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Why do men lie about their height?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I was chatting to a guy (the height on his profile is 6’), arranged a coffee meet, and then 30 minutes before the meet he told me that he’s 5’8”. Did he seriously think that I would still meet him?!?

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By *ightower2021Man over a year ago

donegal

So size really does matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So size really does matter

Yes, it sure does

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Half an inch or an inch is one thing but 4 inches shorter than what he promised would be disappointing to whoever he's meeting.

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By *indenMan over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Did you not meet him because he was only 5’8” or because he was a liar?

Asking for a friend……

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So size really does matter

Yes, it sure does

That's why men lie then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Half an inch or an inch is one thing but 4 inches shorter than what he promised would be disappointing to whoever he's meeting."

Even one inch is very disappointing for me. I like tall guys, and I’m not settling for less than 6feet

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Did you not meet him because he was only 5’8” or because he was a liar?

Asking for a friend……

Both

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Poor guy. Lucky me being 5ft8.5

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

"Half an inch or an inch is one thing but 4 inches shorter than what he promised would be disappointing to whoever he's meeting.

Even one inch is very disappointing for me. I like tall guys, and I’m not settling for less than 6feet "

In fairness its well written on your profile

What would you do if a man wore heels

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By *ightower2021Man over a year ago

donegal

"Half an inch or an inch is one thing but 4 inches shorter than what he promised would be disappointing to whoever he's meeting.

Even one inch is very disappointing for me. I like tall guys, and I’m not settling for less than 6feet "

You probably state thats not 6ft in fab measurements either haha

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By *ustfortheforumsWoman over a year ago

Honestly I feel like the reason he lied was probably because he thought you wouldn’t be interested in him if he told you his real height......

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Half an inch or an inch is one thing but 4 inches shorter than what he promised would be disappointing to whoever he's meeting.

Even one inch is very disappointing for me. I like tall guys, and I’m not settling for less than 6feet

In fairness its well written on your profile

What would you do if a man wore heels "

It depends on heels. I would be very impressed if he wore 6,5 inch Louboutins

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

"Half an inch or an inch is one thing but 4 inches shorter than what he promised would be disappointing to whoever he's meeting.

Even one inch is very disappointing for me. I like tall guys, and I’m not settling for less than 6feet

In fairness its well written on your profile

What would you do if a man wore heels

It depends on heels. I would be very impressed if he wore 6,5 inch Louboutins "

Especially in your size

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

Honestly I feel like the reason he lied was probably because he thought you wouldn’t be interested in him if he told you his real height...... "

That worked

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By *onderingpurposeMan over a year ago

Belfast

Why does anybody lie about anything?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Honestly I feel like the reason he lied was probably because he thought you wouldn’t be interested in him if he told you his real height......

That worked

Lol

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

"Why does anybody lie about anything? "

To have sex

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By *oserMan over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

I think we should sit down, I have something to tell you

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By *oserMan over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"Half an inch or an inch is one thing but 4 inches shorter than what he promised would be disappointing to whoever he's meeting.

Even one inch is very disappointing for me. I like tall guys, and I’m not settling for less than 6feet

In fairness its well written on your profile

What would you do if a man wore heels

It depends on heels. I would be very impressed if he wore 6,5 inch Louboutins

Especially in your size

Bog, you would look great

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

"Half an inch or an inch is one thing but 4 inches shorter than what he promised would be disappointing to whoever he's meeting.

Even one inch is very disappointing for me. I like tall guys, and I’m not settling for less than 6feet

In fairness its well written on your profile

What would you do if a man wore heels

It depends on heels. I would be very impressed if he wore 6,5 inch Louboutins

Especially in your size

Bog, you would look great

I'm 5foot 10"....only need kitten heels but in fairness I'm sure I fail her wish list on a lot more than that

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By *oserMan over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"Half an inch or an inch is one thing but 4 inches shorter than what he promised would be disappointing to whoever he's meeting.

Even one inch is very disappointing for me. I like tall guys, and I’m not settling for less than 6feet

In fairness its well written on your profile

What would you do if a man wore heels

It depends on heels. I would be very impressed if he wore 6,5 inch Louboutins

Especially in your size

Bog, you would look great

I'm 5foot 10"....only need kitten heels but in fairness I'm sure I fail her wish list on a lot more than that

Hmmm

I can use CAPITAL letters and I emmm, well I'm sure there's something else that I can tick a box on

Only messin OP

Anyway about my height, lets sit for a minute

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Half an inch or an inch is one thing but 4 inches shorter than what he promised would be disappointing to whoever he's meeting.

Even one inch is very disappointing for me. I like tall guys, and I’m not settling for less than 6feet

In fairness its well written on your profile

What would you do if a man wore heels

It depends on heels. I would be very impressed if he wore 6,5 inch Louboutins

Especially in your size

Bog, you would look great

I'm 5foot 10"....only need kitten heels but in fairness I'm sure I fail her wish list on a lot more than that

Hmmm

I can use CAPITAL letters and I emmm, well I'm sure there's something else that I can tick a box on

Only messin OP

Anyway about my height, lets sit for a minute

Did you actually read my bio?

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By *LiamMan over a year ago

Midlands

Same as women lie about their age.

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By *oserMan over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"Half an inch or an inch is one thing but 4 inches shorter than what he promised would be disappointing to whoever he's meeting.

Even one inch is very disappointing for me. I like tall guys, and I’m not settling for less than 6feet

In fairness its well written on your profile

What would you do if a man wore heels

It depends on heels. I would be very impressed if he wore 6,5 inch Louboutins

Especially in your size

Bog, you would look great

I'm 5foot 10"....only need kitten heels but in fairness I'm sure I fail her wish list on a lot more than that

Hmmm

I can use CAPITAL letters and I emmm, well I'm sure there's something else that I can tick a box on

Only messin OP

Anyway about my height, lets sit for a minute

Did you actually read my bio?

Its my age isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Same as women lie about their age. "

The age is not as visible as the height

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By *onderingpurposeMan over a year ago

Belfast

"Why does anybody lie about anything?

To have sex

Bingo. Haha

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By *LiamMan over a year ago

Midlands

"Same as women lie about their age.

The age is not as visible as the height

"
don't kid yourself

. I don't lie about my age or my height

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By *r_Insatiable666Man over a year ago

Cork

If he lied about his height, I'd say he isn't a big man below either.l

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By *oserMan over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"Half an inch or an inch is one thing but 4 inches shorter than what he promised would be disappointing to whoever he's meeting.

Even one inch is very disappointing for me. I like tall guys, and I’m not settling for less than 6feet

In fairness its well written on your profile

What would you do if a man wore heels

It depends on heels. I would be very impressed if he wore 6,5 inch Louboutins

Especially in your size

Bog, you would look great

I'm 5foot 10"....only need kitten heels but in fairness I'm sure I fail her wish list on a lot more than that

Hmmm

I can use CAPITAL letters and I emmm, well I'm sure there's something else that I can tick a box on

Only messin OP

Anyway about my height, lets sit for a minute

Did you actually read my bio?

Its my age isn't it?

On the plus side, I'm now in the irresistible phase( according to your bio)

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan over a year ago

Tipperary

when you're in bed shagging it doesn't make a difference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Same as women lie about their age.

The age is not as visible as the height

Well he crawled inside your head and got you thinking, obviously not sexy enough thoughts. You also said you like confident and intelligent men , he wasn't confident enough to state his real height and not intelligent enough to tell you at the beginning either, seems like you got a lucky escape because he wasn't for you on many levels.

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By *3nsesMan over a year ago

Dublin

What I really don't understand is why he told you 30 minutes before hand. At that stage he should have just meet in person and taken the risk.

The fact he bottled it and told you the truth 30 minutes before hand is what pisses me off most.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"when you're in bed shagging it doesn't make a difference

That is what I keep hearing from rejected men. Such a boring response

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By *oserMan over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"Same as women lie about their age.

The age is not as visible as the height

Thats not a bad opening gambit and you squeeze in in both age and height

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan over a year ago

Tipperary

"when you're in bed shagging it doesn't make a difference

That is what I keep hearing from rejected men. Such a boring response

"
such a true response. send me on a pic there and I'll tell you if you're good looking

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

In fairness to the bloke he did tell you before hand instead of not turning up which in my opinion is the worse thing he could do

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What I really don't understand is why he told you 30 minutes before hand. At that stage he should have just meet in person and taken the risk.

The fact he bottled it and told you the truth 30 minutes before hand is what pisses me off most. "

I don’t understand that either. You are right, he should’ve just turn up and take a bullet to the head

He also tried to make me feel guilty about driving 45 minutes for a coffee and I don’t want to meet him

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By *3nsesMan over a year ago

Dublin

"What I really don't understand is why he told you 30 minutes before hand. At that stage he should have just meet in person and taken the risk.

The fact he bottled it and told you the truth 30 minutes before hand is what pisses me off most.

I don’t understand that either. You are right, he should’ve just turn up and take a bullet to the head

He also tried to make me feel guilty about driving 45 minutes for a coffee and I don’t want to meet him "

He should have changed his height to 5'8 and said you must have made the mistake.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 6ft on the button

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By *ewrideMan over a year ago

Not that it's ok to lie, but why does height matter?

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By *oghunter33Woman over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I had more good sex with shorter guys than with the taller ones, but that's just my stats, Sydney university might have a more comprehensive database...

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By *alestrom_ieMan over a year ago

near nass

Never even occurred to me to bother to lie but I'm a tiny bit more than 6ft but not 6 1..

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"Same as women lie about their age.

The age is not as visible as the height

But its still a lie

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By *ubal1Man over a year ago

Newry Down

Pervasive heightism!

My wider family are all vertically challenged; it hasn't limited our success, from multiple perspectives.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 5 foot 11 and a half. But my profile says 6 foot.

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By *OCONO5Couple over a year ago

Sensual Center

I'd never lie about my height only my length...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m 5’4 in real life but have 6’3 on my profile. My Mistress doesn’t seem to mind.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Not that it's ok to lie, but why does height matter?"

Why does age matter?

Why does body shape matter?

Why does boob size matter?

Why does dick length matter?

It matters because a sexual partner prefers it... and no other justification is needed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not that it's ok to lie, but why does height matter?

Why does age matter?

Why does body shape matter?

Why does boob size matter?

Why does dick length matter?

It matters because a sexual partner prefers it... and no other justification is needed"

But no, no, people are entitled to the ride regardless of whether or not you find them remotely attractive, we're all here for the same thing, right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why does anybody lie about anything? "

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By *oserMan over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Not that it's ok to lie, but why does height matter?

Why does age matter?

Why does body shape matter?

Why does boob size matter?

Why does dick length matter?

It matters because a sexual partner prefers it... and no other justification is needed

But no, no, people are entitled to the ride regardless of whether or not you find them remotely attractive, we're all here for the same thing, right? "

Right

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By *adhatter and coCouple over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

What do I call a man under 5ft 10 ? Friends

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By *ewrideMan over a year ago

Not that it's ok to lie, but why does height matter?

Why does age matter?

Why does body shape matter?

Why does boob size matter?

Why does dick length matter?

It matters because a sexual partner prefers it... and no other justification is needed"

Kinda shallow though.

Especially after you've established some kind of connection.

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By *ordjeffMan over a year ago

around and about ,as travel.

I'm actually 6'2",2/8th inches

But easier to say 6'2"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not that it's ok to lie, but why does height matter?

Why does age matter?

Why does body shape matter?

Why does boob size matter?

Why does dick length matter?

It matters because a sexual partner prefers it... and no other justification is needed

Kinda shallow though.

Especially after you've established some kind of connection."

Two points -

A connection which involves deception is not a connection.

But sometimes people message after only scanning a profile, ive done it myself, and then before a meet you might take another look and see more. ive done it with regard to being a smoker, realising their profile says wont meet smokers...

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

Everyone has a preference...sometimes it might not make sense to others but it does to them

When we meet someone in a social situation we immediately make a visual preference...on here you have to use filters to help you decide....

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By *asual777Man over a year ago

i travel all over

I don’t lie. I tell everyone my total height is 6 foot 1

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I guess he thought if ye had chatted you might over look the fact he wasn't 6'. It's a chance people take on here quite often. I don't see the point really on lying but it must work for some .

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By *Sparkie.Man over a year ago

Ratoath

I've been in this lifestyle for quiet some time now and a lot of people lie.

Guys about height and cock size.

Women I find lie mainly about age and can be inventive with what curvy means.

It's part and parcel of this lifestyle, people are telling what they believe others want to hear to give them a better chance of a meet.

Is it wrong...yes of course, is it going to stop anytime soon?? Unlikely.

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By *adhatter and coCouple over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Athletic can also vary . Is dart throwing considered a sport ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been in this lifestyle for quiet some time now and a lot of people lie.

Guys about height and cock size.

Women I find lie mainly about age and can be inventive with what curvy means.

Some are fairly loose with the term athletic

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By *adhatter and coCouple over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

"I've been in this lifestyle for quiet some time now and a lot of people lie.

Guys about height and cock size.

Women I find lie mainly about age and can be inventive with what curvy means.

Some are fairly loose with the term athletic

I don’t lie about my age , I look ok for 49 but if I knocked 5 years off I wouldn’t look good for a 44 year old lol

I have my figure down as average too so no false advertising here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been in this lifestyle for quiet some time now and a lot of people lie.

Guys about height and cock size.

Women I find lie mainly about age and can be inventive with what curvy means.

Some are fairly loose with the term athletic

I don’t lie about my age , I look ok for 49 but if I knocked 5 years off I wouldn’t look good for a 44 year old lol

I have my figure down as average too so no false advertising here

I actually couldn't care less what someone has as their description tbh they should be gotten rid of imo. I just people by what I see.

However if people are gonna throw stones about how others describe themselves......... (not you btw)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been in this lifestyle for quiet some time now and a lot of people lie.

Guys about height and cock size.

Women I find lie mainly about age and can be inventive with what curvy means.

Some are fairly loose with the term athletic

I don’t lie about my age , I look ok for 49 but if I knocked 5 years off I wouldn’t look good for a 44 year old lol

I have my figure down as average too so no false advertising here

I actually couldn't care less what someone has as their description tbh they should be gotten rid of imo. I just people by what I see.

However if people are gonna throw stones about how others describe themselves......... (not you btw) "

Get rid of the people or the descriptions?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been in this lifestyle for quiet some time now and a lot of people lie.

Guys about height and cock size.

Women I find lie mainly about age and can be inventive with what curvy means.

Some are fairly loose with the term athletic

I don’t lie about my age , I look ok for 49 but if I knocked 5 years off I wouldn’t look good for a 44 year old lol

I have my figure down as average too so no false advertising here

I actually couldn't care less what someone has as their description tbh they should be gotten rid of imo. I just people by what I see.

However if people are gonna throw stones about how others describe themselves......... (not you btw)

Get rid of the people or the descriptions?

Let's start with the descriptions I suppose I'm feeling charitable as its a week to christmas

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been in this lifestyle for quiet some time now and a lot of people lie.

Guys about height and cock size.

Women I find lie mainly about age and can be inventive with what curvy means.

Some are fairly loose with the term athletic

I don’t lie about my age , I look ok for 49 but if I knocked 5 years off I wouldn’t look good for a 44 year old lol

I have my figure down as average too so no false advertising here

I actually couldn't care less what someone has as their description tbh they should be gotten rid of imo. I just people by what I see.

However if people are gonna throw stones about how others describe themselves......... (not you btw)

Get rid of the people or the descriptions?

Let's start with the descriptions I suppose I'm feeling charitable as its a week to christmas"

Dam. Was hoping for a bit of action

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been in this lifestyle for quiet some time now and a lot of people lie.

Guys about height and cock size.

Women I find lie mainly about age and can be inventive with what curvy means.

Some are fairly loose with the term athletic

I don’t lie about my age , I look ok for 49 but if I knocked 5 years off I wouldn’t look good for a 44 year old lol

I have my figure down as average too so no false advertising here

I actually couldn't care less what someone has as their description tbh they should be gotten rid of imo. I just people by what I see.

However if people are gonna throw stones about how others describe themselves......... (not you btw)

Get rid of the people or the descriptions?

Let's start with the descriptions I suppose I'm feeling charitable as its a week to christmas

Dam. Was hoping for a bit of action "

There is always next year WP

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By *adhatter and coCouple over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

It’s really stupid to lie . If we arrange to meet someone I want their first impression to actually like what they see not disappointment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been in this lifestyle for quiet some time now and a lot of people lie.

Guys about height and cock size.

Women I find lie mainly about age and can be inventive with what curvy means.

Some are fairly loose with the term athletic

I don’t lie about my age , I look ok for 49 but if I knocked 5 years off I wouldn’t look good for a 44 year old lol

I have my figure down as average too so no false advertising here

I actually couldn't care less what someone has as their description tbh they should be gotten rid of imo. I just people by what I see.

However if people are gonna throw stones about how others describe themselves......... (not you btw)

Get rid of the people or the descriptions?

Let's start with the descriptions I suppose I'm feeling charitable as its a week to christmas

Dam. Was hoping for a bit of action

There is always next year WP"

And it's only days away at this stage

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

"Athletic can also vary . Is dart throwing considered a sport ?

I rarely look at how others describe themselves.

I've got athletic on mine not because I'm involved in sports or go to the gym but just because I woke up one morning and decided I was never calling myself average again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m 5’4 in real life but have 6’3 on my profile. My Mistress doesn’t seem to mind."

Haha. Stop lying Sam! I’m happy with your height

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By *ogladyWoman over a year ago

The bog

I never look at height makes no odds to me if I like them I like like them regardless..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

William Wallace is 7 foot tall

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"William Wallace is 7 foot tall"

Is he verified though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"William Wallace is 7 foot tall"

How do you know it's him. No face pic on his profile

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By *rankbMan over a year ago

around

Well I’m totally fucked then (or not!). Was always 5’6 but at last medical, to my horror, nurse told me I was 5’5 and a half - apparently you start shrinking after 40!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I’m totally fucked then (or not!). Was always 5’6 but at last medical, to my horror, nurse told me I was 5’5 and a half - apparently you start shrinking after 40!!!!!"

Just change your age....sorted

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not that it's ok to lie, but why does height matter?"

It matters to me on swinging site. We are visual creatures, and tall guys are my weakness. I’m not here for dating, so I want tall athletic guys to have fun with. Simples

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By *asual777Man over a year ago

i travel all over

"I’m 5’4 in real life but have 6’3 on my profile. My Mistress doesn’t seem to mind.

Haha. Stop lying Sam! I’m happy with your height

That’s possible if you’re using the total height equation (height plus length)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Everyone has a preference...sometimes it might not make sense to others but it does to them

When we meet someone in a social situation we immediately make a visual preference...on here you have to use filters to help you decide....

"
agree x

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By *Sparkie.Man over a year ago

Ratoath

Its hard to beat a profile with a full length body shot so what you see is what you get.

There are photographers where who I call Mathematicians, they are brilliant with angles lol.

They funny thing is we all have different tastes, we all like different things and there are people here for every shape and size so its best to be honest, tell it as it is and you'll stand a better chance of finding the right person I think rather than.waste your own time and someone else's

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its hard to beat a profile with a full length body shot so what you see is what you get.

There are photographers where who I call Mathematicians, they are brilliant with angles lol.

I'm not one for the angles or trick shots. My photos are just me. Belly and all. It's pointless trying to be something your not and it's a total deception to any person you're lucky enough to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s really stupid to lie . If we arrange to meet someone I want their first impression to actually like what they see not disappointment "

So true x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I never look at height makes no odds to me if I like them I like like them regardless.."

Well if you meet people in a party scenario maybe it’s the case, but I don’t like wasting my time on 1 on 1 social meets, and be disappointed with the height (especially when it’s clearly stated on my bio).

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By *Sparkie.Man over a year ago

Ratoath

Despite my words above, I suffered a nasty ankle injury recently and am.just out of hospital, I've put on a few pounds as haven't been in the gym since October and don't look like my pics, I won't be able to meet until end of January but I will show whoever I meet a live body shot so there is no surprises

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By *ogladyWoman over a year ago

The bog

"I never look at height makes no odds to me if I like them I like like them regardless..

I do see your point for me there has to be a mutual attraction and have been caught out by people sending me face pics that were 20 years old ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lying about height especially that much is a bit silly

I see some profiles saying 6 feet plus and just move on, even with majassive platforms I'd maybe manage 5,9. I'm a short arse just waiting for short geeky and meh to be the new tall dark and handsome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m definitely 6 foot

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By *asual777Man over a year ago

i travel all over

"I've been in this lifestyle for quiet some time now and a lot of people lie.

Guys about height and cock size.

Women I find lie mainly about age and can be inventive with what curvy means.

Some are fairly loose with the term athletic

I don’t lie about my age , I look ok for 49 but if I knocked 5 years off I wouldn’t look good for a 44 year old lol

I have my figure down as average too so no false advertising here

In limerick with the now world famous dress you could have got away with anything

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have always liked taller guys which isn't hard as I'm 5ft 4, all details on my profile are true, I'm average I don't think they give an option of fat, but than again I have fat just like I have blonde hair and blue eyes. Why lie? I'm very open about not been a small lady and if a guys not interested that's ok, he's not interested

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By *indenMan over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"I don’t lie. I tell everyone my total height is 6 foot 1 "

Wait, we can use a combination of measurements?

Game changer, thanks…..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People lie about a lot of things. Why? Because some people are just idiots.

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By *asual777Man over a year ago

i travel all over

"I don’t lie. I tell everyone my total height is 6 foot 1

Wait, we can use a combination of measurements?

Game changer, thanks…..

Height plus length is universally accepted

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By *enTen888Man over a year ago

Belfast

I think i’m too tall if theres is such a thing! I’m the complete opposite, i tell people i’m 6’3 when i’m more 6’4.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think i’m too tall if theres is such a thing! I’m the complete opposite, i tell people i’m 6’3 when i’m more 6’4."

I don’t think you’re

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By *ewrideMan over a year ago

Seeing as it's just a preference apparently, I'm going to put "no fat chicks" on my profile

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By * la carteCouple over a year ago

Dublin

"Seeing as it's just a preference apparently, I'm going to put "no fat chicks" on my profile"

Any particular breed preferred - Silkies, Brahma's, Rhode Island...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"when you're in bed shagging it doesn't make a difference

That is what I keep hearing from rejected men. Such a boring response

Exactly, there's more to a meet than just shagging!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seeing as it's just a preference apparently, I'm going to put "no fat chicks" on my profile

Any particular breed preferred - Silkies, Brahma's, Rhode Island...

Aye, no short arses too

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By *enTen888Man over a year ago

Belfast

Thank you, that’s very kind of you. I just hate sticking out the back of every photo like a giraffe.

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By *xplicitMan over a year ago

donegal

Often, fabbers view having conversations via text theee most crucial aspect in the hope they develop into something. So lying through your teeth until it really matters is often viewed as just part of the process

Unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think they believe it'll go anywhere so lie about certain things knowing they'll never have to prove it.

I'm tall enough myself and often get people asking me if that's my actual height, but it's Fab so I can see why

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By *entleman PoliteMan over a year ago

Mars

Very good question... I often end up meeting in Social some guys that are supposed to be much taller than me... lol

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By *entleman PoliteMan over a year ago

Mars

Why is height so important? Once horizontal we are all good..

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By *nderthehillMan over a year ago

Dublin

To get on a rollarcoaster ?

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman over a year ago

in the waves

I've met a few for coffees who were supposedly 5'11

Nothing surprises me on here anymore, and I pretty much assume nothing is true until I lay my eyes on someone in person.

While height is a minor detail to some, it's the lying and misrepresentation that gets on people's tits.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've met a few for coffees who were supposedly 5'11

Nothing surprises me on here anymore, and I pretty much assume nothing is true until I lay my eyes on someone in person.

While height is a minor detail to some, it's the lying and misrepresentation that gets on people's tits. "

Exactly x

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By *og-ManMan over a year ago

somewhere

"To get on a rollarcoaster ?"

Top answer

Fab is a roller coaster

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By *indenMan over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

I just can’t get over this thread…..

It’s gone over my head…….

Hoping for a nice sturdy tin of biscuits for Christmas……

I like to think I’m more down to earth than some people….

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I just can’t get over this thread…..

It’s gone over my head…….

Hoping for a nice sturdy tin of biscuits for Christmas……

I like to think I’m more down to earth than some people….

I'll share a tin of roses with ya

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By *on Draper2.0Man over a year ago

Maynooth

OP I think you're just heightist. Do you live in a world where nothing happens less than 6ft from the ground? Well I'm 6ft tall and I'm here to tell you......you're only 5'10" or so you say, those heels look mighty high to me. You should know better than to try to make shorter guys feel inadequate. Afterall, if he has you bent over the sofa or pins your knees behind your ears, does his height really matter? Why can't you just give the little guys a chance?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP I think you're just heightist. Do you live in a world where nothing happens less than 6ft from the ground? Well I'm 6ft tall and I'm here to tell you......you're only 5'10" or so you say, those heels look mighty high to me. You should know better than to try to make shorter guys feel inadequate. Afterall, if he has you bent over the sofa or pins your knees behind your ears, does his height really matter? Why can't you just give the little guys a chance? "

Because I don’t have to give them chance - why can’t you just respect my preferences? If the first sentence in my profile says 6feet+ they should respect that. It’s a swinging site, not a dating site! Everyone is free to pick and choose what they want.

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By * la carteCouple over a year ago

Dublin

"I just can’t get over this thread…..

It’s gone over my head…….

Hoping for a nice sturdy tin of biscuits for Christmas……

I like to think I’m more down to earth than some people….

You'll have to hit the ground again first

rather than swing through trees - people might mistake you for a monkey, they're rarely what I'd consider "down to earth"

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By *indenMan over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"I just can’t get over this thread…..

It’s gone over my head…….

Hoping for a nice sturdy tin of biscuits for Christmas……

I like to think I’m more down to earth than some people….

I'll share a tin of roses with ya

You can have the roses DD, I’ll have the tin….

" You'll have to hit the ground again first rather than swing through trees - people might mistake you for a monkey, they're rarely what I'd consider "down to earth" "

When I do I’ll hit it running, Bog was meant to came and rescue me and now all the blood had gone to my head which is a change from where it usually ends up…..

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By *indenMan over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Don I don’t know where to start with this absolutely rubbish, “heightist”?, really?, are people who won’t meet people outside a certain age bracket ageist?

Or people who won’t meet people of a certain sex sexist?

It’s called choice, the OP doesn’t need to explain her choices, nor should they be questioned or should she be told to give people who don’t fall within her preferences “a chance”.

The thread was started about lying about height yet you’ve suggested the OP hasn’t been truthful about hers.

It making no difference while bent over the sofa or knees pinned behind ears is just insulting, as is giving the little guys a chance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Don I don’t know where to start with this absolutely rubbish, “heightist”?, really?, are people who won’t meet people outside a certain age bracket ageist?

Or people who won’t meet people of a certain sex sexist?

It’s called choice, the OP doesn’t need to explain her choices, nor should they be questioned or should she be told to give people who don’t fall within her preferences “a chance”.

The thread was started about lying about height yet you’ve suggested the OP hasn’t been truthful about hers.

It making no difference while bent over the sofa or knees pinned behind ears is just insulting, as is giving the little guys a chance.

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cos wearing heels is a bitch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cos wearing heels is a bitch

So much to say...so little time

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By *indenMan over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"Cos wearing heels is a bitch

The correct size and lots of practice is the key…..

I often do it just to see the world from a different perspective……

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cos wearing heels is a bitch

The correct size and lots of practice is the key…..

I often do it just to see the world from a different perspective……

Do you make the 6ft height requirement for this thread?

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By *indenMan over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"Cos wearing heels is a bitch

The correct size and lots of practice is the key…..

I often do it just to see the world from a different perspective……

Do you make the 6ft height requirement for this thread?"

I do with heels….

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Cos wearing heels is a bitch

The correct size and lots of practice is the key…..

I often do it just to see the world from a different perspective……

Do you make the 6ft height requirement for this thread?

I do with heels….

You are making me laugh guys x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cos wearing heels is a bitch

The correct size and lots of practice is the key…..

I often do it just to see the world from a different perspective……

Do you make the 6ft height requirement for this thread?

I do with heels….

Not the ones with the orthopedic insoles, coz in theory that would only make you 5 ft 11 and a half

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By *indenMan over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"Cos wearing heels is a bitch

The correct size and lots of practice is the key…..

I often do it just to see the world from a different perspective……

Do you make the 6ft height requirement for this thread?

I do with heels….

Not the ones with the orthopedic insoles, coz in theory that would only make you 5 ft 11 and a half"

I’m actually 5’8.5” but I don’t like to brag….

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cos wearing heels is a bitch

The correct size and lots of practice is the key…..

I often do it just to see the world from a different perspective……

Do you make the 6ft height requirement for this thread?

I do with heels….

Not the ones with the orthopedic insoles, coz in theory that would only make you 5 ft 11 and a half

I’m actually 5’8.5” but I don’t like to brag….

Ya lanky fecker

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By *indenMan over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"Cos wearing heels is a bitch

The correct size and lots of practice is the key…..

I often do it just to see the world from a different perspective……

Do you make the 6ft height requirement for this thread?

I do with heels….

Not the ones with the orthopedic insoles, coz in theory that would only make you 5 ft 11 and a half

I’m actually 5’8.5” but I don’t like to brag….

Ya lanky fecker "

Shhhhh…….

It’s part of my filter process, I can barely manage my messages as it is…..

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By *ewrideMan over a year ago

It's one of those things you should keep to yourself though.

If you're a short person and you see that, it's a bit of sleight against something you have no control over.

It's totally unnecessary. You can retain your preferences without having to put people down.

I wouldn't use a phrase like heightist though. I don't think it's appropriate to compare it to things like racism or sexism.

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By *alwayguy2020Man over a year ago

near trien

"when you're in bed shagging it doesn't make a difference

"
your right but it makes a difference for the facebook or insta pictures

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By *alwayguy2020Man over a year ago

near trien

"I was chatting to a guy (the height on his profile is 6’), arranged a coffee meet, and then 30 minutes before the meet he told me that he’s 5’8”. Did he seriously think that I would still meet him?!? "
hate to be the plumber coming in to fix your leaky sink.or the mechanic to service your bottom end.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We all shrink as we grow older

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By *ollydoesWoman over a year ago

Shangri-La

"when you're in bed shagging it doesn't make a difference

your right but it makes a difference for the facebook or insta pictures

I'm 5'1 and my ex 6'4. The only real time it caused hassle was when he put mirrors and bathroom cabinets up. I could only ever see from my eyebrows up in them lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"when you're in bed shagging it doesn't make a difference

your right but it makes a difference for the facebook or insta pictures

I'm 5'1 and my ex 6'4. The only real time it caused hassle was when he put mirrors and bathroom cabinets up. I could only ever see from my eyebrows up in them lol "
My cock is bigger than you lol

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By *ollydoesWoman over a year ago

Shangri-La

"when you're in bed shagging it doesn't make a difference

your right but it makes a difference for the facebook or insta pictures

I'm 5'1 and my ex 6'4. The only real time it caused hassle was when he put mirrors and bathroom cabinets up. I could only ever see from my eyebrows up in them lol My cock is bigger than you lol"

Well next time i see a 5'1 deodorant can or remote control, ill let you know so can measure against that and provide proof

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By *on Draper2.0Man over a year ago

Maynooth

Don I don’t know where to start with this absolutely rubbish, “heightist”?, really?, are people who won’t meet people outside a certain age bracket ageist?

Or people who won’t meet people of a certain sex sexist?

It’s called choice, the OP doesn’t need to explain her choices, nor should they be questioned or should she be told to give people who don’t fall within her preferences “a chance”.

The thread was started about lying about height yet you’ve suggested the OP hasn’t been truthful about hers.

It making no difference while bent over the sofa or knees pinned behind ears is just insulting, as is giving the little guys a chance.

Thank you xx"

I'm not offended by the responses to my post. I am however, slightly disappointed for anyone who spent time composing a lengthy repost. The fact that anyone might have taken what I wrote as anything but a complete piss take is, to say the least, concerning. Could you really not see the intention in my words? The whole thread is just.........ah, I'm over it already. You two guys who so bravely leapt to the poor damsels defence when the bold man said the mean words.......you'll have to try harder if you want to hit that

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By *attooYouMan over a year ago

just about northside

Same reason why women lie about their weight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is this really a thing? Honesty is the best policy, it filters out all the shit and keeps the ones that genuinely are interested.

Choose people that choose you

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By *adhatter and coCouple over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Instead of giving out how taller woman prefer taller men how about short women stop nicking men over say 5ft 8 lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Instead of giving out how taller woman prefer taller men how about short women stop nicking men over say 5ft 8 lol

Ha, it's every woman for herself

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By *oingMan over a year ago

co. antrim

I just fib about the size of my bits .

Height is a tricky one to get away with

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By * la carteCouple over a year ago

Dublin

"Instead of giving out how taller woman prefer taller men how about short women stop nicking men over say 5ft 8 lol

Define "short women"

Maybe Fab should review their terms and conditions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How I wish I was taller.5ft 10 dwarf

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By *elle xWoman over a year ago

Doire Theas

After measuring my height last night I realised I’m only 5ft 6 1/2

I think I’m shrinking

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By * la carteCouple over a year ago

Dublin

"After measuring my height last night I realised I’m only 5ft 6 1/2

I think I’m shrinking

And you dare tell without adjusting on your profile

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By *oingMan over a year ago

co. antrim

"After measuring my height last night I realised I’m only 5ft 6 1/2

I think I’m shrinking

I’d give you that extra half inch

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By *eralt80Man over a year ago

cork

"After measuring my height last night I realised I’m only 5ft 6 1/2

I think I’m shrinking

And you dare tell without adjusting on your profile

And without standing next to something suitably sized for comparison

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By *anFromMarsMan over a year ago

North

Think of all the stand up motor boats you missing out on

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By *lameBoyMan over a year ago

Enfield & Dublin

"Is this really a thing? Honesty is the best policy, it filters out all the shit and keeps the ones that genuinely are interested.

Choose people that choose you "

Hit the nail on the head there! Don’t be an asshole, don’t tell lies and you will have a great time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this really a thing? Honesty is the best policy, it filters out all the shit and keeps the ones that genuinely are interested.

Choose people that choose you

Hit the nail on the head there! Don’t be an asshole, don’t tell lies and you will have a great time. "

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By *uphoria21Couple over a year ago

Cork city

Iam 5 foot 7 Heather is 6 foot 1 . Honeslty i was very nervous on our first date i was upfront on my height and luckily she did not care at all thought I looked very cute haha. 3 years later I dont notice it at all. We get alot of jeering in the city when she's in heels from guys passing like "you should give him the heels " being roared at us honeslty all the bad comments come from lads not girls.

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By * la carteCouple over a year ago

Dublin

Just measured myself - I'm 5'7 3/4, so do I put myself down as 5'7 or 5'8?

I like/prefer my men tall too - does that come with the territory of being a relatively tall woman (average height of Irish women is apparently 5'5)?

I just hate looking down on anyone

and there's just something about being able to look up at someone *swoon*

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By *elle xWoman over a year ago

Doire Theas

"After measuring my height last night I realised I’m only 5ft 6 1/2

I think I’m shrinking

I’d give you that extra half inch

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By *elle xWoman over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Just measured myself - I'm 5'7 3/4, so do I put myself down as 5'7 or 5'8?

I like/prefer my men tall too - does that come with the territory of being a relatively tall woman (average height of Irish women is apparently 5'5)?

I just hate looking down on anyone

and there's just something about being able to look up at someone *swoon*

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By *pin21Man over a year ago

Killarney

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Iam 5 foot 7 Heather is 6 foot 1 . Honeslty i was very nervous on our first date i was upfront on my height and luckily she did not care at all thought I looked very cute haha. 3 years later I dont notice it at all. We get alot of jeering in the city when she's in heels from guys passing like "you should give him the heels " being roared at us honeslty all the bad comments come from lads not girls."

Well if I was looking for someone to date I probably wouldn’t care about height much, but I just want to have fun (not marry) with tall guys. Like I said before, it is not a dating site.

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By *adhatter and coCouple over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

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By *uphoria21Couple over a year ago

Cork city

Well if I was looking for someone to date I probably wouldn’t care about height much, but I just want to have fun (not marry) with tall guys. Like I said before, it is not a dating site.

I fully agree x I think of your lying about your height I feel like there is alot more stuff that the person is also hiding. If you want to meet somone just be honest. I think if I lied at my height I might not be with her now. X

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By *pin21Man over a year ago

Killarney

"I've been in this lifestyle for quiet some time now and a lot of people lie.

Guys about height and cock size.

Women I find lie mainly about age and can be inventive with what curvy means.

It's part and parcel of this lifestyle, people are telling what they believe others want to hear to give them a better chance of a meet.

Is it wrong...yes of course, is it going to stop anytime soon?? Unlikely.

You have hit the nail on the head here

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By *adhatter and coCouple over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

"Instead of giving out how taller woman prefer taller men how about short women stop nicking men over say 5ft 8 lol

Define "short women"

Maybe Fab should review their terms and conditions

How about a new rule ?

No women to nick any man more than 4 inches taller then herself lol

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