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over a year ago
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hey how’s everybody?? i’m looking to see if anyone has any suggestions on how to bring up the idea of swinging with my wife ,,, she’s usually quiet shy if you call it that when it comes to sex, but she does have her horny streaks and starting to enjoy herself a bit more,, i just know she’d love the party side of things but how to bring it up i’m lost lol so any suggestions,, hopefully lady’s advice not stupid comments from guys thanks ; ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hey how’s everybody?? i’m looking to see if anyone has any suggestions on how to bring up the idea of swinging with my wife ,,, she’s usually quiet shy if you call it that when it comes to sex, but she does have her horny streaks and starting to enjoy herself a bit more,, i just know she’d love the party side of things but how to bring it up i’m lost lol so any suggestions,, hopefully lady’s advice not stupid comments from guys thanks ; ) "
Please, when you figure that one out will you let me know! |
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Maybe start of with pillow talk. Introducing a scenario of a threesome or whatever during foreplay and see where it leads. If she does express an interest be ready for the fact she may just enjoy the fantasy as opposed to putting it into action. Dont pressure her into acting anythng out as it would lead to a lot of resentment.if she does want to try it u could always try a club such as vanilla. Let her see what happens, theres no obligation to play with anyone. Never assume you know what she wants or likes. She does decide to go ahead with something talk, talk and then more talk. Establish your boundaries and what you are comfortable/not comfortable with. |
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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago
louth, Ireland |
"Maybe start of with pillow talk. Introducing a scenario of a threesome or whatever during foreplay and see where it leads. If she does express an interest be ready for the fact she may just enjoy the fantasy as opposed to putting it into action. Dont pressure her into acting anythng out as it would lead to a lot of resentment.if she does want to try it u could always try a club such as vanilla. Let her see what happens, theres no obligation to play with anyone. Never assume you know what she wants or likes. She does decide to go ahead with something talk, talk and then more talk. Establish your boundaries and what you are comfortable/not comfortable with. "
Exactly this  |
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"Maybe start of with pillow talk. Introducing a scenario of a threesome or whatever during foreplay and see where it leads. If she does express an interest be ready for the fact she may just enjoy the fantasy as opposed to putting it into action. Dont pressure her into acting anythng out as it would lead to a lot of resentment.if she does want to try it u could always try a club such as vanilla. Let her see what happens, theres no obligation to play with anyone. Never assume you know what she wants or likes. She does decide to go ahead with something talk, talk and then more talk. Establish your boundaries and what you are comfortable/not comfortable with. "
Exactly this
Also, does she enjoy porn? I think that in itself should give an indication. Good luck. Mrs |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
dublin |
"Wife, this is swinging!
Swinging, this is wife!...
He doesn’t want any silly comments from guys ! I have had to restrain myself "
He said he didn't want it. Doesn't mean I didn't think it was worth pointing out  . Sometimes the answer is just staring you in the face and you just need it pointed out.
Surely you just need to introduce it into the conversation in some way. Be it through watching something on TV or showing her something you read online etc. There are many ways to bring up a subject in conversation I would have thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe start of with pillow talk. Introducing a scenario of a threesome or whatever during foreplay and see where it leads. If she does express an interest be ready for the fact she may just enjoy the fantasy as opposed to putting it into action. Dont pressure her into acting anythng out as it would lead to a lot of resentment.if she does want to try it u could always try a club such as vanilla. Let her see what happens, theres no obligation to play with anyone. Never assume you know what she wants or likes. She does decide to go ahead with something talk, talk and then more talk. Establish your boundaries and what you are comfortable/not comfortable with.
Exactly this
Also, does she enjoy porn? I think that in itself should give an indication. Good luck. Mrs "
I know it’s not fair anymore even suggesting it. And no, she doesn’t like porn, not a chance, and you’re right as it’s a great indicator. Is it worth a breakdown, no, absolutely not in my opinion.
Having said that I’m sure she would love the social side, but I’ve left it and I’m a lucky guy to have my lot. (Before ye ask, I’m here to partially fill my fantasies) |
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See things from her point of view. You know her so hopefully you know what turns her on. Discuss both of your fantasies together. Get her to open up in a chat. Work towards fulfilling HER fantasies. Tell her what's in it for her.
Most MOST importantly. If she still isn't into the idea, then drop it. Some just aren't into this. |
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"Maybe start of with pillow talk. Introducing a scenario of a threesome or whatever during foreplay and see where it leads. If she does express an interest be ready for the fact she may just enjoy the fantasy as opposed to putting it into action. Dont pressure her into acting anythng out as it would lead to a lot of resentment.if she does want to try it u could always try a club such as vanilla. Let her see what happens, theres no obligation to play with anyone. Never assume you know what she wants or likes. She does decide to go ahead with something talk, talk and then more talk. Establish your boundaries and what you are comfortable/not comfortable with. "
Excellent advice ! |
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