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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once, some years ago. She swepr me off my feet and I thought "this is it"
However after a few months it began to unravel and it ended some time after rather devisively with us really falling out with each other. We've lost contact and I'm happy we have. |
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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago
Kerry and Dublin |
I've thought I was in love a few times as I was in my teens and early twenties but on reflection I think that was more a manifestation of the deep seated sense of lack I felt and which lead to alcoholism. I was looking for someone to make me feel better.
When I got sober and was living in a Buddhist centre I fell in love with a woman who was 9 years older than me. Comparing that to all the other experiences, I would say that was the only time I've been 'in love'. It didn't work out though bcos she wanted to have kids pretty soon and I knew I wasn't ready.
My thoughts on love have since changed and now I feel that polyamory is right for me and, in hindsight, always has been. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The moment I meet him I new I was going to marry him one day, it was love at first sight. Ironically I was going out with someone else but nothing happened till my ex and I broke up. We ended 4 years ago, I still love him but I got sick with depression and self sabotaged the relationship and regret it to this day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The moment I meet him I new I was going to marry him one day, it was love at first sight. Ironically I was going out with someone else but nothing happened till my ex and I broke up. We ended 4 years ago, I still love him but I got sick with depression and self sabotaged the relationship and regret it to this day! "
if you love him/her tell them don't regret it for the rest of your life
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The moment I meet him I new I was going to marry him one day, it was love at first sight. Ironically I was going out with someone else but nothing happened till my ex and I broke up. We ended 4 years ago, I still love him but I got sick with depression and self sabotaged the relationship and regret it to this day! if you love him/her tell them don't regret it for the rest of your life "
We have a child together and are best friends now. I cheated on him and he will never trust me again. I don't do relationships now and maybe one day we will work back together but for now he just wants to be friends! So I may respect that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope never been in love and never been loved
I’m sure that’s not completely true….  "
Ah I know I have family and friends that love me but I've never had a partner love me |
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By *LiamMan
over a year ago
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"Nope never been in love and never been loved
I’m sure that’s not completely true….
Ah I know I have family and friends that love me but I've never had a partner love me"
sending some love  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The moment I meet him I new I was going to marry him one day, it was love at first sight. Ironically I was going out with someone else but nothing happened till my ex and I broke up. We ended 4 years ago, I still love him but I got sick with depression and self sabotaged the relationship and regret it to this day! if you love him/her tell them don't regret it for the rest of your life
We have a child together and are best friends now. I cheated on him and he will never trust me again. I don't do relationships now and maybe one day we will work back together but for now he just wants to be friends! So I may respect that. "
tell him how you feel maybe he feels the same you will never know unless you try. |
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Nope never been in love what is love anyway i enjoy the single life always have always will just because you have never been in love doesnt meab you have never experienced love love comes in all different ways |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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I think we really need to restart this thread with a definition of love; that is love for a partner, not the love for one's child, nor the love for one's parents, nor the love for one's siblings.
What does the love for one's partner entail?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think we really need to restart this thread with a definition of love; that is love for a partner, not the love for one's child, nor the love for one's parents, nor the love for one's siblings.
What does the love for one's partner entail? "
The 3 things below
Respect
Trust
Affection
Mixed in with good communication, feeling at ease, willingness to compromise & an ability to grow together!
Ebs and flows eh
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quote I heard recently hit home with me
One of the most fucked up things the universe can do to you
Is meet the right person at the completely wrong time  |
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I fell in love with a crazy girl who would sleep with any one if I wasn't around destroyed me mentally as I tryed everything to stay with her.
That lead me to hook up with someone he was very safe and vanilla I learnt how to love her which is why we didn't last but to answer your question yes I've truly been in love and knowing how much it can mess with me mentally I don't want to do it again anytime soon |
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"Who have ever truly been in love?"
Huge difference between being "in love" and actually loving someone!
I've been hurt, let's put it that way - but was I just fooling myself, or was he? I know I have done the hurting too...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, been 'in love' a few times, thats nice and easy, lets walk on fluffy clouds and have great sex.
Ive 'loved' and been loved once or twice, thats hard - lets see each others darkness and take it as worth it on balance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have loved a few times my problem has been I've given it to the wrong people. There was one beautiful woman who loved me with all her heart and if I gave it back as much as I got it, it would have been amazing.
Unfortunately, we don't realise this stuff until its too late.
I married the wrong person and have been stuck in limbo for nearly 3 years as a consequence.
I doubt I'm the only one. |
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