 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
So what are some red flags you see from people on Fab?
The one that, I find mad is on a single woman's profile and then you see in the bio
"My other half has access to this profile"
Just make a couples profiler. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So what are some red flags you see from people on Fab?
The one that, I find mad is on a single woman's profile and then you see in the bio
"My other half has access to this profile"
Just make a couples profiler."
Why do you consider that a red flag? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"So what are some red flags you see from people on Fab?
The one that, I find mad is on a single woman's profile and then you see in the bio
"My other half has access to this profile"
Just make a couples profiler."
I dont see how thats a red flag. She could be meeting solo |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So what are some red flags you see from people on Fab?
The one that, I find mad is on a single woman's profile and then you see in the bio
"My other half has access to this profile"
Just make a couples profiler.
Why do you consider that a red flag?"
I can see why that would be a red flag to be fair. It "explains" why man might respond to your messages etc...
It is a bit of a warning that it might not actually be a female on the other end. Obviously that needs to be considered with other factors on the profile taken into account |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
The nature of the site means that what screams out red flag to me is perfectly acceptable to others.
There are also different grades of red flags.
It's like a Dulux colour card ranging from "Notafuckingchanceinhell crimson" to "ThatseemsdodgybutIdontwanttobeleftoutsoIllignoreit pink".
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Personal red flag - many photos with different partners.
No problem with many different partners. Problem with taking photos. Some people are so keen to take photos that sometimes they don't even ask if you're okay with it (happened to me not so long ago - a guy I met over 3 years ago sent me a photo of me that he took when I wasn't looking).
Status updates can tell a tale about someone too... not a very pretty tale at that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Personal red flag - many photos with different partners.
No problem with many different partners. Problem with taking photos. Some people are so keen to take photos that sometimes they don't even ask if you're okay with it (happened to me not so long ago - a guy I met over 3 years ago sent me a photo of me that he took when I wasn't looking).
Status updates can tell a tale about someone too... not a very pretty tale at that. "
This happened to me in my earlier days in swing i was more vulnerable and he was sending me videos and pictures if other women with face in them. Now that effected me right up to now hence why i don't do big group meets or won't play in an open situation often either without something on me and actually can't enjoy it because i am watching for some one with a phone. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"A lot of red flags on here lately, getting swamped with gay men pretending to be women, starting to turn me off the place abit "
I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you aren't being blatantly Transphobic and are referring to people setting up fake profiles.
Helpful reminder:
Trans women are women.
Trans men are men.
Non-Binary people are valid.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"A lot of red flags on here lately, getting swamped with gay men pretending to be women, starting to turn me off the place abit
I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you aren't being blatantly Transphobic and are referring to people setting up fake profiles.
Helpful reminder:
Trans women are women.
Trans men are men.
Non-Binary people are valid.
"
I have absolutely ZERO issues with the LGBTQ+ community. Not got me but I fully support.
However what I’m referencing is men, with pics of females on there profile, pretending to be women, not stating that they are gay/trans/tv/ts anything at all like that, but blatantly saying they are women and going through the conversations, getting sent pics and vids, that look homemade, that look like what I’m looking for, but are actually men. Pic and vid hunting.
No issue with what anyone wants to be, but don’t say you are one thing and act as such. When they are not. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Personal red flag - many photos with different partners.
No problem with many different partners. Problem with taking photos. Some people are so keen to take photos that sometimes they don't even ask if you're okay with it (happened to me not so long ago - a guy I met over 3 years ago sent me a photo of me that he took when I wasn't looking).
Status updates can tell a tale about someone too... not a very pretty tale at that.
This happened to me in my earlier days in swing i was more vulnerable and he was sending me videos and pictures if other women with face in them. Now that effected me right up to now hence why i don't do big group meets or won't play in an open situation often either without something on me and actually can't enjoy it because i am watching for some one with a phone. "
There was a party coming up once, I wasn't planning on going, but some guy assumed I was. He messaged me stating how he can't wait to get his hands on me at the party.
Told him even if I did go - there is no chance of him going anywhere near me with his attitude.
To which he replied - once you see my cock you'll be all over it.
And that was the moment when I made up my mind - never will anyone find me at any sex parties that we didn't organise ourselves.
Creeps like that is why so many women get put off from living out their own fantasies  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"A lot of red flags on here lately, getting swamped with gay men pretending to be women, starting to turn me off the place abit
I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you aren't being blatantly Transphobic and are referring to people setting up fake profiles.
Helpful reminder:
Trans women are women.
Trans men are men.
Non-Binary people are valid.
"
There was no benefit of doubt to be given. It was a clear reference to men on here pretending to be women. Because it happens quite a lot!You must have been lying in wait to try and voice your trans opinions. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"A lot of red flags on here lately, getting swamped with gay men pretending to be women, starting to turn me off the place abit
I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you aren't being blatantly Transphobic and are referring to people setting up fake profiles.
Helpful reminder:
Trans women are women.
Trans men are men.
Non-Binary people are valid.
There was no benefit of doubt to be given. It was a clear reference to men on here pretending to be women. Because it happens quite a lot!You must have been lying in wait to try and voice your trans opinions. "
100% agree with this. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"A lot of red flags on here lately, getting swamped with gay men pretending to be women, starting to turn me off the place abit
I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you aren't being blatantly Transphobic and are referring to people setting up fake profiles.
Helpful reminder:
Trans women are women.
Trans men are men.
Non-Binary people are valid.
Cheers for the back up! Jumped down my throat
There was no benefit of doubt to be given. It was a clear reference to men on here pretending to be women. Because it happens quite a lot!You must have been lying in wait to try and voice your trans opinions. "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'm on my own here so lol.
If the person needs to see what people are saying to her and vice versa or having to check up on them. Couple's profile."
Or he's just looking out for her perhaps at her request? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"A lot of red flags on here lately, getting swamped with gay men pretending to be women, starting to turn me off the place abit
I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you aren't being blatantly Transphobic and are referring to people setting up fake profiles.
Helpful reminder:
Trans women are women.
Trans men are men.
Non-Binary people are valid.
There was no benefit of doubt to be given. It was a clear reference to men on here pretending to be women. Because it happens quite a lot!You must have been lying in wait to try and voice your trans opinions. "
Are Trans opinions not allowed...thought they would have been as valid as anyone else's
Op made himself clear to me as to who he meant but just maybe he was picked up wrong |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Of course they are allowed. But this was a blatant half excuse to voice them on someone who didn’t mention anything in relation to it. Someone moulding an unrelated comment to fit their own agenda. Which is very annoying |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"
Someone new who hides their verification.
"
Something I just realized in the manage verifications page "Verifications from users who have left Fab won't show below."
So you can have verifications which can't be displayed anymore but will still count to your summary. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Couples profile wiyh only pics of guy,
Single girl profile with a guy on cam on his own
Cant accomadate and cant travel but wont meet anyone local
"
Couples profiles with pics of the lady only and they are looking for couples. Wtf is he afraid of?  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ettaManMan
over a year ago
Based in Kerry, work in Cork. |
"
You presume correctly  "
Wait! I always presumed that the male of the couple was shown on the left hand side of the profile but I've just done some very basic research and it seems my assumption might not be justified... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"
You presume correctly
Wait! I always presumed that the male of the couple was shown on the left hand side of the profile but I've just done some very basic research and it seems my assumption might not be justified..."
Yeah i think im first on our profile. U know its me coz im a short arse |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ettaManMan
over a year ago
Based in Kerry, work in Cork. |
"
Yeah i think im first on our profile. U know its me coz im a short arse "
That's not the adjective I'd use to describe your arse....oh, you mean your height! I should've spotted that
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
You presume correctly
Wait! I always presumed that the male of the couple was shown on the left hand side of the profile but I've just done some very basic research and it seems my assumption might not be justified..."
So did I - WHAAAT??  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
"
Someone here over a year that is still unverified.
"
I think you need to take into account the fact that we are emerging from one of the worst pandemics for 100 years; I have benn hanging in here, hoping things will now start to improve, and that meeting face to face will become feasible.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
