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By *oxer22 OP   Man  over a year ago

limerick

I don't know maybe its just me, but its impossible to get a response to a mail these days. You see profiles where they ask you to put some effort into a message, and when you do its the same response as if you didn't. Like sometimes your emails aren't even read, aaaagh so annoying.

Right that's my Sunday morning rant done, good to get it off my chest, must go now and buy a male sex toy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I had a guy say the same thing to me yesterday site was gone to shit he couldn't get a response. When I looked at his profile he had one line bio and one photo from 2013!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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I don't know maybe its just me, but its impossible to get a response to a mail these days. You see profiles where they ask you to put some effort into a message, and when you do its the same response as if you didn't. Like sometimes your emails aren't even read, aaaagh so annoying.

Right that's my Sunday morning rant done, good to get it off my chest, must go now and buy a male sex toy "

What ?? You mean you supposed to get a response ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Seen a few people say that, the forums definitely are quieter but maybe because life has opened up people are getting on with things. Plenty are still meeting and having fun so I've been told.

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By *ustBoWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

If your mails aren't read chances are they don't like your profile. I know I look at a profile before I answer any mails and nowadays if the profile doesn't appeal the chances are I won't answer and sometimes I won't read the mail.

I completely agree it's harder for men on here than women but at the same time I don't see any point anymore in answering mail when I know I won't want to meet the person. I've done that before and in recent times I've realised there is no point because even when you make it clear from the start that you don't want to meet and they ask can we just chat anyhow they end up asking to meet again then act like you led them on because you agreed to just chat and refuse to take no as an answer it's like you chatted so the least they deserve is a shag. So now I can't be bothered anymore.

There is no easy way to get replies or a sure way to get them what appeals to one won't to others.

It seems to have gotten quieter on here recently but that tends to happen anyhow every now and then.

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By *oxer22 OP   Man  over a year ago

limerick

I know I look at a profile before I answer any mails and nowadays if the profile doesn't appeal the chances are I won't answer and sometimes I won't read the mail.

I didn't think of that, but makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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I don't know maybe its just me, but its impossible to get a response to a mail these days. You see profiles where they ask you to put some effort into a message, and when you do its the same response as if you didn't. Like sometimes your emails aren't even read, aaaagh so annoying.

Right that's my Sunday morning rant done, good to get it off my chest, must go now and buy a male sex toy "

Wasn't it always like this I very rarely get a response think most guys are the same, unless you have the body of a Greek adonis with a 10 inch dick you'll be pushed to 1 side, women are not looking for average men that's the whole point in going online, they can find an average man anywhere..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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I don't know maybe its just me, but its impossible to get a response to a mail these days. You see profiles where they ask you to put some effort into a message, and when you do its the same response as if you didn't. Like sometimes your emails aren't even read, aaaagh so annoying.

Right that's my Sunday morning rant done, good to get it off my chest, must go now and buy a male sex toy

Wasn't it always like this I very rarely get a response think most guys are the same, unless you have the body of a Greek adonis with a 10 inch dick you'll be pushed to 1 side, women are not looking for average men that's the whole point in going online, they can find an average man anywhere.. "

I come to find the different men not average, average are everywhere.

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By *tinerant scribeMan  over a year ago

County Durham

I get and like chatty mail that has nothing to do with meets. The site is worth my time precisely because Fabbers are three-dimensional and funny, ready to talk about anything.

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By *s LollyWoman  over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"I get and like chatty mail that has nothing to do with meets. The site is worth my time precisely because Fabbers are three-dimensional and funny, ready to talk about anything. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As said already . Most guys have similar experience with being responded too or not etc

the ratio with males to females for hetrosexual guys is about 6-7 to 1...it it was reverse guys would be the same and worse

Have a look at your profile bio and pics ....no one has to have a body like the statue of David to get chatting here or meets for that matter..it helps but beauty is only skin deep remember

In my experience having the ability to make someone laugh and have fun outside of any meet has generated more meets and positive experiences than looking like the Greek adonis mentioned..

A pinch of salt with the whole thing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As said already . Most guys have similar experience with being responded too or not etc

the ratio with males to females for hetrosexual guys is about 6-7 to 1...it it was reverse guys would be the same and worse

Have a look at your profile bio and pics ....no one has to have a body like the statue of David to get chatting here or meets for that matter..it helps but beauty is only skin deep remember

In my experience having the ability to make someone laugh and have fun outside of any meet has generated more meets and positive experiences than looking like the Greek adonis mentioned..

A pinch of salt with the whole thing

"

That's a modest ratio of 6-7:1.

More like 60-70:1 I'd say!!??

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By *issme39Woman  over a year ago

kildare


"I get and like chatty mail that has nothing to do with meets. The site is worth my time precisely because Fabbers are three-dimensional and funny, ready to talk about anything. "

yes!! this!!

I could start talking to you a about dogs, bring you around the world in conversation topics and possibly back to dogs

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By *issme39Woman  over a year ago

kildare


"As said already . Most guys have similar experience with being responded too or not etc

the ratio with males to females for hetrosexual guys is about 6-7 to 1...it it was reverse guys would be the same and worse

Have a look at your profile bio and pics ....no one has to have a body like the statue of David to get chatting here or meets for that matter..it helps but beauty is only skin deep remember

In my experience having the ability to make someone laugh and have fun outside of any meet has generated more meets and positive experiences than looking like the Greek adonis mentioned..

A pinch of salt with the whole thing

"

Mr L , you are absolutely correct a pretty face will of course draw you in but it won't keep you!!

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By *ardyboy54321Man  over a year ago

Fermanagh

Aww it's gone ta hell in a hand cart irelands own is far better

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By * la carteCouple  over a year ago

Dublin


"As said already . Most guys have similar experience with being responded too or not etc

the ratio with males to females for hetrosexual guys is about 6-7 to 1...it it was reverse guys would be the same and worse

Have a look at your profile bio and pics ....no one has to have a body like the statue of David to get chatting here or meets for that matter..it helps but beauty is only skin deep remember

In my experience having the ability to make someone laugh and have fun outside of any meet has generated more meets and positive experiences than looking like the Greek adonis mentioned..

A pinch of salt with the whole thing"

But, but, but...I want an Adonis!!!

And I prefer sugar

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man  over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

Despite what ye think, the site isn’t actually that transactional

If someone is seeking a discrete male then bring a discreet male isn’t enough, it’s all about chit chat

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By *tranTV/TS  over a year ago

City

I cant give unsolicited advice on your or anyone elses profile, it's against rules and I am not popular enough to get away with breaking rules.

I can say, just use the site as it is intended. Read and look at profiles that attract you.

1) Do they have a lot of meets? Then they want someone sociable who will meet short notice for them, and give them notice of meets. If not, they want to meet higher quality but less often

2) Do they suck dick bare/unprotected sex. Then park your morals at the door and do not be judgmental. You need to be up for fun, party, and let go.

3) Read through their veris, often what they say on their profile wont match the people who verifi them, but you can learn. Are they verified by party animals jumping from bed to bed, drug users, people who can string a sentence of english? professionals, blank discreet profiles, the type that will host or travel at short notice?

If you're a,b,c and a,y,z is on their profile they wont reply just cause you matched a. You can either become a,y,z if thats the most popular combination, or look for a lower return of a,b,c matches.

Since covid, the most popular range of attributes have been Non Judgemental, Willing to travel and host, party, fun types - If you meet this then you wont even need good grasp of english in your profile etc.

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

I haven't given any thought to getting replies in more than 2 years.

I put the effort into my profile and forum engagement and let others find me.

Might not suit everyone but it works for me even without the 10 inch dick and looking like Adonis' much older brother

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By *tinerant scribeMan  over a year ago

County Durham

I agree: forum engagement is key. It's a chat in the open and a better suggestion of who you are. Certain DMs out of the blue look like copy-and-pasted sexual phishing.

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By *umon337Man  over a year ago

Offaly

As with dating apps, there is a disproportionate amount of men to women so it's generally harder to get noticed for men. It is frustrating but it's not impossible tho and I've had some lovely and sexy chats here.

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By *uddleboycharlieMan  over a year ago

swords

From this I think I put in the effort it's just my profile isn't good enough or I'm physically not the type for a lot of people

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By *on Draper2.0Man  over a year ago

Maynooth


"As said already . Most guys have similar experience with being responded too or not etc

the ratio with males to females for hetrosexual guys is about 6-7 to 1...it it was reverse guys would be the same and worse

Have a look at your profile bio and pics ....no one has to have a body like the statue of David to get chatting here or meets for that matter..it helps but beauty is only skin deep remember

In my experience having the ability to make someone laugh and have fun outside of any meet has generated more meets and positive experiences than looking like the Greek adonis mentioned..

A pinch of salt with the whole thing

Mr L , you are absolutely correct a pretty face will of course draw you in but it won't keep you!!

"

A pretty face has no bearing on whether I am willing to talk to someone or not. I have, once or twice, been on the receiving end of an unsolicited messages from both men and women but I will always reply out of courtesy. Why gay guys proposition men with no indication that they are bi or gay is another thread entirely but, I feel they are at least entitled to positivity and manners.

I do wish more ladies were capable of seeing past my underwear but alas, my block list grows daily.

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By *issme39Woman  over a year ago

kildare


"As said already . Most guys have similar experience with being responded too or not etc

the ratio with males to females for hetrosexual guys is about 6-7 to 1...it it was reverse guys would be the same and worse

Have a look at your profile bio and pics ....no one has to have a body like the statue of David to get chatting here or meets for that matter..it helps but beauty is only skin deep remember

In my experience having the ability to make someone laugh and have fun outside of any meet has generated more meets and positive experiences than looking like the Greek adonis mentioned..

A pinch of salt with the whole thing

Mr L , you are absolutely correct a pretty face will of course draw you in but it won't keep you!!

A pretty face has no bearing on whether I am willing to talk to someone or not. I have, once or twice, been on the receiving end of an unsolicited messages from both men and women but I will always reply out of courtesy. Why gay guys proposition men with no indication that they are bi or gay is another thread entirely but, I feel they are at least entitled to positivity and manners.

I do wish more ladies were capable of seeing past my underwear but alas, my block list grows daily."

I don't think it's your underwear that's the problem to be honest...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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I don't know maybe its just me, but its impossible to get a response to a mail these days. You see profiles where they ask you to put some effort into a message, and when you do its the same response as if you didn't. Like sometimes your emails aren't even read, aaaagh so annoying.

Right that's my Sunday morning rant done, good to get it off my chest, must go now and buy a male sex toy

Wasn't it always like this I very rarely get a response think most guys are the same, unless you have the body of a Greek adonis with a 10 inch dick you'll be pushed to 1 side, women are not looking for average men that's the whole point in going online, they can find an average man anywhere.. "

Same could be said about the men looking for women, going by some of the messages I've got and seen that other women have gotten.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As said already . Most guys have similar experience with being responded too or not etc

the ratio with males to females for hetrosexual guys is about 6-7 to 1...it it was reverse guys would be the same and worse

Have a look at your profile bio and pics ....no one has to have a body like the statue of David to get chatting here or meets for that matter..it helps but beauty is only skin deep remember

In my experience having the ability to make someone laugh and have fun outside of any meet has generated more meets and positive experiences than looking like the Greek adonis mentioned..

A pinch of salt with the whole thing

"

100% if I'm going to get naked and have some horizontal and vertical fun with a guy it will happen a lot quicker if he can make me laugh

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