Discretion to us means that person is married/attached and is looking for side action without their partner knowing. Each to their own, but that's not for us as we've both been cheated on in the past.
But to answer your question, no. We dont talk to anyone about Fab except 1 couple we are friends with also on Fab. |
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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago
Enfield & Dublin |
Discretion to me means not ever repeating anything told to me in confidence at all. It means that what someone else does is not mine to broadcast. Pictures should never be used without express consent of everyone in it whether easily identifiable or not.
It doesn’t mean that I’m playing away without permission as has been said by another poster, it means that I am married and we both play but we do not want it getting back to our children or other relatives. |
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"Discretion to us means that person is married/attached and is looking for side action without their partner knowing. Each to their own, but that's not for us as we've both been cheated on in the past.
But to answer your question, no. We dont talk to anyone about Fab except 1 couple we are friends with also on Fab."
Discretion definition:
"behaving or speaking in such a way as to avoid causing offence or revealing confidential information"
Are you saying that you automatically assume that when discretion is mentioned on a profile that the owner of the profile is cheating on a partner?
I would find that very presumptuous, if so. It's like assuming that any single who "can't accommodate" is cheating when they might well be living with housemates, parents etc and actually like to keep this part of their lives private.
We value our privacy, nothing more sinister than that (hence we mention discretion on our profile) and expect the same in return of people we are in contact with...be that on Fab or in the outside world  .
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"I always take screen shots of my messages and then sent them to everyone on WhatsApp, Twitter Facebook etc. 
Ah, so that's where our nudes were distributed  "
I'll send on the invoice for distribution charges.  |
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"Discretion to us means that person is married/attached and is looking for side action without their partner knowing. Each to their own, but that's not for us as we've both been cheated on in the past.
But to answer your question, no. We dont talk to anyone about Fab except 1 couple we are friends with also on Fab.
Discretion definition:
"behaving or speaking in such a way as to avoid causing offence or revealing confidential information"
Are you saying that you automatically assume that when discretion is mentioned on a profile that the owner of the profile is cheating on a partner?
I would find that very presumptuous, if so. It's like assuming that any single who "can't accommodate" is cheating when they might well be living with housemates, parents etc and actually like to keep this part of their lives private.
We value our privacy, nothing more sinister than that (hence we mention discretion on our profile) and expect the same in return of people we are in contact with...be that on Fab or in the outside world .
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"I always take screen shots of my messages and then sent them to everyone on WhatsApp, Twitter Facebook etc.
Ah, so that's where our nudes were distributed
I'll send on the invoice for distribution charges. "
I won't tell you how effective that was - you might charge double |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"I always take screen shots of my messages and then sent them to everyone on WhatsApp, Twitter Facebook etc.
Ah, so that's where our nudes were distributed
I'll send on the invoice for distribution charges.
I won't tell you how effective that was - you might charge double "
Don't worry, I can cum up with a payment in kind system instead.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My Business is mine and yours is yours.
I like to have my fun but keep my Fab live entirely away from my everyday life.
It also involves respecting other people privacy. The majority of people here don't like people knowing about there sex life and that's to be respected |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Discretion to us means that person is married/attached and is looking for side action without their partner knowing. Each to their own, but that's not for us as we've both been cheated on in the past.
But to answer your question, no. We dont talk to anyone about Fab except 1 couple we are friends with also on Fab."
Oxymoronic  |
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"Discretion to us means that person is married/attached and is looking for side action without their partner knowing. Each to their own, but that's not for us as we've both been cheated on in the past.
But to answer your question, no. We dont talk to anyone about Fab except 1 couple we are friends with also on Fab.
Oxymoronic "
Isn’t it just. |
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By *jallMan
over a year ago
Cork/Sligo |
"My Business is mine and yours is yours.
I like to have my fun but keep my Fab live entirely away from my everyday life.
It also involves respecting other people privacy. The majority of people here don't like people knowing about there sex life and that's to be respected "
This |
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By *jallMan
over a year ago
Cork/Sligo |
first rule of Fab Club is: you do not talk about Fab Club. The second rule of Fab Club is: you DO NOT talk about Fab Club! Third rule of Fab Club: someone yells "stop!", goes limp, taps out, the fab is over. Fourth rule: only two guys to a girl.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always will tell 1 person who I am meeting, where I am going. I will also show them a photo of the person. Its a person I trust and know it will go no further but my safety is paramount they will also expect a phone call or text off me during the time I'm with that person so they know I'm safe. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
"I always will tell 1 person who I am meeting, where I am going. I will also show them a photo of the person. Its a person I trust and know it will go no further but my safety is paramount they will also expect a phone call or text off me during the time I'm with that person so they know I'm safe. "
And if, for some reason, you do not contact them, then what happens? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No ones business who we are chatting to and we keep that to ourselves. We learned our mistakes while we were singles here. Some are only on here to gossip and tell others whatever they are told in confidence. |
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Can't be just me when a discussion stars about discretion who reads the thread in a Monty Python voice.
All I can hear is Eric Idle and Terry Jones shouting "DISCRETION?" "THAT'S NOT DISCRETION. YOU'RE A VERY NAUGHTY BOY!"
In fairness its hard to keep up the facade when you are galloping in to rescue the situation to the sound of clip clopping coconut shells.
And there's no point dressing up in your best armour if you can't tell everyone who you met on your latest adventure. |
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"No ones business who we are chatting to and we keep that to ourselves. We learned our mistakes while we were singles here. Some are only on here to gossip and tell others whatever they are told in confidence. "
Which is why I'm always surprised how some on here have built their nice guy images by telling everyone else's story. There must be an audience for it. |
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"No ones business who we are chatting to and we keep that to ourselves. We learned our mistakes while we were singles here. Some are only on here to gossip and tell others whatever they are told in confidence. "
Absolutely, instant turnoff for us if someone we meet for a quick social starts talking about others on the forum or worse, mutual acquaintances - one of the reasons we hide our veris. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"No ones business who we are chatting to and we keep that to ourselves. We learned our mistakes while we were singles here. Some are only on here to gossip and tell others whatever they are told in confidence.
Absolutely, instant turnoff for us if someone we meet for a quick social starts talking about others on the forum or worse, mutual acquaintances - one of the reasons we hide our veris. "
Ahhh c'mon! A tiny wincy bitching over a coffee never hurt anyone... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No ones business who we are chatting to and we keep that to ourselves. We learned our mistakes while we were singles here. Some are only on here to gossip and tell others whatever they are told in confidence.
Absolutely, instant turnoff for us if someone we meet for a quick social starts talking about others on the forum or worse, mutual acquaintances - one of the reasons we hide our veris.
Ahhh c'mon! A tiny wincy bitching over a coffee never hurt anyone... "
People who gossip to you will gossip about you, instant ladyhorn deflator for me |
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"No ones business who we are chatting to and we keep that to ourselves. We learned our mistakes while we were singles here. Some are only on here to gossip and tell others whatever they are told in confidence.
Absolutely, instant turnoff for us if someone we meet for a quick social starts talking about others on the forum or worse, mutual acquaintances - one of the reasons we hide our veris.
Ahhh c'mon! A tiny wincy bitching over a coffee never hurt anyone...
People who gossip to you will gossip about you, instant ladyhorn deflator for me"
Nail on the head there |
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"I always will tell 1 person who I am meeting, where I am going. I will also show them a photo of the person. Its a person I trust and know it will go no further but my safety is paramount they will also expect a phone call or text off me during the time I'm with that person so they know I'm safe. "
This is really important.
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"Discretion to us means that person is married/attached and is looking for side action without their partner knowing. Each to their own, but that's not for us as we've both been cheated on in the past.
But to answer your question, no. We dont talk to anyone about Fab except 1 couple we are friends with also on Fab."
Or as is often the case , discretion can mean exactly that , in that you dont want it widely known your on an adult sex site and possibly meeting strangers for sex while holding a responsible and possibly sensitive job, for instance i know a teacher a cop a couselor and a few nurses on here who insist on discretion, btw there all single and most are female |
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Fabs is a small world so discretion means to avoid disclosing anything what has not been agreed upon or displaying into a public verification.
My job colleagues could be in fabs and I don’t want them to have further information about my adventures for instance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No ones business who we are chatting to and we keep that to ourselves. We learned our mistakes while we were singles here. Some are only on here to gossip and tell others whatever they are told in confidence.
Which is why I'm always surprised how some on here have built their nice guy images by telling everyone else's story. There must be an audience for it. "
Of course there is. Some view fab as their own private soap opera. |
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