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By *vpamela OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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I like to dress as fem and slutty as I can but unfortunately this can result in the odd occasion where someone I'm not attracted to who's had too much to drink repeatedly hitting on me. How do you (I'm guessing mainly ladies) deal with it? |
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"I like to dress as fem and slutty as I can but unfortunately this can result in the odd occasion where someone I'm not attracted to who's had too much to drink repeatedly hitting on me. How do you (I'm guessing mainly ladies) deal with it?"
Never had that problem , |
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"I like to dress as fem and slutty as I can but unfortunately this can result in the odd occasion where someone I'm not attracted to who's had too much to drink repeatedly hitting on me. How do you (I'm guessing mainly ladies) deal with it?"
I don't really have that issue either. But I'd let anyone know politely and clearly that I don't appreciate their attention if I'm not interested. And no means no, regardless of who you are!!! Anything after that constitutes harassment.
If necessary I relocate to different area/seating and/or make a complaint to staff if it's an establishment of sorts you are frequenting where this happens...
All the best using confidence and determination to ward off the undesirables OP  |
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By *vpamela OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"I like to dress as fem and slutty as I can but unfortunately this can result in the odd occasion where someone I'm not attracted to who's had too much to drink repeatedly hitting on me. How do you (I'm guessing mainly ladies) deal with it?
I don't really have that issue either. But I'd let anyone know politely and clearly that I don't appreciate their attention if I'm not interested. And no means no, regardless of who you are!!! Anything after that constitutes harassment.
If necessary I relocate to different area/seating and/or make a complaint to staff if it's an establishment of sorts you are frequenting where this happens...
All the best using confidence and determination to ward off the undesirables OP "
I try to avoid being direct for fear of offending but none of my subtle hints seem to work. |
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"I like to dress as fem and slutty as I can but unfortunately this can result in the odd occasion where someone I'm not attracted to who's had too much to drink repeatedly hitting on me. How do you (I'm guessing mainly ladies) deal with it?
I don't really have that issue either. But I'd let anyone know politely and clearly that I don't appreciate their attention if I'm not interested. And no means no, regardless of who you are!!! Anything after that constitutes harassment.
If necessary I relocate to different area/seating and/or make a complaint to staff if it's an establishment of sorts you are frequenting where this happens...
All the best using confidence and determination to ward off the undesirables OP
I try to avoid being direct for fear of offending but none of my subtle hints seem to work."
I understand...it's very much the Irish way - subtle hints. I'd be inclined to start with subtle hints. But if they're not understood and you really don't want the attention, then you're better off making it very clear - offence caused or not. Because obviously the attention you're getting is making you uncomfortable. So let that be known and live the life going out dressed all feminine and slutty as you should damn well be allowed to!!! That's my opinion anyway. |
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By *vpamela OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"I like to dress as fem and slutty as I can but unfortunately this can result in the odd occasion where someone I'm not attracted to who's had too much to drink repeatedly hitting on me. How do you (I'm guessing mainly ladies) deal with it?
I don't really have that issue either. But I'd let anyone know politely and clearly that I don't appreciate their attention if I'm not interested. And no means no, regardless of who you are!!! Anything after that constitutes harassment.
If necessary I relocate to different area/seating and/or make a complaint to staff if it's an establishment of sorts you are frequenting where this happens...
All the best using confidence and determination to ward off the undesirables OP
I try to avoid being direct for fear of offending but none of my subtle hints seem to work.
I understand...it's very much the Irish way - subtle hints. I'd be inclined to start with subtle hints. But if they're not understood and you really don't want the attention, then you're better off making it very clear - offence caused or not. Because obviously the attention you're getting is making you uncomfortable. So let that be known and live the life going out dressed all feminine and slutty as you should damn well be allowed to!!! That's my opinion anyway. "
The world should really be more femine and slutty!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just be honest and say I'm not interested and if he still annoys me I speak to one of their friends and ask them to sort their mate out as my next option is the bouncer.  "
What if the bouncer isn't his type though |
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By *uanpacMan
over a year ago
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No matter the setting..if someone is bothering you or you're not interested say it straight out..if they persist seek help..no time for that shit.. I always appreciated the ones that would mail back and say " you're not what I'm looking for" or in person say " not interested thanks"..any bit of a decent human would wish you well and move on.. rejection shouldn't be feared, everyone has a preference..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On Fab nights out I don't have this problem but I was in my local pub at the weekend for Halloween and the amount of times men were randomly trying to feel me up was ridiculous. I told one very bluntly he was making me feel very uncomfortable and he was like ah just messing no harm done take the compliment like it was my fault for not being ok having my ass felt up. |
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"I like to dress as fem and slutty as I can but unfortunately this can result in the odd occasion where someone I'm not attracted to who's had too much to drink repeatedly hitting on me. How do you (I'm guessing mainly ladies) deal with it?"
Easily. Just tell them to fuck off. Straight and to the point. If they can't take a hint what's the point in being polite. |
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