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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
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Do you base some decisions about meeting and blocking people based on forum conduct ? Or are bios and messages more important ?
I have to say from a personal perspective I do find it helpful to have interacted on here . I have absolutely used various descriptions ranging from ‘full of integrity’ through to ‘full of seemingly unnecessary rage’ to ‘troll’ based on posts here which have then shaped things . This might involve social or meet invites or advising friends on how to respond to approaches .
So if someone isn’t on here then bio and PMs it is , but being on here makes it easier to make a more instant decision about potential compatibility socially or more in my view . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you base some decisions about meeting and blocking people based on forum conduct ? Or are bios and messages more important ?
I have to say from a personal perspective I do find it helpful to have interacted on here . I have absolutely used various descriptions ranging from ‘full of integrity’ through to ‘full of seemingly unnecessary rage’ to ‘troll’ based on posts here which have then shaped things . This might involve social or meet invites or advising friends on how to respond to approaches .
So if someone isn’t on here then bio and PMs it is , but being on here makes it easier to make a more instant decision about potential compatibility socially or more in my view . "
It all depends tbh , you can whittle it down on the forums if you think it's the place to be but sometimes what people write here will show the exact person they are and you make up your own mind , sometimes it's their profile that may catch your attention but either way it has to be a two way street , no point in liking a person if they doesn't like you back , ok you can like a person but that's as far as it's gonna go. |
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"Do you base some decisions about meeting and blocking people based on forum conduct ? Or are bios and messages more important ?
I have to say from a personal perspective I do find it helpful to have interacted on here . I have absolutely used various descriptions ranging from ‘full of integrity’ through to ‘full of seemingly unnecessary rage’ to ‘troll’ based on posts here which have then shaped things . This might involve social or meet invites or advising friends on how to respond to approaches .
So if someone isn’t on here then bio and PMs it is , but being on here makes it easier to make a more instant decision about potential compatibility socially or more in my view . "
It's a little bit of everything for me. I like to interact on some forums, some I have absolutely no desire to partake on purely because of negativity and ovwrall behaviour of some.
I do read the bios from start to finish of most messages I receive (some messages just define a pure "block" automatically on occasion, but I do spend time saying "thanks but no thanks", it costs nothing to be nice.
From bio to forum participation a lot can be defined. What may be said in someone's bio could be the total opposite to their behaviour on forums and leave the decision of a possible meet completely questionable!
That is just my opinion and opinions are like orgasms, I don't care about everyone else's as long as I have mine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course, how a person behaves towards others, particularly those they may perceive as being in some way inferior to themselves, is a key indication of their true personality.
That said, we generally don't meet many from the forums, we're on them for the entertainment value. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We also have an eye for inconsistent or erratic behaviour, and those people who have surface charm and humour, but are clearly seething with anger at the world. |
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I would never judge a person for what they comment on the forum we are all entitled to our own opinion sometimes people my not like it but who are we to judge we do not know that person. I would not make my decisions on meeting people by how they comment on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've goy chatting to lots of people through the forums , some I've met, some I haven't.
I like to meet and chat really before I mske up my mind on someone. |
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The forums are just another tool in the box for making contacts and meeting like-minded people. Back when the chat rooms were very active I used to find that way better than the forums for getting a feel of people. Literally |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
This is a multifaceted site with an exceptionally wide diversity of people who appear to stick to one activity area to the exclusion of others; I do prefer the forum for in depth opinions, whereas the chatrooms seem to be more for banter and superficial exchanges.
Some more mature couples seem to use neither; at present I am open-minded because the last two years has been an unprecedented period in all our lives; and the European war may change our lives forever!  |
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As a very cautious lady, I have to say I like the forums and reading the posts helps give me some sense of the people here. I would be more inclined to meet those who contribute to the forums than not. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
"As a very cautious lady, I have to say I like the forums and reading the posts helps give me some sense of the people here. I would be more inclined to meet those who contribute to the forums than not."
I agree. In meaningfully contributing to threads and initiating specific topics, members reveal a lot about their normal everyday personalities, values, traits, interests and their intentions too.  |
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I have found the forum chats very interesting and also illuminating about the different kinds of people on fab and what they are looking for on here. So, if someone is being a gobshite in a forum then there's a good chance that's what they'd be like in person so I'd steer clear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been on various fora for fifteen years on a variety of topics, and one thing is certain - arseholes be arseholes.
But I've learned to make judgements on behaviour over time rather than a one off (unless that one off is egregiously awful).
But a face to face is essential before any play. |
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Met himself through Forum interaction  .
I do use the notes system all right, for certain forum posts as well as other online interaction. It's a great tool for refreshing the ol' memory and helping in decision making.
The forum has been more for entertainment though... |
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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago
South County Dublin |
"Do you base some decisions about meeting and blocking people based on forum conduct ? Or are bios and messages more important ?
I have to say from a personal perspective I do find it helpful to have interacted on here . I have absolutely used various descriptions ranging from ‘full of integrity’ through to ‘full of seemingly unnecessary rage’ to ‘troll’ based on posts here which have then shaped things . This might involve social or meet invites or advising friends on how to respond to approaches .
So if someone isn’t on here then bio and PMs it is , but being on here makes it easier to make a more instant decision about potential compatibility socially or more in my view .
It's a little bit of everything for me. I like to interact on some forums, some I have absolutely no desire to partake on purely because of negativity and ovwrall behaviour of some.
I do read the bios from start to finish of most messages I receive (some messages just define a pure "block" automatically on occasion, but I do spend time saying "thanks but no thanks", it costs nothing to be nice.
From bio to forum participation a lot can be defined. What may be said in someone's bio could be the total opposite to their behaviour on forums and leave the decision of a possible meet completely questionable!
That is just my opinion and opinions are like orgasms, I don't care about everyone else's as long as I have mine "
I agree with you |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
Love the Ireland forum. Don't really look at others often as my time is consumed here and Fabbing couples and single female pics.
Yes, I, probably stupidly, feel like I get a sense of someone's personality from the forums. I love the banter here but then I see a lot of verification on ladies profiles from people who I never see on the forums.
I wonder then if forum chat is a No No for a lot of ladies? Do they feel we forum users will be talking about them?
Why are so many lucky guys, who fucked Fabbers, not forum users? Are we diminishing our options by being openly chatting?
At the end of the day, I love the Ireland forum banter too much and ain't giving it up for anyone or any perspective/attitude  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love the Ireland forum. Don't really look at others often as my time is consumed here and Fabbing couples and single female pics.
Yes, I, probably stupidly, feel like I get a sense of someone's personality from the forums. I love the banter here but then I see a lot of verification on ladies profiles from people who I never see on the forums.
I wonder then if forum chat is a No No for a lot of ladies? Do they feel we forum users will be talking about them?
Why are so many lucky guys, who fucked Fabbers, not forum users? Are we diminishing our options by being openly chatting?
At the end of the day, I love the Ireland forum banter too much and ain't giving it up for anyone or any perspective/attitude "
To answer your 2nd last question I'd probably say they haven't got the time , they're otherwise engaged. |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
"Love the Ireland forum. Don't really look at others often as my time is consumed here and Fabbing couples and single female pics.
Yes, I, probably stupidly, feel like I get a sense of someone's personality from the forums. I love the banter here but then I see a lot of verification on ladies profiles from people who I never see on the forums.
I wonder then if forum chat is a No No for a lot of ladies? Do they feel we forum users will be talking about them?
Why are so many lucky guys, who fucked Fabbers, not forum users? Are we diminishing our options by being openly chatting?
At the end of the day, I love the Ireland forum banter too much and ain't giving it up for anyone or any perspective/attitude
To answer your 2nd last question I'd probably say they haven't got the time , they're otherwise engaged. "
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"Love the Ireland forum. Don't really look at others often as my time is consumed here and Fabbing couples and single female pics.
Yes, I, probably stupidly, feel like I get a sense of someone's personality from the forums. I love the banter here but then I see a lot of verification on ladies profiles from people who I never see on the forums.
I wonder then if forum chat is a No No for a lot of ladies? Do they feel we forum users will be talking about them?
Why are so many lucky guys, who fucked Fabbers, not forum users? Are we diminishing our options by being openly chatting?
At the end of the day, I love the Ireland forum banter too much and ain't giving it up for anyone or any perspective/attitude "
The ‘there are two types of fabbers , forumites and meeters’ narrative is nonsense . Many I have met in person I met here first .
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Met himself through Forum interaction .
I do use the notes system all right, for certain forum posts as well as other online interaction. It's a great tool for refreshing the ol' memory and helping in decision making.
The forum has been more for entertainment though..."
When are you revealing the identity ? Only banksie’s interests me more and i am fairly certain who he is |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"Love the Ireland forum. Don't really look at others often as my time is consumed here and Fabbing couples and single female pics.
Yes, I, probably stupidly, feel like I get a sense of someone's personality from the forums. I love the banter here but then I see a lot of verification on ladies profiles from people who I never see on the forums.
I wonder then if forum chat is a No No for a lot of ladies? Do they feel we forum users will be talking about them?
Why are so many lucky guys, who fucked Fabbers, not forum users? Are we diminishing our options by being openly chatting?
At the end of the day, I love the Ireland forum banter too much and ain't giving it up for anyone or any perspective/attitude
To answer your 2nd last question I'd probably say they haven't got the time , they're otherwise engaged. "
Or they simply don't like engaging in the forum etc, plenty of reasons.
As for the women meeting non forum users: only a small percentage of fabbers engages on the forum, so why would you reduce your choice to forum users only.  |
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