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By *jp80Woman
over a year ago
Dublin |
oh god.. this was not too long ago for me!!! And all I can say is dont be d*unk or have anything that can impair your judgement, meet socially first, and make sure someone else knows who you are meeting and where you are going. My bestie made me turn on my find my iphone app LOL
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
"So… how’d you convince yourself to go thru with that first meet… I mean I know I want to but the nerves have the potential to fuck it all up 
Advise? Experience? Tips?
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Visualize yourself as you walk away from the meet, having conquered your fear and looking forward to the next invitation that will further build your esteem, your experience, your reputation and confidence.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a great feeling but its scary as hell too, keep in touch with the person do if say you've net them socially and now going to have fun together and have made the arrangements, check in that morning, of you travelling a bit let them know you on the road, they will probably be nervous too.
If your early dont start knocking the drink into you.
But most of all enjoy it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So… how’d you convince yourself to go thru with that first meet… I mean I know I want to but the nerves have the potential to fuck it all up
Advise? Experience? Tips?"
The other person might be nervous too, you're a guy , the other person may be a female so she might be nervous too , my advice would be just be yourself  |
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By *rad25irl OP Man
over a year ago
Carrigaline |
"OP, what are you afraid of exactly? "
“Afraid” is probably not the right word… it is only a social meet in a public place so not afraid as such.
Just a bit nervous & out of my comfort zone finally putting myself out there and taking the plunge & next step towards fulfilling a fantasy / life goal.
And thanks to all for response. I did particularly like the advice saying to visualise leaving & feeling great having face the fear & conquering it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, what are you afraid of exactly?
“Afraid” is probably not the right word… it is only a social meet in a public place so not afraid as such.
Just a bit nervous & out of my comfort zone finally putting myself out there and taking the plunge & next step towards fulfilling a fantasy / life goal.
And thanks to all for response. I did particularly like the advice saying to visualise leaving & feeling great having face the fear & conquering it!!"
Best of luck!! |
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"So… how’d you convince yourself to go thru with that first meet… I mean I know I want to but the nerves have the potential to fuck it all up
Advise? Experience? Tips?"
It's perfectly fine to be nervous. She is probably more nervous about meeting a new man. If you're nervous it means you care and you're are showing a part of the real you. Be nervous about meeting her but don't be anxious about showing it. |
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By *4guy1Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
"So… how’d you convince yourself to go thru with that first meet… I mean I know I want to but the nerves have the potential to fuck it all up
Advise? Experience? Tips?
It's perfectly fine to be nervous. She is probably more nervous about meeting a new man. If you're nervous it means you care and you're are showing a part of the real you. Be nervous about meeting her but don't be anxious about showing it."
Very well put…. |
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By *rad25irl OP Man
over a year ago
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"So… how’d you convince yourself to go thru with that first meet… I mean I know I want to but the nerves have the potential to fuck it all up
Advise? Experience? Tips?
It's perfectly fine to be nervous. She is probably more nervous about meeting a new man. If you're nervous it means you care and you're are showing a part of the real you. Be nervous about meeting her but don't be anxious about showing it."
Thanks… I’m actually meeting the male of a cpl to see if I’m “compatible “ I guess..
Also quite conscious they are possibly going to see this thread… which is another useful kick in the arse for me to make sure I go thru with it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So… how’d you convince yourself to go thru with that first meet… I mean I know I want to but the nerves have the potential to fuck it all up
Advise? Experience? Tips?
It's perfectly fine to be nervous. She is probably more nervous about meeting a new man. If you're nervous it means you care and you're are showing a part of the real you. Be nervous about meeting her but don't be anxious about showing it.
Thanks… I’m actually meeting the male of a cpl to see if I’m “compatible “ I guess..
Also quite conscious they are possibly going to see this thread… which is another useful kick in the arse for me to make sure I go thru with it "
Hmm, anyone else spot a potential red flag here? I hope this couple is well verified as male and female both turning up for meets OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes they have a good few veris….from both males & couples "
OK, that's good, wouldn't be our dynamic but so long as they appear to genuinely be an MF couple |
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By *rad25irl OP Man
over a year ago
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"Yes they have a good few veris….from both males & couples
OK, that's good, wouldn't be our dynamic but so long as they appear to genuinely be an MF couple "
Cool thanks…and sure if I’m in Galway anytime we can for sure do it your way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes they have a good few veris….from both males & couples
OK, that's good, wouldn't be our dynamic but so long as they appear to genuinely be an MF couple
Cool thanks…and sure if I’m in Galway anytime we can for sure do it your way "
Over the nerves already I see  |
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By *rad25irl OP Man
over a year ago
Carrigaline |
"Yes they have a good few veris….from both males & couples
OK, that's good, wouldn't be our dynamic but so long as they appear to genuinely be an MF couple
Cool thanks…and sure if I’m in Galway anytime we can for sure do it your way
Over the nerves already I see "
 
Well I’m hoping to be well over them by time I make it to Galway for sure |
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"For me I’m like a duck paddling up stream, while all may appear relatively calm on the surface, underneath there can sometimes be a lot going on….."
I'll refrain from commenting, seriously biting my tongue here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me I’m like a duck paddling up stream, while all may appear relatively calm on the surface, underneath there can sometimes be a lot going on…..
I'll refrain from commenting, seriously biting my tongue here "
I assume he's referring to the party in his pants |
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"So… how’d you convince yourself to go thru with that first meet… I mean I know I want to but the nerves have the potential to fuck it all up
Advise? Experience? Tips?
It's perfectly fine to be nervous. She is probably more nervous about meeting a new man. If you're nervous it means you care and you're are showing a part of the real you. Be nervous about meeting her but don't be anxious about showing it.
Thanks… I’m actually meeting the male of a cpl to see if I’m “compatible “ I guess..
Also quite conscious they are possibly going to see this thread… which is another useful kick in the arse for me to make sure I go thru with it "
Interview nerves... just be yourself OP. It's Fab, it's supposed to be fun, not life or death.
No expectations, that's my advice.
I hope it works out the way you'd like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah like a band aid just get it done, saying that I came in literally seconds , would have loved to have more time to play with her and cum again but unfortunately we didn't:0( |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"For me I’m like a duck paddling up stream, while all may appear relatively calm on the surface, underneath there can sometimes be a lot going on…..
I'll refrain from commenting, seriously biting my tongue here
I assume he's referring to the party in his pants"
Ducks don’t wear pants…..
But feel free to express your thoughts ladies….. |
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By *rad25irl OP Man
over a year ago
Carrigaline |
"So… how’d you convince yourself to go thru with that first meet… I mean I know I want to but the nerves have the potential to fuck it all up
Advise? Experience? Tips?
It's perfectly fine to be nervous. She is probably more nervous about meeting a new man. If you're nervous it means you care and you're are showing a part of the real you. Be nervous about meeting her but don't be anxious about showing it.
Thanks… I’m actually meeting the male of a cpl to see if I’m “compatible “ I guess..
Also quite conscious they are possibly going to see this thread… which is another useful kick in the arse for me to make sure I go thru with it
Interview nerves... just be yourself OP. It's Fab, it's supposed to be fun, not life or death.
No expectations, that's my advice.
I hope it works out the way you'd like."
Thanks A La Carte - the feedback and support is definitely helping! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It only becomes complicated when over think it OP. Just show up and see what happens. If there is a mutual attraction with this person, it will become apparent soon enough if not don't be afraid to walk away.
Also I wouldn't be fazed by anyone who has dozens of glowing verifications, as people on a swinging site just love to fuck. |
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"For me I’m like a duck paddling up stream, while all may appear relatively calm on the surface, underneath there can sometimes be a lot going on….."
Some mother fuckers are always trying to ice skate uphill! |
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By *rad25irl OP Man
over a year ago
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"It only becomes complicated when over think it OP. Just show up and see what happens. If there is a mutual attraction with this person, it will become apparent soon enough if not don't be afraid to walk away.
Also I wouldn't be fazed by anyone who has dozens of glowing verifications, as people on a swinging site just love to fuck. "
Cheers bud! Sure we’ll give it a whirl anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It only becomes complicated when over think it OP. Just show up and see what happens. If there is a mutual attraction with this person, it will become apparent soon enough if not don't be afraid to walk away.
Also I wouldn't be fazed by anyone who has dozens of glowing verifications, as people on a swinging site just love to fuck. "
Some of them just love coffee |
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