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Being called a "slut"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does the word "Slut" have a different (positive) meaning nowadays in the world of swing?
I have found that people enjoy being called it lately which is great. Who takes that and other similar words as a compliment? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does the word "Slut" have a different (positive) meaning nowadays in the world of swing?
I have found that people enjoy being called it lately which is great. Who takes that and other similar words as a compliment? "
For me it's in content. I don't mind been somebodies slut and aiming to please them but I don't like been called a slut as an insult. If that makes sense.
Like if someone who doesn't know me called me one I'd be offended but if it's my then daddy called me his slut I'm okay with that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does the word "Slut" have a different (positive) meaning nowadays in the world of swing?
I have found that people enjoy being called it lately which is great. Who takes that and other similar words as a compliment?
For me it's in content. I don't mind been somebodies slut and aiming to please them but I don't like been called a slut as an insult. If that makes sense.
Like if someone who doesn't know me called me one I'd be offended but if it's my then daddy called me his slut I'm okay with that. "
Yep. That makes perfect sense. I totally agree.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a Slut, it's a term I'm very comfortable with. Yes I can understand why some uptigh folk still find the term offensive. In my humble opinion a slut is mearly a free spirited person who engages in sexual activity with whomever they choose. |
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"I am a Slut, it's a term I'm very comfortable with. Yes I can understand why some uptigh folk still find the term offensive. In my humble opinion a slut is mearly a free spirited person who engages in sexual activity with whomever they choose. "
Yep, I agree.
I do understand peoples offense to the term but I enjoy (in context) being called it  |
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Got a msg earlier from a lad whose first msg to me ever was "hey dirty slut"!!!
Instant block right there
If we had been talking for a while, i wud have reacted differently but don't expect a reply from me if that's all you cud come up with in your first msg!!!   |
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I regularly use it to describe myself. Words have power, so I take the power of that word back for myself to use.
Coming from anyone else though, it depends on context. Mostly it depends on who is saying it. Someone I know, who knows I use it about myself, especially if it's said with affection/lust? All good. Randomers saying it in an opening mail? Gwantaefuck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I probably should have clarified. Do people enjoy it being used by partners or playmates?
Some random keyboard warrior using it will never be acceptable. |
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In context/roleplay it's fine. As an intended insult, it's not fine.
During sex the other day, my FB looked down and said "you're fucking gorgeous" (I'm completely average), it turned me on so much. Words can be so powerful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In context/roleplay it's fine. As an intended insult, it's not fine.
During sex the other day, my FB looked down and said "you're fucking gorgeous" (I'm completely average), it turned me on so much. Words can be so powerful. "
Yes definitely this  at the beginning i was kind of going along with the whole thing but then to be very honest it's not naturally what i'm about what so no i don't like it.
If i'm ask to humiliate and it's a huge turn on for the other i can do it and i laugh sometimes but there's lines i don't cross because some people take this humiliation way to far.
I actually get shocked with the extent a person wants to be put down sometimes but the psychological side of it interests me, personally it doesn't make me feel comfortable especially if it's deep and over the top. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A girl i used to go out with called herself my slut. She loved being called it during sex and particularly when we were role playing. Definitely wouldn’t use it as a vulgar term and very much depends on context. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's about context and permission. With a long term trusted partner who has permission to call me a slut then hell yes. If someone is calling me a slut out of malice then it's not welcome. |
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By *j1981Man
over a year ago
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"In heat of the moment, its hot... by someone you know."
Yeh i think u spot on there... its one of those luvit or hateit... words and once u get to know somebodys likes/dislikes... can turn into fun then if both happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's even better when your wife is being fucked by her FB as you watch and he is telling you that she is his Slut now and also prompting her to tell you that she his Slut as well!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a big difference being called “ a slut” or being admired as “my slut”  "
I agree with u,love when my Guy calls me his slut but nobody else will call me that,very disrespectfully... |
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Sum people on here think because there on a swing site that it gives them a rite to disrespect and degrade people i definitely wont be calling it to anyone its a no from me . Treat people with respect gets you further in life thats my view on it . |
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"Does the word "Slut" have a different (positive) meaning nowadays in the world of swing?
I have found that people enjoy being called it lately which is great. Who takes that and other similar words as a compliment?
For me it's in content. I don't mind been somebodies slut and aiming to please them but I don't like been called a slut as an insult. If that makes sense.
Like if someone who doesn't know me called me one I'd be offended but if it's my then daddy called me his slut I'm okay with that. "
That's a great answer just A, I think you hit the nail on the head there ?? |
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By *oc1998Man
over a year ago
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For me, there is no insulting word for someone who loves sex. Slut whore fuckboy, all the same. From what I can tell, people who use those words to insult others are more often jealous of all the action they get haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me, there is no insulting word for someone who loves sex. Slut whore fuckboy, all the same. From what I can tell, people who use those words to insult others are more often jealous of all the action they get haha"
I fully agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been called a Gigolo on many occasion in my youth. From jumping from lady to lady on nights out 
Was the floor lava?"
No it was just me that was hot 
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"I have been called a Gigolo on many occasion in my youth. From jumping from lady to lady on nights out
Was the floor lava?
No it was just me that was hot
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Ah of course, should have known that myself. Silly me  |
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