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Domme who doesn’t like subs
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this 
But here it’s
I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.
I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them
I like a bit of power struggle.
Does anyone else feel the same? xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this
But here it’s
I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.
I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them
I like a bit of power struggle.
Does anyone else feel the same? xx"
I do prefer a dominant or switch at first choice i like the challenge and power struggle aswell. At times i am happy to play with subs too but it does depend in the sub of course some are to needy altogether for me. The begging is a huge turn off, the desperate kind big no no.   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this
But here it’s
I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.
I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them
I like a bit of power struggle.
Does anyone else feel the same? xx
I do prefer a dominant or switch at first choice i like the challenge and power struggle aswell. At times i am happy to play with subs too but it does depend in the sub of course some are to needy altogether for me. The begging is a huge turn off, the desperate kind big no no. "
Yes, begging is a no no. And subs are only fun in a party scene, but definitely not one on one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this
But here it’s
I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.
I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them
I like a bit of power struggle.
Does anyone else feel the same? xx
I do prefer a dominant or switch at first choice i like the challenge and power struggle aswell. At times i am happy to play with subs too but it does depend in the sub of course some are to needy altogether for me. The begging is a huge turn off, the desperate kind big no no.
Yes, begging is a no no. And subs are only fun in a party scene, but definitely not one on one "
It depends on the sub though if it's a hot sub that might be worth putting a collar on and using for ones pleasure or others pleasure. But yes i have to agree to a certain extent that it's great fun at parties rather than one on one. |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this
But here it’s
I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.
I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them
I like a bit of power struggle.
Does anyone else feel the same? xx"
So just add Bratty Subs only to your profile.
Job done   |
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"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this
But here it’s
I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.
I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them
I like a bit of power struggle.
Does anyone else feel the same? xx"
I love primal sex. Switching between taking control and giving it up, then taking it back again. |
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The whole concept is flawed. The dome, a real domme has a duty of care to their sub. They have responsibilities and must stay within certain limits. The concept of no limits is false.
The sub on the other hand has all the power. They can call an end to it at any time and move on. They get to relax and enjoy what they receive. They don't have to work for anything because they get punished if they step out of line. They are there for the punishment.
If a male starts out defiant and then aftercare time submits to the lady, it's because that is what he wanted all along. That is a guy who can't be trusted and as you know, trust is the key ingredient in the mix. |
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"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this
But here it’s
I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.
I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them
I like a bit of power struggle.
Does anyone else feel the same? xx
I do prefer a dominant or switch at first choice i like the challenge and power struggle aswell. At times i am happy to play with subs too but it does depend in the sub of course some are to needy altogether for me. The begging is a huge turn off, the desperate kind big no no.
Yes, begging is a no no. And subs are only fun in a party scene, but definitely not one on one
It depends on the sub though if it's a hot sub that might be worth putting a collar on and using for ones pleasure or others pleasure. But yes i have to agree to a certain extent that it's great fun at parties rather than one on one. "
Can there be such a thing a a hot sub If you like dom men ? The sub part would be too much of a turn off to even consider him hot imo  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's no real one flavour of sub or Dom for that matter..
More like an endless variety of both..
To find a good D/S relationship is incredibly hard I find. Switch peeps can fit better as they are "flexible " but not all switch people can just turn it on or off.
I myself change every few days or sometimes longer and I don't really have too much control on how a feel on a particular day. It kinda feels like being sexualy bi polar, poor comparison I know but I'm not sure how else to describe it.
I don't find it a negative thing, I find it keeps things exciting  well that's my rant anyway. |
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I find the D/S dynamic fascinating. I'm mostly a bratty sub and am not attracted to sub men I'm afraid.
I used to think that being a sub/bottom was selfish so used to dominate to compensate, but I understand it better now. Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this
But here it’s
I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.
I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them
I like a bit of power struggle.
Does anyone else feel the same? xx
I do prefer a dominant or switch at first choice i like the challenge and power struggle aswell. At times i am happy to play with subs too but it does depend in the sub of course some are to needy altogether for me. The begging is a huge turn off, the desperate kind big no no.
Yes, begging is a no no. And subs are only fun in a party scene, but definitely not one on one
It depends on the sub though if it's a hot sub that might be worth putting a collar on and using for ones pleasure or others pleasure. But yes i have to agree to a certain extent that it's great fun at parties rather than one on one.
Can there be such a thing a a hot sub If you like dom men ? The sub part would be too much of a turn off to even consider him hot imo "
I am openminded really and do play with subs yes there is hot subs male and female. If you re read i did say i like switch aswell. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's no real one flavour of sub or Dom for that matter..
More like an endless variety of both..
To find a good D/S relationship is incredibly hard I find. Switch peeps can fit better as they are "flexible " but not all switch people can just turn it on or off.
I myself change every few days or sometimes longer and I don't really have too much control on how a feel on a particular day. It kinda feels like being sexualy bi polar, poor comparison I know but I'm not sure how else to describe it.
I don't find it a negative thing, I find it keeps things exciting well that's my rant anyway."
Good description lol yes it does keep it exciting. For me it depends on alot of things so for example if a person i have built a connection with asks me to play a dominant role i will do it because i like it. However sometimes depends on connection attraction etc i can switch and some times i don't. One time i went 3 months letting a guy lick me and not once did he touch me anywhere else other than my pussy and ass just oral only. Never even kissed or caressed some times i do this all depends on the dynamics. |
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"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this
But here it’s
I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.
I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them
I like a bit of power struggle.
Does anyone else feel the same? xx"
I like to switch. I love taking control and then giving it up. I adore being in both situations. Being defined as one thing would be so limiting. Just my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this
But here it’s
I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.
I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them
I like a bit of power struggle.
Does anyone else feel the same? xx
I like to switch. I love taking control and then giving it up. I adore being in both situations. Being defined as one thing would be so limiting. Just my opinion"
Maybe so, but I don’t have a single submissive bone in my body Even the idea of someone telling me what to do or controlling me in any way turns me off |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"I don’t have a single submissive bone in my body Even the idea of someone telling me what to do or controlling me in any way turns me off "
I have to say, I'm the same. I don't mind being asked to do something obviously or requested but being told is probably not going to end well. I'd have to have a specific connection with a person to comply with that. |
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"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this
But here it’s
I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.
I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them
I like a bit of power struggle.
Does anyone else feel the same? xx
I like to switch. I love taking control and then giving it up. I adore being in both situations. Being defined as one thing would be so limiting. Just my opinion
Maybe so, but I don’t have a single submissive bone in my body Even the idea of someone telling me what to do or controlling me in any way turns me off "
I think there is a difference in giving up control and being told what to do. |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
The whole D/s thing is just one big game of role play as the above poster says.
People don't "breakdown" dominant men or women. They simply get duped into thinking they do.
Everyone can be told what to do or
be controlled, some just need for it to happen in a more subtle way. |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"People can be naturally sub or Dom, but everyone can be broken.. but the point is to fulfil the role you've agreed within the boundaries that have been set"
If you've agreed to set roles and what the set outcome will be then is the person really being "broken"?
Anyway, doesn't sound like there's much boundaries set or roles defined either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People can be naturally sub or Dom, but everyone can be broken.. but the point is to fulfil the role you've agreed within the boundaries that have been set"
Yes boundaries are so important in real life aswell. |
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"Mansplained.
Twice.
By the most predicable sources.
Sigh.
Doesn't mean it isn't true lol"
Your explanation smacks of arrogance and disdain.
People aren’t one thing or another, it’s a role. But sure, plod along.
It’s your tiny box. |
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"I’m not sure how I’ve managed to delete this
But here it’s
I receive a few messages on a daily basis from submissive men. My profile says that I’m a very dominant person, and the assumption is that I like submissive guys. But as a matter of fact, submissive men are such a turn off for me; well unless they serve me, and I would never have sex with very submissive men.
I love dominant guys who will eventually submit to me. In other words, I like brats I guess (who are potentially dominant) - I like to tame them
I like a bit of power struggle.
Does anyone else feel the same? xx"
Exactly this. |
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"Mansplained.
Twice.
By the most predicable sources.
Sigh.
Doesn't mean it isn't true lol
Your explanation smacks of arrogance and disdain.
People aren’t one thing or another, it’s a role. But sure, plod along.
It’s your tiny box. "
Madame, I'll have you know my box is plenty big! |
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