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What’s it like to be at the receiving end of you ?
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
No not like that ! This is a mature thread modified from the lounge
Please do not say hard/wet!
On a more emotional level - how would you like people to come away from interacting with you. Ideally!
Me ? I d like to think
not ignored/less down on themselves
But sometimes especially when I am on a high perhaps a bit like my news Is more important than theirs
But will work on it |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
When people interact with me, they know they will get the truth; and if I agree to do something it will happen. Guaranteed.
If someone comes to me with a genuine problem that they can't solve, they know they will have my undivided and undiluted attention until the issue is resolved.
My scrupulous honesty and integrity has got me into a lot of hassle in the past, from others who don't like the whole truth.
When I commit, I commit, but if I am messed around or cheated: exit.  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
I'd like to think I show people I'm interested in them,that I'm a good listener,can have a decent conversation and like to leave them thinking they'd like to take it further.....or just get a donut and feck off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like to think I show people I'm interested in them,that I'm a good listener,can have a decent conversation and like to leave them thinking they'd like to take it further.....or just get a donut and feck off "
I'm only here for your donuts  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"I'd like to think I show people I'm interested in them,that I'm a good listener,can have a decent conversation and like to leave them thinking they'd like to take it further.....or just get a donut and feck off
I'm only here for your donuts "
Story of my life at this stage  |
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By *ezoMan
over a year ago
The Kingdom |
It all depends.
In big groups in an unfamiliar area people would get the impression I'm a shy quiet guy.
Unless it's a costume party. Then people can think I'm one crazy, social person.
For some reason unknow to me when people get to know me a bit better they perceive me as smarter than I actually am. Still confuses me to this day.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I ask people about themselves, they leave thinking I'm a really interesting person
I think a lot of people just want someone to listen and be interested "
It's a basic human need to feel connected to and valued by others IMOl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d like to think that anyone who chats with me would come away thinking I’m a nice guy who’s very respectful of people. Someone who can be a bit naughty at times but not in a degrading way and I’d like to think that anyone who meets me knows they will have a good laugh too and will leave me in good spirits. |
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What is it actually like to be on the receiving end of me as per thread title? I don't know. That's pretty subjective, I would think. I can't answer for others.
Obviously I would like those people who's company I enjoy and value to feel that I'm kind, compassionate and fun.
I have in younger years been told that I come across as arrogant. Something that my father has told me he's been accused of too. I believe I'm far from it. I don't believe I'm better than anyone else. Maybe insecurity compensating?
I'm relatively quiet and shy amongst people I don't know. Those who do know me, will hopefully perceive me as I hope I come across as on this Forum - a sarcastic, filthy minded, in the toilet humoured beeatch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jazus thats a tough one.
I mean in general I'd love to thunk everyone I interact with feels in someway better about themselves after the interaction than before.
But in reality I'd like to think people at least feel treated fairly and with respect.
Obviously the more extended or intimate the interaction the more effect I'd like to think I'd have |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That they’ve just received the best most comforting hug in their lives and then a good hard kick in the arse as they walk away, to keep them grounded
Note to self: never turn my back on you "
Not the only thing you would be getting up the arse |
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"That they’ve just received the best most comforting hug in their lives and then a good hard kick in the arse as they walk away, to keep them grounded
Note to self: never turn my back on you
Not the only thing you would be getting up the arse "
You better mind your own in my company |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That they’ve just received the best most comforting hug in their lives and then a good hard kick in the arse as they walk away, to keep them grounded
Note to self: never turn my back on you
Not the only thing you would be getting up the arse
You better mind your own in my company "
Head down arse up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id like to think coming away from me with a warm fuzzy feeling and a grin
I don't even need to be in your company for that feeling to arise - must be the Cavan heritage it just radiates off me "
Think you will find that is the slurry |
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"Id like to think coming away from me with a warm fuzzy feeling and a grin
I don't even need to be in your company for that feeling to arise - must be the Cavan heritage
it just radiates off me
Think you will find that is the slurry
piss off you I'm getting on real well here "
I've just eaten Chinese takeaway I ordered on New Year's Eve for 6 days running...if that doesn't make me a Cavan woman, I don't know what will
As for slurry, maybe that's the origin of my anal kink |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ideally, at minimum, I would hope that any person would come away from any interaction with me feeling heard and that they had been treated respectfully. I have a huge ability to give and I enjoy building others up. However, as much as these can be great qualities, I have come to learn that it isn't always what is best for the other, or me. So, I am kind to all, but a little bit more discerning about what I give and to whom. |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
I’m a fucking delight
I think I’m friendly, kind and a good listener. I’m very tolerant of people but not the slightest bit tolerant of bullshit. My expressions tend to give away my emotions far too easily so people generally know where they stand with me |
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You sound like the person I'd like to meet very day of the week 