Just something I’ve realised and talked about today.
Are there men who specifically don’t like a small bit of ass play? I don’t mean pegging… just the pressure of a finger or something similar during oral? |
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I've never had any experience but I think the social construct of ass stuff being only for "gays" would still be in the mind of most people both men and women, I feel, and Im not a woman so correct me if wrong, but women won't want to ask most men if they'd like to try it for fear of them getting offended or telling his friends and trying to make a joke or oddball out of her and speaking for myself I would like to think I'd be a live and let live kinda person but I'd still be I dunno if anxious is the correct word, about trying it, but I suppose I'd be worried about "the lads" hearing I'd something up me arse. But that's more of a ingrained thing from telly and what I've heard growing up. Like it wasn't 10 years ago when the saying that's a bit gay was used in a derogatory way. |
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over a year ago
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I'm definitely a clencher lol. I think to be honest I've just not been with someone I trust enough yet . Definitely not something I'd rule out but be warned you may lose a finger   |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
Huge amount of pleasure to be had from the perineum the area below your balls and above your butt hole
Even some light pressure from a finger or tongue is usually enough so nothing needs to actually go up there if a man isn't in to it |
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By *usbyXXXMan
over a year ago
County Waterford |
"Just something I’ve realised and talked about today.
Are there men who specifically don’t like a small bit of ass play? I don’t mean pegging… just the pressure of a finger or something similar during oral? "
For me that area between the anus and the ball sack is extremely sensitive. The feeling of tounge or vaginal stubble will make me explode. And when you get iver 60 you very much appreciate how involutary that is. Glad to report that lately iv met special ladies who seem to be able to read my mind. |
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By *iamo69Man
over a year ago
South |
Have been pegged. Never even considered it until a certain someone said she loved doing it and wanted me to at least try it.
Prob done few times since. It's OK. Deffo cum harder while she does it but could take or leave . More for her than me. Doesn't hurt just take it easy at start.
As I said i cum harder which is weird ?? |
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Had it done by women who know what they're doing and other women who really don't. Two totally different experiences at complete opposite ends of the spectrum. But the latter do make me slightly wary.
It's a bit like everything else and oral in general, had some awful oral experiences and some amazing ones.
Yep I know, hard to believe given the general trend of discussions on the forums, some women are clueless and shit in bed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never had any experience but I think the social construct of ass stuff being only for "gays" would still be in the mind of most people both men and women, I feel, and Im not a woman so correct me if wrong, but women won't want to ask most men if they'd like to try it for fear of them getting offended or telling his friends and trying to make a joke or oddball out of her and speaking for myself I would like to think I'd be a live and let live kinda person but I'd still be I dunno if anxious is the correct word, about trying it, but I suppose I'd be worried about "the lads" hearing I'd something up me arse. But that's more of a ingrained thing from telly and what I've heard growing up. Like it wasn't 10 years ago when the saying that's a bit gay was used in a derogatory way."
Completely understand where you are coming from and your points, I was there and probably sacrificed a few relationships because of the lads…
But do you know something, as you get older you realise the lads aren’t everything and ye all go your separate ways eventually |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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A few men I have known my ex was one who hated his ass being touched. He always would say to stay away from it as it freaked him out anything touching it or the thought of anything penetrating it . Which is fair enough each to their own boundaries are there for a reason and should always be respected,but the same people tended to ask for anal with me and never seemed to see the irony. |
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"A few men I have known my ex was one who hated his ass being touched. He always would say to stay away from it as it freaked him out anything touching it or the thought of anything penetrating it . Which is fair enough each to their own boundaries are there for a reason and should always be respected,but the same people tended to ask for anal with me and never seemed to see the irony. "
LOL!! Yes this!! I’ve always found that the men that were gagging and pushing for anal were always utterly horrified at the return mention of pegging. They certainly didn’t get the irony of it. |
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"With the right lady its awesome,had a gf that gave me prostate massages and did oral at the same time,still the best orgasms ive ever had x "
That’s something I’m dying to learn. Talk about upskilling LOLOL |
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I have come across more women who dislike anal then like it though. "
I always refuse anal if asked. Men become obsessed with it and it’s really irritating. However I quite enjoy it with the right person but it has to be completely on MY terms, I have to be in control and it has to have been my idea. |
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"With the right lady its awesome,had a gf that gave me prostate massages and did oral at the same time,still the best orgasms ive ever had x
That’s something I’m dying to learn. Talk about upskilling LOLOL"
You can practise on me anytime  |
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I have come across more women who dislike anal then like it though.
I always refuse anal if asked. Men become obsessed with it and it’s really irritating. However I quite enjoy it with the right person but it has to be completely on MY terms, I have to be in control and it has to have been my idea. "
trust is massive. I can take or leave it. anal wouldn't be a big thing to me. |
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"Just something I’ve realised and talked about today.
Are there men who specifically don’t like a small bit of ass play? I don’t mean pegging… just the pressure of a finger or something similar during oral? "
Never actually tried it but slowly becoming more open to the idea |
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It depends on the partner, some of the most intense orgasms I’ve had were with prostate massage, so I’m not against it, but also have had bad experiences with it with other partners - if they have experience though, it’s very, VERY hot. |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"I've never had any experience but I think the social construct of ass stuff being only for "gays" would still be in the mind of most people both men and women."
I really hope in this day and age that this is not the case…
I’m also surprised by the amount of men who don’t want to or have never tried it, particularly if they like to give but not to receive, what’s good for the goose etc.
For some I think it’s a psychological “ickey” thing, for some it’s about control.
Cleanliness, hygiene and trust are the most important things but personal preference and boundaries are top of the list and should be respected.
Personally I like it in all forms, orally I love to give in the right circumstances, admittedly receiving makes me a little self conscious but I love it too as long as everyone is happy.
I’ve also been surprised in the past as to the amount of ladies who have never been rimmed, especially considering the close proximity to other areas of interest that receive such attention, particularly in certain “positions”.
Personally I found that the majority of ladies I’ve introduced to this not only enjoy it a lot more than that expected but actually ended up loving it and requesting more.
Ass play of any kind is not something I’ve ever actually requested, great if it’s something that occurs during play but it’s certainly not a goal or destination, just another part of pleasure and fun for willing participants. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just something I’ve realised and talked about today.
Are there men who specifically don’t like a small bit of ass play? I don’t mean pegging… just the pressure of a finger or something similar during oral? "
Love a finger or two while getting my cock sucked....really takes it to the next level |
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Yep it’s icky, yep it’s taboo, yep there’s a certain label to it from “the lads”.
Butt…….sorry, I mean, but…..
You know that feeling guys, just the split second your about to cum? And that hit of pleasure in your head and little guy? Well imagine that feeling times 20 across your whole body and lasting 40-50 seconds.
Think about that before a definitive NO!!! |
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"Just something I’ve realised and talked about today.
Are there men who specifically don’t like a small bit of ass play? I don’t mean pegging… just the pressure of a finger or something similar during oral? "
I never thought about it or would have considered it until many years ago when I was on top of my then girlfriend! She had her legs over my shoulders,I was balls deep inside her and she slid her hands down my back and onto my arse. She pulled my cheeks apart and started to massage my butt hole!! I was totally shocked but she kept going and then slid a finger up!!! I swear,I came in seconds!! I was vibrating like ya would if you pissed on an electric fence!!!! And then I was hooked!!!! The sensation is amazing. I get why some don't like it but it's a definite thumb's up from me!! (No pun intended)  |
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"Not for me, i have one rule, my ass is a one way street haha biased i no but rules are rules 
Yet you lost anal as one of your interests.."
Anal giving, not recieving i assumed thats what that ment  |
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"Not for me, i have one rule, my ass is a one way street haha biased i no but rules are rules
Yet you lost anal as one of your interests..
Anal giving, not recieving i assumed thats what that ment "
Yeah…. No not really…  |
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"Not for me, i have one rule, my ass is a one way street haha biased i no but rules are rules
Yet you lost anal as one of your interests..
Anal giving, not recieving i assumed thats what that ment
Yeah…. No not really… "
Oh well quess thats coming off my list so haha |
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By *attooYouMan
over a year ago
just about northside |
"Just something I’ve realised and talked about today.
Are there men who specifically don’t like a small bit of ass play? I don’t mean pegging… just the pressure of a finger or something similar during oral? "
Surprisingly many, reading through this forum. Been the recipient of it many times and wouldnt shy away from today either. Most fulfilling.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just something I’ve realised and talked about today.
Are there men who specifically don’t like a small bit of ass play? I don’t mean pegging… just the pressure of a finger or something similar during oral? "
enjoy it myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just something I’ve realised and talked about today.
Are there men who specifically don’t like a small bit of ass play? I don’t mean pegging… just the pressure of a finger or something similar during oral? "
love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Huge amount of pleasure to be had from the perineum the area below your balls and above your butt hole
Even some light pressure from a finger or tongue is usually enough so nothing needs to actually go up there if a man isn't in to it "
you hit the nail on it's head |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just something I’ve realised and talked about today.
Are there men who specifically don’t like a small bit of ass play? I don’t mean pegging… just the pressure of a finger or something similar during oral?
For me that area between the anus and the ball sack is extremely sensitive. The feeling of tounge or vaginal stubble will make me explode. And when you get iver 60 you very much appreciate how involutary that is. Glad to report that lately iv met special ladies who seem to be able to read my mind. "
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
north and south |
"Just something I’ve realised and talked about today.
Are there men who specifically don’t like a small bit of ass play? I don’t mean pegging… just the pressure of a finger or something similar during oral?
For me that area between the anus and the ball sack is extremely sensitive. The feeling of tounge or vaginal stubble will make me explode. And when you get iver 60 you very much appreciate how involutary that is. Glad to report that lately iv met special ladies who seem to be able to read my mind. "
As long as the lady is as gentle with me as I am with her happy days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Preparing for anal and ass play is key, in my opinion. I don’t expect someone to peg or fuck me without me first having cleaned out everything first, and I certainly wouldn’t expect someone to rim me if I haven’t - but many just leave off on prepping.
Don’t mind ass play in that scenario, but without preparation I prefer everyone stay away from mine though. |
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"Just something I’ve realised and talked about today.
Are there men who specifically don’t like a small bit of ass play? I don’t mean pegging… just the pressure of a finger or something similar during oral? "
Love a bit of ass play… especially while getting a BJ…. Of course happy to experimenting further too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few guys who would clench up anytime I went near their arse. "
Some dont like their ass being touched...they don't know what they been missing. Lol |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 10/03/22 21:09:17]
Don’t you love it when someone deletes something you know was probably totally inappropriate and pissy "
 it wasn’t pissy!
Maybe inappropriate, I was replying to someone who posted something like “anytime she goes near guys ass they tense up”
I replied “they are just playing hard to get”
Then I felt it was inappropriate in a consent way….
But honestly I think guys are shy to admit if they like anal and might stop someone doing it to them, because they wouldn’t like anyone to know and are too self conscious. Or they honestly think they don’t like it and are just plain wrong |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
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"Preparing for anal and ass play is key, in my opinion. I don’t expect someone to peg or fuck me without me first having cleaned out everything first, and I certainly wouldn’t expect someone to rim me if I haven’t - but many just leave off on prepping.
Don’t mind ass play in that scenario, but without preparation I prefer everyone stay away from mine though."
Yes, exactly this. If she makes her intentions clear, or its discussed at least an hour in advance. Give you time to at least reduce the possibility of a sticky situation and then both can enjoy fully (sorry) |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 10/03/22 21:09:17]
Don’t you love it when someone deletes something you know was probably totally inappropriate and pissy "
Nothing better than anal is all I’m saying and find it hard to believe everyone doesn’t like it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just something I’ve realised and talked about today.
Are there men who specifically don’t like a small bit of ass play? I don’t mean pegging… just the pressure of a finger or something similar during oral? "
Sometimes you have no choice , it's where you are taken maybe without knowing , anything can happen in an act of passion. |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
sandyford |
"Just something I’ve realised and talked about today.
Are there men who specifically don’t like a small bit of ass play? I don’t mean pegging… just the pressure of a finger or something similar during oral?
Sometimes you have no choice , it's where you are taken maybe without knowing , anything can happen in an act of passion."
That’s the best type, when ur not expecting it, like you don’t realise she’s into doing it |
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over a year ago
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"I've had a few guys who would clench up anytime I went near their arse.
Some dont like their ass being touched...they don't know what they been missing. Lol"
I agree and if it ends up with a nice prostrate massage well even better again. |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
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"Just something I’ve realised and talked about today.
Are there men who specifically don’t like a small bit of ass play? I don’t mean pegging… just the pressure of a finger or something similar during oral?
Sometimes you have no choice , it's where you are taken maybe without knowing , anything can happen in an act of passion.
That’s the best type, when ur not expecting it, like you don’t realise she’s into doing it "
Nah!
I'd prefer to know and have an opportunity to be sure I was clean personally.
If just pressure outside, on ring or between balls and ass then okay with that but finger/dildo inside, I want to be prepared. |
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"Huge amount of pleasure to be had from the perineum the area below your balls and above your butt hole
Even some light pressure from a finger or tongue is usually enough so nothing needs to actually go up there if a man isn't in to it "
I discovered this 'magic button' during play recently. and Ooh did i get trigger happy lol |
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Not a fan of anything in my ass but Have to say do enjoy a bit of rimming receiving & giving. especially giving it to a nice curvy woman, really does it for me for some reason. |
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