Time, responsibilities, priorities and not putting myself out there, maybe.. Been burned badly before.
I know what a relationship entails and it's not an inviting prospect right now..
Physical perks are all I seek! |
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over a year ago
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I've finally reached the stage where I enjoy being single and am not interested in any kind of relationship
I don't like people very much and have become even less tolerant after the last couple of years |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
Cause I’m a bitch? 
Because I want to be at the moment. There’s parts of my mind and behaviours I want to work on before bringing another person back into the mix. I want to be fully happy being alone and doing things alone before I use someone else as a crutch again.
But also, cause I’m a bitch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single since July and while I miss certain aspects of being in a relationship, I'm also loving the freedom that comes with being able to make decisions and have them only affect myself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Personally I’ve gotten used to being on my own, making my own decisions and doing everything I need to myself. I’ve also never put myself in a position to meet someone and I’m ugly! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because I’m ugly….
I doubt that's true 
No he really really is "
Considering you’ve got 5 verts I’d love it if there was more people with bad eye sight living near me to. Lol |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"Because I’m ugly….
I doubt that's true
No he really really is "
Ms Lolly, my own personal filter…..
Thanks Lolly, that should keep me messages down to a more manageable level for a while…..XX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Time, responsibilities, priorities and not putting myself out there, maybe.. Been burned badly before.
I know what a relationship entails and it's not an inviting prospect right now..
Physical perks are all I seek! "
Say it again for people in the back..! |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"Because I’m ugly….
I doubt that's true
No he really really is
Ms Lolly, my own personal filter…..
Thanks Lolly, that should keep me messages down to a more manageable level for a while…..XX "
Welcome bud you scratch my back ill scratch yours  |
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I'm another bitch who likes doing my own thing and values my alone time. I am focusing on other things for now, selfish things. I wouldn't completely write off having a relationship in the future, but I won't be settling just to be coupled up. |
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"Time, responsibilities, priorities and not putting myself out there, maybe.. Been burned badly before.
I know what a relationship entails and it's not an inviting prospect right now..
Physical perks are all I seek! "
100% the same Miss Reverie, physical perks and naked hugs are all that's missing and required |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am fiercely independent owned and operated. Like to do my own thing way too much and need plenty of me time to read, to introspect and to wonder at nature, to pursue my various hobbies and interests and hang out with all my weird and wonderful friends. Was seeing someone semi-seriously for a few months, but when she began with the usual drama and playing mind games shit testing, I lost interest entirely and dropped off the radar went no contact. At this stage of my life I am far happier on my own . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just got so used to being on me own I think that I never really looked for a relationship plus I'm ugly as well..  "
Hun I fucking love ya and forgive me for being so blunt but fuck off :P You're gorgeous with the most amazing eyes and your shift and drift method is bettered by no-one xxx |
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Freedom, independence, the protection from emotional pain & heartaches, the ability to do whatever I like whenever I want and the absence of nagging, mind games and the tedious sex life every relationship eventually end up with are all appealing reasons to stay away from relationships.
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Plus, in all the relationships I got involved in I genuinely, by the nature of my personality and upbringing, gave it the all 100+% care, attention, cherishing, transparency and loyalty, which always always always led to being taken for granted by the other sides who (all no exception) somehow started to think and eventually believe that it is normal and okay to receive all this and Not reciprocate.
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The only two downsides of the single life are the occasional lonely nights and the inability to take someone on wild holidays in the sun, but I can live happily with that and this is when fab comes in handy.
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I wish I could find an extremely open minded and pragmatic fellow fabber who is in a similar place in life and who would consider and appreciate teaming up to form an equal partnership of a reciprocally fulfilling nature that could provide a level of emotional security as well as the endless opportunities of enjoying and savouring the temporary thrill and physical pleasure that the fab lifestyle could have on the card. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Freedom, independence, the protection from emotional pain & heartaches, the ability to do whatever I like whenever I want and the absence of nagging, mind games and the tedious sex life every relationship eventually end up with are all appealing reasons to stay away from relationships.
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Plus, in all the relationships I got involved in I genuinely, by the nature of my personality and upbringing, gave it the all 100+% care, attention, cherishing, transparency and loyalty, which always always always led to being taken for granted by the other sides who (all no exception) somehow started to think and eventually believe that it is normal and okay to receive all this and Not reciprocate.
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The only two downsides of the single life are the occasional lonely nights and the inability to take someone on wild holidays in the sun, but I can live happily with that and this is when fab comes in handy.
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I wish I could find an extremely open minded and pragmatic fellow fabber who is in a similar place in life and who would consider and appreciate teaming up to form an equal partnership of a reciprocally fulfilling nature that could provide a level of emotional security as well as the endless opportunities of enjoying and savouring the temporary thrill and physical pleasure that the fab lifestyle could have on the card."
what an answer  |
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Been single pretty much for the last 10yrs. It’s heaven not having to be considerate of another persons wants bad enough with the kids  I can’t see myself ever being in a relationship again! Only thing I miss is regular sex |
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Am single because I absolutely love being single after dating and relationships since I was 16 I've decided the one for me is me!!
I don't need to be in a relationship to feel complete and I won't settle with anyone just to say I have someone...am happy in my own wee bubble and its great and wouldn't like it any other way to be honest!
Ppl don't get it but I'd rather be single the rest of my days than fight for someone elses attention and loyally...
I prefar the uncomplicated single life over any relationship anyday..
Xx cj xx |
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"Am single because I absolutely love being single after dating and relationships since I was 16 I've decided the one for me is me!!
I don't need to be in a relationship to feel complete and I won't settle with anyone just to say I have someone...am happy in my own wee bubble and its great and wouldn't like it any other way to be honest!
Ppl don't get it but I'd rather be single the rest of my days than fight for someone elses attention and loyally...
I prefar the uncomplicated single life over any relationship anyday..
Xx cj xx "
I love this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Married young and gave it my best shot for over 20 yrs ,walked away and apart from a few relationships I've been single 10 yrs ,I like my own company and the older I become the less bullshit or nonsense I'll put up with , so crazy cat lady it is . |
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