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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was jus thinking earlier, that no matter how good ur sex life is with ur partner, even a partner with same sex drive & interests as u...nothing beats the sex & excitement of a Fab meet...& that is the Fab addiction...
how do u giv Fab up...
can you both be on Fab..
for it to work do you need a fab partner that can share. |
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For me, the "addiction" to Fab is more in the virtual world of the Forum or in the chat with like-minded people.
When I have a partner whom I'm content with in my love and sex life, then the excitement over the possibility of a Fab meet is merely enriching and enhancing what I've already got.
When the partner is another Fabber, the hope is that there'll be an open-mindedness to a little more exploration and kink as well as a hope that he's someone who's comfortable talking about fantasies knowing there won't be criticism or judgement. That healthy boundaries are put in place to which both parties are agreeable. That there's a possibility to go exploring fantasies if they involve others, if you are then lucky enough to find those others who are compatible.
Having been in a long, long marriage which was unfulfilling sexually unfortunately, I would not enter an exclusive relationship if the sex wasn't what I need and want.
I certainly wouldn't give up my single's profile now, and I wouldn't expect him to either regardless of the boundaries that are set in a relationship.
A relationship wouldn't happen, with me anyway, if I didn't trust my partner to do right by me, within our agreed boundaries.
In other words, if you have the kind of relationship with your partner, where respect, trust and boundaries are established, why would you need to "give up Fab"?
If my partner said as you did and I quote: "nothing beats the sex & excitement of a Fab meet", then I know, for me, that wouldn't work as a primary relationship because for me a Fab meet is merely there to spice up things a little.
For me personally, no Fab meet will ever beat the sex and excitement that I have in my relationship otherwise I'm in the wrong relationship. A Fab meet is merely the cherry on top...I can take it, or leave it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me, the "addiction" to Fab is more in the virtual world of the Forum or in the chat with like-minded people.
When I have a partner whom I'm content with in my love and sex life, then the excitement over the possibility of a Fab meet is merely enriching and enhancing what I've already got.
When the partner is another Fabber, the hope is that there'll be an open-mindedness to a little more exploration and kink as well as a hope that he's someone who's comfortable talking about fantasies knowing there won't be criticism or judgement. That healthy boundaries are put in place to which both parties are agreeable. That there's a possibility to go exploring fantasies if they involve others, if you are then lucky enough to find those others who are compatible.
Having been in a long, long marriage which was unfulfilling sexually unfortunately, I would not enter an exclusive relationship if the sex wasn't what I need and want.
I certainly wouldn't give up my single's profile now, and I wouldn't expect him to either regardless of the boundaries that are set in a relationship.
A relationship wouldn't happen, with me anyway, if I didn't trust my partner to do right by me, within our agreed boundaries.
In other words, if you have the kind of relationship with your partner, where respect, trust and boundaries are established, why would you need to "give up Fab"?
If my partner said as you did and I quote: "nothing beats the sex & excitement of a Fab meet", then I know, for me, that wouldn't work as a primary relationship because for me a Fab meet is merely there to spice up things a little.
For me personally, no Fab meet will ever beat the sex and excitement that I have in my relationship otherwise I'm in the wrong relationship. A Fab meet is merely the cherry on top...I can take it, or leave it "
How long did it take you to write that..l had to read it in two sessions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was jus thinking earlier, that no matter how good ur sex life is with ur partner, even a partner with same sex drive & interests as u...nothing beats the sex & excitement of a Fab meet...& that is the Fab addiction...
how do u giv Fab up...
can you both be on Fab..
for it to work do you need a fab partner that can share."
Sex both mentally & physically with someone who both " get each other " is wayyyy better than " the sex & excitement of a fab meet " to me anyway , fab is fab but the connection with someone far outweighs fab everytime, for me anyway. |
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"For me, the "addiction" to Fab is more in the virtual world of the Forum or in the chat with like-minded people.
When I have a partner whom I'm content with in my love and sex life, then the excitement over the possibility of a Fab meet is merely enriching and enhancing what I've already got.
When the partner is another Fabber, the hope is that there'll be an open-mindedness to a little more exploration and kink as well as a hope that he's someone who's comfortable talking about fantasies knowing there won't be criticism or judgement. That healthy boundaries are put in place to which both parties are agreeable. That there's a possibility to go exploring fantasies if they involve others, if you are then lucky enough to find those others who are compatible.
Having been in a long, long marriage which was unfulfilling sexually unfortunately, I would not enter an exclusive relationship if the sex wasn't what I need and want.
I certainly wouldn't give up my single's profile now, and I wouldn't expect him to either regardless of the boundaries that are set in a relationship.
A relationship wouldn't happen, with me anyway, if I didn't trust my partner to do right by me, within our agreed boundaries.
In other words, if you have the kind of relationship with your partner, where respect, trust and boundaries are established, why would you need to "give up Fab"?
If my partner said as you did and I quote: "nothing beats the sex & excitement of a Fab meet", then I know, for me, that wouldn't work as a primary relationship because for me a Fab meet is merely there to spice up things a little.
For me personally, no Fab meet will ever beat the sex and excitement that I have in my relationship otherwise I'm in the wrong relationship. A Fab meet is merely the cherry on top...I can take it, or leave it
How long did it take you to write that..l had to read it in two sessions "
Hours...I'm practicing my short stories |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd disagree. Sex with a long term partner is way more likely to lead to decent orgasms all round than fucking randomers off the Internet."
Also agree. Even a regular meet up.
At times a one off can be great too but you're right the more you get together the better you get together  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me, the "addiction" to Fab is more in the virtual world of the Forum or in the chat with like-minded people.
When I have a partner whom I'm content with in my love and sex life, then the excitement over the possibility of a Fab meet is merely enriching and enhancing what I've already got.
When the partner is another Fabber, the hope is that there'll be an open-mindedness to a little more exploration and kink as well as a hope that he's someone who's comfortable talking about fantasies knowing there won't be criticism or judgement. That healthy boundaries are put in place to which both parties are agreeable. That there's a possibility to go exploring fantasies if they involve others, if you are then lucky enough to find those others who are compatible.
Having been in a long, long marriage which was unfulfilling sexually unfortunately, I would not enter an exclusive relationship if the sex wasn't what I need and want.
I certainly wouldn't give up my single's profile now, and I wouldn't expect him to either regardless of the boundaries that are set in a relationship.
A relationship wouldn't happen, with me anyway, if I didn't trust my partner to do right by me, within our agreed boundaries.
In other words, if you have the kind of relationship with your partner, where respect, trust and boundaries are established, why would you need to "give up Fab"?
If my partner said as you did and I quote: "nothing beats the sex & excitement of a Fab meet", then I know, for me, that wouldn't work as a primary relationship because for me a Fab meet is merely there to spice up things a little.
For me personally, no Fab meet will ever beat the sex and excitement that I have in my relationship otherwise I'm in the wrong relationship. A Fab meet is merely the cherry on top...I can take it, or leave it
How long did it take you to write that..l had to read it in two sessions
Hours...I'm practicing my short stories "
Well your practice is paying off |
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