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Ever Recognise anyone?
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Yep, I knew a certain profile to be a certain someone I have been in contact with in the "real" world.
I left it at that until a Forum interaction after which I did let the person know who I was.
Considering where I knew the person from, I knew things would be friendly rather than awkward  |
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Yes I met a lady who I knew from real life and would never have suspected of being on here until she sent me a picture...
Married, school teacher.. Who goes to church lol...
Who's to judge i suppose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've not recognised anyone but I have been recognised. The person then threatened to tell my boss I was on here. I left the site after that. Can't understand why they would do that. |
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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago
Dublin west |
Have recognised a few and even met people I know at socials and such.
No big deal as nothing to hide and sure they are there looking for the same stuff that I am.
I just leave them in peace. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have and we just move on. We block them if they're too close to home or that. Unfortunately haven't had the same experience from people who recognised us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yap I seen two I know, ignored one told the second I know them and who I am we chat away it’s nice having someone you trust hear to chat with out anyone looking to meet and someone recognised me told me they know me since school days so we just moved on and ignore each other now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have recognised a few and been recognised. One is a neighbour and we were just honest, no hiding. Now we are naughty neighbours who play and its great fun.
I have another who likes to tell me they know me but wont tell me who they are. Its frustrating but what can you do. I dont let it bother me. |
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By *asantCouple
over a year ago
navan |
Yeah recognised a guy on here we have chatted to had a bit of laugh messaging and so on he also gave us some great advise when we were starting out the do,s and the do nots which we are very thankful for, seen him out and about we just get on with things as normal as I think most people would do on this site as we are all here for the same thing and I believe it stays a private part of your life |
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It has its pros and cons. Finding someone/couple you know personally might help with getting your foot in the door so to speak.
But if its someone you know but not very well it'd be a walk the other way situation.
We've recognised a few people we know but left it at that as we wouldn't be on that 'close'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all,
has anyone here ever come across anyone on fab who you recognised from the “real” world, and if so what did ye do, keep moving on or maybe wink/message "
Bumped into the male part of a couple in a Barbers on the Lisburn road, recognised his tattoos.I just nodded and said alright nice pics. |
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I did very recently. Said hello.... twice....got blanked ignored...twice....got blocked on chat and blocked here. Met this person at a recent m and g. If you can't handle the heat. Step out of the kitchen. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"I did very recently. Said hello.... twice....got blanked ignored...twice....got blocked on chat and blocked here. Met this person at a recent m and g. If you can't handle the heat. Step out of the kitchen. "
Did you meet them first at the m&g
They might not want to say hello outside of that situation....its their choice especially if they were with people |
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"Hi all,
has anyone here ever come across anyone on fab who you recognised from the “real” world, and if so what did ye do, keep moving on or maybe wink/message "
Yep very recently when he messaged me. Turned off my location. But I’m glad to say he was a consummate gentleman. |
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By *ac147Man
over a year ago
Belfast East |
My(female) cousin!!!!!! Lol... The next family funeral will be interesting if nothing else. Lol..to be fair we both laughed it off, tho I don't think we both ever thought we'd see pics of each others bits :/ |
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"My(female) cousin!!!!!! Lol... The next family funeral will be interesting if nothing else. Lol..to be fair we both laughed it off, tho I don't think we both ever thought we'd see pics of each others bits :/"
Oh god, I discovered profiles of two female cousins on here! 
Thankfully neither had explicit pics or anything and nothing on my profile would give away who I was… phew! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some guy that I know mailed me here.....I'm straight, he's gay and obviously he doesn't know how I know him... I can never tell but I don't care about people's business and I trust everyone here should be of same mindset |
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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago
galway |
Yes, recognised a few cples and singles and unfortunately some know I'm on here. I've had the looks from some men thst know I'm on here. I didn't think them knowing but somehow they found out 
Normally I wouldn't mind, I'd just brazen it but it's a small town I live in with small town mentality which can be an issue.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend of mine is on the site - we discovered this during a conversation.
It's fantastic to be able talk so openly about it and not be made feel like it's anything 'weird'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I messaged a lady but soon realised I was friends with her on Facebook , same pics. She's just separated from a buddy of mine. I was glad she is having so much fun their marriage wasn't the best . |
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Few years ago I was in Badoo, then ladies there pretended to be shy in the first meeting and so on … I joined fabs cause one Badoo lady friend recommended to me and … surprise surprise… several … many !!! Badoo shy ladies were in fabs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes has happened more than once
Fight club protocol with the lifestyle outside of the lifestyle
And have attended socials and events with one of them. A healthy respect for one another's individuality, being insecure about other stuff like meeting people is a waist of time.
Especially if I meet them.in the same playgrounds   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s someone on here I used to work with. I’d contacted her years ago when I saw her on another “hookup” site, and she was really embarrassed, so I decided not to.
Kathy, if you’re reading this, I’m interested, but I understand if you’re not |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
where the wild roses grow |
"There’s someone on here I used to work with. I’d contacted her years ago when I saw her on another “hookup” site, and she was really embarrassed, so I decided not to.
Kathy, if you’re reading this, I’m interested, but I understand if you’re not "
Oh gwan then 
But stop calling me Kathy in public |
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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago
North West, Outer Letterkenny area |
I sat with my best mate and explained this site to him. He had questions (as you would) I answered all I could . The private Nature etc. I showed him forums a redacted bit and he was taken a back as most people were chatting guff or friendly as you could be with no ulterior motive very good to see the perspective of a married man. Very lests say ------- and has his own bothers. Real gent in his actions . Now this is not a fan friend. This is a 37 year old friend |
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Have met a few I knew on here from real life. Some I've messaged saying hi and others I haven't. Depends on the people and how likely we are to run into each other at something. If I think we will be going to the same event, I'd definitely get in touch first just to stop anyone getting a heart attack
We are all mostly here for the same thing. Have no interest in making others lives awkward and you would just hope they feel the same way.
So far a few years in, it's mostly working out!  |
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"Hi all,
has anyone here ever come across anyone on fab who you recognised from the “real” world, and if so what did ye do, keep moving on or maybe wink/message "
Met a guy I know really well tru fab. Was chatting with him tru here for a while and then exchanged pictures. Both of us recognised each other and then asked the question "oops what happens now" Decided to meet as we were both here for same reasons and two years later we still meet regulary. Were both adults and discreet so no issues really. |
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"We are all mostly here for the same thing. Have no interest in making others lives awkward and you would just hope they feel the same way.
So far a few years in, it's mostly working out! "
Unfortunately some here seem to specifically go out of their way to make other people feel awkward and would happily fuck up other people's real lives deliberately or otherwise. People you know are a big risk. You might get lucky like some on this thread who get hot sex out of it, or you might end up with your family getting sent copies of your private pics, or someone's husband or wife turning up at your door demanding explanations. Too risky. |
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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago
galway |
"We are all mostly here for the same thing. Have no interest in making others lives awkward and you would just hope they feel the same way.
So far a few years in, it's mostly working out!
Unfortunately some here seem to specifically go out of their way to make other people feel awkward and would happily fuck up other people's real lives deliberately or otherwise. People you know are a big risk. You might get lucky like some on this thread who get hot sex out of it, or you might end up with your family getting sent copies of your private pics, or someone's husband or wife turning up at your door demanding explanations. Too risky."
I can testify this! I was very niave when I first joined and ended up having an awful experience. Some men can be cruel! I did question wether I wanted to continue with it because of my young family. One thing though, it has made me more cautious about the swinging scene. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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A few years ago I went to a local cruising spot, when I arrived there was only one car parked up, I climb through the hedge in to the woods and see a guy, trousers around his ankles wanking away, he nodded and I join him, both wanking then wank each other, we both cum clean up and leave , nothing out of the ordinary.
About a month later I have to take my daughter to her new school to sort out her uniform , we are waiting in the reception area , we are called into an office and as we go in who’s there…. The guy from the woods earlier that month awkward or what obviously nothing was said but I was glad to get out of there |
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"Yes I met a lady who I knew from real life and would never have suspected of being on here until she sent me a picture...
Married, school teacher.. Who goes to church lol...
Who's to judge i suppose. "
There plenty of them mate lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Just this morning actually. He's gay. I sent him the sexiest photo I had and asked him to ride me. He said yes. Lesson here is shoot your shot. We're all adults |
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By *aid backMan 44 weeks ago
by a lake with my rod out |
Yeah a few times I tend to just not make a big deal of it. Tell them that I don't talk out of school and leave it at that.
Same when I see people from the scene in the real world I just keep walking unless they say anything to me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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We all have recognised people here. Just be adult about it and respect their privacy not everyone likes others to know their business. I just pop a note on their profile and avoid them. |
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I once was on talking to a couple and borderline meet when I had to do a repair on things in a office I noticed the Mrs. Was blocked unfortunately when I tried contacting again... If you're reading this message me I don't bite |
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We've stopped attending our local (very large) Meet n Greet because of meeting people we know.
Luckily we live in a country where casual sex for both single men and women is acceptable, but swinging couples are still majorly frowned upon (especially in rural areas) so we have to be careful.
All it takes is to bump into an indescreet single guy we work with and we'll be the talk of the town. So unfair  |
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Recognised some and had a catch up but that's it..... It's worse when you finally send them a face pic and they recognise you and wont say who they are .. puts me on edge incase they know the wife or family |
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I've been recognised by two different people I work with.
One sent me a polite heads up and we agreed that neither of us play with colleagues and that was that. We get on just fine.
The other sent me a bunch of unsolicited photos and I had to cut that conversation very short. |
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"I've been recognised by two different people I work with.
One sent me a polite heads up and we agreed that neither of us play with colleagues and that was that. We get on just fine.
The other sent me a bunch of unsolicited photos and I had to cut that conversation very short."
Hey about that, I've sent you a pic my slimey hooded gentleman... please respond
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I recognised 2 guys I work with.
One had his face pic up and he was going out with a female colleague at the time. So I rang him to say did he know his face pic, he said thanks and took it down.
The other guy wanted to join me and my lady friend for a mfm.
Thankfully when he sent me his face picture he had facial hair and informed him my lady doesn't like facial hair.
But never mentioned who I was. |
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I was messaging a woman and all was good after a bit off chatting we exchanged pic. Only to realise it was my married cousin she was more embarrassed that me. We both agreed never to speak about it again but there was some cheeky grinning at the last family funeral |
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"We've stopped attending our local (very large) Meet n Greet because of meeting people we know.
Luckily we live in a country where casual sex for both single men and women is acceptable, but swinging couples are still majorly frowned upon (especially in rural areas) so we have to be careful.
All it takes is to bump into an indescreet single guy we work with and we'll be the talk of the town. So unfair "
Absolutely totally agree, I’m in a profession an have to be careful struggle to attend M&G because of that kinda behaviour |
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By *liviacdTV/TS 44 weeks ago
Greystones, Galway |
Was at a social in the Gemini Club many years ago. Fortunately I was dressed and not easily recognisable. A fellow employee, whose boss I was came in. I very quickly disappeared, put my civvies on, and with the help of the other gurls, left undetected. I never ever referred to it in any way. I would have felt very compromised if I had been recognised, given my position. Didn't go back till I changed job a couple of years later! Never saw him there again! |
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We have also been messaged by single guy a few time who we know to he married as he is a friend of hubby's father. He profile says single late 50s but we he is actually late 60s lol.
What's more he had a face pic as his profile pic, we mailed him back once and told him living in a rural area it wasn't wise to have a public face pic when your married. He changed his pic lol but still here with quite a few verifications! |
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It happens, but we're all here for the same thing so we need to accept that it's not as anonymous as we might hope for, but that wish for anonymity is rooted in catholic guilt.
I've seen a guy from work here, and just ignored him.
I've met a lady here, had great sex and since shared a cheeky glance and smile in Tesco.
I've met a married colleague here who is in an open relationship. That blossomed into the best sex of my life. We had a very good pre-existing friendship so much so that we were very nervous about adding sex to the mix. It changed our lives for the better and neither of us regretted it.
Peace and pleasure to all |
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