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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Before I even ask the question, I want to say that I’m not homophobic, I have soooo many gay friends, but……..
for some reason I’m not attracted to bisexual males. There’s something about them that turns me off, and I can’t put my finger on what it is? Ps. I’m bicurious myself, so this particular statement shouldn’t make any sense, but here I am.
Anyone can explain why bisexual males are not my cup of tea. Can any women relate to this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's fine and you shouldn't feel the need to explain yourself. (
You don't pick and choose what you're attracted too, so I wouldn't worry to much.
But I can understand it would leave you scratching your head  |
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meh...just seems a question of taste. however. there could be other reasons. like definitely knowing you're the center of attention in an MMF threesome situation for instance. just a thought as I don't know you |
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"Who knows. It's your head.
Could it be linked to other preferences that you have like hight?
Some perceived alpha dominance type of thing?"
oh...noooo pal. not this one. this one is a razor blade sharp minded man eater. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who knows. It's your head.
Could it be linked to other preferences that you have like hight?
Some perceived alpha dominance type of thing?"
The funny thing is that most of tall guys that have messaged me are bisexual Straight guys are 5’10” and the bi ones are 6’2” The irony of that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who knows. It's your head.
Could it be linked to other preferences that you have like hight?
Some perceived alpha dominance type of thing?
The funny thing is that most of tall guys that have messaged me are bisexual Straight guys are 5’10” and the bi ones are 6’2” The irony of that "
Extra protein? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who knows. It's your head.
Could it be linked to other preferences that you have like hight?
Some perceived alpha dominance type of thing?
The funny thing is that most of tall guys that have messaged me are bisexual Straight guys are 5’10” and the bi ones are 6’2” The irony of that
Extra protein?"
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"Who knows. It's your head.
Could it be linked to other preferences that you have like hight?
Some perceived alpha dominance type of thing?
The funny thing is that most of tall guys that have messaged me are bisexual Straight guys are 5’10” and the bi ones are 6’2” The irony of that
Extra protein?"
lol. you where warned. mewhaaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who knows. It's your head.
Could it be linked to other preferences that you have like hight?
Some perceived alpha dominance type of thing?
The funny thing is that most of tall guys that have messaged me are bisexual Straight guys are 5’10” and the bi ones are 6’2” The irony of that
Extra protein?
lol. you where warned. mewhaaha"
Cringing for ya fella |
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"Who knows. It's your head.
Could it be linked to other preferences that you have like hight?
Some perceived alpha dominance type of thing?
The funny thing is that most of tall guys that have messaged me are bisexual Straight guys are 5’10” and the bi ones are 6’2” The irony of that
Extra protein?
lol. you where warned. mewhaaha
Cringing for ya fella"
by all means do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"meh...just seems a question of taste. however. there could be other reasons. like definitely knowing you're the center of attention in an MMF threesome situation for instance. just a thought as I don't know you "
You are on to something here  |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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Just a preference
Some of mine make no sense .
Perhaps a therapist exploring your life could come up with one . Your ideas of what ‘a real man’ ought to be like , stemming from what you experienced growing up for example. But there really might be nothing in it at all |
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Bisexual men are a relatively new concept for your female reptile brain. Your preference is linked to genes, pheromones,survival of the species, etc. You're hardwired and dont know it. Some humans have made an evolutionary leap, and freely mate with other humans of any sexual predeliction. Whether this is good for humankind remains to be discovered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bisexual men are a relatively new concept for your female reptile brain. Your preference is linked to genes, pheromones,survival of the species, etc. You're hardwired and dont know it. Some humans have made an evolutionary leap, and freely mate with other humans of any sexual predeliction. Whether this is good for humankind remains to be discovered. "
Wait so I'm short AND less evolved because I dont suck dick FFS..... if I'd know that earlier.... |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Who knows. It's your head.
Could it be linked to other preferences that you have like hight?
Some perceived alpha dominance type of thing?
The funny thing is that most of tall guys that have messaged me are bisexual Straight guys are 5’10” and the bi ones are 6’2” The irony of that "
6'1" here and straight but old enough to be your daddy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before I even ask the question, I want to say that I’m not homophobic, I have soooo many gay friends, but……..
for some reason I’m not attracted to bisexual males. There’s something about them that turns me off, and I can’t put my finger on what it is? Ps. I’m bicurious myself, so this particular statement shouldn’t make any sense, but here I am.
Anyone can explain why bisexual males are not my cup of tea. Can any women relate to this? "
They aren't your cup of tea because they aren't. There doesn't need to be a reason. Doesn't mean anything bad just your own personal taste. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As no two bi men are the same or necessarily share any common traits there has to be some psychological reason you are put off by bi guys. I wonder if you have ever found any gay guys attractive "
I can appreciate their beauty, but I’m not attracted to them. My hairdresser is gay btw, and he is gorgeous |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"As no two bi men are the same or necessarily share any common traits there has to be some psychological reason you are put off by bi guys. I wonder if you have ever found any gay guys attractive
I can appreciate their beauty, but I’m not attracted to them. My hairdresser is gay btw, and he is gorgeous "
You obviously haven't met certain bisexual men so 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before I even ask the question, I want to say that I’m not homophobic, I have soooo many gay friends, but……..
for some reason I’m not attracted to bisexual males. There’s something about them that turns me off, and I can’t put my finger on what it is? Ps. I’m bicurious myself, so this particular statement shouldn’t make any sense, but here I am.
Anyone can explain why bisexual males are not my cup of tea. Can any women relate to this? "
Is it possible that subconsciously you are afraid that if an MFM 3some you’d be left out or that you have a fear of not being able to compete if the bi-male fancied another guy more than fancying you…… I don’t mean any offence by the above just trying to come up with a theory…… |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"Before I even ask the question, I want to say that I’m not homophobic, I have soooo many gay friends, but……..
for some reason I’m not attracted to bisexual males. There’s something about them that turns me off, and I can’t put my finger on what it is? Ps. I’m bicurious myself, so this particular statement shouldn’t make any sense, but here I am.
Anyone can explain why bisexual males are not my cup of tea. Can any women relate to this? "
How do you know they are bisexual?
I mean, beyond them telling you, cause people are all dead honest about everything when it comes to getting the leg over……. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Before I even ask the question, I want to say that I’m not homophobic, I have soooo many gay friends, but……..
for some reason I’m not attracted to bisexual males. There’s something about them that turns me off, and I can’t put my finger on what it is? Ps. I’m bicurious myself, so this particular statement shouldn’t make any sense, but here I am.
Anyone can explain why bisexual males are not my cup of tea. Can any women relate to this?
How do you know they are bisexual?
I mean, beyond them telling you, cause people are all dead honest about everything when it comes to getting the leg over……. "
Once I know that he is bisexual, it’s a turn off for me. I’m sure if I ever meet a bi guy (off Fab), and won’t know that he is bi, it will be ok. But I will never enjoy MFM with a bisexual guy. |
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By *anabecdTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Before I even ask the question, I want to say that I’m not homophobic, I have soooo many gay friends, but……..
for some reason I’m not attracted to bisexual males. There’s something about them that turns me off, and I can’t put my finger on what it is? Ps. I’m bicurious myself, so this particular statement shouldn’t make any sense, but here I am.
Anyone can explain why bisexual males are not my cup of tea. Can any women relate to this? "
Sure you are who you are. Why does it need an explanation.
If your not attracted to bi men then it's just the type of person you don't want to meet/date or whatever |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"Before I even ask the question, I want to say that I’m not homophobic, I have soooo many gay friends, but……..
for some reason I’m not attracted to bisexual males. There’s something about them that turns me off, and I can’t put my finger on what it is? Ps. I’m bicurious myself, so this particular statement shouldn’t make any sense, but here I am.
Anyone can explain why bisexual males are not my cup of tea. Can any women relate to this?
How do you know they are bisexual?
I mean, beyond them telling you, cause people are all dead honest about everything when it comes to getting the leg over…….
Once I know that he is bisexual, it’s a turn off for me. I’m sure if I ever meet a bi guy (off Fab), and won’t know that he is bi, it will be ok. But I will never enjoy MFM with a bisexual guy."
Without the time to make a full diagnosis, which incidentally could take many many long sessions, in my opinion, your case is quite simple, and I don’t mean this in any sort of bad way, but for you it’s a power/ control thing.
If you are in bed with two men, you want to be absolutely sure if they’re both turned on that it’s because of you, and you control that, but that’s just my opinion, I could be miles off.
In other dynamics, it think it could be that some like to know and be comfortable with who’s turning on, and being turned on by whom.
I’m every instance, it’s a personal choice that shouldn’t require any explanation.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only you know the answer to that question, everyone has their preferences and reasons they won't play with people.
I won't play with a couple why because I wouldn't feel comfortable with another woman not because she might try something but I'm insecure about how I look and would just not enjoy the meet as I'd be questioning everything I'd be doing.
God bless preferences and personal choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before I even ask the question, I want to say that I’m not homophobic, I have soooo many gay friends, but……..
for some reason I’m not attracted to bisexual males. There’s something about them that turns me off, and I can’t put my finger on what it is? Ps. I’m bicurious myself, so this particular statement shouldn’t make any sense, but here I am.
Anyone can explain why bisexual males are not my cup of tea. Can any women relate to this? "
I'm a bit agast at this thread (straight man), especially the replies that reference alpha male shite as it missed the point. Women are endlessly sexualised and FF is fetishised by society. Essentially that two women kissing or more is OK because they are two objects performing for others amusement. That seeps in here with couples unicorn hunting but for their own selfish amusement not to explore with a third person.
Up until recently, LGBT men kissing or being being intimate in public would've been met with open disgust or scorn. How many times have we heard "I've no problem with gays, but do they have to be so blatant/in your face with it"?  I reckon that view is often still held just saying it out loud makes you sound like a cunt.
That you're not into Bi men is your preference and requires no explanation from your side. I have plenty of criteria for ruling out women. But let's not pretend the general consensus that Bi men are less desirable is not because we're socialised to find MM abhorrent unless it's where we can't see it but FF let's put it on a stage and throw Euro notes at it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before I even ask the question, I want to say that I’m not homophobic, I have soooo many gay friends, but……..
for some reason I’m not attracted to bisexual males. There’s something about them that turns me off, and I can’t put my finger on what it is? Ps. I’m bicurious myself, so this particular statement shouldn’t make any sense, but here I am.
Anyone can explain why bisexual males are not my cup of tea. Can any women relate to this?
I'm a bit agast at this thread (straight man), especially the replies that reference alpha male shite as it missed the point. Women are endlessly sexualised and FF is fetishised by society. Essentially that two women kissing or more is OK because they are two objects performing for others amusement. That seeps in here with couples unicorn hunting but for their own selfish amusement not to explore with a third person.
Up until recently, LGBT men kissing or being being intimate in public would've been met with open disgust or scorn. How many times have we heard "I've no problem with gays, but do they have to be so blatant/in your face with it"? I reckon that view is often still held just saying it out loud makes you sound like a cunt.
That you're not into Bi men is your preference and requires no explanation from your side. I have plenty of criteria for ruling out women. But let's not pretend the general consensus that Bi men are less desirable is not because we're socialised to find MM abhorrent unless it's where we can't see it but FF let's put it on a stage and throw Euro notes at it. "
Surely the whole "alpha" "real" man narrative supports what your saying rather than contradicts it.
People have a preconception of what a strong man is and as you said society has thought us that doesn't include Bi or gay men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before I even ask the question, I want to say that I’m not homophobic, I have soooo many gay friends, but……..
for some reason I’m not attracted to bisexual males. There’s something about them that turns me off, and I can’t put my finger on what it is? Ps. I’m bicurious myself, so this particular statement shouldn’t make any sense, but here I am.
Anyone can explain why bisexual males are not my cup of tea. Can any women relate to this?
I'm a bit agast at this thread (straight man), especially the replies that reference alpha male shite as it missed the point. Women are endlessly sexualised and FF is fetishised by society. Essentially that two women kissing or more is OK because they are two objects performing for others amusement. That seeps in here with couples unicorn hunting but for their own selfish amusement not to explore with a third person.
Up until recently, LGBT men kissing or being being intimate in public would've been met with open disgust or scorn. How many times have we heard "I've no problem with gays, but do they have to be so blatant/in your face with it"? I reckon that view is often still held just saying it out loud makes you sound like a cunt.
That you're not into Bi men is your preference and requires no explanation from your side. I have plenty of criteria for ruling out women. But let's not pretend the general consensus that Bi men are less desirable is not because we're socialised to find MM abhorrent unless it's where we can't see it but FF let's put it on a stage and throw Euro notes at it.
Surely the whole "alpha" "real" man narrative supports what your saying rather than contradicts it.
People have a preconception of what a strong man is and as you said society has thought us that doesn't include Bi or gay men"
Indeed you're right that was what I was getting at. That some people here were saying "oh that doesn't fit your idea of the real man" paraphrased. Mad notions to have if their introspection ends at that. |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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People have a preconception of what a strong man is and as you said society has thought us that doesn't include Bi or gay men"
This is exactly it.
The fact that you say you could be attracted to a man until you find out he’s bi is the thing you should be examining. You’re allowed your preferences but it’s always worth analysing those preferences. |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"Before I even ask the question, I want to say that I’m not homophobic, I have soooo many gay friends, but……..
for some reason I’m not attracted to bisexual males. There’s something about them that turns me off, and I can’t put my finger on what it is? Ps. I’m bicurious myself, so this particular statement shouldn’t make any sense, but here I am.
Anyone can explain why bisexual males are not my cup of tea. Can any women relate to this?
I'm a bit agast at this thread (straight man), especially the replies that reference alpha male shite as it missed the point. Women are endlessly sexualised and FF is fetishised by society. Essentially that two women kissing or more is OK because they are two objects performing for others amusement. That seeps in here with couples unicorn hunting but for their own selfish amusement not to explore with a third person.
Up until recently, LGBT men kissing or being being intimate in public would've been met with open disgust or scorn. How many times have we heard "I've no problem with gays, but do they have to be so blatant/in your face with it"? I reckon that view is often still held just saying it out loud makes you sound like a cunt.
That you're not into Bi men is your preference and requires no explanation from your side. I have plenty of criteria for ruling out women. But let's not pretend the general consensus that Bi men are less desirable is not because we're socialised to find MM abhorrent unless it's where we can't see it but FF let's put it on a stage and throw Euro notes at it.
Surely the whole "alpha" "real" man narrative supports what your saying rather than contradicts it.
People have a preconception of what a strong man is and as you said society has thought us that doesn't include Bi or gay men
Indeed you're right that was what I was getting at. That some people here were saying "oh that doesn't fit your idea of the real man" paraphrased. Mad notions to have if their introspection ends at that. "
To note while I did state why I think the OP doesn't like Bi men I also find her stance pretty abhorrent and it's basically homophobic dressed up as a "preference". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before I even ask the question, I want to say that I’m not homophobic, I have soooo many gay friends, but……..
for some reason I’m not attracted to bisexual males. There’s something about them that turns me off, and I can’t put my finger on what it is? Ps. I’m bicurious myself, so this particular statement shouldn’t make any sense, but here I am.
Anyone can explain why bisexual males are not my cup of tea. Can any women relate to this?
I'm a bit agast at this thread (straight man), especially the replies that reference alpha male shite as it missed the point. Women are endlessly sexualised and FF is fetishised by society. Essentially that two women kissing or more is OK because they are two objects performing for others amusement. That seeps in here with couples unicorn hunting but for their own selfish amusement not to explore with a third person.
Up until recently, LGBT men kissing or being being intimate in public would've been met with open disgust or scorn. How many times have we heard "I've no problem with gays, but do they have to be so blatant/in your face with it"? I reckon that view is often still held just saying it out loud makes you sound like a cunt.
That you're not into Bi men is your preference and requires no explanation from your side. I have plenty of criteria for ruling out women. But let's not pretend the general consensus that Bi men are less desirable is not because we're socialised to find MM abhorrent unless it's where we can't see it but FF let's put it on a stage and throw Euro notes at it.
Surely the whole "alpha" "real" man narrative supports what your saying rather than contradicts it.
People have a preconception of what a strong man is and as you said society has thought us that doesn't include Bi or gay men
Indeed you're right that was what I was getting at. That some people here were saying "oh that doesn't fit your idea of the real man" paraphrased. Mad notions to have if their introspection ends at that.
To note while I did state why I think the OP doesn't like Bi men I also find her stance pretty abhorrent and it's basically homophobic dressed up as a "preference". "
So basically ya calling her a liar,
when she says she is not you don't believe that...
ya can dress it up as opinion but bottom line you are saying a OP is a liar.
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Before I even ask the question, I want to say that I’m not homophobic, I have soooo many gay friends, but……..
for some reason I’m not attracted to bisexual males. There’s something about them that turns me off, and I can’t put my finger on what it is? Ps. I’m bicurious myself, so this particular statement shouldn’t make any sense, but here I am.
Anyone can explain why bisexual males are not my cup of tea. Can any women relate to this?
I'm a bit agast at this thread (straight man), especially the replies that reference alpha male shite as it missed the point. Women are endlessly sexualised and FF is fetishised by society. Essentially that two women kissing or more is OK because they are two objects performing for others amusement. That seeps in here with couples unicorn hunting but for their own selfish amusement not to explore with a third person.
Up until recently, LGBT men kissing or being being intimate in public would've been met with open disgust or scorn. How many times have we heard "I've no problem with gays, but do they have to be so blatant/in your face with it"? I reckon that view is often still held just saying it out loud makes you sound like a cunt.
That you're not into Bi men is your preference and requires no explanation from your side. I have plenty of criteria for ruling out women. But let's not pretend the general consensus that Bi men are less desirable is not because we're socialised to find MM abhorrent unless it's where we can't see it but FF let's put it on a stage and throw Euro notes at it.
Surely the whole "alpha" "real" man narrative supports what your saying rather than contradicts it.
People have a preconception of what a strong man is and as you said society has thought us that doesn't include Bi or gay men
Indeed you're right that was what I was getting at. That some people here were saying "oh that doesn't fit your idea of the real man" paraphrased. Mad notions to have if their introspection ends at that.
To note while I did state why I think the OP doesn't like Bi men I also find her stance pretty abhorrent and it's basically homophobic dressed up as a "preference". "
Funny enough i have been accused numerous times on here in the past for justifying an actual logical reason why people might not meet bi men.
It resulted in more than one profile accusing me of being homo phobic. Even though i gave factual evidence why people might not want to meet bi men.
Op doesn't have any reason for it, its just her preference.
So it's technically irrational.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nor sure about anyone being homophobic. It's personal preference don't see the big deal about it
Bisexual men are a turnoff for some females .
Maybe It's the fear of not being needed and not being center of desire for some females...very one dimensional if ya ask me but each to their own
Bisexual men are a turn on for some female and more and more too in my experience
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"Before I even ask the question, I want to say that I’m not homophobic, I have soooo many gay friends, but……..
for some reason I’m not attracted to bisexual males. There’s something about them that turns me off, and I can’t put my finger on what it is? Ps. I’m bicurious myself, so this particular statement shouldn’t make any sense, but here I am.
Anyone can explain why bisexual males are not my cup of tea. Can any women relate to this?
I'm a bit agast at this thread (straight man), especially the replies that reference alpha male shite as it missed the point. Women are endlessly sexualised and FF is fetishised by society. Essentially that two women kissing or more is OK because they are two objects performing for others amusement. That seeps in here with couples unicorn hunting but for their own selfish amusement not to explore with a third person.
Up until recently, LGBT men kissing or being being intimate in public would've been met with open disgust or scorn. How many times have we heard "I've no problem with gays, but do they have to be so blatant/in your face with it"? I reckon that view is often still held just saying it out loud makes you sound like a cunt.
That you're not into Bi men is your preference and requires no explanation from your side. I have plenty of criteria for ruling out women. But let's not pretend the general consensus that Bi men are less desirable is not because we're socialised to find MM abhorrent unless it's where we can't see it but FF let's put it on a stage and throw Euro notes at it. "
But didn't the resulting thread answer the question for the OP?
OP wants/needs to know that in a sexual scenario she will be the center of attention and not have other male attention distract from her.
That's the gist I got from some of the replies the OP answered to, and I think they were fairly clear. Correct me if I'm wrong OP.
There are some of us (actually I think a lot of us) women who get turned on by sexual interaction between men - me included, as it were, and yes, oddly enough (if the interpretation is correct), I can still understand the OP's feelings or need to be the center of attention or not wanting to share attention - competition is seen as a threat in this instance. And I actually think THAT'S a topic that's very interesting to explore.
And on a side note as it's not referring to the original post but to a comment you made,some of us couples are genuinely looking to explore with others and getting to know someone rather than using them for sexual gratification and seeing them as a toy or object of amusement!!!
You've packed a lot of topics into your paragraphs, there's a couple of different forum threads in it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To note while I did state why I think the OP doesn't like Bi men I also find her stance pretty abhorrent and it's basically homophobic dressed up as a "preference".
So basically ya calling her a liar,
when she says she is not you don't believe that...
ya can dress it up as opinion but bottom line you are saying a OP is a liar.
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I mean call ger stance abhorrent and pretty much homophobic but not a liar that's too far |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"Before I even ask the question, I want to say that I’m not homophobic, I have soooo many gay friends, but……..
for some reason I’m not attracted to bisexual males. There’s something about them that turns me off, and I can’t put my finger on what it is? Ps. I’m bicurious myself, so this particular statement shouldn’t make any sense, but here I am.
Anyone can explain why bisexual males are not my cup of tea. Can any women relate to this?
I'm a bit agast at this thread (straight man), especially the replies that reference alpha male shite as it missed the point. Women are endlessly sexualised and FF is fetishised by society. Essentially that two women kissing or more is OK because they are two objects performing for others amusement. That seeps in here with couples unicorn hunting but for their own selfish amusement not to explore with a third person.
Up until recently, LGBT men kissing or being being intimate in public would've been met with open disgust or scorn. How many times have we heard "I've no problem with gays, but do they have to be so blatant/in your face with it"? I reckon that view is often still held just saying it out loud makes you sound like a cunt.
That you're not into Bi men is your preference and requires no explanation from your side. I have plenty of criteria for ruling out women. But let's not pretend the general consensus that Bi men are less desirable is not because we're socialised to find MM abhorrent unless it's where we can't see it but FF let's put it on a stage and throw Euro notes at it.
Surely the whole "alpha" "real" man narrative supports what your saying rather than contradicts it.
People have a preconception of what a strong man is and as you said society has thought us that doesn't include Bi or gay men
Indeed you're right that was what I was getting at. That some people here were saying "oh that doesn't fit your idea of the real man" paraphrased. Mad notions to have if their introspection ends at that.
To note while I did state why I think the OP doesn't like Bi men I also find her stance pretty abhorrent and it's basically homophobic dressed up as a "preference".
Funny enough i have been accused numerous times on here in the past for justifying an actual logical reason why people might not meet bi men.
It resulted in more than one profile accusing me of being homo phobic. Even though i gave factual evidence why people might not want to meet bi men.
Op doesn't have any reason for it, its just her preference.
So it's technically irrational.
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I personally never really buy-in to idea that people don't have a reason for their strongly held, rigid preferences.
It makes no real logical sense for someone to have a preference that they feel quite strongly about but there being absolutely no reasoning behind it.
What is much more likely is that people come under one of the below categories.
1. They haven't put enough thought into why they have the preference.
2. They know exactly why, but realise saying it will paint them in an extremely negative light so they claim they have no reason for their preference.
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The main take away I have seen from this thread is people will continue to try and make other people change their mind. Also that people will resist change. |
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"Do you feel that a man who you would otherwise find extremely attractive in every other way, would be unattractive to you because he was bi?"
Yes, the thought of him being with other men just turns me off. |
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"Do you feel that a man who you would otherwise find extremely attractive in every other way, would be unattractive to you because he was bi?
Yes, the thought of him being with other men just turns me off. "
Sorry... for me that makes you bi-phobic |
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Not being attracted to bi dudes is fine, but making a thread about how much of a turn off for you it is is really rubbing me the wrong way. So gotta agree with above, seems biphobic to me. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Nor sure about anyone being homophobic. It's personal preference don't see the big deal about it
Bisexual men are a turnoff for some females .
Maybe It's the fear of not being needed and not being center of desire for some females...very one dimensional if ya ask me but each to their own
Bisexual men are a turn on for some female and more and more too in my experience
Person preference ...no big deal"
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By *aked69Man
over a year ago
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I’m bi myself and didn’t know it until I was in a steamy threesome and went with the flow and really enjoyed it very erotic fun and have had plenty of fun with both men and women but in a mfm situation the female with always be spoilt by both men I don’t think there is any fear of that unless it turns out that the lads are actually gay but bi is exactly what it says on the tin and more fun can be had with nobody being left out |
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over a year ago
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"I’m bi myself and didn’t know it until I was in a steamy threesome and went with the flow and really enjoyed it very erotic fun and have had plenty of fun with both men and women but in a mfm situation the female with always be spoilt by both men I don’t think there is any fear of that unless it turns out that the lads are actually gay but bi is exactly what it says on the tin and more fun can be had with nobody being left out"
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Don't shoot me for this but it seems to be a no no for guys to explore their bi side at parties (which are not specified as bi-parties) and in a so-called 'tolerant' community, I find this sad. Mrs. |
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Ye lucky folks who have partners or friends that embrace the lifestyle of party sex! I’m happily married but no way would she consider any such fun. Even nakedness with me is difficult, nobody’s fault, it’s just the way it is.
Anyway, the likes of me, and I presume there are quite a few on here, can only watch with great envy.
I know I am a naturally erotic person but alas I cannot play out my urges as I can’t risk damaging the nest!
So, lucky you!
Ps. Sometimes I’m bitter about this as I don’t think it’s fair. |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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"Ye lucky folks who have partners or friends that embrace the lifestyle of party sex! I’m happily married but no way would she consider any such fun. Even nakedness with me is difficult, nobody’s fault, it’s just the way it is.
Anyway, the likes of me, and I presume there are quite a few on here, can only watch with great envy.
I know I am a naturally erotic person but alas I cannot play out my urges as I can’t risk damaging the nest!
So, lucky you!
Ps. Sometimes I’m bitter about this as I don’t think it’s fair."
Airing issues with your partner on a public forum without her consent is not a good look, especially when it’s not really anything to do with the thread |
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"Ye lucky folks who have partners or friends that embrace the lifestyle of party sex! I’m happily married but no way would she consider any such fun. Even nakedness with me is difficult, nobody’s fault, it’s just the way it is.
Anyway, the likes of me, and I presume there are quite a few on here, can only watch with great envy.
I know I am a naturally erotic person but alas I cannot play out my urges as I can’t risk damaging the nest!
So, lucky you!
Ps. Sometimes I’m bitter about this as I don’t think it’s fair.
Airing issues with your partner on a public forum without her consent is not a good look, especially when it’s not really anything to do with the thread "
Didn’t think of it that way. Just venting. Apologies. Forget about it and move on! |
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"Ye lucky folks who have partners or friends that embrace the lifestyle of party sex! I’m happily married but no way would she consider any such fun. Even nakedness with me is difficult, nobody’s fault, it’s just the way it is.
Anyway, the likes of me, and I presume there are quite a few on here, can only watch with great envy.
I know I am a naturally erotic person but alas I cannot play out my urges as I can’t risk damaging the nest!
So, lucky you!
Ps. Sometimes I’m bitter about this as I don’t think it’s fair.
Airing issues with your partner on a public forum without her consent is not a good look, especially when it’s not really anything to do with the thread "
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"Don't shoot me for this but it seems to be a no no for guys to explore their bi side at parties (which are not specified as bi-parties) and in a so-called 'tolerant' community, I find this sad. Mrs."
Agreed, the double standard is pretty shitty Mrs Bugs |
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"Don't shoot me for this but it seems to be a no no for guys to explore their bi side at parties (which are not specified as bi-parties) and in a so-called 'tolerant' community, I find this sad. Mrs."
In what way?
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I don’t seek out black men to meet or necessarily find them attractive. Does that make me racist!?
I think way too much importance is put on peoples sexual preferences. If the OP isn’t attracted to woman, does that make her a mysogonist? If it’s not for you, it’s not a judgement on what is for you.
All these judgements flying around, from the very expected and unsurprising sources too. It makes me wonder why they put so much importance on a sexual preference being a tangible representation for who a person is.
MissKN, I suspect your anathema towards bi-men may be rooted in your desire for dominant men. IF WE ARE HONEST WITH OURSELVES (which most of the judgey ass arseholes on here aren’t), we all have innate pre-conceptions of peoples sexuality as it pertains to our own. Once we don’t act on those, in a non-sexual manner, and actively seek to challenge our biases on a day to day basis, you’re all good.
To chuck around accusations of “bi-phobic” is bullshit. It’s who MissKN like to fuck or not fuck. It’s not a reflection of her as a person. Grow up and look in a mirror.
I’ve a headache now from rolling my eyes so much.
GAH
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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"I don’t seek out black men to meet or necessarily find them attractive. Does that make me racist!?
I think way too much importance is put on peoples sexual preferences. If the OP isn’t attracted to woman, does that make her a mysogonist? If it’s not for you, it’s not a judgement on what is for you.
All these judgements flying around, from the very expected and unsurprising sources too. It makes me wonder why they put so much importance on a sexual preference being a tangible representation for who a person is.
MissKN, I suspect your anathema towards bi-men may be rooted in your desire for dominant men. IF WE ARE HONEST WITH OURSELVES (which most of the judgey ass arseholes on here aren’t), we all have innate pre-conceptions of peoples sexuality as it pertains to our own. Once we don’t act on those, in a non-sexual manner, and actively seek to challenge our biases on a day to day basis, you’re all good.
To chuck around accusations of “bi-phobic” is bullshit. It’s who MissKN like to fuck or not fuck. It’s not a reflection of her as a person. Grow up and look in a mirror.
I’ve a headache now from rolling my eyes so much.
GAH
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I think the thing that makes this a very grey area is that she has said she could find them attractive until she realises they like to fuck men.
I’m not sure it’s necessarily biphobia, but I do think the op should examine her reasons for losing the attraction. If it’s just that she wants everyone’s focus on her, grand. If it’s that she finds men fucking other men icky, that’s a different story. |
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I’m not sure it’s necessarily biphobia, but I do think the op should examine her reasons for losing the attraction. If it’s just that she wants everyone’s focus on her, grand. If it’s that she finds men fucking other men icky, that’s a different story. "
The point I’m making about her maybe “finding it icky” is that it’s ONLY her sexual preference. I’ve a best friend that finds cocks and straight sex icky (she’s gay, married to a woman, has two kids) but I don’t worry about how she feels about ME. It’s just her sexual preference. What I don’t understand is why it’s considered a reflection on her as a person.
If she wouldn’t give a bi man a job, it would be a different story. |
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I’m not sure it’s necessarily biphobia, but I do think the op should examine her reasons for losing the attraction. If it’s just that she wants everyone’s focus on her, grand. If it’s that she finds men fucking other men icky, that’s a different story.
The point I’m making about her maybe “finding it icky” is that it’s ONLY her sexual preference. I’ve a best friend that finds cocks and straight sex icky (she’s gay, married to a woman, has two kids) but I don’t worry about how she feels about ME. It’s just her sexual preference. What I don’t understand is why it’s considered a reflection on her as a person.
If she wouldn’t give a bi man a job, it would be a different story. "
Presumably your best friend doesn't find everything about a woman incredibly attractive, and then suddenly shes incredibly unattractive if she learns that this person has also had sex with a man. |
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I’m not sure it’s necessarily biphobia, but I do think the op should examine her reasons for losing the attraction. If it’s just that she wants everyone’s focus on her, grand. If it’s that she finds men fucking other men icky, that’s a different story.
The point I’m making about her maybe “finding it icky” is that it’s ONLY her sexual preference. I’ve a best friend that finds cocks and straight sex icky (she’s gay, married to a woman, has two kids) but I don’t worry about how she feels about ME. It’s just her sexual preference. What I don’t understand is why it’s considered a reflection on her as a person.
If she wouldn’t give a bi man a job, it would be a different story.
Presumably your best friend doesn't find everything about a woman incredibly attractive, and then suddenly shes incredibly unattractive if she learns that this person has also had sex with a man. "
So what if she does!!? It’s only her sexual preference!! It’s not HER. It’s not a reflection on if she cares about ME. There is WAY more to a person than the specifics of what turns them on or off. I could happily dump a favoured lover if I found out they were a republican or prolife.
She wouldn’t want to fuck me either. I’m not gonna sob about it or insult her.
I wonder how many people hat are pissy about this are butt hurt about rejected by her. |
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"Just to point out the OP welcomed thoughts on the rational behind their aversion to bi men.
And I don't think anyone has been abusive.
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People have been downright rude and judgemental. Just because it’s veiled with a “sorry but” or a “don’t take offence…” doesn’t mean they havnt just turned a discussion into a bitchfest. |
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"Just to point out the OP welcomed thoughts on the rational behind their aversion to bi men.
And I don't think anyone has been abusive.
People have been downright rude and judgemental. Just because it’s veiled with a “sorry but” or a “don’t take offence…” doesn’t mean they havnt just turned a discussion into a bitchfest. "
I disagree.
Can I ask why you would drop a favored lover because of their political views? |
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I disagree.
Can I ask why you would drop a favored lover because of their political views?"
Because it speaks of the person they ultimately are. I find right wing people to be generally selfish and capitalistic. I find their life’s views to be abhorrent and incompatible with mine. I’ve yet to be proven wrong. |
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Oh for gods sake, some people just get grossed out by blokes kissn or suckn cock.
It's simple, I don't find watching two blokes kissing the slightest turn on as I do two women.
And that's jus fucked up |
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I disagree.
Can I ask why you would drop a favored lover because of their political views?
Because it speaks of the person they ultimately are. I find right wing people to be generally selfish and capitalistic. I find their life’s views to be abhorrent and incompatible with mine. I’ve yet to be proven wrong. "
So it's not really just a sexual preference it's speaks to your view as them as a person? |
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I disagree.
Can I ask why you would drop a favored lover because of their political views?
Because it speaks of the person they ultimately are. I find right wing people to be generally selfish and capitalistic. I find their life’s views to be abhorrent and incompatible with mine. I’ve yet to be proven wrong.
So it's not really just a sexual preference it's speaks to your view as them as a person?"
Maybe, but seeing as that’s absolutely none of your business I don’t care to discuss it. |
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I disagree.
Can I ask why you would drop a favored lover because of their political views?
Because it speaks of the person they ultimately are. I find right wing people to be generally selfish and capitalistic. I find their life’s views to be abhorrent and incompatible with mine. I’ve yet to be proven wrong.
So it's not really just a sexual preference it's speaks to your view as them as a person?
Maybe, but seeing as that’s absolutely none of your business I don’t care to discuss it. "
You brought it to the thread.... but ok |
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over a year ago
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I disagree.
Can I ask why you would drop a favored lover because of their political views?
Because it speaks of the person they ultimately are. I find right wing people to be generally selfish and capitalistic. I find their life’s views to be abhorrent and incompatible with mine. I’ve yet to be proven wrong. "
You honestly can't see the irony in this given what else you posted on the thread? |
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"Oh for gods sake, some people just get grossed out by blokes kissn or suckn cock.
It's simple, I don't find watching two blokes kissing the slightest turn on as I do two women.
And that's jus fucked up"
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I disagree.
Can I ask why you would drop a favored lover because of their political views?
Because it speaks of the person they ultimately are. I find right wing people to be generally selfish and capitalistic. I find their life’s views to be abhorrent and incompatible with mine. I’ve yet to be proven wrong.
You honestly can't see the irony in this given what else you posted on the thread? "
Nope. Because it’s none of anyones business. And certainly not yours. |
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"I don’t seek out black men to meet or necessarily find them attractive. Does that make me racist!?
I think way too much importance is put on peoples sexual preferences. If the OP isn’t attracted to woman, does that make her a mysogonist? If it’s not for you, it’s not a judgement on what is for you.
All these judgements flying around, from the very expected and unsurprising sources too. It makes me wonder why they put so much importance on a sexual preference being a tangible representation for who a person is.
MissKN, I suspect your anathema towards bi-men may be rooted in your desire for dominant men. IF WE ARE HONEST WITH OURSELVES (which most of the judgey ass arseholes on here aren’t), we all have innate pre-conceptions of peoples sexuality as it pertains to our own. Once we don’t act on those, in a non-sexual manner, and actively seek to challenge our biases on a day to day basis, you’re all good.
To chuck around accusations of “bi-phobic” is bullshit. It’s who MissKN like to fuck or not fuck. It’s not a reflection of her as a person. Grow up and look in a mirror.
I’ve a headache now from rolling my eyes so much.
GAH
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The first comment explains it. She doesn't need to explain her preference. But once you start proudly exclaiming it then its an issue.
No one cares you don't like Black guys. But if you made a thread about not liking black guys then yeah its gonna seem racist.
Best thing to do is keep preferences to yourself. No bi/gay/straight/whatever person needs or wants to know why you don't find em attractive. |
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I disagree.
Can I ask why you would drop a favored lover because of their political views?
Because it speaks of the person they ultimately are. I find right wing people to be generally selfish and capitalistic. I find their life’s views to be abhorrent and incompatible with mine. I’ve yet to be proven wrong.
You honestly can't see the irony in this given what else you posted on the thread? "
Thing is, I AM judging them as people, judging their values, things they can control. Not their sexuality. Can’t YOU see the difference?? |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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I disagree.
Can I ask why you would drop a favored lover because of their political views?
Because it speaks of the person they ultimately are. I find right wing people to be generally selfish and capitalistic. I find their life’s views to be abhorrent and incompatible with mine. I’ve yet to be proven wrong.
You honestly can't see the irony in this given what else you posted on the thread?
Thing is, I AM judging them as people, judging their values, things they can control. Not their sexuality. Can’t YOU see the difference?? "
And the OP is judging bisexual people. |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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I disagree.
Can I ask why you would drop a favored lover because of their political views?
Because it speaks of the person they ultimately are. I find right wing people to be generally selfish and capitalistic. I find their life’s views to be abhorrent and incompatible with mine. I’ve yet to be proven wrong.
You honestly can't see the irony in this given what else you posted on the thread?
Nope. Because it’s none of anyones business. And certainly not yours. "
Might want to rethink your approach to discussion forums tbh. |
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I disagree.
Can I ask why you would drop a favored lover because of their political views?
Because it speaks of the person they ultimately are. I find right wing people to be generally selfish and capitalistic. I find their life’s views to be abhorrent and incompatible with mine. I’ve yet to be proven wrong.
You honestly can't see the irony in this given what else you posted on the thread?
Thing is, I AM judging them as people, judging their values, things they can control. Not their sexuality. Can’t YOU see the difference?? "
Ya I can which is why I think being turned off soley by someone's political views is more acceptable than soley their sexual orientation.
So we agree then |
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In what way?
Would men be asked to leave or made to feel unwelcome if they started some exploration?"
They wouldn't start exploring in the first place, it's not the 'done thing' at parties, as much as I'd like to see it happen |
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"Don't shoot me for this but it seems to be a no no for guys to explore their bi side at parties (which are not specified as bi-parties) and in a so-called 'tolerant' community, I find this sad. Mrs.
In what way?
Would men be asked to leave or made to feel unwelcome if they started some exploration?
They wouldn't start exploring in the first place, it's not the 'done thing' at parties, as much as I'd like to see it happen "
I've got the same vibe. Most of these parties aren't as inclusive as most let on. |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"Don't shoot me for this but it seems to be a no no for guys to explore their bi side at parties (which are not specified as bi-parties) and in a so-called 'tolerant' community, I find this sad. Mrs.
In what way?
Would men be asked to leave or made to feel unwelcome if they started some exploration?
They wouldn't start exploring in the first place, it's not the 'done thing' at parties, as much as I'd like to see it happen "
Yeah I've often thought that it's something I've never seen happen at a party (and I've been to many in the last 10 years). It's not something I'm seeking myself but it strikes me as very sad that lads that have those inclinations may feel restricted in what fantasies they can explore. I guess they must do it in other environments but that shouldn't have to be necessary |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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"Don't shoot me for this but it seems to be a no no for guys to explore their bi side at parties (which are not specified as bi-parties) and in a so-called 'tolerant' community, I find this sad. Mrs.
In what way?
Would men be asked to leave or made to feel unwelcome if they started some exploration?
They wouldn't start exploring in the first place, it's not the 'done thing' at parties, as much as I'd like to see it happen "
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I disagree.
Can I ask why you would drop a favored lover because of their political views?
Because it speaks of the person they ultimately are. I find right wing people to be generally selfish and capitalistic. I find their life’s views to be abhorrent and incompatible with mine. I’ve yet to be proven wrong.
You honestly can't see the irony in this given what else you posted on the thread?
Thing is, I AM judging them as people, judging their values, things they can control. Not their sexuality. Can’t YOU see the difference??
Ya I can which is why I think being turned off soley by someone's political views is more acceptable than soley their sexual orientation.
So we agree then "
No actually. I dislike the entire person for their political views. It’s not that I just don’t want to fuck them, I’m actively repulsed by them. But hey. It’s obviously a complicated subject for everyone to get. So don’t worry. |
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I disagree.
Can I ask why you would drop a favored lover because of their political views?
Because it speaks of the person they ultimately are. I find right wing people to be generally selfish and capitalistic. I find their life’s views to be abhorrent and incompatible with mine. I’ve yet to be proven wrong.
You honestly can't see the irony in this given what else you posted on the thread?
Thing is, I AM judging them as people, judging their values, things they can control. Not their sexuality. Can’t YOU see the difference??
Ya I can which is why I think being turned off soley by someone's political views is more acceptable than soley their sexual orientation.
So we agree then
No actually. I dislike the entire person for their political views. It’s not that I just don’t want to fuck them, I’m actively repulsed by them. But hey. It’s obviously a complicated subject for everyone to get. So don’t worry. "
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Don't shoot me for this but it seems to be a no no for guys to explore their bi side at parties (which are not specified as bi-parties) and in a so-called 'tolerant' community, I find this sad. Mrs.
In what way?
Would men be asked to leave or made to feel unwelcome if they started some exploration?
They wouldn't start exploring in the first place, it's not the 'done thing' at parties, as much as I'd like to see it happen
Yeah I've often thought that it's something I've never seen happen at a party (and I've been to many in the last 10 years). It's not something I'm seeking myself but it strikes me as very sad that lads that have those inclinations may feel restricted in what fantasies they can explore. I guess they must do it in other environments but that shouldn't have to be necessary "
Never seen it myself. All though i do know quite a few wimmin interested in it.
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"Don't shoot me for this but it seems to be a no no for guys to explore their bi side at parties (which are not specified as bi-parties) and in a so-called 'tolerant' community, I find this sad. Mrs.
In what way?
Would men be asked to leave or made to feel unwelcome if they started some exploration?
They wouldn't start exploring in the first place, it's not the 'done thing' at parties, as much as I'd like to see it happen
Yeah I've often thought that it's something I've never seen happen at a party (and I've been to many in the last 10 years). It's not something I'm seeking myself but it strikes me as very sad that lads that have those inclinations may feel restricted in what fantasies they can explore. I guess they must do it in other environments but that shouldn't have to be necessary
Never seen it myself. All though i do know quite a few wimmin interested in it.
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I'm straight! but just have no problem giving a man oral sex with a woman and them two do me together Never solo fun just that exact scenario !
I also like the idea of meeting a bi couple let them blindfold me and you can't see who is sucking you off it's a complete head fuck .
So what the hell am I lol .
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"I'm straight! but just have no problem giving a man oral sex with a woman and them two do me together Never solo fun just that exact scenario !
I also like the idea of meeting a bi couple let them blindfold me and you can't see who is sucking you off it's a complete head fuck .
So what the hell am I lol .
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You are who you are ..simple as
By the way the blindfold couple....you can if one has a beard |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm straight! but just have no problem giving a man oral sex with a woman and them two do me together Never solo fun just that exact scenario !
I also like the idea of meeting a bi couple let them blindfold me and you can't see who is sucking you off it's a complete head fuck .
So what the hell am I lol .
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Situationally bi is how I would describe that. Or just up for exploring |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm straight! but just have no problem giving a man oral sex with a woman and them two do me together Never solo fun just that exact scenario !
I also like the idea of meeting a bi couple let them blindfold me and you can't see who is sucking you off it's a complete head fuck .
So what the hell am I lol .
You are who you are ..simple as
By the way the blindfold couple....you can if one has a beard "
Ffs BM...you know I do my best to keep my unruly chin hair at bay |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"I'm straight! but just have no problem giving a man oral sex with a woman and them two do me together Never solo fun just that exact scenario !
I also like the idea of meeting a bi couple let them blindfold me and you can't see who is sucking you off it's a complete head fuck .
So what the hell am I lol .
You are who you are ..simple as
By the way the blindfold couple....you can if one has a beard
Ffs BM...you know I do my best to keep my unruly chin hair at bay "
Wouldn't bother me if it was you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm bi but only in certain situations so I say if bi once then you're bi, I'm a very straight acting man so this forum discussion is a bit of fun.
OP is a sexy woman and can choose whomever she wants to fuck, it's her loss as far as most vi guys would think, plus she's probably had some of the best rides off of bi guys who would have blown their load way quicker if another guy was in the room too and not known it. In saying that if the OP was a Manchester United fan, I wouldnt fuck her either. But I would if I didn't know
Only you know OP, but I think you were just looking for similar people to discuss this with, not explain it, but that's just my opinion.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm bi but only in certain situations so I say if bi once then you're bi, I'm a very straight acting man so this forum discussion is a bit of fun.
OP is a sexy woman and can choose whomever she wants to fuck, it's her loss as far as most vi guys would think, plus she's probably had some of the best rides off of bi guys who would have blown their load way quicker if another guy was in the room too and not known it. In saying that if the OP was a Manchester United fan, I wouldnt fuck her either. But I would if I didn't know
Only you know OP, but I think you were just looking for similar people to discuss this with, not explain it, but that's just my opinion.
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A Man U fan - that’s a good analogy - love it
You should’ve responded to this topic a few days ago to save people from arguing about homophobia, politics, etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nor sure about anyone being homophobic. It's personal preference don't see the big deal about it
Bisexual men are a turnoff for some females .
Maybe It's the fear of not being needed and not being center of desire for some females...very one dimensional if ya ask me but each to their own
Bisexual men are a turn on for some female and more and more too in my experience
Person preference ...no big deal
Stop talking sense you sexy fucker. I would even ride ya ffs "
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only you can answer that question, everyone has there own preferences so yours isn't an issue I'd say
Mrs Gs