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you walk into a fab meet and greet, you're new. what do you say? this is open to all. are you shy refined? do you hope to find someone you know? do you openly go over and introduce yourself as X,Y,Z?... fire away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thankfully as most mng have a chatvgroup set up beforehand so you can get to know a few going. A few I've been at had pre drinks so that anyone going in alone doesn't have too.
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over a year ago
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I did attend one alone and the only people i knew were the organisers so i kinda had no choice but to introduce myself to people. It's very daunting but after chatting to a few people i was grand! |
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By *ubyShuWoman
over a year ago
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1st M&G i was so nervous! From chatting to a few in groups for ages beforehand we met up for drinks and a chat the evening before! Was a brillant way to break the ice and get introduced to others |
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"id imagine it would be a tad awkward if you didn't enter with someone or know faces inside.
Its just people having drinks in a pub or hotel ....like a normal night out "
yes. I'm talking about a stranger entering, knowing nobody. a normal night out, u know people. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"id imagine it would be a tad awkward if you didn't enter with someone or know faces inside.
Its just people having drinks in a pub or hotel ....like a normal night out yes. I'm talking about a stranger entering, knowing nobody. a normal night out, u know people. "
They'd know whoever invited them and would probably be verified to get an invite so would know others |
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"id imagine it would be a tad awkward if you didn't enter with someone or know faces inside.
Its just people having drinks in a pub or hotel ....like a normal night out yes. I'm talking about a stranger entering, knowing nobody. a normal night out, u know people.
They'd know whoever invited them and would probably be verified to get an invite so would know others "
you could be invited here to a M&G without meeting the hosts etc. you might also not know a soul there. thats why I'd imagine a group beforehand or the night before meeting someone to break the ice. I can't imagine attending especially as a single man on your own on here. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"id imagine it would be a tad awkward if you didn't enter with someone or know faces inside.
Its just people having drinks in a pub or hotel ....like a normal night out yes. I'm talking about a stranger entering, knowing nobody. a normal night out, u know people.
They'd know whoever invited them and would probably be verified to get an invite so would know others you could be invited here to a M&G without meeting the hosts etc. you might also not know a soul there. thats why I'd imagine a group beforehand or the night before meeting someone to break the ice. I can't imagine attending especially as a single man on your own on here. "
I was invited to my first one with 2 days notice and only knew 2 people there
One of them I'd only met a few days previously
There're a very friendly bunch on fab |
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"id imagine it would be a tad awkward if you didn't enter with someone or know faces inside.
Its just people having drinks in a pub or hotel ....like a normal night out yes. I'm talking about a stranger entering, knowing nobody. a normal night out, u know people.
They'd know whoever invited them and would probably be verified to get an invite so would know others you could be invited here to a M&G without meeting the hosts etc. you might also not know a soul there. thats why I'd imagine a group beforehand or the night before meeting someone to break the ice. I can't imagine attending especially as a single man on your own on here.
I was invited to my first one with 2 days notice and only knew 2 people there
One of them I'd only met a few days previously
There're a very friendly bunch on fab "
that's good but at least you knew 2 there if only briefly one. anyway I'd imagine the awkwardness wouldn't last overly long |
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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago
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i attend them all alone too(envy/ vanilla/ m&g) I find as a woman you are not alone very long, im lucky I know a good few but it is still daunting, I had a fantastic wing man the last one I went to so I am more open to that idea going forward..
I do always try and speak to the single males as some get left to the side, im remembering the last Halloween party I went to and I said to my wingman go over and ask 'dracula ' to dance as he was alone! we were literally going back and forth saying you get dracula(single male) and il dance this time  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Have you been to a social Op... or are you nervous of going to your first one never been. just inquisitive. always said I might go to get a feel although I'm not a true swinger. "
There was a survey on the forums last year and a majority of those that answered said the same thing ....there's room for everyone on here is what I believe |
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"Have you been to a social Op... or are you nervous of going to your first one never been. just inquisitive. always said I might go to get a feel although I'm not a true swinger.
There was a survey on the forums last year and a majority of those that answered said the same thing ....there's room for everyone on here is what I believe "
ye, you're probably right. |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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Was petrified walking into the limerick social . Tried to spot one or two I knew Which helped give me a base to start chatting away .
First small social was before that . It helped looking at profiles before because you have some questions or topics prepared in your head for those attending .
And the forums obviously help form bonds
Some people are good socially But some can rehearse themselves into being able for social interactions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"id imagine it would be a tad awkward if you didn't enter with someone or know faces inside.
Its just people having drinks in a pub or hotel ....like a normal night out yes. I'm talking about a stranger entering, knowing nobody. a normal night out, u know people.
They'd know whoever invited them and would probably be verified to get an invite so would know others you could be invited here to a M&G without meeting the hosts etc. you might also not know a soul there. thats why I'd imagine a group beforehand or the night before meeting someone to break the ice. I can't imagine attending especially as a single man on your own on here. "
Why not your an adult, the very first mng I attended I know noone , had met noone that was going and yet went and at the time was so quiet and insecure. Still shocked i travelled down alone and know noone.
Since than i have even managed to go away on my own for a night or two. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't go alone, I'm not very sociable "
You could hold my hand......someone used a great phrase on here once
They offered themselves as a base camp for someone's first social....sit with them chatting until they felt comfortable and got talking to others
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably stand there awkwardly drinking my pint way too fast and becoming more nervous by the second until my drink is gone then disappear and delete profile…..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably stand there awkwardly drinking my pint way too fast and becoming more nervous by the second until my drink is gone then disappear and delete profile….. "
Not a chance you disappearing |
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I've gone to my one and only MnG by myself in 2020.
I'd never met anyone there and only knew a couple of people through a chat group.
I haven't seen anyone from that night since.
I didn't find it that difficult even if I'm not the most outgoing person and I'd happily do it again. |
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"id imagine it would be a tad awkward if you didn't enter with someone or know faces inside.
Its just people having drinks in a pub or hotel ....like a normal night out yes. I'm talking about a stranger entering, knowing nobody. a normal night out, u know people.
They'd know whoever invited them and would probably be verified to get an invite so would know others you could be invited here to a M&G without meeting the hosts etc. you might also not know a soul there. thats why I'd imagine a group beforehand or the night before meeting someone to break the ice. I can't imagine attending especially as a single man on your own on here.
Why not your an adult, the very first mng I attended I know noone , had met noone that was going and yet went and at the time was so quiet and insecure. Still shocked i travelled down alone and know noone.
Since than i have even managed to go away on my own for a night or two."
completely different for a woman attending. I can only imagine the private chats and get to know chats women have on here. id even go as far as saying some women discuss fab men in private messages on here regularly. |
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"id imagine it would be a tad awkward if you didn't enter with someone or know faces inside.
Its just people having drinks in a pub or hotel ....like a normal night out yes. I'm talking about a stranger entering, knowing nobody. a normal night out, u know people.
They'd know whoever invited them and would probably be verified to get an invite so would know others you could be invited here to a M&G without meeting the hosts etc. you might also not know a soul there. thats why I'd imagine a group beforehand or the night before meeting someone to break the ice. I can't imagine attending especially as a single man on your own on here.
Why not your an adult, the very first mng I attended I know noone , had met noone that was going and yet went and at the time was so quiet and insecure. Still shocked i travelled down alone and know noone.
Since than i have even managed to go away on my own for a night or two.completely different for a woman attending. I can only imagine the private chats and get to know chats women have on here. id even go as far as saying some women discuss fab men in private messages on here regularly. "
Why is it completely different fir a woman attending? You cone across as someone who would have no issue entering a room full of strangers and getting chatting.
I know for me personally it was a huge thing and I've even been told by people I met at my first few socials I was extremely quiet and I come across as way more confident now. |
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"id imagine it would be a tad awkward if you didn't enter with someone or know faces inside.
Its just people having drinks in a pub or hotel ....like a normal night out yes. I'm talking about a stranger entering, knowing nobody. a normal night out, u know people.
They'd know whoever invited them and would probably be verified to get an invite so would know others you could be invited here to a M&G without meeting the hosts etc. you might also not know a soul there. thats why I'd imagine a group beforehand or the night before meeting someone to break the ice. I can't imagine attending especially as a single man on your own on here.
Why not your an adult, the very first mng I attended I know noone , had met noone that was going and yet went and at the time was so quiet and insecure. Still shocked i travelled down alone and know noone.
Since than i have even managed to go away on my own for a night or two.completely different for a woman attending. I can only imagine the private chats and get to know chats women have on here. id even go as far as saying some women discuss fab men in private messages on here regularly.
Why is it completely different fir a woman attending? You cone across as someone who would have no issue entering a room full of strangers and getting chatting.
I know for me personally it was a huge thing and I've even been told by people I met at my first few socials I was extremely quiet and I come across as way more confident now. "
for the reasons I just said  . do u converse regularly with other women on fab? I'd imagine I'd be fine at a meet and greet but I can picture how someone would class it as daunting if knew/chatted to nobody there in advance. now, entering with somebody, thats a different ball game. I find on fab though, the place is gone awful dreary the last 2 years predominantly due to covid I'd imagine. |
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"id imagine it would be a tad awkward if you didn't enter with someone or know faces inside.
Its just people having drinks in a pub or hotel ....like a normal night out yes. I'm talking about a stranger entering, knowing nobody. a normal night out, u know people.
They'd know whoever invited them and would probably be verified to get an invite so would know others you could be invited here to a M&G without meeting the hosts etc. you might also not know a soul there. thats why I'd imagine a group beforehand or the night before meeting someone to break the ice. I can't imagine attending especially as a single man on your own on here.
Why not your an adult, the very first mng I attended I know noone , had met noone that was going and yet went and at the time was so quiet and insecure. Still shocked i travelled down alone and know noone.
Since than i have even managed to go away on my own for a night or two.completely different for a woman attending. I can only imagine the private chats and get to know chats women have on here. id even go as far as saying some women discuss fab men in private messages on here regularly.
Why is it completely different fir a woman attending? You cone across as someone who would have no issue entering a room full of strangers and getting chatting.
I know for me personally it was a huge thing and I've even been told by people I met at my first few socials I was extremely quiet and I come across as way more confident now. for the reasons I just said . do u converse regularly with other women on fab? I'd imagine I'd be fine at a meet and greet but I can picture how someone would class it as daunting if knew/chatted to nobody there in advance. now, entering with somebody, thats a different ball game. I find on fab though, the place is gone awful dreary the last 2 years predominantly due to covid I'd imagine. "
When I attended my first mng I knew noone and attended alone. So it can be done. As for dreary it's what you make of it and it may be dreary here but is that not up to you to change. If it's that bad why you still here? |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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Its gone dreary because of the amount of shite threads started about the virus alright....every thread doesn't have to be about the virus or even half way through a good thread be moved sideways to be yet another virus thread |
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"id imagine it would be a tad awkward if you didn't enter with someone or know faces inside.
Its just people having drinks in a pub or hotel ....like a normal night out yes. I'm talking about a stranger entering, knowing nobody. a normal night out, u know people.
They'd know whoever invited them and would probably be verified to get an invite so would know others you could be invited here to a M&G without meeting the hosts etc. you might also not know a soul there. thats why I'd imagine a group beforehand or the night before meeting someone to break the ice. I can't imagine attending especially as a single man on your own on here.
Why not your an adult, the very first mng I attended I know noone , had met noone that was going and yet went and at the time was so quiet and insecure. Still shocked i travelled down alone and know noone.
Since than i have even managed to go away on my own for a night or two.completely different for a woman attending. I can only imagine the private chats and get to know chats women have on here. id even go as far as saying some women discuss fab men in private messages on here regularly.
Why is it completely different fir a woman attending? You cone across as someone who would have no issue entering a room full of strangers and getting chatting.
I know for me personally it was a huge thing and I've even been told by people I met at my first few socials I was extremely quiet and I come across as way more confident now. for the reasons I just said . do u converse regularly with other women on fab? I'd imagine I'd be fine at a meet and greet but I can picture how someone would class it as daunting if knew/chatted to nobody there in advance. now, entering with somebody, thats a different ball game. I find on fab though, the place is gone awful dreary the last 2 years predominantly due to covid I'd imagine.
When I attended my first mng I knew noone and attended alone. So it can be done. As for dreary it's what you make of it and it may be dreary here but is that not up to you to change. If it's that bad why you still here? "
you can't change something when other people are the way they are. how many are actively meeting in the last 2 years? Id say very few. |
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"Its gone dreary because of the amount of shite threads started about the virus alright....every thread doesn't have to be about the virus or even half way through a good thread be moved sideways to be yet another virus thread"
but they're not shite Bog. it's the main topic of news daily coming up to 2 years. what I mean is are people meeting actively like they were in 19, attending socials M&G Etc. I doubt it in a big way
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Here we go again are people actively attending like they did on 2019, ffs are people living their normal lives like they did in 2019. No there not but so bloody what, I'm sorry dontbesilly your like a broken record yet your the one claiming you are living your life like you did before covid.
Way I see it let people do what they want to do. all we can do is be responsible for our own actions and the constant comparing about what people are doing? Seriously who the fuck cares.
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"Here we go again are people actively attending like they did on 2019, ffs are people living their normal lives like they did in 2019. No there not but so bloody what, I'm sorry dontbesilly your like a broken record yet your the one claiming you are living your life like you did before covid.
Way I see it let people do what they want to do. all we can do is be responsible for our own actions and the constant comparing about what people are doing? Seriously who the fuck cares.
Rant over "
obviously if people are not trying to resume to 19' living the site takes a massive dull drop. thats self explanatory. |
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"Here we go again are people actively attending like they did on 2019, ffs are people living their normal lives like they did in 2019. No there not but so bloody what, I'm sorry dontbesilly your like a broken record yet your the one claiming you are living your life like you did before covid.
Way I see it let people do what they want to do. all we can do is be responsible for our own actions and the constant comparing about what people are doing? Seriously who the fuck cares.
Rant over "
Pmsl… Did you get drawn in?  |
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"Here we go again are people actively attending like they did on 2019, ffs are people living their normal lives like they did in 2019. No there not but so bloody what, I'm sorry dontbesilly your like a broken record yet your the one claiming you are living your life like you did before covid.
Way I see it let people do what they want to do. all we can do is be responsible for our own actions and the constant comparing about what people are doing? Seriously who the fuck cares.
Rant over
Pmsl… Did you get drawn in? "
Yep was totally today |
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"Here we go again are people actively attending like they did on 2019, ffs are people living their normal lives like they did in 2019. No there not but so bloody what, I'm sorry dontbesilly your like a broken record yet your the one claiming you are living your life like you did before covid.
Way I see it let people do what they want to do. all we can do is be responsible for our own actions and the constant comparing about what people are doing? Seriously who the fuck cares.
Rant over
Pmsl… Did you get drawn in?
Yep was totally today "
nothing to be drawn in over. if people are not trying to resume living in a normal fashion, the site takes a massive hit imo. |
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"Here we go again are people actively attending like they did on 2019, ffs are people living their normal lives like they did in 2019. No there not but so bloody what, I'm sorry dontbesilly your like a broken record yet your the one claiming you are living your life like you did before covid.
Way I see it let people do what they want to do. all we can do is be responsible for our own actions and the constant comparing about what people are doing? Seriously who the fuck cares.
Rant over
Pmsl… Did you get drawn in?
Yep was totally today nothing to be drawn in over. if people are not trying to resume living in a normal fashion, the site takes a massive hit imo."
Plenty meeting just because they not broadcasting it to the world on here |
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"Here we go again are people actively attending like they did on 2019, ffs are people living their normal lives like they did in 2019. No there not but so bloody what, I'm sorry dontbesilly your like a broken record yet your the one claiming you are living your life like you did before covid.
Way I see it let people do what they want to do. all we can do is be responsible for our own actions and the constant comparing about what people are doing? Seriously who the fuck cares.
Rant over
Pmsl… Did you get drawn in?
Yep was totally today nothing to be drawn in over. if people are not trying to resume living in a normal fashion, the site takes a massive hit imo.
Plenty meeting just because they not broadcasting it to the world on here "
if that's the case, its good to know. |
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"if there are some in 2022 organised, you might let me know, obviously within reason to distance etc. "
The idea is to have fun at the shagging things willy |
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"if there are some in 2022 organised, you might let me know, obviously within reason to distance etc.
The idea is to have fun at the shagging things willy"
if you cant have fun when shagging, give it up. |
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"if there are some in 2022 organised, you might let me know, obviously within reason to distance etc.
The idea is to have fun at the shagging things willyif you cant have fun when shagging, give it up. "
You definitely should  |
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"if there are some in 2022 organised, you might let me know, obviously within reason to distance etc.
The idea is to have fun at the shagging things willyif you cant have fun when shagging, give it up.
You definitely should "
id never give something up that I enjoy in everyday life. |
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Ive been to a very few Fab socials, and used regularly attend F..L..Fe socials. Im confident in a group social setting, and as im usually driving i dont drink. I actually love meeting new people and im curious about people , particularly anything to do with sexuality, relationship, etc. I suppose i let everybody in the room see me, and get to know me, whether it leads any further is not that important to me . |
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"Ive been to a very few Fab socials, and used regularly attend F..L..Fe socials. Im confident in a group social setting, and as im usually driving i dont drink. I actually love meeting new people and im curious about people , particularly anything to do with sexuality, relationship, etc. I suppose i let everybody in the room see me, and get to know me, whether it leads any further is not that important to me . "
does the venue know its people coming from a swingers site? The meet and greet venue.
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"Ive been to a very few Fab socials, and used regularly attend F..L..Fe socials. Im confident in a group social setting, and as im usually driving i dont drink. I actually love meeting new people and im curious about people , particularly anything to do with sexuality, relationship, etc. I suppose i let everybody in the room see me, and get to know me, whether it leads any further is not that important to me . does the venue know its people coming from a swingers site? The meet and greet venue."
What do you think happens at these mng that it matters to the venue? |
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"Ive been to a very few Fab socials, and used regularly attend F..L..Fe socials. Im confident in a group social setting, and as im usually driving i dont drink. I actually love meeting new people and im curious about people , particularly anything to do with sexuality, relationship, etc. I suppose i let everybody in the room see me, and get to know me, whether it leads any further is not that important to me . does the venue know its people coming from a swingers site? The meet and greet venue.
What do you think happens at these mng that it matters to the venue? "
I'm asking do u have to inform the venue beforehand. |
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"Ive been to a very few Fab socials, and used regularly attend F..L..Fe socials. Im confident in a group social setting, and as im usually driving i dont drink. I actually love meeting new people and im curious about people , particularly anything to do with sexuality, relationship, etc. I suppose i let everybody in the room see me, and get to know me, whether it leads any further is not that important to me . does the venue know its people coming from a swingers site? The meet and greet venue.
What do you think happens at these mng that it matters to the venue? I'm asking do u have to inform the venue beforehand. "
Nope it's a group of people having food and drinks |
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"Ive been to a very few Fab socials, and used regularly attend F..L..Fe socials. Im confident in a group social setting, and as im usually driving i dont drink. I actually love meeting new people and im curious about people , particularly anything to do with sexuality, relationship, etc. I suppose i let everybody in the room see me, and get to know me, whether it leads any further is not that important to me . does the venue know its people coming from a swingers site? The meet and greet venue.
What do you think happens at these mng that it matters to the venue? I'm asking do u have to inform the venue beforehand.
Nope it's a group of people having food and drinks"
so even if a big crowd was going, u don't have to say anything? that's handy I guess. |
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"Ive been to a very few Fab socials, and used regularly attend F..L..Fe socials. Im confident in a group social setting, and as im usually driving i dont drink. I actually love meeting new people and im curious about people , particularly anything to do with sexuality, relationship, etc. I suppose i let everybody in the room see me, and get to know me, whether it leads any further is not that important to me . does the venue know its people coming from a swingers site? The meet and greet venue.
What do you think happens at these mng that it matters to the venue? I'm asking do u have to inform the venue beforehand.
Nope it's a group of people having food and drinksso even if a big crowd was going, u don't have to say anything? that's handy I guess. "
Its a social its not like everyone sits around naked playing with themselves ( that happens later) |
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"Ive been to a very few Fab socials, and used regularly attend F..L..Fe socials. Im confident in a group social setting, and as im usually driving i dont drink. I actually love meeting new people and im curious about people , particularly anything to do with sexuality, relationship, etc. I suppose i let everybody in the room see me, and get to know me, whether it leads any further is not that important to me . does the venue know its people coming from a swingers site? The meet and greet venue.
What do you think happens at these mng that it matters to the venue? I'm asking do u have to inform the venue beforehand.
Nope it's a group of people having food and drinksso even if a big crowd was going, u don't have to say anything? that's handy I guess.
Its a social its not like everyone sits around naked playing with themselves ( that happens later) "
I'm talking about a big group of people all from the one site meeting in the one area. I would of thought in that scenario a booking would need to be made. must alot less attend these then I thought. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Ive been to a very few Fab socials, and used regularly attend F..L..Fe socials. Im confident in a group social setting, and as im usually driving i dont drink. I actually love meeting new people and im curious about people , particularly anything to do with sexuality, relationship, etc. I suppose i let everybody in the room see me, and get to know me, whether it leads any further is not that important to me . does the venue know its people coming from a swingers site? The meet and greet venue.
What do you think happens at these mng that it matters to the venue? I'm asking do u have to inform the venue beforehand.
Nope it's a group of people having food and drinksso even if a big crowd was going, u don't have to say anything? that's handy I guess.
Its a social its not like everyone sits around naked playing with themselves ( that happens later) "
No wonder i got fucked out of the bar the last time  |
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"Ive been to a very few Fab socials, and used regularly attend F..L..Fe socials. Im confident in a group social setting, and as im usually driving i dont drink. I actually love meeting new people and im curious about people , particularly anything to do with sexuality, relationship, etc. I suppose i let everybody in the room see me, and get to know me, whether it leads any further is not that important to me . does the venue know its people coming from a swingers site? The meet and greet venue.
What do you think happens at these mng that it matters to the venue? I'm asking do u have to inform the venue beforehand.
Nope it's a group of people having food and drinksso even if a big crowd was going, u don't have to say anything? that's handy I guess.
Its a social its not like everyone sits around naked playing with themselves ( that happens later) I'm talking about a big group of people all from the one site meeting in the one area. I would of thought in that scenario a booking would need to be made. must alot less attend these then I thought. "
Any I've been too a group booking is made, often out of the group someone's birthday is around the time and the venue is told its a birthday party I don't think they care as long as they making money |
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"Ive been to a very few Fab socials, and used regularly attend F..L..Fe socials. Im confident in a group social setting, and as im usually driving i dont drink. I actually love meeting new people and im curious about people , particularly anything to do with sexuality, relationship, etc. I suppose i let everybody in the room see me, and get to know me, whether it leads any further is not that important to me . does the venue know its people coming from a swingers site? The meet and greet venue.
What do you think happens at these mng that it matters to the venue? I'm asking do u have to inform the venue beforehand.
Nope it's a group of people having food and drinksso even if a big crowd was going, u don't have to say anything? that's handy I guess.
Its a social its not like everyone sits around naked playing with themselves ( that happens later) I'm talking about a big group of people all from the one site meeting in the one area. I would of thought in that scenario a booking would need to be made. must alot less attend these then I thought.
Any I've been too a group booking is made"
that's what I mean. |
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"I wouldn't go alone, I'm not very sociable
You could hold my hand......someone used a great phrase on here once
They offered themselves as a base camp for someone's first social....sit with them chatting until they felt comfortable and got talking to others
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I would absolutely hold your hand. Its going to be awkward when we need to pee though |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"I wouldn't go alone, I'm not very sociable
You could hold my hand......someone used a great phrase on here once
They offered themselves as a base camp for someone's first social....sit with them chatting until they felt comfortable and got talking to others
I would absolutely hold your hand. Its going to be awkward when we need to pee though "
We can share a cubicle....it'll be like a Japanese game show |
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"I wouldn't go alone, I'm not very sociable
You could hold my hand......someone used a great phrase on here once
They offered themselves as a base camp for someone's first social....sit with them chatting until they felt comfortable and got talking to others
I would absolutely hold your hand. Its going to be awkward when we need to pee though
We can share a cubicle....it'll be like a Japanese game show "
Oh fun! I will hold you to that! But you can hold yourself |
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Well the first meet and greet went to was in ballina 4 years ago, was 140 there before we went in, we knew only bout 5 at it, and a few from the pre chat group,, se we walked in dressed up as a nun and a Bishop, lol. And it wasnt a fancy dress meet, was some stunned silence. |
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"Well the first meet and greet went to was in ballina 4 years ago, was 140 there before we went in, we knew only bout 5 at it, and a few from the pre chat group,, se we walked in dressed up as a nun and a Bishop, lol. And it wasnt a fancy dress meet, was some stunned silence. "
Bishop Brennan?? |
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By *ezoMan
over a year ago
The Kingdom |
"you walk into a fab meet and greet, you're new. what do you say? this is open to all. are you shy refined? do you hope to find someone you know? do you openly go over and introduce yourself as X,Y,Z?... fire away. "
Not been to a M&G yet. put my name down for a few but with unknow future restrictions they are up in the air.
If history serves me well I'll probably Have a drink. Walk around the venue. have another drink and spend an hour to work up the courage to talk to a stranger. As we can be quite shy
Unless someone is wearing a costume. I'll freely spark up conversations with people in fancy dress. I don't know why. |
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By *ezoMan
over a year ago
The Kingdom |
"i attend them all alone too(envy/ vanilla/ m&g) I find as a woman you are not alone very long, im lucky I know a good few but it is still daunting, I had a fantastic wing man the last one I went to so I am more open to that idea going forward..
I do always try and speak to the single males as some get left to the side, im remembering the last Halloween party I went to and I said to my wingman go over and ask 'dracula ' to dance as he was alone! we were literally going back and forth saying you get dracula(single male) and il dance this time "
All I'll say is, fair play to you and your wingman.
Always nice to see those with confidence share it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say that I’d probably be a bit overwhelmed at first and would probably eventually talk to someone. A M&G wouldn’t be my first choice as a meet up from fab and I’d prefer a cupp tae or coffee at first but if it had to be a M&G then sure I’d chance it. |
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