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By *ancy38 OP Woman
over a year ago
galway |
This has probably been asked loads on here. Just wondering if anyone has ever been recognised by someone they know on here?
I have recognised a few cples from here and I know they know its me from my cple profile, although we never say anything but I am abit uncomfortable with some knowing about me in the town I live in.
Ireland has moved on so much in recent times, but there is still the small town mentality amongst some people who like to ridicule people for having adult fun. I think its going to take maybe another decade or two for swinging to be socially acceptable here in Ireland without any feelings of embarrassment for having adult fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the majority of people who are on here would hope anyone that recognises them on here would have the decency to say nothing.
I've had the odd message from blank profiles saying they recognise or seen me on the local shop. I just says thanks but wasn't me and if they persist I just block. |
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On a previous profile I recognised a guy who worked for me and had a facepic on his couples profile.
He messaged me but I ignored it and then blocked.
A few weeks later he disobeyed a direct order from me and said he would tell everyone my secret if I didn't let him do things his own way. There was nothing in my profile that could have identified me as I only had 2 pics so I called his bluff and he was sent to a disciplinary and then went on long term sick after that. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
The perverse morality of the Cathic Church in Ireland will take another generation or two to be eradicated from living memory.
Regrettably, the small town (valley of the squinting windows) mentality still persists in places, but is slowly dissipating.
Sex is a normal part of the human animal's life, and it will come to be accepted that monogamy is only one manifestation of sexual relationships that not all of the Irish population adhere to.
In the meantime, for at least another 20+ years, swinging will have to continue to be a private personal secret interest.
The legacy of conservative narrow-minded Catholic morality is long-lasting, regrettably.
Oh, and no-one has ever mentioned my interest in swinging to me; I keep that aspect of my life very carefully under wraps.  |
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By *ancy38 OP Woman
over a year ago
galway |
"I think the majority of people who are on here would hope anyone that recognises them on here would have the decency to say nothing.
I've had the odd message from blank profiles saying they recognise or seen me on the local shop. I just says thanks but wasn't me and if they persist I just block. "
I think this too although there is a small minority that like to talk which is disturbing. I did get one msg about 8 years ago when I was part of cple profile thst mentioned our names but then the profile blocked us. It does get you paranoid. |
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By *ancy38 OP Woman
over a year ago
galway |
"The perverse morality of the Cathic Church in Ireland will take another generation or two to be eradicated from living memory.
Regrettably, the small town (valley of the squinting windows) mentality still persists in places, but is slowly dissipating.
Sex is a normal part of the human animal's life, and it will come to be accepted that monogamy is only one manifestation of sexual relationships that not all of the Irish population adhere to.
In the meantime, for at least another 20+ years, swinging will have to continue to be a private personal secret interest.
The legacy of conservative narrow-minded Catholic morality is long-lasting, regrettably.
Oh, and no-one has ever mentioned my interest in swinging to me; I keep that aspect of my life very carefully under wraps. "
You do have valid points about the Catholic Church having a part in this mindset. I do prefer mine to be very private but you an only keep it private to a certain extent because it does involve meeting people. |
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By *ancy38 OP Woman
over a year ago
galway |
"On a previous profile I recognised a guy who worked for me and had a facepic on his couples profile.
He messaged me but I ignored it and then blocked.
A few weeks later he disobeyed a direct order from me and said he would tell everyone my secret if I didn't let him do things his own way. There was nothing in my profile that could have identified me as I only had 2 pics so I called his bluff and he was sent to a disciplinary and then went on long term sick after that. "
WOW! |
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"On a previous profile I recognised a guy who worked for me and had a facepic on his couples profile.
He messaged me but I ignored it and then blocked.
A few weeks later he disobeyed a direct order from me and said he would tell everyone my secret if I didn't let him do things his own way. There was nothing in my profile that could have identified me as I only had 2 pics so I called his bluff and he was sent to a disciplinary and then went on long term sick after that. "
How did he recognise you if there was nothing in your profile that could identify you? |
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"On a previous profile I recognised a guy who worked for me and had a facepic on his couples profile.
He messaged me but I ignored it and then blocked.
A few weeks later he disobeyed a direct order from me and said he would tell everyone my secret if I didn't let him do things his own way. There was nothing in my profile that could have identified me as I only had 2 pics so I called his bluff and he was sent to a disciplinary and then went on long term sick after that.
How did he recognise you if there was nothing in your profile that could identify you?"
I didn't say he did. That's why I called his bluff. I recognised him from his facepic and when he made the threat so soon after it was the only thing I could think he might be referring to. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Not that I know of but I have had a couple of men claiming they know me in messages one even telling me he went to school with me which is highly unlikely as we lived at opposite ends of the country then. I had two convinced I was someone else,one sent me a woman's name and address trying to convince me I was her. All just went on my block list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got two creepy messages saying they either recognised me or knew where I lived.
First time I was in local shop wearing a distinct pair of yoga pants that appeared on Fab. They sent me a very creepy message saying they knew my arse anywhere
Second time I had taken photos in my bell tent which was up on my front lawn at the time. A guy message asking me did I live on such a road and could he pop over. |
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We were recognised by a couple that lived across the road, our dogs head was in the bottom of one of our pics and we never noticed him.. we have had great fun with them as they are a lovely couple.
Still friends 5 years later  |
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By *aidRXTV/TS
over a year ago
ashbourne |
I dont so much have an issue being recognised as I believe were all in the same boat so still respect the discreetness of our hobby.
That said... years ago... me and my partner were on another site and she was recognised... got a couple of messages and then one christmas when she was in her hometown at a bar, the guy started shouting things across the bar "Mistress xxx" and such.
Obviously gave her a fright and now due to that bad experience, coupled with that she was trying all this for me, she is no longer involved.
Some people just dont have any sense!!!
We all just need to respect each other and the privacy of our hobby!  |
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By *j1981Man
over a year ago
cork |
"I’ve had people recognise me from tinder by my lips apparently 
Doesn’t particularly bother me but it’s creepy when they refuse to tell you where they recognise you from. "
Yeh thats a bit one way..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Recently heard of a business near us going downhill when word got out. The business is still going, so hopefully they get over the 'hump'.
Ridiculous really."
Heard of a similar situation in a small town but after fee months was forgotten..business as usual then |
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On a previous profile a person told me they were friends with my brother and knew who I was. He thought that because we lived a few streets away that we should be fwbs.
From what he said he absolutely did know my brother. I've never known who he was.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I possibly have been but I am not even aware of it. I don't care at this stage as I am single and it is not affecting anyone else. I am still careful and discreet because I do not want unwanted attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were recognised by a couple that lived across the road, our dogs head was in the bottom of one of our pics and we never noticed him.. we have had great fun with them as they are a lovely couple.
Still friends 5 years later "
Lovely story. So it's not always a bad thing to be recognised. Hope you gave that dog a reward! |
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Have recognised a handful of people and also been recognised myself by others. Few minutes embarrassment followed then by the realisation that we are all on this for similar reasons and its not a biggie.
I'd never go broadcasting it about them and they don't about me. Works out.
I guess I'm lucky that way! |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"We were recognised by a couple that lived across the road, our dogs head was in the bottom of one of our pics and we never noticed him.. we have had great fun with them as they are a lovely couple.
Still friends 5 years later "
Looked at your very sexy pictures 15 times so far....still can't see the dog....I'll have another look |
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By *edknobsMan
over a year ago
mullingar |
"On a previous profile a person told me they were friends with my brother and knew who I was. He thought that because we lived a few streets away that we should be fwbs.
From what he said he absolutely did know my brother. I've never known who he was.
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That's scary.... creepy |
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I've been recognised twice, once by a cousin's husbands sister. She recognised me from the wedding, no issues or awkwardness at all in fairness.
We still chat.
I don't think I've ever recognised anyone. |
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"We were recognised by a couple that lived across the road, our dogs head was in the bottom of one of our pics and we never noticed him.. we have had great fun with them as they are a lovely couple.
Still friends 5 years later
Looked at your very sexy pictures 15 times so far....still can't see the dog....I'll have another look "
Lol... removed coz he had a distinctive head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were recognised by a couple that lived across the road, our dogs head was in the bottom of one of our pics and we never noticed him.. we have had great fun with them as they are a lovely couple.
Still friends 5 years later
Looked at your very sexy pictures 15 times so far....still can't see the dog....I'll have another look
Lol... removed coz he had a distinctive head "
I would settle for regular head |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"We were recognised by a couple that lived across the road, our dogs head was in the bottom of one of our pics and we never noticed him.. we have had great fun with them as they are a lovely couple.
Still friends 5 years later
Looked at your very sexy pictures 15 times so far....still can't see the dog....I'll have another look
Lol... removed coz he had a distinctive head "
It can't be just me that actually wants to see the doggie now |
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Ive had a few messages saying they know me, mostly recently actually, my profile makes me fairly recognisable to anyone who would know me...
People here are roughly one in the same, those who arnt, fuck em, their opinions mean fuck all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were recognised by a couple that lived across the road, our dogs head was in the bottom of one of our pics and we never noticed him.. we have had great fun with them as they are a lovely couple.
Still friends 5 years later "
Lucky people. Tigger here was actually recognised by a couple in our Legion yesterday. We will post more if things develop  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My buddy recognises his ex wife on here . Someone tipped him off . I met my ex brother in law at a m+g ended up hanging out with him and his wife for the night. They got a free hotel room with me for their troubles |
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By *ru9137Man
over a year ago
Billingham |
I work all around the UK for a large distribution company. I was in Scotland and went to Strathclyde park the first night there and met a couple who took me back to there home for some fun. the next day she was introduced to me as my contact and I ended up working with her for 6 weeks.
The look on her face when she walked in the room was priceless, I was a regular at there house and had many meeting through her, a very good few weeks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have been recognised, had a lad message me and ask me if I was (name) and if I worked in (workplace). He just wanted to drop a message and say hello. I don’t really mind people I know messaging me at all aslong as they are discrete and open with me also I’ve recognised a few people on here from working in local shops, in my year in school ect but I wouldn’t dream of messaging them and saying I know them due to the fact they might not be comfortable with it |
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I've recognised a good few people on here, never close connections thankfully! but work colleagues & acquaintances over the yrs & just blocked & never thought of them in that instance again. Each to there own im not aware that ive ever been recognised thankfully ha! |
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"We have been recognised but no idea by who, he put our names in the subject bar and that was it "
People should either introduce themselves or stay quite. But thats kinda creepy and just weird behaviour!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dee's been recognized a few times by people work related or locals. Only had to block one of them. I got recognized by one of the lads in work. Said to me on here who he was and nothing else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have been recognised, had a lad message me and ask me if I was (name) and if I worked in (workplace). He just wanted to drop a message and say hello. I don’t really mind people I know messaging me at all aslong as they are discrete and open with me also I’ve recognised a few people on here from working in local shops, in my year in school ect but I wouldn’t dream of messaging them and saying I know them due to the fact they might not be comfortable with it "
How do you think they recognised you in the first place. Your profile doesn’t give away much at all  |
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"We have been recognised but no idea by who, he put our names in the subject bar and that was it
People should either introduce themselves or stay quite. But thats kinda creepy and just weird behaviour!
ya we were totally freaked out and deleted profile, this was a while back but said f××k it and f××k him!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been recognised but no idea by who, he put our names in the subject bar and that was it
People should either introduce themselves or stay quite. But thats kinda creepy and just weird behaviour!
ya we were totally freaked out and deleted profile, this was a while back but said f××k it and f××k him!
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Well done you guys we hopefully will react the same way it’s our time now and we can’t wait and fuck the begrudgers |
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By *murphMan
over a year ago
drogheda |
Have been recognised a few times on here both local and a few times outside my area as I travel for work I’m single so it dosnt mater I have had a good few meets off here and they didn’t want to be verified or verify me I respect their prificy it is only fun and respect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have been recognised, had a lad message me and ask me if I was (name) and if I worked in (workplace). He just wanted to drop a message and say hello. I don’t really mind people I know messaging me at all aslong as they are discrete and open with me also I’ve recognised a few people on here from working in local shops, in my year in school ect but I wouldn’t dream of messaging them and saying I know them due to the fact they might not be comfortable with it "
That’s my attitude but people in Derry have no discretion |
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