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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was texting a localish woman on here things were going good, got to the point of swapping face pictures. I went first…. Message back saying she recognised me from school years ago and I was out of her league, I was too good looking. Wouldn’t bother sending hers as she “knew” I would not be interested in her.
A polite way of saying no or genuine ?
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"Was texting a localish woman on here things were going good, got to the point of swapping face pictures. I went first…. Message back saying she recognised me from school years ago and I was out of her league, I was too good looking. Wouldn’t bother sending hers as she “knew” I would not be interested in her.
A polite way of saying no or genuine ?
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suppose some people think along those lines |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was texting a localish woman on here things were going good, got to the point of swapping face pictures. I went first…. Message back saying she recognised me from school years ago and I was out of her league, I was too good looking. Wouldn’t bother sending hers as she “knew” I would not be interested in her.
A polite way of saying no or genuine ?
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I might steal this to use myself, it's a great excuse  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Was texting a localish woman on here things were going good, got to the point of swapping face pictures. I went first…. Message back saying she recognised me from school years ago and I was out of her league, I was too good looking. Wouldn’t bother sending hers as she “knew” I would not be interested in her.
A polite way of saying no or genuine ?
I might steal this to use myself, it's a great excuse "
If only I could steal you  |
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By *t777Woman
over a year ago
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"Was texting a localish woman on here things were going good, got to the point of swapping face pictures. I went first…. Message back saying she recognised me from school years ago and I was out of her league, I was too good looking. Wouldn’t bother sending hers as she “knew” I would not be interested in her.
A polite way of saying no or genuine ?
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Is that possible? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you believed that one OP I've some magic money beans I'm looking to sell I'd you're interested?
Jealousy is an awful thing 
You should work on your jealousy issues then.  "
No issues here baby |
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By *oc1998Man
over a year ago
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"I was told that I looked like her brother. We didnt meet again after that.
That'll do it.
Note to self: Don't resemble a relative "
Unless you resemble a relative but she still wants the ride.... |
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I would take what she said at face value.
She thinks you'll not be interested in her bc she thinks you're good looking and she doesn't have that same opinion of herself.
She might also think you're shallow.
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I had a similar experience, texting a girl, all going great and potential meet arranged and then the ‘face pic’ text happened. She replied ‘fuck, no way!’ , and yeah, I knew it was because she felt i was out of her league. It’s just part of the process . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It sounds like she has very low confidence / self esteem"
Or is leading him on to believe that when in fact she might not even know him and it's quite the opposite she's not actually into him at all. Or she could be a he you never know what on here who's begind the screen, we should rename this place "fake fab" ha ha.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a similar experience, texting a girl, all going great and potential meet arranged and then the ‘face pic’ text happened. She replied ‘fuck, no way!’ , and yeah, I knew it was because she felt i was out of her league. It’s just part of the process ."
yes it happens quite often  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have often ghosted someone for this reason as I don't see why they would be interested in me when they could actually have anyone they wanted. I don't have the perfect body, I ain't the best looking and can be a cunt so my brain goes into over drive and be like why would a good looking lad want sex from me?
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I have often ghosted someone for this reason as I don't see why they would be interested in me when they could actually have anyone they wanted. I don't have the perfect body, I ain't the best looking and can be a cunt so my brain goes into over drive and be like why would a good looking lad want sex from me?
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A man's approach could be anything from 'every hole is a goal' to finding you totally sexy just the way you are. So why are making the decision for him?
Besides you're reducing everything down to looks and looks = success. How can you be sure they could have everyone they wanted? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have often ghosted someone for this reason as I don't see why they would be interested in me when they could actually have anyone they wanted. I don't have the perfect body, I ain't the best looking and can be a cunt so my brain goes into over drive and be like why would a good looking lad want sex from me?
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...." I ain't the best looking".
What are ya saying? FFS. You're only gorgeous woman! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have often ghosted someone for this reason as I don't see why they would be interested in me when they could actually have anyone they wanted. I don't have the perfect body, I ain't the best looking and can be a cunt so my brain goes into over drive and be like why would a good looking lad want sex from me?
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Can’t match what you said to your photos. What an absolute hottie |
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