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Good looking = good shag
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lets put massive cock Monday and Tits out Tuesday to one side for now. Time to have the hate mail rolling in and everyone rush for the blocked button. Simply put good looking people are a better shag? Does anyone agree? Considering I’m a -10 out of 10 myself I must be as ugly as sin. Thoughts please and go easy on me. I’ve clearly lost the plot assuming I had it in the first place! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If anything the ugly you are (myself included) the better you are in the sack!!
You’ll always give a 110% and try please the lady because god knows when you'll get it again!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If he’s not reasonably good looking I won’t be trying him out 
You have to be physically attracted to someone firstly . "
This is true, however there's more to great sex than just the initial physical attraction, and it's not all about technique either, chemistry is the elusive third of the pie for a memorable sexual encounter |
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It's all subjective.
Just because one person finds someone attractive doesn't mean the next person will.
Just because one person thinks they themselves aren't attractive doesn't mean others don't think differently.
Just because good looking people appear to be getting more sex doesn't necessarily mean they are any good at it.
Not all customer reviews are genuine.
Some are self generated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's subjective.
I need to be physically attracted to someone and I want them to be physically attracted to me. That doesn't necessarily mean that either party is traditionally "good looking" It's part and parcel of what generates that click.
Yes chemistry is huge too but honestly if I knew someone thought I was an absolute munter but the chemistry was so great they wanted to ride me senseless, it'd kinda leave me a bit dry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP i don't think it's all the looks for me it's the mind mostly which creates a personality of course. Of course looks are nice as well and body but what one person thinks is good looking another doesn't. Every has their own kind of attractions for me chemistry is important and sensuality. When that's missing i think it's like one is just an object or something.   |
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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago
The bog |
It's all in the eye of the beholder really.. I've often met someone I wasn't attracted to and the more I chatted with them they hot more attractive for me...and I've often been asked why I was with such and such a person and it was because I liked them simple as... |
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"It's all in the eye of the beholder really.. I've often met someone I wasn't attracted to and the more I chatted with them they hot more attractive for me...and I've often been asked why I was with such and such a person and it was because I liked them simple as..."
This is it for me too. That chemistry, the fit, being in sync with each others rhythm, being able to laugh together, reading body language...all those things are so much more important than conventional good looks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Strangely there’s more women and couples who’ve posted to this thread than men. That’s not the norm when it comes to previous threads of mine. In this case the general view point is the same, attraction is different from one person to the next. Some are attracted to intelligence, sense of humour, honesty etc. Just the answer I was looking for tbh.   |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"It's all in the eye of the beholder really.. I've often met someone I wasn't attracted to and the more I chatted with them they hot more attractive for me...and I've often been asked why I was with such and such a person and it was because I liked them simple as...
This is it for me too. That chemistry, the fit, being in sync with each others rhythm, being able to laugh together, reading body language...all those things are so much more important than conventional good looks. "
 yep this exactly. Now intial attraction helps at the start but it's not the be all and end all either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Imagine looks would tell you 'this guy does incredible wonders with his hands and cock and won't disappoint you with a 3 minutes doggy style jackhammering before he cums'. "
Lol so true this made me giggle. |
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"Lets put massive cock Monday and Tits out Tuesday to one side for now. Time to have the hate mail rolling in and everyone rush for the blocked button. Simply put good looking people are a better shag? Does anyone agree? Considering I’m a -10 out of 10 myself I must be as ugly as sin. Thoughts please and go easy on me. I’ve clearly lost the plot assuming I had it in the first place! Lol"
Not necessarily however you need to be attracted to the person you are having sex with or else it won't be that good.. So yes being good looking will most likely mean better sexual experiences.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Imagine looks would tell you 'this guy does incredible wonders with his hands and cock and won't disappoint you with a 3 minutes doggy style jackhammering before he cums'. "
That’s a mental image that’s going to last for a while, god only knows where your I couldn’t be arsed post it note would have ended up this time!  |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
From my experience confidence is far more important when it comes to attraction.
Being intelligent, honest, having a great sense of humour and lacking self-confidence will normally only ever make you a good friend.
Being intelligent, honest, having a great sense of humour and having good self-confidence will make massively increase the chances of being something more than a friend. |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
north and south |
"A click between two people is the only thing that really makes sex epic. Physical looks tend to have little to do with that click, although it can be the starting point for it. "
I thought swinging was trying to meet people that we wouldn’t ordinarily meet and that chemistry or bit of the missing pie could be self explanatory or indulgence |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
"A click between two people is the only thing that really makes sex epic. Physical looks tend to have little to do with that click, although it can be the starting point for it. I thought swinging was trying to meet people that we wouldn’t ordinarily meet and that chemistry or bit of the missing pie could be self explanatory or indulgence "
It certainly leads to meeting people that you probably wouldn’t have met otherwise but I’m not here to shag people I don’t click with. Group situations are different but for a one on one meet, there needs to be chemistry.
Chemistry and clicking doesn’t mean you’re falling for them, it means you’re comfortable with them and that makes all the difference when it comes to the quality of sex. |
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