Just do what feels right.
Obviously you will be on different levels with different people, so there's no rule fits all.
My best advice is not to expect a bj and drink coffee in actual coffee shop and not in car parks (this crap is being suggested by way too many men  ) |
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Handshake a little formal for a Fab social 
I (herself) go by instinct. Really depends on how long, how detailed been chatting, what the first impression is when actually seeing someone in person.
But a "hi, lovely to meet you" is generally a good way to go  .
It also depends on how they carry themselves and approach me.
With some people there's just absolutely no inclination to go in for a hug or peck on the cheek, never mind the intimacy of lips!!! With others, a hug is absolutely welcomed 
Possibly a little more difficult for a man, what with boundaries and all... definitely no one fits all situation! |
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"Depends on how the chats went IMO. I’ve had meets where the guy is way WAY hotter than his photos and I’ve wanted to hop him.
Sometimes it’s just a hiya! Sometimes it’s a kiss on the cheek! "
I know what you mean 
Youll probably know from how the conversation has gone on here or other platforms.
Usually a hug and kiss on the cheeky for me  |
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Usually a handshake and peck on the cheek. The latter is important so you know they smell nice.
Had a couple of Covid times coffee meets where there was zero contact lol
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Most coffee socials I have had usually shake hands and just chat however was one where we had chatted for a while and as soon as we met we kissed, hasn't happened since. Has been a hug at times but again been chatting for a while. |
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Any ive had is usually, "Hello, how are you? Thanks for coming" then see how the chat goes. Some really nice gents asked permission to give a hug and kiss. And if they didnt and i liked them enough then i asked permission. Usually on saying goodbye though. The asking of permission goes a long way in my book. Shows manners and not assumptions  |
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