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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Forget all the dating apps. Does anyone actually miss dating? Getting ready, having to be somewhere at a certain time. Does anyone bother with dating? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought I did until I started again and I realised no, it is absolutely not for me. I love meeting people and hitting it off, but more spontaneously than arranging to meet |
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I miss going out and meeting people and from there planning something. Been years and years and yearsince I did. Dosnt have to be fancy, not gone on fancy, but getting to know someone, face to face. Those were the good ole days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Forget all the dating apps. Does anyone actually miss dating? Getting ready, having to be somewhere at a certain time. Does anyone bother with dating? "
I don't miss it at all tbh, hate .. absolutely hate having my life put into a " time frame " where you " have " to be somewhere and dressed like something you actually hate , gone way past all that , we will all pop our clogs , no doubt about that but while you can LIVE YOUR LIFE the exact way you WANT to , and Dating is not for me ,to be shot down by someone who thinks they are better than you ? No thanks , if it happens it'll happen spontaneously if it dont , hey ..big swing .  |
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"Forget all the dating apps. Does anyone actually miss dating? Getting ready, having to be somewhere at a certain time. Does anyone bother with dating? "
We call those things socials and we do them all the time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I absolutely love going on dates! Not much opportunity for them up here alas but yeah, I love the anticipation and then getting to know someone new for a little while  |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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Like with everything, I miss the positives you get from dating but not the negatives. Enjoy dating apps for casual encounters but much prefer meeting someone in natural settings for anything more serious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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love dating, its wonderfull to speak to people who have passions (of the non sexual kind)and are really exited about something.listening to that is always great.. as is sharing |
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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago
Youghal |
We still try to have a date night once a week. Even if we don't go out, or the kids are here. We'll get dressed up, put music on, open wine and cook dinner together. But going out for a meal is still great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Forget all the dating apps. Does anyone actually miss dating? Getting ready, having to be somewhere at a certain time. Does anyone bother with dating? "
The purpose of the dating apps is to go on dates though, right? Have I been doing this wrong? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never been on a date in my life
Casey or Lee?
Me neither
Casey"
I think I would spontaneously combust if I went on one
Similar reaction to entering a church |
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"I've never been on a date in my life
Casey or Lee?
Me neither
Casey
I think I would spontaneously combust if I went on one
Similar reaction to entering a church"
Think I would equate modern dating to traversing a minefield. Blindfolded. On a space hopper. And I’d rather do that to be honest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never been on a date in my life
Casey or Lee?
Me neither
Casey
I think I would spontaneously combust if I went on one
Similar reaction to entering a church
Think I would equate modern dating to traversing a minefield. Blindfolded. On a space hopper. And I’d rather do that to be honest "
Come bounce with me |
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By *ex0x28Man
over a year ago
the middle |
Love going on dates, that pre buzz just before you head off
Dating sites/apps that’s another story, having the same conversation over and over!!! it gets tiring!! Maybe that’s where I’m going wrong  need to stop having the same conversation over and over |
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"I've never been on a date in my life
Casey or Lee?
Me neither
Casey
I think I would spontaneously combust if I went on one
Similar reaction to entering a church
Think I would equate modern dating to traversing a minefield. Blindfolded. On a space hopper. And I’d rather do that to be honest
Come bounce with me "
Think that’s an offer I’d like to accept |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats a date.......in your opinion "
A date is where two people meet to meet each other ( or couples meet ) but to meet each other is a date ..to me anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dating and ”Coortin” is for young uns….. when you get to a certain age meeting a person of the opposite sex is more of an “appointment”…. Then, when you get there she spends more time checking her phone than having a right aul chin wag you feel like a right dick!! ??
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Dating and ”Coortin” is for young uns….. when you get to a certain age meeting a person of the opposite sex is more of an “appointment”…. Then, when you get there she spends more time checking her phone than having a right aul chin wag you feel like a right dick!! ??
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Wouldn't stay....to be honest |
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"Dating and ”Coortin” is for young uns….. when you get to a certain age meeting a person of the opposite sex is more of an “appointment”…. Then, when you get there she spends more time checking her phone than having a right aul chin wag you feel like a right dick!! ??
Wouldn't stay....to be honest "
Agree. That's pure rudeness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dating and ”Coortin” is for young uns….. when you get to a certain age meeting a person of the opposite sex is more of an “appointment”…. Then, when you get there she spends more time checking her phone than having a right aul chin wag you feel like a right dick!! ??
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Get up and leave if someone is that ignorant  |
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"Dating and ”Coortin” is for young uns….. when you get to a certain age meeting a person of the opposite sex is more of an “appointment”…. Then, when you get there she spends more time checking her phone than having a right aul chin wag you feel like a right dick!! ??
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I'd leave why sit there ? |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Dating and ”Coortin” is for young uns….. when you get to a certain age meeting a person of the opposite sex is more of an “appointment”…. Then, when you get there she spends more time checking her phone than having a right aul chin wag you feel like a right dick!! ??
I'd leave why sit there ? "
I would leave as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does a coffee date from here count?
Not in my book 
You must have have some book
It fits neatly in my handbag "
So you must have some book and some handbag .. anything else to declare |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do but it's rare i go on one these days just because i have given up on romance tbh. It's seriously lack these days or maybe it's just me who this like this. |
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It’s not just you CCC. I love a bit of romance but agree it’s seriously lacking. Now I’m very aware of the site I’m on and romance isn’t necessarily why people are here. I was just speaking generally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do but it's rare i go on one these days just because i have given up on romance tbh. It's seriously lack these days or maybe it's just me who this like this. "
A cynic might suggest that now that women are "giving it up" for free, men see no need to engage in the charade of romancing them in order to get into their knickers.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s not just you CCC. I love a bit of romance but agree it’s seriously lacking. Now I’m very aware of the site I’m on and romance isn’t necessarily why people are here. I was just speaking generally."
It's the same on all dating sites sex sex sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do but it's rare i go on one these days just because i have given up on romance tbh. It's seriously lack these days or maybe it's just me who this like this.
A cynic might suggest that now that women are "giving it up" for free, men see no need to engage in the charade of romancing them in order to get into their knickers.... "
The longest I got regular chat without sex talk was a few days on the dating scene. So basically trying to sex chat before first date after I had specifically stated on my bio if it's just sex your after am hot interested. I gave the sites up a few years now because basically it's the same as here most just want sex. I love someone who can't entertain my brain (well what's left of it lol) not just my body. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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What about meets that are longer and involve more than just sex....I prefer going for a walk on a beach or in the countryside drinks,dinner and then both up to a hotel room to stay overnight
Not a date but not just a meet and go
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about meets that are longer and involve more than just sex....I prefer going for a walk on a beach or in the countryside drinks,dinner and then both up to a hotel room to stay overnight
Not a date but not just a meet and go
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I was just trying to think of the last time something like this happened and i actually cannot remember. I have done it but just to share a room no sex included. I haven't met someone click enough with yet. I couldn't just sleep with anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about meets that are longer and involve more than just sex....I prefer going for a walk on a beach or in the countryside drinks,dinner and then both up to a hotel room to stay overnight
Not a date but not just a meet and go
I was just trying to think of the last time something like this happened and i actually cannot remember. I have done it but just to share a room no sex included. I haven't met someone click enough with yet. I couldn't just sleep with anyone. "
It's all to do with the " click " , it is the site it is but the bottom line is if you don't " click " with someone then it's futile , why should a woman or a man meet someone and just have sex with them without having something in common , they can if they both want to just fuck , absolutely , there's nothing stopping them but some people want more and won't just give it up to anyone , it's an individual thing , fuck if you wanna fuck , if you want something more well then wait for the " click " . |
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I've absolutely no interest in dating haven't done for sometime life is so much easier living the single life no stress or ppl messing with your head! I've plenty of fabfriends to meet up with and am happy enough with that!
Xx cj xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've absolutely no interest in dating haven't done for sometime life is so much easier living the single life no stress or ppl messing with your head! I've plenty of fabfriends to meet up with and am happy enough with that!
Xx cj xx "
This is my current conclusion aswell but it still doesn't stop me naturally lusting sometimes. |
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"What about meets that are longer and involve more than just sex....I prefer going for a walk on a beach or in the countryside drinks,dinner and then both up to a hotel room to stay overnight
Not a date but not just a meet and go
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Same. I have to know them a bit and like them enough to have good company. |
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