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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Whats some advice you would like to give people that you can't give on direct response to a thread or post because of politeness or fear of a ban.
People when you post about your favorite fabbers and it's someone you know is on the forum so will 100% read it we ALL know what your up to
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given the ratios , that’s it’s not a fair and equitable world , and that no one owes you a shag , what are you doing to stand out from the crowd ? "
I am owed a shag so there lol   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think:
Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids
Is this bringing anything to the thread
Should this in fact be done in PM
Ahhhh that feels better |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When you reply to a serious post with something like "thats terrible...your pics are great though" or "I'm really sorry that happened to you, I'd never do anything like that. You have great tits"
It's doing you no favors |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think:
Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids
Is this bringing anything to the thread
Should this in fact be done in PM
Ahhhh that feels better"
You haven’t to be fair , kept that one to yourself previously |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think:
Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids
Is this bringing anything to the thread
Should this in fact be done in PM
Ahhhh that feels better
You haven’t to be fair , kept that one to yourself previously "
A less filtered version |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Be a bloody adult .That includes not making troll accounts to stir shite or posting stuff because others are behind you pulling your strings.
And have the guts say what you think rather than pandering to the others in the hope you will get a shag out of it.It doesn't fool anyone and is obvious when it happens on here.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you have to keep telling people how great you are and how better you are than all the others on here of your gender chances are you really aren't all that at all.
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Its OK to tell them how genuine and discreet I am though ya? |
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now this confuses me. people say be nice. make yourself stand out. be confident be this be that. don't judge. play to your strengths etc. to which i ignore. because..those that say it tend to be hypocrites. which bugs the hell outta me. i dont even pay attention to veri's as they are subjective. one persons cure is anothers poison. in the past...some had glowing veri's. but turned out. it was like fucking a sack of potatoes that made sounds like a sad goose |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whats some advice you would like to give people that you can't give on direct response to a thread or post because of politeness or fear of a ban.
People when you post about your favorite fabbers and it's someone you know is on the forum so will 100% read it we ALL know what your up to
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My advice would be to only say what you want others to know ..the rest ..keep private. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"If you have to keep telling people how great you are and how better you are than all the others on here of your gender chances are you really aren't all that at all.
Its OK to tell them how genuine and discreet I am though ya?"
Oh ye that is always the truth on here |
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My advice:
Don't treat women like a monolith.
We're all different as just as varied from each other as one guy is from another.
Some advice here will stand for one lady and not for another.
I've seen lads acting frustrated that two different women expressed contradictory preferences.
I actually like noticing the little ways guys check in with me, and test the waters, or just straight out ask me what kind of vibe I prefer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We use the notes function and the green arrow so we know that you’ve been a dick before
love the note function as I've forgotten some dicks until I read the notes "
Exactly- the notes function is a girls best friend on here |
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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago
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"We use the notes function and the green arrow so we know that you’ve been a dick before
love the note function as I've forgotten some dicks until I read the notes
Exactly- the notes function is a girls best friend on here "
isn't it brillant when you see you gave yourself a reminder to stay clear |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We use the notes function and the green arrow so we know that you’ve been a dick before
love the note function as I've forgotten some dicks until I read the notes
Exactly- the notes function is a girls best friend on here
isn't it brillant when you see you gave yourself a reminder to stay clear "
Oh christ.... I need an annual purge of these |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think:
Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids
Is this bringing anything to the thread
Should this in fact be done in PM
Ahhhh that feels better"
Oh my God this bugs the fuck out of me. Well said |
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I didn't read any of this as I am far too lazy but my advice would be don't be so fucking lazy and use the search function on the forum so you don't keep posting the same fucking questions that are asked every other fucking day. |
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"I didn't read any of this as I am far too lazy but my advice would be don't be so fucking lazy and use the search function on the forum so you don't keep posting the same fucking questions that are asked every other fucking day."
Must have nearly emptied that bucket Willy, good effort  |
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole
f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality
(Too harsh?)
maybe a little "
It’s like crying to a teacher at a school disco because no one will dance with ye
At times the threads are like:
“Ladies please tell me what to tell you in order for me to ride you” |
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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago
kildare |
"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole
f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality
(Too harsh?)
maybe a little
It’s like crying to a teacher at a school disco because no one will dance with ye
At times the threads are like:
“Ladies please tell me what to tell you in order for me to ride you”"
this is so funny cos its true |
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If your on here, attached, and doing it on the sly, be aware that any couple or single with more than 5 minutes of experience can spot you a mile away.
You are not as smart or slick as you think you are so stop wasting peoples time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think:
Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids
Is this bringing anything to the thread
Should this in fact be done in PM
Ahhhh that feels better"
Please keep me in check, I need monitored at times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think:
Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids
Is this bringing anything to the thread
Should this in fact be done in PM
Ahhhh that feels better
Please keep me in check, I need monitored at times "
One persons gripe doesnt mean you've to change your behaviour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just before your 5th reply between yourself and that other person your flirting with. Think:
Does the thread need another post of me batting my eyelids
Is this bringing anything to the thread
Should this in fact be done in PM
Ahhhh that feels better
Please keep me in check, I need monitored at times
One persons gripe doesnt mean you've to change your behaviour."
Spoken like a true legend  |
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole
f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality
(Too harsh?)
maybe a little
It’s like crying to a teacher at a school disco because no one will dance with ye
At times the threads are like:
“Ladies please tell me what to tell you in order for me to ride you”"
You’ve hit the mail on the head!! |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole
f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality
(Too harsh?)"
I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole
f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality
(Too harsh?)
I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole "
The better your pics the bigger hole you can usually get away with digging |
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole
f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality
(Too harsh?)
I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole "
If it's something you believe to be right/true then why not? Honesty is very attractive in a man. I'd far rather see a guy challenge someone (nicely) on their attitude or beliefs instead of the usual lick arsing that goes on here. It can be vomit inducing stuff. Feel free to challenge me on that (nicely)! Mrs |
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole
f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality
(Too harsh?)
Oh no Jay, do keep going, fanny flutter inducing talk right there 
Fanny flutter? "
Maura  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole
f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality
(Too harsh?)
I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole
If it's something you believe to be right/true then why not? Honesty is very attractive in a man. I'd far rather see a guy challenge someone (nicely) on their attitude or beliefs instead of the usual lick arsing that goes on here. It can be vomit inducing stuff. Feel free to challenge me on that (nicely)! Mrs "
I agree with this. It's better to be yourself and say what you mean. I've been challenged several times on here and I've done it as well if I see something I really don't agree with. I'm sure there are plenty who roll their eyes when they see me post but there's nothing I can do about that. I'm just me on here and in real life not everyone will like me or what I have to say when I post. But then I'm not here to be popular and liked by all. I would rather be myself and liked by those I like and get on with.
The only time it annoys me is when people have their second account to post their thoughts and to attack others on but keep it all sickly sweet on their actual account to meet off.
I do understand though why men might be a bit slower to post their real thoughts though as I have seen people jumping on threads to attack men if they post what they really think. It rarely happens to women in the same way. But I admire men who do voice their opinions (in a non demeaning attacking others ) way and are willing to speak up rather than stay quiet for fear of reprisal.
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole
f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality
(Too harsh?)
I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole
If it's something you believe to be right/true then why not? Honesty is very attractive in a man. I'd far rather see a guy challenge someone (nicely) on their attitude or beliefs instead of the usual lick arsing that goes on here. It can be vomit inducing stuff. Feel free to challenge me on that (nicely)! Mrs "
Actually my view is that it’s only partially true that people aren’t here to help one get their hole (sic).
It’s a sharing site . There are some trusted ways of improving a single male’s chances which people should share. These are best done authentically though otherwise people will see through them . For example as recently said men in a couple do far better than they ought to based on their attributes alone . That doesn’t mean start a couple’s profile with someone you don’t want to spend time with . Another is go to socials. If you find large groups excruciating it’s pointless.
There is nothing wrong with sharing those tips. However if a bloke thinks that by removing one crap pic , having a longer or shorter bio , reducing dick pics and turning up to a coffee meet etc the keys to the magic kingdom will appear then they’re Naive . No other forum member will be helping them make a connection that will lead to a play meet . So the personality bit is true as much as I don’t agree with the don’t seek help bit. |
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"People aren’t here to help you get yer hole
f**k off and come back when ye’ve a bit of personality
(Too harsh?)
I hate it when I am dying to comment on a post but then think oh no I ll dig a hole
If it's something you believe to be right/true then why not? Honesty is very attractive in a man. I'd far rather see a guy challenge someone (nicely) on their attitude or beliefs instead of the usual lick arsing that goes on here. It can be vomit inducing stuff. Feel free to challenge me on that (nicely)! Mrs
Actually my view is that it’s only partially true that people aren’t here to help one get their hole (sic).
It’s a sharing site . There are some trusted ways of improving a single male’s chances which people should share. These are best done authentically though otherwise people will see through them . For example as recently said men in a couple do far better than they ought to based on their attributes alone . That doesn’t mean start a couple’s profile with someone you don’t want to spend time with . Another is go to socials. If you find large groups excruciating it’s pointless.
There is nothing wrong with sharing those tips. However if a bloke thinks that by removing one crap pic , having a longer or shorter bio , reducing dick pics and turning up to a coffee meet etc the keys to the magic kingdom will appear then they’re Naive . No other forum member will be helping them make a connection that will lead to a play meet . So the personality bit is true as much as I don’t agree with the don’t seek help bit. "
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1. Pay genuine compliments 
2. Having an opinion and a backbone can be an attractive trait 
Don't think you're winning brownie points by agreeing with someone you fancy 
Revert to point 3 
...and 120 being posting over your favourite cock pic that looks huge coz you got the angle "just right"
6. READ THE DAMN PROFILE 
we just cut, pasted and send over to you as this equates to "rejection" to most men 