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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Being dropping hints to wife about trying different things to give our sex life a boost, no joy, I think she’d enjoy another man or woman playing with us but is to self conscious of herself to even consider it! When she has a beer or 2, which isn’t often, she really relaxes and we have chatted about mixing it up a bit but then once sober she’ll just pretend we never really mentioned it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being dropping hints to wife about trying different things to give our sex life a boost, no joy, I think she’d enjoy another man or woman playing with us but is to self conscious of herself to even consider it! When she has a beer or 2, which isn’t often, she really relaxes and we have chatted about mixing it up a bit but then once sober she’ll just pretend we never really mentioned it"
Talk to her sober, not us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Being dropping hints to wife about trying different things to give our sex life a boost, no joy, I think she’d enjoy another man or woman playing with us but is to self conscious of herself to even consider it! When she has a beer or 2, which isn’t often, she really relaxes and we have chatted about mixing it up a bit but then once sober she’ll just pretend we never really mentioned it
Talk to her sober, not us."
If you read the post again, you should be able to see that I have! If you can’t be bother to read the whole post or just take certain parts of it to comment on then don’t bother cheers |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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A frank discussion about any issues within your current relationship is a must, before any suggestion about inviting others in is brought up; swinging is never a solution, it is the cream on the cake if a relationship is stable, secure, communicative and enduring.
Introducing swinging into a faltering relationship is a recipe for disaster.
Communication about your individual and collective aspirations is vital.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A frank discussion about any issues within your current relationship is a must, before any suggestion about inviting others in is brought up; swinging is never a solution, it is the cream on the cake if a relationship is stable, secure, communicative and enduring.
Introducing swinging into a faltering relationship is a recipe for disaster.
Communication about your individual and collective aspirations is vital. "
Cheers appreciate the advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being dropping hints to wife about trying different things to give our sex life a boost, no joy, I think she’d enjoy another man or woman playing with us but is to self conscious of herself to even consider it! When she has a beer or 2, which isn’t often, she really relaxes and we have chatted about mixing it up a bit but then once sober she’ll just pretend we never really mentioned it
Talk to her sober, not us.
If you read the post again, you should be able to see that I have! If you can’t be bother to read the whole post or just take certain parts of it to comment on then don’t bother cheers"
Your post says she pretends it was never mentioned when sober, I should have said try and have a proper conversation when sober instead of it being glossed over. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Being dropping hints to wife about trying different things to give our sex life a boost, no joy, I think she’d enjoy another man or woman playing with us but is to self conscious of herself to even consider it! When she has a beer or 2, which isn’t often, she really relaxes and we have chatted about mixing it up a bit but then once sober she’ll just pretend we never really mentioned it
Talk to her sober, not us.
If you read the post again, you should be able to see that I have! If you can’t be bother to read the whole post or just take certain parts of it to comment on then don’t bother cheers
Your post says she pretends it was never mentioned when sober, I should have said try and have a proper conversation when sober instead of it being glossed over. "
No hassle appreciate the advice cheers |
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"Being dropping hints to wife about trying different things to give our sex life a boost, no joy, I think she’d enjoy another man or woman playing with us but is to self conscious of herself to even consider it! When she has a beer or 2, which isn’t often, she really relaxes and we have chatted about mixing it up a bit but then once sober she’ll just pretend we never really mentioned it"
Tbh does she know your on here cause by your post it doesn't look like it  |
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By *londy84Man
over a year ago
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"Being dropping hints to wife about trying different things to give our sex life a boost, no joy, I think she’d enjoy another man or woman playing with us but is to self conscious of herself to even consider it! When she has a beer or 2, which isn’t often, she really relaxes and we have chatted about mixing it up a bit but then once sober she’ll just pretend we never really mentioned it
Tbh does she know your on here cause by your post it doesn't look like it "
Exactly what I was going to ask  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being dropping hints to wife about trying different things to give our sex life a boost, no joy, I think she’d enjoy another man or woman playing with us but is to self conscious of herself to even consider it! When she has a beer or 2, which isn’t often, she really relaxes and we have chatted about mixing it up a bit but then once sober she’ll just pretend we never really mentioned it
Talk to her sober, not us."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My tuppence from experience is she is not interested and won't so yes of course fantasise if you want but don't push it or yer gonna find yerself damned if ya do and damned if ya don't! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get to agree when she is pissed, I will land over the next morning and be standing with a big hard flute on me when she wakes up. "
Keep Dreaming boiyyyyy
You might wake up with the solution in your chest |
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I think you've played it wrong from the start. So if she doesnt know you are on here, how do you explain that you are already on a site ( not judging btw) even if you just set up a couples profile you still may be recognised by others. And thats a different conversation. Going by what youhave said it seems youmay be flogging a dead horse anyway. From experience the lifestyle as someone else pointed out isntfor everyone, pressuring in anyway, even if she agrees its kinda just gonna a fake experience imo |
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