"Why oh why get caught up in what other people are doing when it doesn’t affect you?"
because it confuses me. And thought i would use the public forum as a discussion of that confusion. Isnt that what the forums are for?
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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"Why oh why get caught up in what other people are doing when it doesn’t affect you?because it confuses me. And thought i would use the public forum as a discussion of that confusion. Isnt that what the forums are for?"
Jaysus no, forums are for arguments, games and flirting  |
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"Why oh why get caught up in what other people are doing when it doesn’t affect you?because it confuses me. And thought i would use the public forum as a discussion of that confusion. Isnt that what the forums are for?
Jaysus no, forums are for arguments, games and flirting "
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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I prefer a maximum of 2 if the first one was a social non play one
But if someone verifies me the 3rd/4th time then i just think it’s a nice thing to do and reciprocate.
If you meet with the same person/people over a long period then it may look like you haven’t been meeting Without new Veris . Occasionally people I have contracted have had ‘only those with recent veris considered ‘ so maybe a deal breaker for some .
Ultimately though , people can do what they want with their profile
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"I prefer a maximum of 2 if the first one was a social non play one
But if someone verifies me the 3rd/4th time then i just think it’s a nice thing to do and reciprocate.
If you meet with the same person/people over a long period then it may look like you haven’t been meeting Without new Veris . Occasionally people I have contracted have had ‘only those with recent veris considered ‘ so maybe a deal breaker for some .
Ultimately though , people can do what they want with their profile
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i agree 100% a profile is a persons own choice what goes on it. So basically if a person verifies you more than once you will reciprocate and verify them back? Just because they did? What do you say? I mean if you are only doing it cos they did. You just make something up? like the majority of verifying.
Like, nobody is not nice, nobody is bad in bed, nobody has a small cock etc |
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"People like to compliment each other, they like to let people know they enjoyed their company. There's nothing wrong with it! "
do you not think saying it publicly more than once is a lil bit cringe?
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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"I prefer a maximum of 2 if the first one was a social non play one
But if someone verifies me the 3rd/4th time then i just think it’s a nice thing to do and reciprocate.
If you meet with the same person/people over a long period then it may look like you haven’t been meeting Without new Veris . Occasionally people I have contracted have had ‘only those with recent veris considered ‘ so maybe a deal breaker for some .
Ultimately though , people can do what they want with their profile
i agree 100% a profile is a persons own choice what goes on it. So basically if a person verifies you more than once you will reciprocate and verify them back? Just because they did? What do you say? I mean if you are only doing it cos they did. You just make something up? like the majority of verifying.
Like, nobody is not nice, nobody is bad in bed, nobody has a small cock etc"
I am not doing it just because they did. I would always chat about how the social/play meet went and if we would meet again .
I had a terrible one in December and no one Verified anyone else . There was nothing positive to say.
But if you invest in the meet beforehand chances are it ll go well and the veri will be positive .
The not nice people whom you don’t fancy you can largely out beforehand.
And No making up things . A 17th meet doesn’t have to have be any less pleasant and require any embellishments as a result . In fact it ll probably be even better .
I suspect a far bigger problem than multiple verifications is a sense that the site is full of people who lie about each other for their gain. It could actually provide incredible opportunities if one embraces it positively in my view . |
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"I prefer a maximum of 2 if the first one was a social non play one
But if someone verifies me the 3rd/4th time then i just think it’s a nice thing to do and reciprocate.
If you meet with the same person/people over a long period then it may look like you haven’t been meeting Without new Veris . Occasionally people I have contracted have had ‘only those with recent veris considered ‘ so maybe a deal breaker for some .
Ultimately though , people can do what they want with their profile
i agree 100% a profile is a persons own choice what goes on it. So basically if a person verifies you more than once you will reciprocate and verify them back? Just because they did? What do you say? I mean if you are only doing it cos they did. You just make something up? like the majority of verifying.
Like, nobody is not nice, nobody is bad in bed, nobody has a small cock etc
I am not doing it just because they did. I would always chat about how the social/play meet went and if we would meet again .
I had a terrible one in December and no one Verified anyone else . There was nothing positive to say.
But if you invest in the meet beforehand chances are it ll go well and the veri will be positive .
The not nice people whom you don’t fancy you can largely out beforehand.
And No making up things . A 17th meet doesn’t have to have be any less pleasant and require any embellishments as a result . In fact it ll probably be even better .
I suspect a far bigger problem than multiple verifications is a sense that the site is full of people who lie about each other for their gain. It could actually provide incredible opportunities if one embraces it positively in my view . "
that is very well put |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People like to compliment each other, they like to let people know they enjoyed their company. There's nothing wrong with it! do you not think saying it publicly more than once is a lil bit cringe?"
I don't think so. Each to their own obvs but I think it's nice when people have such good times with each other that they want to publicly thank them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not that it really matters, but our multiple veries were from different kinds of meet eg met as a couple and also met solo, met at a group social and met individually for coffee. |
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I don't tend to read peoples veris, just the ones that they have given. It works for me.
I verify once, to say in so many words that they were who they portray themselves to be.
For me thats the purpose of a veri. Any more than that and I'd feel like I was pissing on lamposts |
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