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I have never let anybody cum on my face and I don't foresee it happening, unless I am with someone who can make it erotic for me. I enjoy it on my breasts, back, bum, tummy and in my mouth. However, by far, my preference is inside of me. And, when I feel it is safe and possible to choose, condomless.
I cannot adequately put into words how pleasurable this feels for me. There is very much a physical aspect, where I enjoy the build, feeling the guy get close and, when the moment comes, feeling it spurt inside me and spread. There is also a psychological aspect, where I become hugely turned on by the prospect and I delight in getting what I wanted all along. I also really enjoy knowing his cum is still inside me afterwards.
I would love to know what is the preference of the men on here and why. I am also curious to know if it is as satisfying to cum on a body part, as you have the visual, or if is there nothing like condomless ejaculation inside a woman? Is there a psychological aspect of it for some, too?
Anyway, feedback would be appreciated. I could lie and pretend it is for a thesis I am undertaking, but it is actually down to my own personal desire to know if it feels as good for you. | |||
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"Having enjoyed reading the thread on the choice between cumming on a woman's face, or on her breasts, I would like to conduct my own research...
I have never let anybody cum on my face and I don't foresee it happening, unless I am with someone who can make it erotic for me. I enjoy it on my breasts, back, bum, tummy and in my mouth. However, by far, my preference is inside of me. And, when I feel it is safe and possible to choose, condomless.
I cannot adequately put into words how pleasurable this feels for me. There is very much a physical aspect, where I enjoy the build, feeling the guy get close and, when the moment comes, feeling it spurt inside me and spread. There is also a psychological aspect, where I become hugely turned on by the prospect and I delight in getting what I wanted all along. I also really enjoy knowing his cum is still inside me afterwards.
I would love to know what is the preference of the men on here and why. I am also curious to know if it is as satisfying to cum on a body part, as you have the visual, or if is there nothing like condomless ejaculation inside a woman? Is there a psychological aspect of it for some, too?
Anyway, feedback would be appreciated. I could lie and pretend it is for a thesis I am undertaking, but it is actually down to my own personal desire to know if it feels as good for you. "It's definitely down to shared experience which involves communication and trust.... my own preference is inside, without a condom, however, that is a decision to be agreed by both, and once there's trust and respect, everything else should fall into place. With regard to face, or elsewhere, again it wouldn't just be a case of "shooting" into somebody's eye and hope she doesn't mind lol..... but in time, an understanding of each other will raise the excitement in trying new experiences | |||
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"Inside is magical but I find a bj that swallows on a par with inside ." I would have to agree | |||
Double cum shot thread! | |||
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"Cavan. " But on a good day will it land in Monaghan mick? | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 12/01/22 12:24:24]" I think its best the feeling without the condom on.. but it would be outside of her and being able to cum on her is deeply erotic in the right circumstances... If she is greedy to have it then its intensely erotic... | |||
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Interesting to read other people's preferences & reasoning outside of those I have either gotten to know intimately, or at least felt comfortable enough to ask. | |||
"Thank you for replies, both thoughtful & humourous.
Interesting to read other people's preferences & reasoning outside of those I have either gotten to know intimately, or at least felt comfortable enough to ask. "Well, whats the conclusion to your study? Are you going to take it on the chin?  | |||
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"Thank you for replies, both thoughtful & humourous.
Interesting to read other people's preferences & reasoning outside of those I have either gotten to know intimately, or at least felt comfortable enough to ask. "The key point is "other peoples' preferences" and understanding that not all are the same, but at the same time, establishing comfort and trust to maybe explore and experiment with someone if thats what both parties agree.... and take one on the chin | |||
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 or onto her tongue | |||
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"I prefer to cum in company" Preferred for most if not all I suspect. | |||
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I've only ever once had (asked for) a guy to finish on my face. It just felt gloopy and yuk. I distinctly remember him asking me to wipe my chin 
For me it's got to me inside me. But obviously that's not for any Tom Dick or Harry to do. So for that reason I simply don't enjoy casual sex. For me a condom, IE a barrier, takes away from the intimacy  But if I do decide to play with others then I prefer them to cum inside the condom | |||
"Ugh. I just don't get this cumming on face or tits or any other body part. In all my years of shagging and watching porn I still don't get it
I've only ever once had (asked for) a guy to finish on my face. It just felt gloopy and yuk. I distinctly remember him asking me to wipe my chin
For me it's got to me inside me. But obviously that's not for any Tom Dick or Harry to do. So for that reason I simply don't enjoy casual sex. For me a condom, IE a barrier, takes away from the intimacy But if I do decide to play with others then I prefer them to cum inside the condom "CUE All the PM's now from guys looking for to fuck me bareback   | |||
"Ugh. I just don't get this cumming on face or tits or any other body part. In all my years of shagging and watching porn I still don't get it
I've only ever once had (asked for) a guy to finish on my face. It just felt gloopy and yuk. I distinctly remember him asking me to wipe my chin
For me it's got to me inside me. But obviously that's not for any Tom Dick or Harry to do. So for that reason I simply don't enjoy casual sex. For me a condom, IE a barrier, takes away from the intimacy But if I do decide to play with others then I prefer them to cum inside the condom
CUE All the PM's now from guys looking for to fuck me bareback " | |||
For me I prefer to cum inside mrs Gs or over her boobs or when playing with others it's boobs | |||
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"What he said ^^^" | |||
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"Inside is magical but I find a bj that swallows on a par with inside ." Agreed. | |||
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"Favorite place is in the mouth especially if they enjoy it ...find it very intimate" Yea..totally agree! Followed immediately by sensual, deep French kissing ! mmmmmmm | |||
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"In the condom,the mouth or, depending on foreplay, the ass. Personally I hate cum mess, which some find weird it, when it cums to spunk, I'm a bit Monica "Lewinsky or Geller | |||
"I could have written the OPs post. I hate facials, I find it demeaning and it makes me feel a bit ill. A man cumming inside me in a condom is possibly my favourite thing ever. The build up, his loss of control, the moans and how their body reacts. I’d go so far as to say it’s a kink I have, as I love when it happens with very dominant men. I very very rarely go bareback so that’s not a kink but it’s happened twice in as many years and I don’t crave it. " Very interesting! One guy told me that he thinks it is a kink of mine, but I don't really see it that way. It is funny, as I very much see it as you do. I am fascinated by a man cumming - taking in how he loses control. It drives me wild, and I like to cum with him, and/or again afterwards.
However, unlike you, I much prefer condomless, but that only happens when in a relationship, where there is trust, etc., | |||
"In the condom,the mouth or, depending on foreplay, the ass. Personally I hate cum mess, which some find weird it, when it cums to spunk, I'm a bit Monica
Lewinsky or Geller " Geller, I would imagine.
Funnily enough, I don't like sex to be too sanitary.
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"On my boobs, love guys stood over me as they cum, the ultimate fantasy is for multiple guys at the same time. Love it inside too, but the safety aspect will always overide the fantasy unless it was was someone we knew and trusted." Liking your cum preference..... i cum heavy... always suprise the recipient..... give your boobs a fair covering and would enjoy seeing u hav multiple.... | |||
"I love coming home to Limerick the weekend after a week in Dublin.. "Cumimg all the way down the road! | |||
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"Cumshots are a kink for me in many ways and its my main porn category go to. In my sex life though it's linked to how the woman reacted to it that makes it interesting or bad. For example one ex hated it on her face the one time we tried and was upset and I don't think back on it fondly while another was giddy laughing and took a bunch of selfies with it all over her face and top (too much went on the floor as well) and it was great memory. The second woman actually started by just being not bothered by cum but wasn't sure about facials because it might be degrading. I explained that it is not a masculine power move in my mind but I like that its this random visible mark that's left over after an orgasm and the more of it the more intense the moment was. That's maybe something women and even men don't get about a good cumshot, it's not consistent. A guy gets harder, cums harder and cums more when he is very turned on and remains aroused for longer before release (foreplay, trying different positions, speeds and depths). She liked that view point and really started to like cumshots and especially when they where big ones, which is why she took the selfies to capture the moment. Saying all that, cumming inside with a condom feels the more complete and taking a condom off to cum on someone feels like its breaking the rhythm so i'll just stay inside. No condom and cumming inside just feels the best and I have no doubt there is a chemical/hormone reaction to it for the woman that just leaves her a bit happier the following days. That leaves a good memory in my mind." Thank you for explaining & detailing this. While I still wouldn't necessarily be up for a facial, I certainly see it a little differently. Very interesting to read your perspective. | |||
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