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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Which comes naturally to you? to do the chasing on here, or be chased? ...
Do you find yourself playing a role as one or the other that doesnt come naturally?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well if you’re a bloke on here being chased is unusual .
I prefer being the organiser to both
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Would a guy even notice I wonder?! its seems to be that unanticipated |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I've made first contact with people on here I don't know if that would be considered chasing tho 
And I don't think I've ever been chased either so my answer is most likely some where in the middle  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If men were to wait to be chased here....Bradley Walsh would be long dead ! "
So men have to make the moves on here whether it comes naturally or not.
But do you like it, is it part of the fun? |
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I don't chase anyone. I don't send first contact messages but if someone contacts me I don't see it as being chased either.
The slightest hint that someone is tapping and running away expecting a chase and they're going to be disappointed.
If two adults can't have a two way conversation without it feeling like a game then there won't be a conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't chase anyone. I don't send first contact messages but if someone contacts me I don't see it as being chased either.
The slightest hint that someone is tapping and running away expecting a chase and they're going to be disappointed.
If two adults can't have a two way conversation without it feeling like a game then there won't be a conversation. "
Im not saying its 'a game' but it can be part of the fun RB |
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"I don't chase anyone. I don't send first contact messages but if someone contacts me I don't see it as being chased either.
The slightest hint that someone is tapping and running away expecting a chase and they're going to be disappointed.
If two adults can't have a two way conversation without it feeling like a game then there won't be a conversation.
Im not saying its 'a game' but it can be part of the fun RB "
If you mean role playing the answer is still neither. |
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Ah, I came here for a quiz.
But to answer your question both work for me. If there is someone I like I’ll message them and I’ve also received messages from a few women. The latter I like because I think it’s shows a self confidence in the other person |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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In vanilla life it’s half the fun , and it’s why I would never pay for sex
On fab , amongst all the profiles and messages if you haven’t arranged a coffee or a party or a meet after a certain number of messages it’s easy for the flirtation to fade into the background . Unless perhaps you Have a date to look forward to like a big social or something
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"Ok forget the word chasing... its perhaps not what i meant!
lets say who makes the first move/breaks the ice/ says i fancy you/makes interest clear  "
Strangely enough I don’t send someone a message out of the blue. It’s usually been through the chat room in the past or through the forums when you get a bit of an insight into someone but then some people are more fickle. When the banter starts I love the interaction you get when you get to push someone’s imagination and have them wonder if the sparks will fly as much if you meet. I’ve never actually met someone I didn’t get in with and that doesn’t mean it always goes beyond a social as I’ve met some really genuine people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am neither tbh...l just land in the forum's , if l see a good or witty reply to any thread l will quote/reply on the page or reply privately ,am not a pushy guy ,if something develops from that ,great ,if not ," no sleep was disturbed in the non development from your message " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Neither in extremes comes naturally nor do I enjoy it.
I'm happy approaching or being approached.
But if it becomes very one sided the whole point us missed for me |
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I never chase. I would favour a mutual attraction which leads to something naturally. I will rarely send messages and rarely reply to messages. There needs to be a real attraction. The desperation for anyone I see here every day is incredibly unattractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everybody chases a little I'd imagine.
It's the knowing when to give up that some people can't get their head around.
Id be a chaser more often than not. If a message gets read and no reply or just plain deleted unread, it's no bother, just move on. No point wasting your time or theirs.
That's where the desperation comes into it. Some people 100 % genuinely can't understand why someone wouldn't be attracted to them. That's a bit scary.. |
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