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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I accidentally found some one here from my work! We even exchanged numbers...had chat for a while...when saw eachothers faces....both get stunned and totally ignoring eachother now...The things is we haven't blocked eachother yet...any suggestions....obviously i will keep this secret of her with me forever......

Please advice xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Leave her alone, plenty more fish in the fab sea

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By *ot so Scary spiceWoman over a year ago

southside

There’s another going here today, you know you’re Irish when…..

Just pretend it never happened and continue as such!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

eeek awkward

i wouldnt know what to do

could you message her and say you were taken by surprise? and decide together how to proceed?

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By *ungry CatCouple over a year ago

Belfast

I've been contacted by lots of ex and current at the time co workers over the years.

Most of them automatically assumed that because I'm on fab - I'll be up for having sex with them.

The way I see it - if there wasn't any chemistry before - being on fab won't create it.

One got so disappointed- he told everyone he knows that I'm now a prostitute on fab

My genuine advice - don't fuck with co workers. Never a good end.

Missus

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By *exesrangerMan over a year ago

city

Oh that's awkward

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been contacted by lots of ex and current at the time co workers over the years.

Most of them automatically assumed that because I'm on fab - I'll be up for having sex with them.

The way I see it - if there wasn't any chemistry before - being on fab won't create it.

One got so disappointed- he told everyone he knows that I'm now a prostitute on fab

My genuine advice - don't fuck with co workers. Never a good end.

Missus "

Don't shit where you eat is always a good guideline

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thats what we doing ignoring each others....but its awkward...nobody at work knows that we are on fab...thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thats horrible...i would never do something like that....we just not talking at all even ignoring eachothers and i have huge workplace so chances are few than our path cross on regular basis...thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for the wise advice...thats what we exactly doing.xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not he same but I kinda outed myself in work.

They were standing discussing swingers parties, of course I opened my mouth and said "none of the ones I've been at have been like that"

So all attention was now on me lol

No point in playing shy after that. To be fair after a few days it's was yesterday's chip paper as they say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's not he same but I kinda outed myself in work.

They were standing discussing swingers parties, of course I opened my mouth and said "none of the ones I've been at have been like that"

So all attention was now on me lol

No point in playing shy after that. To be fair after a few days it's was yesterday's chip paper as they say."

Thanks.. i guess by time things will get less awkward

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

Op I also think it would be best to block her ....by not blocking each other do you think you're leaving a future meet on the table

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

All sorted guys thank you all for your precious advises.. we had a word...was little awkward in the beginning but we are good now....although we are responsible adults who can hold secrets

xx have a great long long weeknd...

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By *agherafeltmanMan over a year ago

magherafelt

I'll nearly swear that I've seen someone on here who's kids go to the same primary school as mine. I'd never say anything but at the same time I'd love to meet with them as the Mrs is hot. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I accidentally found some one here from my work! We even exchanged numbers...had chat for a while...when saw eachothers faces....both get stunned and totally ignoring eachother now...The things is we haven't blocked eachother yet...any suggestions....obviously i will keep this secret of her with me forever......

Please advice xx"

Just a question did you swap face pics at the same time ? Why would someone send a face pic to some they work with after seeing there’s ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Leave her alone, plenty more fish in the fab sea"

Lol no there’s not

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Leave her alone, plenty more fish in the fab sea

Lol no there’s not

There are trust me...

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By *ogladyWoman over a year ago

The bog

A few of my co worker's know I'm in here I've even put a few of them on here

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

"A few of my co worker's know I'm in here I've even put a few of them on here

Waiting on your poster to go up on the wall in head office to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Please advice xx

Just a question did you swap face pics at the same time ? Why would someone send a face pic to some they work with after seeing there’s ? "

We swapped phone numbers watsapp...there was no pic of mine on my display but she had...but you know people look bit different from pics and real life....she had her old pic and i didnt recognize...her...after few chats i put my pic and she call my full name....thats how it started....

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By *ogladyWoman over a year ago

The bog

"A few of my co worker's know I'm in here I've even put a few of them on here

Waiting on your poster to go up on the wall in head office to be honest

One of the head office lads was on here

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By *atekeeperAndKeymasterCouple over a year ago

Derry/Donegal

That’s genuinely my worst nightmare . I’d die

I’d leave that one . Plenty of others to play with

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have met one guy I worked with, not worth the hassle.

Now if I come across someone I know I just block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Leave her alone, plenty more fish in the fab sea"

All sorted she asked me to say thanks to you for taking her side...she might contact you...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There’s another going here today, you know you’re Irish when…..

Just pretend it never happened and continue as such!!"

Sorted!

thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"eeek awkward

i wouldnt know what to do

could you message her and say you were taken by surprise? and decide together how to proceed?"

Thanks...its sorted now...how can i forget that she have access to this forum aswell lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've been contacted by lots of ex and current at the time co workers over the years.

Most of them automatically assumed that because I'm on fab - I'll be up for having sex with them.

The way I see it - if there wasn't any chemistry before - being on fab won't create it.

One got so disappointed- he told everyone he knows that I'm now a prostitute on fab

My genuine advice - don't fuck with co workers. Never a good end.

Missus

Don't shit where you eat is always a good guideline

Good lines i will use them somewhere lol..its sorted now we are good xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'll nearly swear that I've seen someone on here who's kids go to the same primary school as mine. I'd never say anything but at the same time I'd love to meet with them as the Mrs is hot. Lol"

See its a small world...its all about how to handle the situation...what i learned from this is stressing about anything is not the option..

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By *ubal1Man over a year ago

Newry Down

Steer clear of this situation; until one of you moves to another company or another separate location, and then your liaisons could resume.

There would be a lot to talk about, at least in the short-term.

Swinging, despite what is said, is still stigmatised in this conservative place

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A few of my co worker's know I'm in here I've even put a few of them on here

You are bold xx i am just new here....probably will take some time to be confident like you...

you doing well x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Please advice xx"

She probably thinks you now see her as a totally sex crazy female, personally l would write to her here and explain the situation to her , she needs to know that because she's on fab that you don't see her any differently...my opinion anyway , what's important , l think anyway , is that it's doesn't fester with her thinking one thing and you another.

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By *ancy38Woman over a year ago

galway

Please advice xx

Just a question did you swap face pics at the same time ? Why would someone send a face pic to some they work with after seeing there’s ? "

You make an agreement thst if one knows each other, they still have to send face pics. That's how I've did it and it turned out we did know each other. We are grown up adults here for the same reason a d if someone sends me a fave pic first and I know them, I would never just block them and not tell them who I was. I just don't think that's right.

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By *dfabMan over a year ago

Dunboyne

Please advice xx

Just a question did you swap face pics at the same time ? Why would someone send a face pic to some they work with after seeing there’s ?

Good attitude

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By *dfabMan over a year ago

Dunboyne

"eeek awkward

i wouldnt know what to do

could you message her and say you were taken by surprise? and decide together how to proceed?