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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
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So was reading a similar themed thread in the lounge and it got me thinking :
How big a thing is being lazy in bed ?
I prefer being the more active participant , So it doesn’t bother me hugely .
I also think that it’s miraculous that you know , we’re on the planet , alive , thriving , and even getting people to agree to take off their clothes in our presence . So this is merely a first world problem in my book .
But has it led to ‘bad sex’ for you ? Or even hinted at something deeper like not feeling desired ?
As always a respectful discussion would be great and please do not post anything which identifies others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be fairly active in the bedroom too and I've never been any other way. Sex is what you make of it and even if you both just have a quick fumble and cum then it's good sex, maybe not great sex but good sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See I think this might be a case of one man's lazy is another's active participant.
Are you lazy if you don't get on top and ride him like you're a cowboy? Are you lazy if you don't take 50% of the initiative? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See I think this might be a case of one man's lazy is another's active participant.
Are you lazy if you don't get on top and ride him like you're a cowboy? Are you lazy if you don't take 50% of the initiative? "
I believe a lot of men feel they do all the work simply because they’re moving their hips 
I think lazy and unadventurous get confused when talking about sex! |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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I can only comment from a straight woman's perspective and I would distinguish lazy as in 'inactive' and 'lazy in approach'.
Inactive:
Pillow princes do exist, but it has one advantage, you're in charge and you might get something out for yourself.
Much more common is the lazy approach:
1) No effort at all, just stuff the cock in there until you cum = selfish fuck (worst case)
2) The one formulaic approach fits all, no exploring but making some sort of generic effort to please
Yes, all can lead to bad sex, simply because it's a onesided interaction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can only comment from a straight woman's perspective and I would distinguish lazy as in 'inactive' and 'lazy in approach'.
Inactive:
Pillow princes do exist, but it has one advantage, you're in charge and you might get something out for yourself.
Much more common is the lazy approach:
1) No effort at all, just stuff the cock in there until you cum = selfish fuck (worst case)
2) The one formulaic approach fits all, no exploring but making some sort of generic effort to please
Yes, all can lead to bad sex, simply because it's a onesided interaction. "
Best definition of someone I know  |
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I would be very active in the bedroom, I like to enjoy every moment. I cant imagine being any other way. I think if you're both of the same mindset then there wouldn't be any "laziness" sexually. But no cumming...couldn't imagine not, that to me is bad sex but thats just my personal opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lazy in bed god ya when I'm in it on my own, I love it but when I have some hot sexy company 
Love sex and it definitely is a case of give andctake for me, love been in control and love been taken control of, as for a lazy fuck been with guys who I would call a selfish fuck rather than a lazy fuck.
Now I'm off back to bed |
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I think it depends who I'm with and how active they are.
I'm probably more passive if its good but I am vocal about what I like and I like to talk
If whats happening isn't working for me then I'm changing it. If it still doesn't work for me then I'm ruining their orgasm for my own entertainment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should really add...if I'm giving a handjob then I want the person to lie back and let me do what I want "
Used to have a bit of a dilemma when getting a handy or Bj about what should I do…..
One day I was told just f*cking sit back and enjoy!
That was that! |
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"Should really add...if I'm giving a handjob then I want the person to lie back and let me do what I want
Used to have a bit of a dilemma when getting a handy or Bj about what should I do…..
One day I was told just f*cking sit back and enjoy!
That was that! "
Exactly this. |
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"Should really add...if I'm giving a handjob then I want the person to lie back and let me do what I want
I'd lie there all week and let you do what you want after seeing your video's..... "
Jayzus my hands would be getting some cramps if I was at it for a week!
You are just up the road like but thats not an invitation for a week! |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
Lazy or laziness is not an apt way to describe the interaction of two people in the sack, sexually.
There are so many possible variables: the enthusiasm of each for the other; their normal energy level; whether they are tired; if they are intoxicated, or not.
The most significant is whether you 'fancy' the other person.
It's like everything else in life; if you're really interested, it will be very evident from your attitudes and behaviours.
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By *unner4funMan
over a year ago
Belfast-Coleraine |
"Should really add...if I'm giving a handjob then I want the person to lie back and let me do what I want
I'd lie there all week and let you do what you want after seeing your video's.....
Jayzus my hands would be getting some cramps if I was at it for a week!
You are just up the road like but thats not an invitation for a week!"
Lololol very good
If this is what the almond oil is for better make it 2 bottles, I'm greedy!!! |
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Jayzus my hands would be getting some cramps if I was at it for a week!
You are just up the road like but thats not an invitation for a week!
Lololol very good
If this is what the almond oil is for better make it 2 bottles, I'm greedy!!! "
Haha yes the oil is for that |
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By *aggie MaeWoman
over a year ago
Just out and about |
Ack I read the header and thought this was a thread about not wanting to get up on a day off because it's cosy under the duvet, I thought I was going to look at a duvet day appreciation thread |
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