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At least once a week,of course I want more but that's married life, kids, stress, work, money etc. Needs to be both parties up for it, not just going through the motions. Make the effort too, treat it like a date night, shower and shave, good underwear, not the old holey tesco boxers, go to bed early, take your time, seduce her, look after her needs first. Then let the magic happen...
Other times quickies are great though too, Sunday morning lazy sex, over the kitchen table, on the stairs are two of our places when the kids are away. Don't be boring, sometimes act like teenagers although I havnt convinced her to take the car into a farmers field in years!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It will be 11 years this valentine's day coming 
Is that your choice or will your partner not have sex with you?
Absolutely not my choice"
Can some handsome lad take this lady for a coffee and get to know her(I'm not implying anything will happen after coffe),. Far too amazing of a lady not to be getting some fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It will be 11 years this valentine's day coming
Is that your choice or will your partner not have sex with you?
Absolutely not my choice
Can some handsome lad take this lady for a coffee and get to know her(I'm not implying anything will happen after coffe),. Far too amazing of a lady not to be getting some fun."
Ah thank you. I'm sure I'll manage.  I'm an expert at pleasing myself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It will be 11 years this valentine's day coming
Is that your choice or will your partner not have sex with you?
Absolutely not my choice"
I would absolutely love to meet you for a coffee. (If you’d have me)
I tried to DM you but you have filters on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If Im working its every 2nd weekend with my fwb. But usually most weekends and the rare midweek quickie. She has kids who are still a bit youngish. But suits us both fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With hubby be lucky once every few months. But ive met some great guys on here who help me out  "
So many smoking hot ladies being ignored by the hubby doesn't make any sense |
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By *onnrodMan
over a year ago
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"Fortunately, in the variety of relationships that I have been in, our libidos seemed to have been well matched and intimacy occurred diurnally or more accurately, nocturnally.  "
So for us people who use normal, everyday english, he fucks every night....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Actually amazed how little action some very hot ladies are getting.
I'd hate to complain...he does his best  (as I brace myself for the repercussions of this post )"
So are you saying you like more from hubby? |
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over a year ago
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"Sometimes it's so long since I've had sex I go to the dentist to remember what it's like to gag "
Well now thats just not on. I dont know much about drilling teeth but can certainly make you gag  wana play dentist & milf needing a filling? |
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"Sometimes it's so long since I've had sex I go to the dentist to remember what it's like to gag
Well now thats just not on. I dont know much about drilling teeth but can certainly make you gag wana play dentist & milf needing a filling?"
I go for PCR tests just so someone can make me gag on something |
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"Actually amazed how little action some very hot ladies are getting.
I'd hate to complain...he does his best (as I brace myself for the repercussions of this post )
So are you saying you like more from hubby? "
He's not hubby... I just like to wind him up occasionally because I know he reads my posts . I'm quite happy with the action I get |
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"Sometimes it's so long since I've had sex I go to the dentist to remember what it's like to gag
Well now thats just not on. I dont know much about drilling teeth but can certainly make you gag wana play dentist & milf needing a filling?
I go for PCR tests just so someone can make me gag on something "
I've got a PCR test in my pants
And for the first 3 lucky ladies your test is absolutely free
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See lots of married couples 30’s & 40’s, the relationship dries up pretty quick after having kids. They marry the fantasy of married life and not the person. For example the woman will marry a man who can provide a secure home, produce kids and a good income to provide the life she wants to so she feels matched up to everyone else, in reality she was never attracted to him physically and that becomes a reality a few years later when the mad rush of marriage, house and kids starts to ease off. The sex dries up and so does the marriage and they generally let themselves go physically, gain weight and not care about their appearance. The same can be said for a man. I quote one of my married friends, she’s not the best looking but she’s from a nice family with a good job. The woman won’t marry the guy she’s attracted to who stacks the shelves in Tesco, she will Marry the fat bald lad with money who she’s not attracted too and will buy her a white BMW for the school run. That’s just my view related to this particular topic, doesn’t mean I think this about every married person. Because their are obviously some perfect examples of a good marriage. |
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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago
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"See lots of married couples 30’s & 40’s, the relationship dries up pretty quick after having kids. They marry the fantasy of married life and not the person. For example the woman will marry a man who can provide a secure home, produce kids and a good income to provide the life she wants to so she feels matched up to everyone else, in reality she was never attracted to him physically and that becomes a reality a few years later when the mad rush of marriage, house and kids starts to ease off. The sex dries up and so does the marriage and they generally let themselves go physically, gain weight and not care about their appearance. The same can be said for a man. I quote one of my married friends, she’s not the best looking but she’s from a nice family with a good job. The woman won’t marry the guy she’s attracted to who stacks the shelves in Tesco, she will Marry the fat bald lad with money who she’s not attracted too and will buy her a white BMW for the school run. That’s just my view related to this particular topic, doesn’t mean I think this about every married person. Because their are obviously some perfect examples of a good marriage. "
Hello the 70's are calling and looking for the most old fashioned, narrow minded generalised view of marraige back  |
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Hello the 70's are calling and looking for the most old fashioned, narrow minded generalised view of marraige back "
Well it’s 2022, I’m in my 30’s and my comment is based on what I see every single day. I’m living among these newly married people and baby makers, Catholic Church weddings and their kids making communions and confirmations. It seems like the 70’s for sure. |
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"See lots of married couples 30’s & 40’s, the relationship dries up pretty quick after having kids. They marry the fantasy of married life and not the person. For example the woman will marry a man who can provide a secure home, produce kids and a good income to provide the life she wants to so she feels matched up to everyone else, in reality she was never attracted to him physically and that becomes a reality a few years later when the mad rush of marriage, house and kids starts to ease off. The sex dries up and so does the marriage and they generally let themselves go physically, gain weight and not care about their appearance. The same can be said for a man. I quote one of my married friends, she’s not the best looking but she’s from a nice family with a good job. The woman won’t marry the guy she’s attracted to who stacks the shelves in Tesco, she will Marry the fat bald lad with money who she’s not attracted too and will buy her a white BMW for the school run. That’s just my view related to this particular topic, doesn’t mean I think this about every married person. Because their are obviously some perfect examples of a good marriage. "
Interesting view.
What about all the women that have carriers of their own and don't need a fat bald daddy to give them babies and houses?
What about them same men who immerse themselves into their jobs once the babies come to avoid nappy changes?
Women's work life have shifted immensely. They now work full time as well as do most of the care for kids (obviously there's exceptions to every rule).
Women's home life on other hand hasn't really changed. They're still expected to be responsible for cleaning, sustenance, grocery shopping, family calendar and bedtime stories while a man expects to receive his dinner and relax after hard days work.
And while relaxing alone (she's still busy doing chores) obviously get bored and maybe even create a sneaky fab profile to perve at other women, who do make the effort to look sexy and do make the effort to entertain you (obviously not you personally. I don't know who you are. We never spoke).
Your point of view is automatically brushing off all marriages as some kind of benefit system.
In reality people are programmed from a young age to have two singular goals in life - marriage and children.
Women are told from a young age that their only purpose in life is to reproduce and nurture the family.
They get excited about.
They can't wait to start this magical Disney like happy ever after!
Then once the babies come- they realise that the happy ever after isn't what they imagined. When a partner is fully involved and both share all responsibilities- many hands make light work. She will have time for self care and effort. If her partner at any point decides "I already go to work, so chores and kids isn't my job" of course she will not want to have sex with him. Who would? |
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Some wide generalisations and narrow minds in this thread. Sure there are some silly people who play silly games, but they will ultimately end up disappointed with how their lives turn out. Deep connections will always trump deep pockets. |
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"Some wide generalisations and narrow minds in this thread. Sure there are some silly people who play silly games, but they will ultimately end up disappointed with how their lives turn out. Deep connections will always trump deep pockets. "
Oh dear, are you OK? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kinda sad to see some of the replies from both men and women
I guess been single ain't that bad
But I miss the intimacy I honestly hope anyone that's married and isnt having hot sex every night is at least getting the intimacy they need x |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"See lots of married couples 30’s & 40’s, the relationship dries up pretty quick after having kids. They marry the fantasy of married life and not the person. For example the woman will marry a man who can provide a secure home, produce kids and a good income to provide the life she wants to so she feels matched up to everyone else, in reality she was never attracted to him physically and that becomes a reality a few years later when the mad rush of marriage, house and kids starts to ease off. The sex dries up and so does the marriage and they generally let themselves go physically, gain weight and not care about their appearance. The same can be said for a man. I quote one of my married friends, she’s not the best looking but she’s from a nice family with a good job. The woman won’t marry the guy she’s attracted to who stacks the shelves in Tesco, she will Marry the fat bald lad with money who she’s not attracted too and will buy her a white BMW for the school run. That’s just my view related to this particular topic, doesn’t mean I think this about every married person. Because their are obviously some perfect examples of a good marriage.
Interesting view.
What about all the women that have carriers of their own and don't need a fat bald daddy to give them babies and houses?
What about them same men who immerse themselves into their jobs once the babies come to avoid nappy changes?
Women's work life have shifted immensely. They now work full time as well as do most of the care for kids (obviously there's exceptions to every rule).
Women's home life on other hand hasn't really changed. They're still expected to be responsible for cleaning, sustenance, grocery shopping, family calendar and bedtime stories while a man expects to receive his dinner and relax after hard days work.
And while relaxing alone (she's still busy doing chores) obviously get bored and maybe even create a sneaky fab profile to perve at other women, who do make the effort to look sexy and do make the effort to entertain you (obviously not you personally. I don't know who you are. We never spoke).
Your point of view is automatically brushing off all marriages as some kind of benefit system.
In reality people are programmed from a young age to have two singular goals in life - marriage and children.
Women are told from a young age that their only purpose in life is to reproduce and nurture the family.
They get excited about.
They can't wait to start this magical Disney like happy ever after!
Then once the babies come- they realise that the happy ever after isn't what they imagined. When a partner is fully involved and both share all responsibilities- many hands make light work. She will have time for self care and effort. If her partner at any point decides "I already go to work, so chores and kids isn't my job" of course she will not want to have sex with him. Who would? "
Another wide reaching generalisation from a womans prespective what about the guy that works a full time job does the shopping both grocery and other nessities like clothes for the kids takes care of their needs in life like clubs, extra cricular activities cooks dinners and makes lunches for school the folling day also struggling to stay on top of house hold chores and still fancys a fook at the end of the day
Life throws different curve balls in all directions to paint everyone with the same brush is so easy but also so wrong |
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"See lots of married couples 30’s & 40’s, the relationship dries up pretty quick after having kids. They marry the fantasy of married life and not the person. For example the woman will marry a man who can provide a secure home, produce kids and a good income to provide the life she wants to so she feels matched up to everyone else, in reality she was never attracted to him physically and that becomes a reality a few years later when the mad rush of marriage, house and kids starts to ease off. The sex dries up and so does the marriage and they generally let themselves go physically, gain weight and not care about their appearance. The same can be said for a man. I quote one of my married friends, she’s not the best looking but she’s from a nice family with a good job. The woman won’t marry the guy she’s attracted to who stacks the shelves in Tesco, she will Marry the fat bald lad with money who she’s not attracted too and will buy her a white BMW for the school run. That’s just my view related to this particular topic, doesn’t mean I think this about every married person. Because their are obviously some perfect examples of a good marriage.
Interesting view.
What about all the women that have carriers of their own and don't need a fat bald daddy to give them babies and houses?
What about them same men who immerse themselves into their jobs once the babies come to avoid nappy changes?
Women's work life have shifted immensely. They now work full time as well as do most of the care for kids (obviously there's exceptions to every rule).
Women's home life on other hand hasn't really changed. They're still expected to be responsible for cleaning, sustenance, grocery shopping, family calendar and bedtime stories while a man expects to receive his dinner and relax after hard days work.
And while relaxing alone (she's still busy doing chores) obviously get bored and maybe even create a sneaky fab profile to perve at other women, who do make the effort to look sexy and do make the effort to entertain you (obviously not you personally. I don't know who you are. We never spoke).
Your point of view is automatically brushing off all marriages as some kind of benefit system.
In reality people are programmed from a young age to have two singular goals in life - marriage and children.
Women are told from a young age that their only purpose in life is to reproduce and nurture the family.
They get excited about.
They can't wait to start this magical Disney like happy ever after!
Then once the babies come- they realise that the happy ever after isn't what they imagined. When a partner is fully involved and both share all responsibilities- many hands make light work. She will have time for self care and effort. If her partner at any point decides "I already go to work, so chores and kids isn't my job" of course she will not want to have sex with him. Who would?
Another wide reaching generalisation from a womans prespective what about the guy that works a full time job does the shopping both grocery and other nessities like clothes for the kids takes care of their needs in life like clubs, extra cricular activities cooks dinners and makes lunches for school the folling day also struggling to stay on top of house hold chores and still fancys a fook at the end of the day
Life throws different curve balls in all directions to paint everyone with the same brush is so easy but also so wrong "
I’m sure there is something making you accept and stick to this life. Interested to know what it is though |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"See lots of married couples 30’s & 40’s, the relationship dries up pretty quick after having kids. They marry the fantasy of married life and not the person. For example the woman will marry a man who can provide a secure home, produce kids and a good income to provide the life she wants to so she feels matched up to everyone else, in reality she was never attracted to him physically and that becomes a reality a few years later when the mad rush of marriage, house and kids starts to ease off. The sex dries up and so does the marriage and they generally let themselves go physically, gain weight and not care about their appearance. The same can be said for a man. I quote one of my married friends, she’s not the best looking but she’s from a nice family with a good job. The woman won’t marry the guy she’s attracted to who stacks the shelves in Tesco, she will Marry the fat bald lad with money who she’s not attracted too and will buy her a white BMW for the school run. That’s just my view related to this particular topic, doesn’t mean I think this about every married person. Because their are obviously some perfect examples of a good marriage.
Interesting view.
What about all the women that have carriers of their own and don't need a fat bald daddy to give them babies and houses?
What about them same men who immerse themselves into their jobs once the babies come to avoid nappy changes?
Women's work life have shifted immensely. They now work full time as well as do most of the care for kids (obviously there's exceptions to every rule).
Women's home life on other hand hasn't really changed. They're still expected to be responsible for cleaning, sustenance, grocery shopping, family calendar and bedtime stories while a man expects to receive his dinner and relax after hard days work.
And while relaxing alone (she's still busy doing chores) obviously get bored and maybe even create a sneaky fab profile to perve at other women, who do make the effort to look sexy and do make the effort to entertain you (obviously not you personally. I don't know who you are. We never spoke).
Your point of view is automatically brushing off all marriages as some kind of benefit system.
In reality people are programmed from a young age to have two singular goals in life - marriage and children.
Women are told from a young age that their only purpose in life is to reproduce and nurture the family.
They get excited about.
They can't wait to start this magical Disney like happy ever after!
Then once the babies come- they realise that the happy ever after isn't what they imagined. When a partner is fully involved and both share all responsibilities- many hands make light work. She will have time for self care and effort. If her partner at any point decides "I already go to work, so chores and kids isn't my job" of course she will not want to have sex with him. Who would?
Another wide reaching generalisation from a womans prespective what about the guy that works a full time job does the shopping both grocery and other nessities like clothes for the kids takes care of their needs in life like clubs, extra cricular activities cooks dinners and makes lunches for school the folling day also struggling to stay on top of house hold chores and still fancys a fook at the end of the day
Life throws different curve balls in all directions to paint everyone with the same brush is so easy but also so wrong
I’m sure there is something making you accept and stick to this life. Interested to know what it is though "
Its all there in the profile |
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"See lots of married couples 30’s & 40’s, the relationship dries up pretty quick after having kids. They marry the fantasy of married life and not the person. For example the woman will marry a man who can provide a secure home, produce kids and a good income to provide the life she wants to so she feels matched up to everyone else, in reality she was never attracted to him physically and that becomes a reality a few years later when the mad rush of marriage, house and kids starts to ease off. The sex dries up and so does the marriage and they generally let themselves go physically, gain weight and not care about their appearance. The same can be said for a man. I quote one of my married friends, she’s not the best looking but she’s from a nice family with a good job. The woman won’t marry the guy she’s attracted to who stacks the shelves in Tesco, she will Marry the fat bald lad with money who she’s not attracted too and will buy her a white BMW for the school run. That’s just my view related to this particular topic, doesn’t mean I think this about every married person. Because their are obviously some perfect examples of a good marriage.
Interesting view.
What about all the women that have carriers of their own and don't need a fat bald daddy to give them babies and houses?
What about them same men who immerse themselves into their jobs once the babies come to avoid nappy changes?
Women's work life have shifted immensely. They now work full time as well as do most of the care for kids (obviously there's exceptions to every rule).
Women's home life on other hand hasn't really changed. They're still expected to be responsible for cleaning, sustenance, grocery shopping, family calendar and bedtime stories while a man expects to receive his dinner and relax after hard days work.
And while relaxing alone (she's still busy doing chores) obviously get bored and maybe even create a sneaky fab profile to perve at other women, who do make the effort to look sexy and do make the effort to entertain you (obviously not you personally. I don't know who you are. We never spoke).
Your point of view is automatically brushing off all marriages as some kind of benefit system.
In reality people are programmed from a young age to have two singular goals in life - marriage and children.
Women are told from a young age that their only purpose in life is to reproduce and nurture the family.
They get excited about.
They can't wait to start this magical Disney like happy ever after!
Then once the babies come- they realise that the happy ever after isn't what they imagined. When a partner is fully involved and both share all responsibilities- many hands make light work. She will have time for self care and effort. If her partner at any point decides "I already go to work, so chores and kids isn't my job" of course she will not want to have sex with him. Who would?
Another wide reaching generalisation from a womans prespective what about the guy that works a full time job does the shopping both grocery and other nessities like clothes for the kids takes care of their needs in life like clubs, extra cricular activities cooks dinners and makes lunches for school the folling day also struggling to stay on top of house hold chores and still fancys a fook at the end of the day
Life throws different curve balls in all directions to paint everyone with the same brush is so easy but also so wrong "
Why is it acceptable to point out one extreme and not another?
I think I mentioned multiple times that it was a generalisation and there's exceptions to all rules.
There's no issues with our own sex life, we're not married and never had any babies together, so obviously my whole scenario was made up. Made up to illustrate the polar opposite of previously mentioned marriage "motives" and reasons why women let themselves go. Which intwines just lovely with why some wives just stop being sexually attracted to their husbands.
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
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Lots of single Dad’s out there too, and any of the roles mentioned above can easily apply either way, just as difficult for men and women, and every situation is different.
If you think you know someone, their situation or their problems from what you see or read online here, well, you’re probably wrong, and you’re probably either generalising, or being judgemental, so let’s not get into a one side v the other…..
So back on track, OP, I’m single so can’t answer your question, but I think you’ll probably find that there’s a difference between how important sex is to individual people and how important it is to a relationship….. |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"Never enough "
We all have such Various views on how we conduct our Pleasure , If we all thought alike there would be no fun , Then again if more free Spirited relaxed people thought the same causal way of taking Pleasure where They found it , Without jealousies without Prejudiced without judgement forever smiling |
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"Lots of single Dad’s out there too, and any of the roles mentioned above can easily apply either way, just as difficult for men and women, and every situation is different.
If you think you know someone, their situation or their problems from what you see or read online here, well, you’re probably wrong, and you’re probably either generalising, or being judgemental, so let’s not get into a one side v the other…..
So back on track, OP, I’m single so can’t answer your question, but I think you’ll probably find that there’s a difference between how important sex is to individual people and how important it is to a relationship….."
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By *lugoneMan
over a year ago
rathmicheal |
"It will be 11 years this valentine's day coming
Is that your choice or will your partner not have sex with you?
Absolutely not my choice"
If it was me I would never leave a sexy lady like you alone, hot ?? hot |
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By *lugoneMan
over a year ago
rathmicheal |
"It will be 11 years this valentine's day coming
Is that your choice or will your partner not have sex with you?
Absolutely not my choice
Can some handsome lad take this lady for a coffee and get to know her(I'm not implying anything will happen after coffe),. Far too amazing of a lady not to be getting some fun."
If only I was closer I would happily take this lady out |
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can’t sustain with less than that