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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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At what stage does this statement raise a red flag on here?
And are their rules against people flat out asking for money from someone on here? Genuine question.
Not going to name the profile, but was messaged by someone who claimed they liked to be treated like a princess and message number 2 flat out asked for a form of payment if I was a genuine guy. Verified seasoned profile too. And no I will not disclose name to anyone other than a moderator.
Have messages to prove it and yes there is no hidden context. This kind of carry on doesn't sit right with me, and should be rightly dealt with by moderators. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did you report the profile? "
Yes I have, messages to back this up aswell. See what happens I guess. I have no doubt this has been tried by same person before.
Possibly some guys took up the "offer" aswell but each to their own. |
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"At what stage does this statement raise a red flag on here?
And are their rules against people flat out asking for money from someone on here? Genuine question.
Not going to name the profile, but was messaged by someone who claimed they liked to be treated like a princess and message number 2 flat out asked for a form of payment if I was a genuine guy. Verified seasoned profile too. And no I will not disclose name to anyone other than a moderator.
Have messages to prove it and yes there is no hidden context. This kind of carry on doesn't sit right with me, and should be rightly dealt with by moderators. "
Yes it's against the rules here. I wouldn't be getting too upset about it. She's just trying to make a few quid. I wouldn't use the services myself but I understand it. Her body her choice. I never really understand the strong responses on this. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I'm sure people have their reasons to do it just like when I've been offered money to meet someone. I've no interest in that so the conversation stops right there. While yes it can be a bit annoying it's like anything else on here some will chance their luck.
Yes asking for money is against site rules but so are other things like using pictures that aren't your own but it doesn't stop people doing it on here.
By what you have said you exchanged all of two messages with this person it's not like you had invested a lot of your time chatting to them so I don't know why it's such a big deal just block and report at least they were up front early and you didn't waste any more time on them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm happy enough if someone wants to treat me like a princess it sounds delightful
Will a female cock do lol.  "
I think we have very different versions of disney+ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm happy enough if someone wants to treat me like a princess it sounds delightful
Will a female cock do lol.
I think we have very different versions of disney+"
Lol |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Is a pillow princess allowed? Asking for a friend.
Was waiting on a woman to ask that question
Where's the fun in that 
Ahh we all have times where we need to just lay back and be pampered. "
And sometimes its nice to just do the pampering |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"Is a pillow princess allowed? Asking for a friend.
Was waiting on a woman to ask that question
Where's the fun in that
Ahh we all have times where we need to just lay back and be pampered. "
To true  |
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We get turned on by this and have done in in the past. It's not the money it's the thought that a guy wants you so badly he will pay. Herself loves it. She can act like a total slut because in that moment she is one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We get turned on by this and have done in in the past. It's not the money it's the thought that a guy wants you so badly he will pay. Herself loves it. She can act like a total slut because in that moment she is one. "
So I'm guessing you guys offered a full refund after the fact? 
Turned on by the fact a guy would pay, sounds well dodgy with all due respect. Handiest way ever of legitimising seeking payment. |
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"We get turned on by this and have done in in the past. It's not the money it's the thought that a guy wants you so badly he will pay. Herself loves it. She can act like a total slut because in that moment she is one.
So I'm guessing you guys offered a full refund after the fact?
Turned on by the fact a guy would pay, sounds well dodgy with all due respect. Handiest way ever of legitimising seeking payment. "
We've found it's best not to judge people on fab or indeed the world outside of swinging. Everyone had different fantasies and desires. It's the eclectic mix of kink makes it special |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We get turned on by this and have done in in the past. It's not the money it's the thought that a guy wants you so badly he will pay. Herself loves it. She can act like a total slut because in that moment she is one.
So I'm guessing you guys offered a full refund after the fact?
Turned on by the fact a guy would pay, sounds well dodgy with all due respect. Handiest way ever of legitimising seeking payment.
We've found it's best not to judge people on fab or indeed the world outside of swinging. Everyone had different fantasies and desires. It's the eclectic mix of kink makes it special "
Fair game to judge someone if they flat out ask me for money. A desire to get a few quid off you isn't what I would call part of an eclectic mix of kinks. There's a reason is against the rules. |
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"We get turned on by this and have done in in the past. It's not the money it's the thought that a guy wants you so badly he will pay. Herself loves it. She can act like a total slut because in that moment she is one.
So I'm guessing you guys offered a full refund after the fact?
Turned on by the fact a guy would pay, sounds well dodgy with all due respect. Handiest way ever of legitimising seeking payment.
We've found it's best not to judge people on fab or indeed the world outside of swinging. Everyone had different fantasies and desires. It's the eclectic mix of kink makes it special
Fair game to judge someone if they flat out ask me for money. A desire to get a few quid off you isn't what I would call part of an eclectic mix of kinks. There's a reason is against the rules. "
Can you explain why you think
this is fair game? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We get turned on by this and have done in in the past. It's not the money it's the thought that a guy wants you so badly he will pay. Herself loves it. She can act like a total slut because in that moment she is one.
So I'm guessing you guys offered a full refund after the fact?
Turned on by the fact a guy would pay, sounds well dodgy with all due respect. Handiest way ever of legitimising seeking payment.
We've found it's best not to judge people on fab or indeed the world outside of swinging. Everyone had different fantasies and desires. It's the eclectic mix of kink makes it special
Fair game to judge someone if they flat out ask me for money. A desire to get a few quid off you isn't what I would call part of an eclectic mix of kinks. There's a reason is against the rules.
Can you explain why you think
this is fair game?"
Would have thought judgement is fair game on this site period. Too tall, too short, not enough body hair, too much body hair, too pushy, too timid etc... None as bad as asking someone for money and dressing it up as some kind of kink. |
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I'm still trying to drill down here as I don't really understand this attitude. Providing services for money is done all the time without condemnation. Masseuses, sportspeople, physiotherapists, chiropractors, chiropodists etc etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm still trying to drill down here as I don't really understand this attitude. Providing services for money is done all the time without condemnation. Masseuses, sportspeople, physiotherapists, chiropractors, chiropodists etc etc.
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Its basically the fact that someone is forcing their pay kink into conversations straight away. Its like any other message basically. If someone opens with something like that I'm gonna assume they care very little about communication and consent.
To be fair I don't really see an issue with it as long as its communicated. Like we see with what you described, Here however it seems they don't really care how OP feels about and that doesn't sit right with lots of people. |
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"I'm still trying to drill down here as I don't really understand this attitude. Providing services for money is done all the time without condemnation. Masseuses, sportspeople, physiotherapists, chiropractors, chiropodists etc etc.
Its basically the fact that someone is forcing their pay kink into conversations straight away. Its like any other message basically. If someone opens with something like that I'm gonna assume they care very little about communication and consent.
To be fair I don't really see an issue with it as long as its communicated. Like we see with what you described, Here however it seems they don't really care how OP feels about and that doesn't sit right with lots of people. "
Is talking about a kink in an initial message with another adult, or one public forum a breach of consent? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm still trying to drill down here as I don't really understand this attitude. Providing services for money is done all the time without condemnation. Masseuses, sportspeople, physiotherapists, chiropractors, chiropodists etc etc.
Its basically the fact that someone is forcing their pay kink into conversations straight away. Its like any other message basically. If someone opens with something like that I'm gonna assume they care very little about communication and consent.
To be fair I don't really see an issue with it as long as its communicated. Like we see with what you described, Here however it seems they don't really care how OP feels about and that doesn't sit right with lots of people.
Is talking about a kink in an initial message with another adult, or one public forum a breach of consent? "
If the other person isn't aware of what they are doing then yeah I think so. Don't know about breach of consent but like OP it wouldn't sit right with me either.
I don't mind having kink conversations and I don't think anything is of limits personally. But if someone messaged me regarding their kink and took no time to ask me if it was okay I would have an issue. |
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"I'm still trying to drill down here as I don't really understand this attitude. Providing services for money is done all the time without condemnation. Masseuses, sportspeople, physiotherapists, chiropractors, chiropodists etc etc.
Its basically the fact that someone is forcing their pay kink into conversations straight away. Its like any other message basically. If someone opens with something like that I'm gonna assume they care very little about communication and consent.
To be fair I don't really see an issue with it as long as its communicated. Like we see with what you described, Here however it seems they don't really care how OP feels about and that doesn't sit right with lots of people.
Is talking about a kink in an initial message with another adult, or one public forum a breach of consent?
If the other person isn't aware of what they are doing then yeah I think so. Don't know about breach of consent but like OP it wouldn't sit right with me either.
I don't mind having kink conversations and I don't think anything is of limits personally. But if someone messaged me regarding their kink and took no time to ask me if it was okay I would have an issue. "
I wonder do you react with the same vigor to others who talk about their other kinks (without asking for consent first) in messages and here in the forum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm still trying to drill down here as I don't really understand this attitude. Providing services for money is done all the time without condemnation. Masseuses, sportspeople, physiotherapists, chiropractors, chiropodists etc etc.
Its basically the fact that someone is forcing their pay kink into conversations straight away. Its like any other message basically. If someone opens with something like that I'm gonna assume they care very little about communication and consent.
To be fair I don't really see an issue with it as long as its communicated. Like we see with what you described, Here however it seems they don't really care how OP feels about and that doesn't sit right with lots of people.
Is talking about a kink in an initial message with another adult, or one public forum a breach of consent?
If the other person isn't aware of what they are doing then yeah I think so. Don't know about breach of consent but like OP it wouldn't sit right with me either.
I don't mind having kink conversations and I don't think anything is of limits personally. But if someone messaged me regarding their kink and took no time to ask me if it was okay I would have an issue.
I wonder do you react with the same vigor to others who talk about their other kinks (without asking for consent first) in messages and here in the forum."
I think the forum is an open book. People aren't being asked directly. They volunteer their participation.
I had something similar happen to me not but a week ago with a woman looking for basically some weird kink to do with my sister. I shut that down also and pointed out for being out of line since offcourse they never asked if it was okay, just asked really inappropriate questions. Needless to say she got the report and block. |
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