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What are the most important lessons you’ve learnt in life?
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
Don’t worry about things you can’t control |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surrender |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trust no-one..."
100% this!!
Also always always trust ur gut feeling… it never lies but people do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If there is nothing you can do about, there is no point in worrying about it.  |
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Have no regrets, but learn from your mistakes always  |
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"Trust no-one..."
You can't go through life trusting nobody. Be careful who you trust, absolutely, but you have to trust someone, sometimes. |
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By *I TwoCouple
over a year ago
PDI 12-26th Nov 24 |
I love to watch people fucking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trust no-one..."
I hate that this is true. What a sad world we live in at times. |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"I love to watch people fucking"
It’s a joyful way of spending time . They have to be in the same room mind. Not a big fan of porn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trust no-one...
100% this!!
Also always always trust ur gut feeling… it never lies but people do "
What if your gut tells you to trust someone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all comes out in the wash most of the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always try to have a sense of perspective on where things fit in the priorities of my life |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Always be wary of those blow their own trumpets all the time it's usually because no one else will .
Trust your gut feeling, it's normally right even when you want to ignore it.
Learn by your mistakes but don't regret them it's what makes you unique.
Cherish your true friends .
And don't follow the masses because a lot of times the m is silent  |
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Don’t forget to treat yourself every once in a while |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely trust your gut feeling and don’t be worrying about stuff you can’t control. |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
Everyone is too worried about their own shit to notice the little flaws that you worry about. |
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"Trust no-one...
You can't go through life trusting nobody. Be careful who you trust, absolutely, but you have to trust someone, sometimes. "
When you've been let down - and I don't mean the little stuff here, and lied to and deceived, time and time again by the people who are supposedly those who love you and/or care for you...be that your father/mother, your husband, your partners/lovers/boyfriends or your best friends...why on earth would you trust anyone?!
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
It will pass . Sometimes it feels like it won’t but it does . Eventually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go with your gut
Trust is easily given and easily lost
Keep your friends close your enemies closer
Cherish the people who know when your quiet, know when you are struggling and reach out ( sometimes the last people you expect too)
A job is just that
Life is too short for toxic people for liars and nasty people
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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago
kildare |
"Always be wary of those blow their own trumpets all the time it's usually because no one else will .
Trust your gut feeling, it's normally right even when you want to ignore it.
Learn by your mistakes but don't regret them it's what makes you unique.
Cherish your true friends .
And don't follow the masses because a lot of times the m is silent "
Bo I love this |
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"Trust no-one..."
Definitely this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To have manners and be respectful to others |
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By *onnrodMan
over a year ago
moira |
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By *onnrodMan
over a year ago
moira |
"Trust no-one...
Definitely this "
Trust no-one sounds like a very lonely and cynical way to live your life. It means that if no one is worthy of trust then everyone you meet is being judged as a liar which I know to simply not be the case. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
Treat others as you wish to be treated yourself |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"Trust no-one...
Definitely this
Trust no-one sounds like a very lonely and cynical way to live your life. It means that if no one is worthy of trust then everyone you meet is being judged as a liar which I know to simply not be the case. "
Perhaps it’s more that everyone is capable of hurting you intentionally or unintentionally . Or depend on you for your own happiness ,don’t trust others to provide it. I don’t see it as ‘go round being paranoid all the time’ despite the misanthropic connotations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put yourself first as everyone else will put themselves first when it comes to the crunch
Be nice to people as you don't know what others are going through and it costs you nothing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trust no-one...
Definitely this
Trust no-one sounds like a very lonely and cynical way to live your life. It means that if no one is worthy of trust then everyone you meet is being judged as a liar which I know to simply not be the case. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I’m the asshole. ( that was a real aphiniy I had some years back about an individual, I thought he was the asshole and it dawned on me that it was me, life changing) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Remember what brought you joy as a kid and keep doing it. Dont let life be joyless xxx  |
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Look after number one, that's the important one!
Don't give to easily, it's taken to easily.
Never lie to someone who trusts you, never trust someone who lies to you |
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It’s nice to be important but far more important to be nice.
Always listen to what people have to say because they might know something you don’t. |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"Sometimes I’m the asshole. ( that was a real aphiniy I had some years back about an individual, I thought he was the asshole and it dawned on me that it was me, life changing)"
Yes totally agree . I once got a really lovely Email when leaving a job, and sent a generic response as I was busy. We saw each other and I got a cold shoulder a while later . For years I thought she was being unreasonable . Then I asked her what was going on. She said she put hours into the email as she wanted to demonstrate that I was a good colleague . And yet I made her feel like shit. A lot to reflect on |
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Just because theyre blood doesnt mean they need to be in your life |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
where the wild roses grow |
Sharing size packs of bistro crisps - are not actually for sharing.
Ditto with that big assed toblorone, thats actually designed for a 2hr movie |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
Begin with the presumption that most people nowadays are selfish, self-interested acquisitive, shallow, vain, narcissistic and insincere little s####, who will use, abuse, disappoint and exploit you.
From that low point, if you find there is verifiable evidence to the contrary, count your blessings, and build from there.
Otherwise, prepare yourself to be discarded after having been love-bombed and incrementally devalued.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be thankful for what you've got, not resentful for what you haven't got - that way misery lies
Other people's opinions don't really matter much in the long run, so don't waste time worrying about what they think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't allow anyone-no matter who they are-to treat you badly. (Allow a few mistakes but continued bad behaviour-NO) Only say yes to somebody/to doing something if you really mean yes! Learn to say no and don't feel bad about it. Learn to listen to others rather than having to constantly interrupt and chat away about your stuff. Sex with strangers can be fun in the moment but often you feel empty afterwards!
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Go with your gut feeling.
Let things flow where possible |
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That Alton Towers isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
"That Alton Towers isn’t all it’s cracked up to be."
True. And some people have been fortunate to get out alive, albeit with devastating life-changing injuries, because of the incompetence of the ride operators. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That Alton Towers isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.
True. And some people have been fortunate to get out alive, albeit with devastating life-changing injuries, because of the incompetence of the ride operators. "
Smiley face.. really? |
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If you want money you have to work |
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Never condemn anyone until you've walked a mile in their shoes.
That way, when you do, you're a mile away and you've got their shoes. |
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By *anabecdTV/TS
over a year ago
Limerick/ tipp |
Never get pressured into doing something or saying something that goes against you gut feeling |
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Jehovas witness get really confused when you counter all there arguments with Star wars quotes |
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We are all dispensable. Get yourself a good work life balance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jehovas witness get really confused when you counter all there arguments with Star wars quotes "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That what other people think of me is none of my business. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trust no one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You earn respect
Some Fabbers should note that qoute |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"That what other people think of me is none of my business. "
I like that...would make
things easier in life sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That what other people think of me is none of my business.
I like that...would make
things easier in life sometimes "
Definitely |
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You can’t waste your time on people that are negative in your life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can’t waste your time on people that are negative in your life. "
Very true, amazing pictures by the way. |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"Trust no-one..."
No, trust a few with a bit, fewer with more, no-one with everything……
Trust people with what you can trust them with or what you can afford to loose….
Do you always check your change in every shop before you leave the counter?
No, probably not, because you trust the cashier to have given you your correct change…….
You see, even if you don’t realise it, you trust people every day to one extent or another, even perfect strangers……
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"You can’t waste your time on people that are negative in your life.
Very true, amazing pictures by the way. "
Thanks for the compliment, yours are as well, next time I’m back in Cork I will say hello. |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
Forgive quickly, kiss slowly….
Be mindful of others, particularly anonymous others, you don’t know what they’ve been through or are going through….
Be kind….
Be thankful….
Keep your life and your problems in perspective, you have no idea how lucky you really are…..
Be kind to yourself, even if it’s only occasionally…….
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"We are all dispensable. Get yourself a good work life balance."
Very true. When we retire we ll be replaced the next day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trust no-one..."
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
Gods Own Country |
Allways wipe your arse downward |
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That you only have 1 life
Embrace it
Live for today
Pray for tomorrow
Don’t have regrets
Wish it dream it do it
Don’t let people hold ye back
Be you
Smile laugh love
Orgasm frequently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It ain't personal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The ones who seek constant approval and have something to say about everything are usual the ones you need to avoid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love Yourself. |
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Trust your gut instinct and always be kind  |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
Carpe Diem - life is too short
Be kind and respect others
Always trust your gut
Be yourself and never loose your integrity
Where there is a will there is a way
The truth hurts
B x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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S*hit happens and life goes on so get up and get on with it. |
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Keep things to yourself. Happiness last longer the less people know about your business |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trust no-one..."
This right here |
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To love many and trust few.
Always paddle your own canoe,
For smaller boats will stay near shore,
While bigger boats they venture more. |
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"Fart if ya need to fart "
Just make sure you're on the bog for a wet one |
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"There is no spoon "
My world has just fallen apart |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Fart if ya need to fart
Just make sure you're on the bog for a wet one "
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"Fart if ya need to fart
Just make sure you're on the bog for a wet one
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I knew you'd be acknowledging this - so predictable  ...Sorry |
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"There is no spoon
My world has just fallen apart "
If only there was some handy utensil to scoop up the pieces |
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"There is no spoon
My world has just fallen apart
If only there was some handy utensil to scoop up the pieces "
I can think of a few |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two people can look at exactly the same thing and see it very differently.
This can be both an absolute pain in the hole and also one of the joys of human interaction sometimes simultaneously |
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Always look up. That's where the snipers are. |
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"Two people can look at exactly the same thing and see it very differently.
This can be both an absolute pain in the hole and also one of the joys of human interaction sometimes simultaneously "
Well it looks big when I look at it in the mirror  |
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"Two people can look at exactly the same thing and see it very differently.
This can be both an absolute pain in the hole and also one of the joys of human interaction sometimes simultaneously "
Are you trying to tell us you're colourblind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't be anyone's doormat..your parents didn't bring you into this world to have others walk all over you.
Be true to yourself , trust your instincts , put your own thoughts , feelings and well being first , if you are broken or empty you can't give to others.
Be kind , caring and respectful.
Oh ya..one more thing ..make sure you get to see AC/DC in concert |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That you only have 1 life
Embrace it
Live for today
Pray for tomorrow
Don’t have regrets
Wish it dream it do it
Don’t let people hold ye back
Be you
Smile laugh love
Orgasm frequently "
So many varied opinions but above is probably a good synopsis of them all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you can’t afford it twice, you can’t afford it ! |
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Happiness is fleeting don't try and hold on to it |
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I learned once that my father "didn't come up the river on a bicycle".
I never really thought he did but he was fairly adamant about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont eat yellow snow and never ever stand up in a canoe. |
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Don’t be a puddle .. ever ..
Be the ocean
People walk through puddles ..
Like they’re nothing
Oceans destroy f**king cities. |
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"Trust no-one..."
It is a sad statement of the world we live in but it’s also a very true statement and it’s a lesson I learned many years ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That you only have 1 life
Embrace it
Live for today
Pray for tomorrow
Don’t have regrets
Wish it dream it do it
Don’t let people hold ye back
Be you
Smile laugh love
Orgasm frequently "
Wise words…. Esp the last one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go after your dreams always "
I keep dreaming I have no pants on in very inappropriate public places |
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over a year ago
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By *eepixieWoman
over a year ago
belfast |
Life’s too short for regrets, regret nothing enjoy everything & live your life like YOU want to, not how you’re expected to or told to. |
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By *100Man
over a year ago
Essex |
Wish I had learnt how sexy ts’s were at an earlier age |
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By *onnrodMan
over a year ago
moira |
Live every day like it's your last
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But pay your mortgage just in case... |
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By *ab2Man
over a year ago
Manchester/Dublin |
1.Never ever ever give up, Keep on punching no matter what your up against your only defeated if you give up, so dont give up,
2. Love with all your heart. In the end, love is the only thing that matters. |
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Have no expectations and you will never be disappointed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That life goes on |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"Happiness is fleeting don't try and hold on to it"
Yes agree. A meaningful life is a better aim to strive for than a happy one IMO |
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By *j69funCouple
over a year ago
kildare |
There is no such thing as normal , so stop trying to b . b yourself . |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Listen to my gut and trust myself. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
Never to join in on a covid thread |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"Never to join in on a covid thread "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Live each day as it was your last.... Have no regrets just make fantastic memories... Never judge anyone no one knows what a person is going through in life...
Be kind |
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"Never to join in on a covid thread
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Where’s the lmao emoji when you need one |
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There's only one way of life... and that's your own
(Levellers c1991) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That dark days/bad spells do pass, and that your another day closer to a brighter day.
Also not to get concerned about other people's thoughts, opinions etc. Forge your own path. |
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By *OCONO5Couple
over a year ago
Sensual Center |
Dont wear your wife's thong |
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"Spit isn't lube. Mrsf"
Salty tears make the best lube |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never turn my back on Michael McCarthy |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Never turn my back on Michael McCarthy"
He was really after your front anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Time with loved ones is precious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The capacity of people to justify their actions is both scary and impressive |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"The capacity of people to justify their actions is both scary and impressive"
when two actions or ideas are not psychologically consistent with each other, people do all in their power to change them until they become consistent. The discomfort is triggered by the person's belief clashing with new information perceived, wherein the individual tries to find a way to resolve the contradiction to reduce his or her discomfort |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do a bit of whatever makes you happy every day. Do not procrastinate on happiness. And happiness comes from within not from external sources … there a theme here… be happy peeps Lilred x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The capacity of people to justify their actions is both scary and impressive
when two actions or ideas are not psychologically consistent with each other, people do all in their power to change them until they become consistent. The discomfort is triggered by the person's belief clashing with new information perceived, wherein the individual tries to find a way to resolve the contradiction to reduce his or her discomfort"
Cognitive dissonance can be the cause but not always. They aren't the same thing |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
The greatest satisfaction in life comes from working for the benefit of others who genuinely needs one's assistance; the biggest disappointment is being hoodwinked into giving to others who are takers! |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
"The greatest satisfaction in life comes from working for the benefit of others who genuinely needs one's assistance; the biggest disappointment is being hoodwinked into giving to others who are takers! "
Yes it’s one of the 3 paths to happiness in positive psychology I remember reading |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always difficult though to work for the benefit of people who turn out to be idiots! |
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over a year ago
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And if you're really into sex ...have as much of it and as often as you can when you can cause that too.. like a lot of things in life ..is totally dependent on your health. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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Be genuinely grateful for what you have; there will always be others who are much better off, and much worse off, than yourself.
Never compare yourself to others; it is the main route to misery and discontentment.
A good brisk walk, or a run, clears your mind! |
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bonds that you've made by choice are more important than the people that you are bound to by the water of the womb. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That we are only here for such a brief time in the grand scheme of things. It's a trillion to one shot any if us are here. And we get 70 or 80 years if we are lucky to try and experience all there is. Just for the hell of it. Why not enjoy it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't ignore red flags
Never ignore what's right in front of you then wonder why it went wrong.
Almost everybody has an agenda.
Trust nobody with your heart. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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Life is astonishingly brief; make the most of every day, every hour.
If it isn't working out, move on asap.
Sexual intimacy is an enriching experience, to be maximised. |
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Have no expectations, that way you will never be disappointed if it doesn't come to fruition |
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"Trust no-one..."
100% number one
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never judge a book by its cover |
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"Flushable moist toilet wipes "
I wouldn't trust those either |
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"Trust no-one... 100% number one"
Question everything |
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By *he MickMan
over a year ago
southside |
You're only here once , make the best of it . |
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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago
Enfield & Dublin |
What someone else thinks about you is none of your business. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trust no-one fully. Small trust "bubbles" is the answer that way if someone does betray you you'll know who it was.
Parents shouldn't outlive thier kids.
Life goes on.
The world doesn't stop for anyone or anything.
Do what makes YOU smile even if it's for a second do it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Live life to the full. Go with your gut. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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Once you stop caring or being involved in drama from others in your life such as family, things become much better.
As long as someone doesn't physically harm you or steal from you then their actions or words are irrelevant and they should be ignored. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
"Life is astonishingly brief; make the most of every day, every hour.
If it isn't working out, move on asap.
Sexual intimacy is an enriching experience, to be maximised. "
Truth |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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The best quote I have ever read that illustrates how on should prioritise aspects of everyone's short life is the following:
"What is urgent is rarely important, and what is important is rarely urgent."
There will be hundreds of seemingly urgent issues to deal with daily, but selectively focus with foresight and determination on what really matters: trustworthy friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never trust a fart "
And never pass a bathroom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Open your eyes and ears. And keep your motuh shut. The best schooling you can get in life |
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If it won't matter in 10 years, it probably doesn't matter now. |
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Always make your own opinion or judgement of someone. I’ve learned that especially at work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't knock it til you've tried it. |
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By *man79Man
over a year ago
newry dundalk. warrenpoint |
Not to give a single fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every action requires an over reaction and if you make a mistake it IS the end of the world
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once trust is broken it can't be repaired.. |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
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Surround yourself with people who make you happy. People who make you laugh
Karl Marx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your friends your pocket. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
Be grateful for the positive aspects of your life; daily! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Especially oneself I’ve found!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happiness is from within not external
Learn to let go
Be your own best friend
Live in the present
Etc etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Leave here and accept my lot. |
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By *abeWMan
over a year ago
Kilkenny |
Keep learning.
Respect people until they lose yours
Compliment when you can (without being weird/creepy)
Book your flights in an incognito tab so companies don't hike up the prices by looking at your history. |
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