as pillow princesses it just isn't worth the effort of getting undressed.
What's a pillow princess?
Someone who just lies there expecting the other person to do all the work and pleasure them ."
Oh that!
Oh well, a bit off topic now, but sometimes the guys spoil the gals into it if they simply like to take over the driving wheel...
But then again maybe they do it cause the gal is a pillow princess?
Who knows, catch 22 |
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And then try out a big one for comparison 
