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In general, I'm a slow starter...I tend to dip my toes and wade in very, very, very slowly rather than just jumping in the deep end.
Motivation - but when I do find it, finishing what I started...
Always that fear of the unknown, taking myself out of the comfort zone... |
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"Motivation is pants at moment
I trust people too much
Not valuing my self worth more"
Motivation is a tough one alright… I think we’re all a bit withered from the last cpl years!!! But hang in there… as the days get longer and the sun shines that Vitamin D hit will work wonders (well as much as it can in Ireland  )
Stay strong!! You are a beautiful & fun woman…
Being trustful isn’t a failing…. It’s a gift that others can abuse at times but that’s their failing… not yours xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Motivation is pants at moment
I trust people too much
Not valuing my self worth more"
Motivation is cyclical. It'll come back.
Trust is not a bad thing. Better than cynicism.
I agree on self worth. That's a tough cookie to crack. |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
Not having enough mirrors in house to make me realise how far Covid, WFH and beer have made me, so I have the motivation to do something about it.
Time for a mirror on the fridge in my house  |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
I personally do not regard the following as a failing, in fact I regard it as a positive trait, but those who know me say that I am much too honest, excessively forthright and frankly, blunt; to the point of offending people, although that is neither my objective nor intent.
I abhor any form of lies, obfuscation, dishonesty, trickery and falsehood.
I would be a nightmare in any situation requiring tact, diplomacy and nuance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Biggest failing ?...here's a few ,
..too shy
.. putting my trust in people..( wrong people l suppose )
..self worth
..holding the door all the time instead of going in and taking a seat ( lm talking about life in general )
I could go on but l won't if you could click on any of the above they would open up way more times. I have been told to " man up " more than a few times, once in particular and it hurt simply because it's just the way lm wired, I'd rather someone else got it than me , suppose that's what happens when you're not greedy or feel entitled to something , greedy and entitled are simply not in my vocabulary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Taking everything to heart, the feeling of being let down awalys,so tend to do things on my terms,heird a great saying lately, always expect disappoint then you never get disappointed... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being too independent of others
That's not a failing....
I'm fiercely independent after being let down too often"
I see it as a failing, I'm too happy in my own company, so I can neglect to nurture my relationships, I have to remind myself to make the effort. |
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Thinking im not good enough and when rejection comes, taking it to heart as a confirmation im not good enough...
body issues that still make me not able to look in a mirror somedays
And trusting too much, giving all of myself hoping for a piece of love or affection back...
Oh and cake....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always having an opinion, don't like bn told I can't do something .then I do d opposite ect ect long list lol R x"
Well I hate to break it too you so but you can't have sex with me then  |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
"Being too independent of others
That's not a failing....
I'm fiercely independent after being let down too often
I see it as a failing, I'm too happy in my own company, so I can neglect to nurture my relationships, I have to remind myself to make the effort. "
That's a real virtue, in my opinion; don't try to fight it! |
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"Not thinking I'm good enough 
I know I'm biased but I think you're pretty fuckin amazing and more than good enough....
I know I'm a very lucky lady to have met you xxx"
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OMG. Sob. **clutches pearls**  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Not thinking I'm good enough
I know I'm biased but I think you're pretty fuckin amazing and more than good enough....
I know I'm a very lucky lady to have met you xxxm
OMG. Sob. **clutches pearl necklace ** "
Fixed that for ya Red
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"Not thinking I'm good enough
I know I'm biased but I think you're pretty fuckin amazing and more than good enough....
I know I'm a very lucky lady to have met you xxxm
OMG. Sob. **clutches pearl necklace **
Fixed that bed for ya
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Fixed that for ya Bog |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
"Overthinking and letting things stew until I explode. "
That's a surprising revelation;
I would have thought that your education and experience would have encouraged you to display a more modulated approach to issues that inevitably arise in life!
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