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Husband wants a bit of femdom what do i do??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Husband and i recently got into femdom because he like to be the submissive and well i get what i want but now he has a big night for it tonight and looking for some good ideas thay will blow his mind, i not really into it but doing it for him.
What is it he ll be looking for?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps before doing it sit and talk properly about expectations on both sides. Discuss what they want to experience and limits and go from there. If you aren't into it and don't even know what he wants then it won't work without proper communication |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You definitely need to have a conversation first. What one person might want another might not be into. Submission can take a lot of forms for example they might be into pegging or humiliation or orgasm control. Maybe look online for articles on BDSM that you can read together. Don't do anything your not comfortable with either. |
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By *iamo69Man
over a year ago
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As above what does he want specific ly?
So many forms
I've done most and all are different
From light spanking to been ordered to obey to pegging to hard bondage for hours to painand to chasitity cages for days
Need to talk it through first then Google will help you form a plan
But do talk it through first
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"Husband and i recently got into femdom because he like to be the submissive and well i get what i want but now he has a big night for it tonight and looking for some good ideas thay will blow his mind, i not really into it but doing it for him.
What is it he ll be looking for?? "
I understand you may not be in to it...at the moment. However that could change in an instant. Just as a suggestion. Find a Domme or Mistress willing to mentor you. A good one will have no issue in it. If you're comfortable with her showing you the ropes with your hubby being the subject. All the better. Sit, watch, listen. Mimic. Once you get the taste of that gifted power given to you. You may become addicted in the ideal scenario |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yea both need to do plenty of research into FemDom cause anything that involves Submission by either of yea needs plenty of information!! Communication is paramount plus safe words! What one might be comfortable with, doesn't automatically mean the other person is!! Apart from that, hope yea have a great time playing!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was this guy 18 years ago with my wife... If you are both comfortable talking about it start there with lists of likes and dislikes and just make sure it's a safe space for the discussion..don't judge etc.. I didn't start or still don't talk openly with my wife about it. We do in bed sometimes and we often message each other..seems easier than talking..you could ask him to write a fantasy he would enjoy and email it to you |
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