So how many times is it acceptable to be called a time waster,a fake c#$t and someone who is just on here to be a keyboard warrior before you decide you are done replying to one person?
I try to be fair to all and give them the benefit of the doubt but this same person keeps going off on one when I don't reply straight away even though it has been explained to this person I am not always on because real life comes first. Is it any wonder some on here cannot be bothered replying and this is not exclusive to women,men and couples get it too. It is an adult site can people not behave like the adults they claim to be? |
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"So how many times is it acceptable to be called a time waster,a fake c#$t and someone who is just on here to be a keyboard warrior before you decide you are done replying to one person?
I try to be fair to all and give them the benefit of the doubt but this same person keeps going off on one when I don't reply straight away even though it has been explained to this person I am not always on because real life comes first. Is it any wonder some on here cannot be bothered replying and this is not exclusive to women,men and couples get it too. It is an adult site can people not behave like the adults they claim to be?"
Only one chance for that shite behaviour. If he behaves like that over text imagine the hassle you'd have if you met him  |
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I don't give people second chances online anymore. Someone in real life that I know then maybe but a random person on a website no way.
The first time they go off on one for any reason, block them and move on. |
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"They are blocked now but I was just wondering why people act like that,I just don't get it I cannot and would not want to be on here 24/7 I do have stuff to do like everybody else  "
That is one of those 6 million dollar question |
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"They are blocked now but I was just wondering why people act like that,I just don't get it I cannot and would not want to be on here 24/7 I do have stuff to do like everybody else "
Yep same here. I dip in and out during the day if I’ve a spare minute but yes, life does go on outside of Fab.
Lovely profile by the way.  |
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"They are blocked now but I was just wondering why people act like that,I just don't get it I cannot and would not want to be on here 24/7 I do have stuff to do like everybody else "
I wish I could answer that!!
It seems its not just here, people in abusive controlling relationships all over the place.
Just the little bit that you've written about him puts him squarely in this category.
Its such a contradiction of what swinging is in my understanding of it anyway.
You've dodged a bullet by blocking him.
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"So how many times is it acceptable to be called a time waster,a fake c#$t and someone who is just on here to be a keyboard warrior before you decide you are done replying to one person?
I try to be fair to all and give them the benefit of the doubt but this same person keeps going off on one when I don't reply straight away even though it has been explained to this person I am not always on because real life comes first. Is it any wonder some on here cannot be bothered replying and this is not exclusive to women,men and couples get it too. It is an adult site can people not behave like the adults they claim to be?"
Fair play Fiery, you've more patience than me
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"Is this a trick question?"
No its honestly not as I said I try to be fair to everybody and always give the benefit of the doubt. I try to be polite and friendly to everyone,maybe thats where I am going wrong |
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Some people just dont know the meaning of the word "no" or cant take rejection, probably bad life experience and think they can abuse someone now by sitting behind a keyboard, totally uncalled for we're all here for a bit of fun and it costs nothing to be nice
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"Is this a trick question?
No its honestly not as I said I try to be fair to everybody and always give the benefit of the doubt. I try to be polite and friendly to everyone,maybe thats where I am going wrong "
Yep that's you problem right there. Expect people here to be cunts, and then be nicely surprised if and when they aren't. |
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"They are blocked now but I was just wondering why people act like that,I just don't get it I cannot and would not want to be on here 24/7 I do have stuff to do like everybody else "
They're gobshites who don't respect people, time or boundaries |
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By *uanpacMan
over a year ago
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The second anyone is anything but respectful say good luck and thanks...  I take the piss on here a little as pure joking and messing but id never ever get abusive or personal with anyone...number 1 because I see myself as an actual adult and number 2 we've no idea what any single person is actually dealing with.. |
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"Is this a trick question?
No its honestly not as I said I try to be fair to everybody and always give the benefit of the doubt. I try to be polite and friendly to everyone,maybe thats where I am going wrong
Yep that's you problem right there. Expect people here to be cunts, and then be nicely surprised if and when they aren't."
Ooohhhh Where's the humanity  |
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"Is this a trick question?
No its honestly not as I said I try to be fair to everybody and always give the benefit of the doubt. I try to be polite and friendly to everyone,maybe thats where I am going wrong "
Ya if you feel the need to have a rant about it your giving too much of a benefit... |
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"Is this a trick question?
No its honestly not as I said I try to be fair to everybody and always give the benefit of the doubt. I try to be polite and friendly to everyone,maybe thats where I am going wrong
Yep that's you problem right there. Expect people here to be cunts, and then be nicely surprised if and when they aren't.
Ooohhhh Where's the humanity "
Flushed down the toilet  |
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"They are blocked now but I was just wondering why people act like that,I just don't get it I cannot and would not want to be on here 24/7 I do have stuff to do like everybody else "
It could be one of many reasons like insecurity, sense of entitlement, narcissism or many more. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Before I use to give people more than one chance and they always did it again now I don't .The minute they start getting stroppy cos I haven't answered a message quick enough or whatever else I tell them I'm done chatting with them .If they persist on messaging I block. I've no interest in being someone's verbal punch bag cos they are in a mood . |
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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago
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"They are blocked now but I was just wondering why people act like that,I just don't get it I cannot and would not want to be on here 24/7 I do have stuff to do like everybody else "
The ego is a powerful thing! It's constantly seeking validation and acknowledgement.
Sex is the ultimate validation for the ego while denial of sex is the ultimate invalidation. When the ego is invalidated it attacks in a bid to get a reaction which is just a different form of validation. |
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