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over a year ago
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"Was with a lady recently who absolutely hated the term bbw. She said she never understood why the word big had to be mentioned. She was just a beautiful woman no need for the "big" lable"
She is right, we are all different shapes and sizes, some will find us attractive, some won't. That's life. As the saying goes, labels are for boxes. No need to stick them on people.  |
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"Was with a lady recently who absolutely hated the term bbw. She said she never understood why the word big had to be mentioned. She was just a beautiful woman no need for the "big" lable
She is right, we are all different shapes and sizes, some will find us attractive, some won't. That's life. As the saying goes, labels are for boxes. No need to stick them on people. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was with a lady recently who absolutely hated the term bbw. She said she never understood why the word big had to be mentioned. She was just a beautiful woman no need for the "big" lable"
Everyone is different. I AM big therefore have no issue with the word being used as a descriptor. Same as fat. It's an appropriate descriptor. So long as the words are used thus and not as an insult or with malice then it's no biggie to me.
However preferences aside, I would hope that it wouldn't be the only reason someone wanted to have sex with me because I am more than just my size (or any other single attribute).
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"I've met ladies that actually describe themselves as big I suppose its all relative really"
i think its done so the other person knows what they are getting, or because of previous bad experiences. I for one don't really care, if i like you i like you. Size shape or colour makes zero difference
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Was with a lady recently who absolutely hated the term bbw. She said she never understood why the word big had to be mentioned. She was just a beautiful woman no need for the "big" lable
Everyone is different. I AM big therefore have no issue with the word being used as a descriptor. Same as fat. It's an appropriate descriptor. So long as the words are used thus and not as an insult or with malice then it's no biggie to me.
However preferences aside, I would hope that it wouldn't be the only reason someone wanted to have sex with me because I am more than just my size (or any other single attribute).
Sorry OP for the slight thread derailment "
Haha it’s ok. I fully understand where everyone is coming from. I do have a preference for big girls though, I suppose everyone is entitled to like what they like.
You’d be slim compared to the type of girls I usually go for though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was with a lady recently who absolutely hated the term bbw. She said she never understood why the word big had to be mentioned. She was just a beautiful woman no need for the "big" lable
Everyone is different. I AM big therefore have no issue with the word being used as a descriptor. Same as fat. It's an appropriate descriptor. So long as the words are used thus and not as an insult or with malice then it's no biggie to me.
However preferences aside, I would hope that it wouldn't be the only reason someone wanted to have sex with me because I am more than just my size (or any other single attribute).
Sorry OP for the slight thread derailment
Haha it’s ok. I fully understand where everyone is coming from. I do have a preference for big girls though, I suppose everyone is entitled to like what they like.
You’d be slim compared to the type of girls I usually go for though. "
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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago
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The men on fab seem to get more offended on women's behalf than the women themselves, it's cringe worthy! BBW is not a derogatory word and I've never heard it being used in bad reference. Calling someone fat is a derogatory word if you intend on using it as such.
Big beautiful women are exactly that. Big beautiful women.
PS, if there's any BBWs going to RVC next week, drop noel a message.  |
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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago
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"Was with a lady recently who absolutely hated the term bbw. She said she never understood why the word big had to be mentioned. She was just a beautiful woman no need for the "big" lable
Everyone is different. I AM big therefore have no issue with the word being used as a descriptor. Same as fat. It's an appropriate descriptor. So long as the words are used thus and not as an insult or with malice then it's no biggie to me.
However preferences aside, I would hope that it wouldn't be the only reason someone wanted to have sex with me because I am more than just my size (or any other single attribute).
Sorry OP for the slight thread derailment "
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When describing myself I say I’m plus size. I don’t call myself a bbw because I might not be everyone’s idea of beautiful. I don’t say curvy because in my eyes that’s a gorgeous sexy woman with curves where they should be |
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Personally for me, I don't like ther term BBW. I just find men use it to objectify and fetishize fat female bodies and that's just not what I'm about. Yes I'm a fatty, but it's not the most interesting thing about me and I find guys looking for "BBW", tend to be a bit too focused on that one aspect for my taste. |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
Would you ever contemplate the fact that many men use the term because they see it everywhere and consider it the accepted norm?
Especially when so many women use it themselves, even in usernames.
Hardly guys fault  |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
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"Would you ever contemplate the fact that many men use the term because they see it everywhere and consider it the accepted norm?
Especially when so many women use it themselves, even in usernames.
Hardly guys fault "
Apologies, that was a general comment on thread and not directed at Havana |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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"Would you ever contemplate the fact that many men use the term because they see it everywhere and consider it the accepted norm?
Especially when so many women use it themselves, even in usernames.
Hardly guys fault "
Simple solution…if a woman uses it in her profile name, feel free to use it in conversation with her. If she doesn’t, don’t. |
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