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Biggest profile turnoff for guys.
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This one is for the lads.
What, if anything, is most likely to turn you off a lady's profile and make you less likely to go beyond the initial profile viewing.
For me, it's those souvenir photos from the most recent gynaecological exam. No judgement however, if anyone wants to make those type of pics public viewing, it's not my business. I just don't find them appealing. |
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Age. That's always the first thing I look at and if they are below my age filters I don't even bother reading their profile or looking at the pics.
Beyond that, anything that isn't consistent between their words and pics or overuse of the word I.
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By *he MickMan
over a year ago
southside |
Arrogance , a lot of women on here think they are so special and in demand because of how many men in her are messaging them on a daily basis which can make them more arrogant and up themselves which I personally find a turn off .
Just my opinion , not looking for a row . |
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Arrogance accompanied with a whole list of requirements we must satisfy
I find this annoying as can you imagine if a man had same time mine in his profile he would be lambasted.
Here’s a funny one for you all to highlight the unfairness
Try to imagine the Beyoncé song where she sings “you must not know bout me.could have another you in a minute.in fact hel be here in a minute”
Now try imagine a male pop star singing that whole song. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of replies about negative profiles. Have to say that I agree that there are a lot here. Not sure why because if they are getting so many bad experiences, why stay? I don't know why people would want to meet anyone who is drawing up a list of dos and donrs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Asking for ppm ..payment per meet !!… a new to me abbreviation in fairness but jasus that’s annoying havnt seen this is there much of it about"
Shocking. And what are their rates?  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Asking for ppm ..payment per meet !!… a new to me abbreviation in fairness but jasus that’s annoying havnt seen this is there much of it about
Shocking. And what are their rates? "
Asking for a friend ....fixed that for you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Coming from a womans perspective, I would have to agree with the list of dos and donts being ridiculous!
When checking out verification profiles some women have whole essays 
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Anything in the description that portrays a negative attitude. Likely the description is justified from a frustration in the content of the messages they have received, and that’s undeniable and even understandable. But it is a big turn off all the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Arrogance , a lot of women on here think they are so special and in demand because of how many men in her are messaging them on a daily basis which can make them more arrogant and up themselves which I personally find a turn off .
Just my opinion , not looking for a row . "
I completely agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rude and bad vocabulary.Hundreds of verifications and the big long lists of do's and don'ts."
You wouldn't have liked my old profile so. I had racked up an awful lot from sitting around drinking tea and Jameson at socials chatting to people. |
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Another pet hate of mine is when the profile only talks about what you're not to do, what they don't like or has a load of conditions. How are you supposed to get any inkling about the kind of person they really are from that? It's all negative. |
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Some bullshit written profile about respecting her, saying she's picky, then clicking the first Veri and it's a BBC gangbang profile and they don't use condoms and the girl in the first pic has her tattoos.
Why not just be honest, it won't out the men off, will turn them on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lack of manners.
Just this morning asked a couple on the “meet today” if they were seeking a male for today as their profile indicates they are interested in males. No reply just blocked.
It’s nice to be nice. Maybe I’m naive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Arrogance , a lot of women on here think they are so special and in demand because of how many men in her are messaging them on a daily basis which can make them more arrogant and up themselves which I personally find a turn off .
Just my opinion , not looking for a row .
I completely agree "
With women it’s preferences but with us it’s discrimination |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the site a year with 1 cam verification.
On the the site a year with 1 meet verification.
There just no goes for me.
They noramly come with a lisy of terms and conditions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the site a year with 1 cam verification.
On the the site a year with 1 meet verification.
There just no goes for me.
They noramly come with a lisy of terms and conditions. "
Sometimes it can take us girls a while to settle in and feel comfortable to go meeting though!  |
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"Ladies, have your say now. Are the boys being snowflakes or is what they say reasonable?
Will have to have a look at mine now. Jasus, cause I am lovely really 
It IS a nice nipple in fairness  "
Tut tut,. But thanks kindly |
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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago
kildare |
a lot of what the lads are saying is kinda true.. I myself don't do arrogance ( I do hope none of ye think this from mine)
however maybe the ladies are just fed up with saying no no no over and over again so they pop up the list ...
only this week I had to tell one guy if he didn't stop messaging me I was going to have to block him as every day it was an essay, I did say maybe he wasn't aware he was doing it however he said " you said no yesterday and the day before but this is a new day '
I merely mentioned the block for both our sakes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No single guys. Yet I’ve had loads of single women look at my profile.
Totally outrageous expectations.
Age limit. Especially if the woman is only a couple of years younger.
Arrogant profiles.
Asking for a pic in the first message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with everything said above. There is a lot of arrogance because of the male/female ratio. Inflated ego for some women. Pure princess syndrome. "
Absolutely fantastic boobs by the way  |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
The list could be lengthy, but the principal one is where a profile has been thrown together,in haste, with little thought, poor spelling and grammar, etc.
The best profiles concisely and clearly outline what the individual has to offer and have been carefully crafted with thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with everything said above. There is a lot of arrogance because of the male/female ratio. Inflated ego for some women. Pure princess syndrome. "
This 100% |
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Pictures of the ladies ass covered in bruises with a title, he left his mark on me.. Or the likes...
Each to their own but but I have no intentions of leaving any marks on a lady and in no way find it attractive or a turn on |
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I'd like to think we are exactly what we say on the tin.. and explain what we're about hopefully in a nice way... (although grammar police would lock me up straight away.. let's lay dyslexia out there..lol)but I suppose it depends on your perspectives... I lose the will to live with blank profile, fill in later but send friend request & or want photos straight away. Oh & close up dick or cooter shots... the style of someone's clothes, backgrounds, the way the take photos & present themselves tells a lot about people & will decide if we contact them or not.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does looking at people's verifications sometimes put yous off? "
Sometimes the unnecessarily graphic descriptions put me off a bit. Then again if she chooses to publish it then….. it’s probably what I want to do  |
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