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I have been on here a few months but only started using it properly in recent weeks. I’m thinking of trimming my gallery down a little bit, but I also need help in picking my best picture for my profile pic. I’m hoping to line up plenty of meets in the new year & I want to become more integrated in the Fab community
Help would be appreciated 
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"None of them try one with clothes on lol"
I would have normal pics that I’d have on my other social media accounts but in the interest of being discrete I don’t show my face on here..
And what’s the point in just seeing me in a nice shirt or a jumper haha?
If I’m not gonna show my face then my body is all anyone can go on.. |
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"Then do a discreet but sexy picture
You can’t please everyone.. I think some of my best features would be hidden away if I was totally discrete"
Of course that doesn’t mean everyone will be into it. But I think having explicit pics does me more good than harm on balance.. |
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"You asked for advice but the decision is always yours lol"
Thanks for the advice. Maybe I’ll trial it and see results. I’m also worried about people knowing who I am based on my clothes/setting of pics. Even if I crop my face out people I know will recognise the pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You asked for advice but the decision is always yours lol
Thanks for the advice. Maybe I’ll trial it and see results. I’m also worried about people knowing who I am based on my clothes/setting of pics. Even if I crop my face out people I know will recognise the pics "
Well if your that worried about your identity maybe it’s not the site for you
Take the advice your been offered by seasoned Fabbers
They are trying to be helpful as you asked for advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have a single male profile so many will wonder why you have so many pics of a woman as part of your gallery. You’re advertising yourself, not you and her I assume?"
She has a lovely arse though Jaffa shush |
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"You asked for advice but the decision is always yours lol
Thanks for the advice. Maybe I’ll trial it and see results. I’m also worried about people knowing who I am based on my clothes/setting of pics. Even if I crop my face out people I know will recognise the pics
Well if your that worried about your identity maybe it’s not the site for you
Take the advice your been offered by seasoned Fabbers
They are trying to be helpful as you asked for advice "
I have a very professional job.. it’s unfortunately out of my hands |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have a single male profile so many will wonder why you have so many pics of a woman as part of your gallery. You’re advertising yourself, not you and her I assume?"
Well said Jaffa
Why show the lady if it’s a single profile
Or did she even consent to the videos being posted because clearly she is recognisable
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You asked for advice but the decision is always yours lol
Thanks for the advice. Maybe I’ll trial it and see results. I’m also worried about people knowing who I am based on my clothes/setting of pics. Even if I crop my face out people I know will recognise the pics
Well if your that worried about your identity maybe it’s not the site for you
Take the advice your been offered by seasoned Fabbers
They are trying to be helpful as you asked for advice
I have a very professional job.. it’s unfortunately out of my hands "
Lots of us do
Welcome to the real Fab world
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"You have a single male profile so many will wonder why you have so many pics of a woman as part of your gallery. You’re advertising yourself, not you and her I assume?"
It was briefly a couples profile as we were in London together and were arranging to meet a third.. she had to move back to L.A. however and we won’t see each other again until some time next year so I’ve reverted to a single profile. We are open for now at least
But that’s a good point |
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"You have a single male profile so many will wonder why you have so many pics of a woman as part of your gallery. You’re advertising yourself, not you and her I assume?
Well said Jaffa
Why show the lady if it’s a single profile
Or did she even consent to the videos being posted because clearly she is recognisable
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Yes she did. As I said it was briefly a couples profile we were using together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You asked for advice but the decision is always yours lol
Thanks for the advice. Maybe I’ll trial it and see results. I’m also worried about people knowing who I am based on my clothes/setting of pics. Even if I crop my face out people I know will recognise the pics
Well if your that worried about your identity maybe it’s not the site for you
Take the advice your been offered by seasoned Fabbers
They are trying to be helpful as you asked for advice "
Actually he asked for people to pick his best pic technically not to say who we dont like any of them.
Now he can take on the friendly advice anyway. But he doesn't have to and nobody had to put up certain types of pics because "seasoned fabbers" say so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d get rid of pic number 2 but the rest are fine, I’m not a fan of men in jocks either. Your vids are super, very real.
Which one is 2? They come up in different order every time for me"
The one in the shower. The other cock pics look better when it is erect like you have it.
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"You asked for advice but the decision is always yours lol
Thanks for the advice. Maybe I’ll trial it and see results. I’m also worried about people knowing who I am based on my clothes/setting of pics. Even if I crop my face out people I know will recognise the pics
Well if your that worried about your identity maybe it’s not the site for you
Take the advice your been offered by seasoned Fabbers
They are trying to be helpful as you asked for advice
Actually he asked for people to pick his best pic technically not to say who we dont like any of them.
Now he can take on the friendly advice anyway. But he doesn't have to and nobody had to put up certain types of pics because "seasoned fabbers" say so"
Cheers for the support! I didn’t expect this to be a gang up haha. Either way I’m thankful for the advice from all..
But you can’t please everyone. There’s plenty of people who have DM’d who really enjoy what I post.. others will wish I had a cleaner profile. In an ideal world I’d have mix of both with some wholesome snaps of me doing things I enjoy.. but it would put my identity at risk and for the moment I’m not comfortable with that. Maybe one day |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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"You asked for advice but the decision is always yours lol
Thanks for the advice. Maybe I’ll trial it and see results. I’m also worried about people knowing who I am based on my clothes/setting of pics. Even if I crop my face out people I know will recognise the pics
Well if your that worried about your identity maybe it’s not the site for you
Take the advice your been offered by seasoned Fabbers
They are trying to be helpful as you asked for advice
Actually he asked for people to pick his best pic technically not to say who we dont like any of them.
Now he can take on the friendly advice anyway. But he doesn't have to and nobody had to put up certain types of pics because "seasoned fabbers" say so
Cheers for the support! I didn’t expect this to be a gang up haha. Either way I’m thankful for the advice from all..
But you can’t please everyone. There’s plenty of people who have DM’d who really enjoy what I post.. others will wish I had a cleaner profile. In an ideal world I’d have mix of both with some wholesome snaps of me doing things I enjoy.. but it would put my identity at risk and for the moment I’m not comfortable with that. Maybe one day"
I don’t see how a pic of you in jeans and a tshirt or whatever would make you identifiable but ok.
For what it’s worth, based on the pics you have, I would say your best is one of the ones in bed. |
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"You asked for advice but the decision is always yours lol
Thanks for the advice. Maybe I’ll trial it and see results. I’m also worried about people knowing who I am based on my clothes/setting of pics. Even if I crop my face out people I know will recognise the pics
Well if your that worried about your identity maybe it’s not the site for you
Take the advice your been offered by seasoned Fabbers
They are trying to be helpful as you asked for advice
Actually he asked for people to pick his best pic technically not to say who we dont like any of them.
Now he can take on the friendly advice anyway. But he doesn't have to and nobody had to put up certain types of pics because "seasoned fabbers" say so
Cheers for the support! I didn’t expect this to be a gang up haha. Either way I’m thankful for the advice from all..
But you can’t please everyone. There’s plenty of people who have DM’d who really enjoy what I post.. others will wish I had a cleaner profile. In an ideal world I’d have mix of both with some wholesome snaps of me doing things I enjoy.. but it would put my identity at risk and for the moment I’m not comfortable with that. Maybe one day
I don’t see how a pic of you in jeans and a tshirt or whatever would make you identifiable but ok.
For what it’s worth, based on the pics you have, I would say your best is one of the ones in bed. "
I reached my photo quota for the day but I’m gonna upload some casual clothed pics then tomorrow.. just have to make sure they aren’t ones I’ve had on Instagram or anything |
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For me, none of them. I would scroll on. I think its sexier what you can't see than what you can. A pic in bed with a sheet pulled over your penis would be much more appealing to me.
I am very aware of the hypocrisy in this! But I am trying to appeal to men & not women  |
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"For me, none of them. I would scroll on. I think its sexier what you can't see than what you can. A pic in bed with a sheet pulled over your penis would be much more appealing to me.
I am very aware of the hypocrisy in this! But I am trying to appeal to men & not women "
Safe to say you’ll not be sliding in my DMs then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You asked for advice but the decision is always yours lol
Thanks for the advice. Maybe I’ll trial it and see results. I’m also worried about people knowing who I am based on my clothes/setting of pics. Even if I crop my face out people I know will recognise the pics
Well if your that worried about your identity maybe it’s not the site for you
Take the advice your been offered by seasoned Fabbers
They are trying to be helpful as you asked for advice
Actually he asked for people to pick his best pic technically not to say who we dont like any of them.
Now he can take on the friendly advice anyway. But he doesn't have to and nobody had to put up certain types of pics because "seasoned fabbers" say so"
Who’s a seasoned fabbed ?? You !!
Here a lot longer than you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here you gotta take criticism as well as advice . Take it on the chin and learn from it
It is what it is
Suck it up and move on you gotta have a harder neck than cock sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You asked for advice but the decision is always yours lol
Thanks for the advice. Maybe I’ll trial it and see results. I’m also worried about people knowing who I am based on my clothes/setting of pics. Even if I crop my face out people I know will recognise the pics "
Do you wear clothes only available to you? You dont have to have your face in any pic, plenty post pics wearing clothes, setting of pics does all your mates know your house?
If taking photos don't have anything in background like picture frames etc.
And some people like guys in clothes its all about the tease, some like the "action" pics some don't. For me the action pics on a single profile question whether you have permission to use the pic?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You asked for advice but the decision is always yours lol
Thanks for the advice. Maybe I’ll trial it and see results. I’m also worried about people knowing who I am based on my clothes/setting of pics. Even if I crop my face out people I know will recognise the pics
Do you wear clothes only available to you? You dont have to have your face in any pic, plenty post pics wearing clothes, setting of pics does all your mates know your house?
If taking photos don't have anything in background like picture frames etc.
And some people like guys in clothes its all about the tease, some like the "action" pics some don't. For me the action pics on a single profile question whether you have permission to use the pic? "
Ye ladies and gents are offering great advice
Or is there something he’s not telling ??
Is OP the only one on fab with a certain wardrobe that others will recognise
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"For me, none of them. I would scroll on. I think its sexier what you can't see than what you can. A pic in bed with a sheet pulled over your penis would be much more appealing to me.
I am very aware of the hypocrisy in this! But I am trying to appeal to men & not women
Safe to say you’ll not be sliding in my DMs then "
Soz but no, but sure thats ok there will be plenty who will Tom Cruise slide on their socks over to ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You asked for advice but the decision is always yours lol
Thanks for the advice. Maybe I’ll trial it and see results. I’m also worried about people knowing who I am based on my clothes/setting of pics. Even if I crop my face out people I know will recognise the pics
Well if your that worried about your identity maybe it’s not the site for you
Take the advice your been offered by seasoned Fabbers
They are trying to be helpful as you asked for advice
Actually he asked for people to pick his best pic technically not to say who we dont like any of them.
Now he can take on the friendly advice anyway. But he doesn't have to and nobody had to put up certain types of pics because "seasoned fabbers" say so
Who’s a seasoned fabbed ?? You !!
Here a lot longer than you "
I quoted you genius |
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"On here you gotta take criticism as well as advice . Take it on the chin and learn from it
It is what it is
Suck it up and move on you gotta have a harder neck than cock sometimes "
The other criticism was constructive and welcome. There was also some positive feedback given to soften it. You’re just being annoying & wilfully confrontational imo.. but ok thanks for contributing |
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"You asked for advice but the decision is always yours lol
Thanks for the advice. Maybe I’ll trial it and see results. I’m also worried about people knowing who I am based on my clothes/setting of pics. Even if I crop my face out people I know will recognise the pics
Do you wear clothes only available to you? You dont have to have your face in any pic, plenty post pics wearing clothes, setting of pics does all your mates know your house?
If taking photos don't have anything in background like picture frames etc.
And some people like guys in clothes its all about the tease, some like the "action" pics some don't. For me the action pics on a single profile question whether you have permission to use the pic? "
As said before it was briefly a couples profile and I have permission yes |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy  "
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most. |
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over a year ago
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"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most. "
Is that the reason you think women do it too? |
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"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most. "
Prudish & spiteful comment. Sounds like you’re projecting here |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most.
Is that the reason you think women do it too?"
No. |
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over a year ago
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"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most.
Is that the reason you think women do it too?
No. "
Why do you think women do it? |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most.
Prudish & spiteful comment. Sounds like you’re projecting here"
Spiteful? Don't really why you'd think that. Also not sure what I'm projecting here either.
I'm genuinely curious, what is the purpose of those pictures then?
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most.
Is that the reason you think women do it too?
No.
Why do you think women do it?"
Do they actually do it? I honestly didn't think they did, it would be very rare.
I haven't done sufficient research in the area though. But a very quick bit of research of all the single women on my hotlist shows me that none of them have photos with a man in them.
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"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most.
Is that the reason you think women do it too?
No.
Why do you think women do it?
Do they actually do it? I honestly didn't think they did, it would be very rare.
I haven't done sufficient research in the area though. But a very quick bit of research of all the single women on my hotlist shows me that none of them have photos with a man in them.
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Quick check in my local updates and there are 4 single women profiles with men in their pics. It's far from rare |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Just pick your favourite .It will appeal to some and not others it's pretty simple really.Use your profile the way you want and put pics up you like,don't put up ones just because you think they will appeal to others.
By asking you will get so many different responses and by your response to some it seems you take offence at the answers but if you ask you may not get the answers you like, that's the joy of asking on a public forum.And how you react will say more about you than any pic you put up . |
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over a year ago
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"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most.
Is that the reason you think women do it too?
No.
Why do you think women do it?
Do they actually do it? I honestly didn't think they did, it would be very rare.
I haven't done sufficient research in the area though. But a very quick bit of research of all the single women on my hotlist shows me that none of them have photos with a man in them.
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Yip they 100% do, as do couples.
That alright I don't have any definite answer either beyond I assume they like them and they think it shows them in their best light.
Just was curious if you saw a difference between men, women and couples motivations |
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over a year ago
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"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most.
Is that the reason you think women do it too?
No.
Why do you think women do it?
Do they actually do it? I honestly didn't think they did, it would be very rare.
I haven't done sufficient research in the area though. But a very quick bit of research of all the single women on my hotlist shows me that none of them have photos with a man in them.
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Totally agree with you
Maybe OP or others with same type photos or videos think by showing them fucking will influence others to fall for them
An Go Boost or Power trip
Shows little respect for the other person if not aware or agreed to have said shown on public section of a profile without consent
It’s actually an offence under GDPR |
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"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most.
Is that the reason you think women do it too?
No.
Why do you think women do it?
Do they actually do it? I honestly didn't think they did, it would be very rare.
I haven't done sufficient research in the area though. But a very quick bit of research of all the single women on my hotlist shows me that none of them have photos with a man in them.
Totally agree with you
Maybe OP or others with same type photos or videos think by showing them fucking will influence others to fall for them
An Go Boost or Power trip
Shows little respect for the other person if not aware or agreed to have said shown on public section of a profile without consent
It’s actually an offence under GDPR "
Do you think fab should do more to control the publishing of pics that show more than the posters image?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most.
Is that the reason you think women do it too?
No.
Why do you think women do it?
Do they actually do it? I honestly didn't think they did, it would be very rare.
I haven't done sufficient research in the area though. But a very quick bit of research of all the single women on my hotlist shows me that none of them have photos with a man in them.
Totally agree with you
Maybe OP or others with same type photos or videos think by showing them fucking will influence others to fall for them
An Go Boost or Power trip
Shows little respect for the other person if not aware or agreed to have said shown on public section of a profile without consent
It’s actually an offence under GDPR
Do you think fab should do more to control the publishing of pics that show more than the posters image?
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To publish an identity on a public forum without consent from the other party is an infringement of privacy and an offence where it involved sexually explicit scenes or photos
And if reported to admin they actually act on it without delay as they are liable
Under data protection |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most.
Is that the reason you think women do it too?
No.
Why do you think women do it?
Do they actually do it? I honestly didn't think they did, it would be very rare.
I haven't done sufficient research in the area though. But a very quick bit of research of all the single women on my hotlist shows me that none of them have photos with a man in them.
Totally agree with you
Maybe OP or others with same type photos or videos think by showing them fucking will influence others to fall for them
An Go Boost or Power trip
Shows little respect for the other person if not aware or agreed to have said shown on public section of a profile without consent
It’s actually an offence under GDPR "
I actually disagree with alot of this.
Firstly, I don't understand why you'd automatically assume the other person doesn't know or it has been done without their consent.
Secondly - we're all here to make someone "fall for us". It's the whole point of the website.
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"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most.
Is that the reason you think women do it too?
No.
Why do you think women do it?
Do they actually do it? I honestly didn't think they did, it would be very rare.
I haven't done sufficient research in the area though. But a very quick bit of research of all the single women on my hotlist shows me that none of them have photos with a man in them.
Totally agree with you
Maybe OP or others with same type photos or videos think by showing them fucking will influence others to fall for them
An Go Boost or Power trip
Shows little respect for the other person if not aware or agreed to have said shown on public section of a profile without consent
It’s actually an offence under GDPR
I actually disagree with alot of this.
Firstly, I don't understand why you'd automatically assume the other person doesn't know or it has been done without their consent.
Secondly - we're all here to make someone "fall for us". It's the whole point of the website.
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Thank you. Frankly I’m fed up of this line of questioning. I’ve clarified how many times now that this was initially a couples profile and she’s fully aware of it and consents?
What an insulting assumption to make |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most.
Is that the reason you think women do it too?
No.
Why do you think women do it?
Do they actually do it? I honestly didn't think they did, it would be very rare.
I haven't done sufficient research in the area though. But a very quick bit of research of all the single women on my hotlist shows me that none of them have photos with a man in them.
Totally agree with you
Maybe OP or others with same type photos or videos think by showing them fucking will influence others to fall for them
An Go Boost or Power trip
Shows little respect for the other person if not aware or agreed to have said shown on public section of a profile without consent
It’s actually an offence under GDPR
Do you think fab should do more to control the publishing of pics that show more than the posters image?
To publish an identity on a public forum without consent from the other party is an infringement of privacy and an offence where it involved sexually explicit scenes or photos
And if reported to admin they actually act on it without delay as they are liable
Under data protection "
But should they do more to substantiate consent beforehand?
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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"Quick check in my local updates and there are 4 single women profiles with men in their pics. It's far from rare"
Something I've noticed very little of anyway. Probably my not so conscious bias at play.
"I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most.
Is that the reason you think women do it too?
No.
Why do you think women do it?
Do they actually do it? I honestly didn't think they did, it would be very rare.
I haven't done sufficient research in the area though. But a very quick bit of research of all the single women on my hotlist shows me that none of them have photos with a man in them.
Yip they 100% do, as do couples.
That alright I don't have any definite answer either beyond I assume they like them and they think it shows them in their best light.
Just was curious if you saw a difference between men, women and couples motivations"
Oh there's is definitely a massive difference between the motivations.
Personally I think the fear/safety factor when it comes to online websites like this and general online dating sites is a significantly different experiences for both sexes.
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over a year ago
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"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most.
Is that the reason you think women do it too?
No.
Why do you think women do it?
Do they actually do it? I honestly didn't think they did, it would be very rare.
I haven't done sufficient research in the area though. But a very quick bit of research of all the single women on my hotlist shows me that none of them have photos with a man in them.
Totally agree with you
Maybe OP or others with same type photos or videos think by showing them fucking will influence others to fall for them
An Go Boost or Power trip
Shows little respect for the other person if not aware or agreed to have said shown on public section of a profile without consent
It’s actually an offence under GDPR
Do you think fab should do more to control the publishing of pics that show more than the posters image?
To publish an identity on a public forum without consent from the other party is an infringement of privacy and an offence where it involved sexually explicit scenes or photos
And if reported to admin they actually act on it without delay as they are liable
Under data protection
But should they do more to substantiate consent beforehand?
"
That’s a fair comment
Maybe they should
That could be a topic we could get some feedback on from Fabbers
What’s your opinion?
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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Also OP I'm not having a go at you or trying to cast aspirations over you or your character. As a guy I think my biggest challenge on a site like this is trying to convince woman I'm not a danger. That's just the nature of the beast. 
I don't think there is anything wrong with having a photo with someone else on your profile. I just struggle to see the reasons why a single guy would do it outside of what I said. |
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"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most.
Is that the reason you think women do it too?
No.
Why do you think women do it?
Do they actually do it? I honestly didn't think they did, it would be very rare.
I haven't done sufficient research in the area though. But a very quick bit of research of all the single women on my hotlist shows me that none of them have photos with a man in them.
Totally agree with you
Maybe OP or others with same type photos or videos think by showing them fucking will influence others to fall for them
An Go Boost or Power trip
Shows little respect for the other person if not aware or agreed to have said shown on public section of a profile without consent
It’s actually an offence under GDPR
Do you think fab should do more to control the publishing of pics that show more than the posters image?
To publish an identity on a public forum without consent from the other party is an infringement of privacy and an offence where it involved sexually explicit scenes or photos
And if reported to admin they actually act on it without delay as they are liable
Under data protection
But should they do more to substantiate consent beforehand?
That’s a fair comment
Maybe they should
That could be a topic we could get some feedback on from Fabbers
What’s your opinion?
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I think their rules and enforcement on photos in general is hit and miss.
I could image reverse at least 5 or 6 a day and find them on pornsites.
I couldn't unload a picture of my ps5 remote on my lap for a picture challenge because it wasn't clear it was my in the photo but people can put up group play without fab having any idea of any of the 6 or 7 people gave consented so ya I think they could do more |
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"Also OP I'm not having a go at you or trying to cast aspirations over you or your character. As a guy I think my biggest challenge on a site like this is trying to convince woman I'm not a danger. That's just the nature of the beast.
I don't think there is anything wrong with having a photo with someone else on your profile. I just struggle to see the reasons why a single guy would do it outside of what I said. "
Why do you feel you have to convince anyone of that? I don't agree with it being the nature of the beast at all.
I've never consciously had to convince a woman of my intentions.
I am who I am and don't pretend to be anything else and people can see and appreciate that. It's never a challenge and if I felt it was it would actually be a red flag in regard to my own behaviour and the image I project. |
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Yip they 100% do, as do couples.
That alright I don't have any definite answer either beyond I assume they like them and they think it shows them in their best light.
Just was curious if you saw a difference between men, women and couples motivations
Oh there's is definitely a massive difference between the motivations.
Personally I think the fear/safety factor when it comes to online websites like this and general online dating sites is a significantly different experiences for both sexes.
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Ya I can see that affecting certain aspects of your online behaviour 100%.
Posting action pics not so much though |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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"Also OP I'm not having a go at you or trying to cast aspirations over you or your character. As a guy I think my biggest challenge on a site like this is trying to convince woman I'm not a danger. That's just the nature of the beast.
I don't think there is anything wrong with having a photo with someone else on your profile. I just struggle to see the reasons why a single guy would do it outside of what I said.
Why do you feel you have to convince anyone of that? I don't agree with it being the nature of the beast at all.
I've never consciously had to convince a woman of my intentions.
I am who I am and don't pretend to be anything else and people can see and appreciate that. It's never a challenge and if I felt it was it would actually be a red flag in regard to my own behaviour and the image I project. "
Everything's a red flag though, depending on who you ask.
We are all different and approach things differently. C'est la vie as they say.
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"I find photos of single men riding women a bit iffy . Why advertise her ? You’re on here as a single guy
I always assume when someone does that it is basically there way of saying "Since another woman is willing to have sex with me ,it's safe for you to do the same."
OP just pick the videos that you like the most.
Is that the reason you think women do it too?
No.
Why do you think women do it?
Do they actually do it? I honestly didn't think they did, it would be very rare.
I haven't done sufficient research in the area though. But a very quick bit of research of all the single women on my hotlist shows me that none of them have photos with a man in them.
Totally agree with you
Maybe OP or others with same type photos or videos think by showing them fucking will influence others to fall for them
An Go Boost or Power trip
Shows little respect for the other person if not aware or agreed to have said shown on public section of a profile without consent
It’s actually an offence under GDPR
Do you think fab should do more to control the publishing of pics that show more than the posters image?
To publish an identity on a public forum without consent from the other party is an infringement of privacy and an offence where it involved sexually explicit scenes or photos
And if reported to admin they actually act on it without delay as they are liable
Under data protection
But should they do more to substantiate consent beforehand?
That’s a fair comment
Maybe they should
That could be a topic we could get some feedback on from Fabbers
What’s your opinion?
I think their rules and enforcement on photos in general is hit and miss.
I could image reverse at least 5 or 6 a day and find them on pornsites.
I couldn't unload a picture of my ps5 remote on my lap for a picture challenge because it wasn't clear it was my in the photo but people can put up group play without fab having any idea of any of the 6 or 7 people gave consented so ya I think they could do more "
That’s very interesting and I’d be inclined to agree with you 100%
As I said different opinions can open up peoples views on different topics and feedback is good whether it be positive or negative |
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