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Tough for men? Or is it down to the profile?
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Hi all, been on fab awhile now, have been to a couple of parties but outside of that pretty much hitting a wall… I know there’s a million men to every couple/female profile, was just wondering is the issue my profile? My pics abit much? Or is it literally just down to the fact that there’s so many men on fab ?
I could send out decent non one liner messages and 95% of the time they go unopened or they’re opened and ignored.
Starting to think unless your model material your besting dead horse …. Any other guys find this ?
Any tips appreciated
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over a year ago
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Lower your expectations lol. I've had a few meets but only a few and they've been fantastic fun. It's not a dial-a-ride service lol. You get rejected much more than you'll succeed, so don't take it personally and you'll be grand. |
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Ah yeah! Definitely I know t’s not dial a ride but find that parties rather than messaging directly on fab seems to be the way to go, I know a few ladies on fab too and they can get 500+ messages a day! Be lucky to get one every 4 weeks haha |
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It's all about effort and expectation as well as a consistent approach across everything you do.
Whatever you are selling has to be backed up with a good after sales service rather than relying on extended warranties. |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
I’d love to know who these people claiming they get 500+ messages a day are 
It’s hard to know op, from your profile you seem to get on well at parties etc. your pics are very attractive but I know some people are put off by public face pics.
You definitely don’t need to be model material to succeed on fab but it can sometimes come down to luck and being in the right place at the right time.
Continue to involve yourself in the forums, it’s a good way of getting to know people. |
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over a year ago
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Would you go to more RVC parties that would be a good way of increasing the people you know?
There is a perception on here right or wrong that people with facepics on their public profile can be a problem with regards to discretion so that might put some folks off l.
Also I'd remove the insta pic asking if there are any hoes as lighthearted as I'm sure it was may give some people the wrong impression as to how you view women.
Other than that just keep chatting away  |
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"I’d love to know who these people claiming they get 500+ messages a day are
It’s hard to know op, from your profile you seem to get on well at parties etc. your pics are very attractive but I know some people are put off by public face pics.
You definitely don’t need to be model material to succeed on fab but it can sometimes come down to luck and being in the right place at the right time.
Continue to involve yourself in the forums, it’s a good way of getting to know people. "
Great advice!
Thank you ! |
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"Would you go to more RVC parties that would be a good way of increasing the people you know?
There is a perception on here right or wrong that people with facepics on their public profile can be a problem with regards to discretion so that might put some folks off l.
Also I'd remove the insta pic asking if there are any hoes as lighthearted as I'm sure it was may give some people the wrong impression as to how you view women.
Other than that just keep chatting away "
Yeah thought that may have been a risky pic alright haha! Yeah got a lot of face going on alright probably too much!
I’m far from drama though! The face stuff was more to stand out but could actually be doing the opposite now that’s 2 folks that have said it! Cheers ! |
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Ok so I'm a wee bit anal and your paragraphs are irking me
If you could fix the layout that would be fandabby, just so your sentences flow better
You have a lot of face pics, I suggest you remove all before 8th June 2018 pic (oooft) and the bathroom pic.
They're old pics and you look different now so theres no point having 5 yr old pics 
The use of means I can be blunt and a tad cunty bc this emoji is taking the sting out of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You definitely don’t need to be model material to succeed on fab but it can sometimes come down to luck and being in the right place at the right time.
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This is very true too. Unless we're actively looking to organise a meet we can be extremely guilty of being apathetic towards messages and it's no reflection on the sender whatsoever |
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"Ok so I'm a wee bit anal and your paragraphs are irking me
If you could fix the layout that would be fandabby, just so your sentences flow better
You have a lot of face pics, I suggest you remove all before 8th June 2018 pic (oooft) and the bathroom pic.
They're old pics and you look different now so theres no point having 5 yr old pics
The use of means I can be blunt and a tad cunty bc this emoji is taking the sting out of it"
What’s “irking me” mean haha I have no idea what you mean there !
And definitely good advice on the pics !! And l love your bluntness ! Old pics to be removed good call!
Thank you ! |
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"Ok so I'm a wee bit anal and your paragraphs are irking me
If you could fix the layout that would be fandabby, just so your sentences flow better
You have a lot of face pics, I suggest you remove all before 8th June 2018 pic (oooft) and the bathroom pic.
They're old pics and you look different now so theres no point having 5 yr old pics
The use of means I can be blunt and a tad cunty bc this emoji is taking the sting out of it
What’s “irking me” mean haha I have no idea what you mean there !
And definitely good advice on the pics !! And l love your bluntness ! Old pics to be removed good call!
Thank you !"
It was a nice way to say they annoy me Mainly because your sentences are split, it just needs a wee tidy |
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"Ah yeah! Definitely I know t’s not dial a ride but find that parties rather than messaging directly on fab seems to be the way to go, I know a few ladies on fab too and they can get 500+ messages a day! Be lucky to get one every 4 weeks haha "
I'm sure most on here would agree that parties/clubs/socials are the way to go for single guys such as yourself. You have a nice profile, nice pics. I feel a lot of guys on here DO think it's some kind of dial-a-ride service and so many seem hung up on collecting verifications. The fact is that guys outnumber the ladies on here bigtime. Just keep doing what you're doing and have your fun. You can make friends (acquaintances) on here but don't focus on collecting verifications just because you see certain guys with a few dozen. It's the quiet ones you need to watch |
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"Ah yeah! Definitely I know t’s not dial a ride but find that parties rather than messaging directly on fab seems to be the way to go, I know a few ladies on fab too and they can get 500+ messages a day! Be lucky to get one every 4 weeks haha
I'm sure most on here would agree that parties/clubs/socials are the way to go for single guys such as yourself. You have a nice profile, nice pics. I feel a lot of guys on here DO think it's some kind of dial-a-ride service and so many seem hung up on collecting verifications. The fact is that guys outnumber the ladies on here bigtime. Just keep doing what you're doing and have your fun. You can make friends (acquaintances) on here but don't focus on collecting verifications just because you see certain guys with a few dozen. It's the quiet ones you need to watch "
Totally agree! Quality over quantity for me definitely! I’m thinking the socials could be the way to go for now and maybe find a partner in crime along the way 
Thanks for the tips |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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Yep I'm afraid going to events (which aren't as common currently) are the best way to make contacts here as a single guy. That's both socials and play parties. Unfortunately there are currently much less (but not no) events happening but fingers crossed and all that.... |
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"Yep I'm afraid going to events (which aren't as common currently) are the best way to make contacts here as a single guy. That's both socials and play parties. Unfortunately there are currently much less (but not no) events happening but fingers crossed and all that.... "
Yeah I hear you! Covid did more damage to my sex life than anything else ! |
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"Ah yeah! Definitely I know its not dial a ride but find that rather than messaging directly on fab seems to be the way to go, I know a few ladies on fab too and they can get 500+ messages a day! Be lucky to get one every 4 weeks haha
I'm sure most on here would agree that parties/clubs/socials are the way to go for single guys such as yourself. You have a nice profile, nice pics. I feel a lot of guys on here DO think it's some kind of dial-a-ride service and so many seem hung up on collecting verifications. The fact is that guys outnumber the ladies on here bigtime. Just keep doing what you're doing and have your fun. You can make friends (acquaintances) on here but don't focus on collecting verifications just because you see certain guys with a few dozen. It's the quiet ones you need to watch "
Ye I agree it’s not dial a ride but you can’t get invited to any socials unless you have being - Met verified- which is unlucky for some ,
Plenty of attention from Men but as I’m not gay it doesn’t appeal to me |
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"Ah yeah! Definitely I know its not dial a ride but find that rather than messaging directly on fab seems to be the way to go, I know a few ladies on fab too and they can get 500+ messages a day! Be lucky to get one every 4 weeks haha
I'm sure most on here would agree that parties/clubs/socials are the way to go for single guys such as yourself. You have a nice profile, nice pics. I feel a lot of guys on here DO think it's some kind of dial-a-ride service and so many seem hung up on collecting verifications. The fact is that guys outnumber the ladies on here bigtime. Just keep doing what you're doing and have your fun. You can make friends (acquaintances) on here but don't focus on collecting verifications just because you see certain guys with a few dozen. It's the quiet ones you need to watch
Ye I agree it’s not dial a ride but you can’t get invited to any socials unless you have being - Met verified- which is unlucky for some ,
Plenty of attention from Men but as I’m not gay it doesn’t appeal to me "
If only we were gay, we wouldn’t have to dig deep at all! |
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"Hi all, been on fab awhile now, have been to a couple of parties but outside of that pretty much hitting a wall… I know there’s a million men to every couple/female profile, was just wondering is the issue my profile? My pics abit much? Or is it literally just down to the fact that there’s so many men on fab ?
I could send out decent non one liner messages and 95% of the time they go unopened or they’re opened and ignored.
Starting to think unless your model material your besting dead horse …. Any other guys find this ?
Any tips appreciated
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Mate don't sweat it and don't try and figure what goes on in a woman's mind on here you'll end up in the loony bin . |
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"Hi all, been on fab awhile now, have been to a couple of parties but outside of that pretty much hitting a wall… I know there’s a million men to every couple/female profile, was just wondering is the issue my profile? My pics abit much? Or is it literally just down to the fact that there’s so many men on fab ?
I could send out decent non one liner messages and 95% of the time they go unopened or they’re opened and ignored.
Starting to think unless your model material your besting dead horse …. Any other guys find this ?
Any tips appreciated
Mate don't sweat it and don't try and figure what goes on in a woman's mind on here you'll end up in the loony bin . "
Don't listen to him |
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"Hi all, been on fab awhile now, have been to a couple of parties but outside of that pretty much hitting a wall… I know there’s a million men to every couple/female profile, was just wondering is the issue my profile? My pics abit much? Or is it literally just down to the fact that there’s so many men on fab ?
I could send out decent non one liner messages and 95% of the time they go unopened or they’re opened and ignored.
Starting to think unless your model material your besting dead horse …. Any other guys find this ?
Any tips appreciated
Mate don't sweat it and don't try and figure what goes on in a woman's mind on here you'll end up in the loony bin .
Don't listen to him "
He’s probably bang on though haha |
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"Hi all, been on fab awhile now, have been to a couple of parties but outside of that pretty much hitting a wall… I know there’s a million men to every couple/female profile, was just wondering is the issue my profile? My pics abit much? Or is it literally just down to the fact that there’s so many men on fab ?
I could send out decent non one liner messages and 95% of the time they go unopened or they’re opened and ignored.
Starting to think unless your model material your besting dead horse …. Any other guys find this ?
Any tips appreciated
Mate don't sweat it and don't try and figure what goes on in a woman's mind on here you'll end up in the loony bin .
Don't listen to him
He’s probably bang on though haha "
Aye but a loony bin would be fun |
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"Hi all, been on fab awhile now, have been to a couple of parties but outside of that pretty much hitting a wall… I know there’s a million men to every couple/female profile, was just wondering is the issue my profile? My pics abit much? Or is it literally just down to the fact that there’s so many men on fab ?
I could send out decent non one liner messages and 95% of the time they go unopened or they’re opened and ignored.
Starting to think unless your model material your besting dead horse …. Any other guys find this ?
Any tips appreciated
Mate don't sweat it and don't try and figure what goes on in a woman's mind on here you'll end up in the loony bin .
Don't listen to him "
You liking my wee green smiles, see if they like me now |
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"Hi all, been on fab awhile now, have been to a couple of parties but outside of that pretty much hitting a wall… I know there’s a million men to every couple/female profile, was just wondering is the issue my profile? My pics abit much? Or is it literally just down to the fact that there’s so many men on fab ?
I could send out decent non one liner messages and 95% of the time they go unopened or they’re opened and ignored.
Starting to think unless your model material your besting dead horse …. Any other guys find this ?
Any tips appreciated
Mate don't sweat it and don't try and figure what goes on in a woman's mind on here you'll end up in the loony bin .
Don't listen to him
He’s probably bang on though haha "
Mate there is saner eating grass |
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"Hi all, been on fab awhile now, have been to a couple of parties but outside of that pretty much hitting a wall… I know there’s a million men to every couple/female profile, was just wondering is the issue my profile? My pics abit much? Or is it literally just down to the fact that there’s so many men on fab ?
I could send out decent non one liner messages and 95% of the time they go unopened or they’re opened and ignored.
Starting to think unless your model material your besting dead horse …. Any other guys find this ?
Any tips appreciated
Mate don't sweat it and don't try and figure what goes on in a woman's mind on here you'll end up in the loony bin .
Don't listen to him
He’s probably bang on though haha
Mate there is saner eating grass "
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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"Hi all, been on fab awhile now, have been to a couple of parties but outside of that pretty much hitting a wall… I know there’s a million men to every couple/female profile, was just wondering is the issue my profile? My pics abit much? Or is it literally just down to the fact that there’s so many men on fab ?
I could send out decent non one liner messages and 95% of the time they go unopened or they’re opened and ignored.
Starting to think unless your model material your besting dead horse …. Any other guys find this ?
Any tips appreciated
Mate don't sweat it and don't try and figure what goes on in a woman's mind on here you'll end up in the loony bin .
Don't listen to him
He’s probably bang on though haha
Mate there is saner eating grass "
And he wonders why he doesn’t get more messages
If all the women seem looney, maybe you’re the problem |
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"Hi all, been on fab awhile now, have been to a couple of parties but outside of that pretty much hitting a wall… I know there’s a million men to every couple/female profile, was just wondering is the issue my profile? My pics abit much? Or is it literally just down to the fact that there’s so many men on fab ?
I could send out decent non one liner messages and 95% of the time they go unopened or they’re opened and ignored.
Starting to think unless your model material your besting dead horse …. Any other guys find this ?
Any tips appreciated
Mate don't sweat it and don't try and figure what goes on in a woman's mind on here you'll end up in the loony bin .
Don't listen to him
He’s probably bang on though haha
Mate there is saner eating grass
And he wonders why he doesn’t get more messages
If all the women seem looney, maybe you’re the problem "
Hahaha you made me laugh thanks, oh its definitely not me |
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