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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
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Are you more likely to hook up with someone you find physically attractive but whose personality doesn’t match yours (or is frankly a bit of an eejit), or someone who you find funny or interesting but whose looks aren’t typically what you go for ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you more likely to hook up with someone you find physically attractive but whose personality doesn’t match yours (or is frankly a bit of an eejit), or someone who you find funny or interesting but whose looks aren’t typically what you go for ? "
It's always looks first. Then personality. |
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Personality is more important as long as there is some level of physical attraction. Sexual compatibility transcends both physical attraction and personality and is a seperate entity. Sometimes you just know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There absolutely must be physical attraction from my perspective however if I'm not also drawn to their personality it won't matter how attractive I find them. The reverse is equally true...we can get on like a house on fire but if there's no physical attraction we won't be riding.
It's not an either/or choice for me...it's both or nothing
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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Physical attraction first but personality always plays a bigger part especially on here, there are some with amazing pictures and pristine profiles but there really ugly on the inside that shows more by the way they conduct themselves on here....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wonder if this is very different on fab vs everyday life for people my main physical attraction comes from someone's face so the fab experiance definitely pushes me more towards their personality as a jumping off point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me sometimes it can be a mixture of both. A good personality can be a very attractive quality on an intellectual level but I do think there has to be some physical attraction there as well. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
On here yes attraction to a profile will draw you in at the start but if they have a personality that I don't like I lose interest fast. I need someone I can have a good laugh with and get on with otherwise what's the point the sex will be just meh at best.
In real life it's actually pretty much the same and I have dated guys in the past where I wasn't attracted to them initially but the more I got to know them the more I liked them.
It's even better if you find someone who has both . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately it's looks that catch our eye intially...Beauty goes way deeper than the exterior looks as we all know. An extremely good looking person can become instantly ugly if their personality stinks... |
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By *rankbMan
over a year ago
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I have often found that I am attracted to personality and if we click, I find them physically attractive (except that one person I met where all was going well till she undressed and the very sweaty smell turned me off!). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unfortunately it's looks that catch our eye intially...Beauty goes way deeper than the exterior looks as we all know. An extremely good looking person can become instantly ugly if their personality stinks..."
That is very true but is it the same i reverse.... if i wasnt physically attracted then i dont think there is any rescuing it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unfortunately it's looks that catch our eye intially...Beauty goes way deeper than the exterior looks as we all know. An extremely good looking person can become instantly ugly if their personality stinks...
That is very true but is it the same i reverse.... if i wasnt physically attracted then i dont think there is any rescuing it"
We have absolutely no control over who we are physically & sexually attracted to...I do believe & think it's inate...We defo can't force something that just isn't there... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, a woman's eyes and smile will initially decide how attractive I find her  Of course everyone enjoys a little eye-candy but someone who's authentic, chatty, has a kinky mind and enjoys life is the biggest turn on for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rarely people are good looking enough to ignore a shit personality.
That being said, I've stuck my dick in crazy before, if im gonna do it again they would have to be out of this world drop dead gorgeous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im interested in guys who's looks and personality are attractive to me. Inbetween the physical bits, i need to be able to have a laugh and some decent conversation, so for me both are equally important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rarely people are good looking enough to ignore a shit personality.
That being said, I've stuck my dick in crazy before, if im gonna do it again they would have to be out of this world drop dead gorgeous."
^^^^^^^ Quote "Rarely people are good looking enough to ignore a shit personality." I disagree. It doesn't matter how good looking a person is, I can never ever ignore an ugly personality. The extremely good looking person becomes instantly ugly if they have a horrible nasty personality. I've dated some extremely good looking men but 2 of these men I dated had zero personalities...& all the physical/sexual attraction I felt for them rapidly disappeared.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There has to be something to draw you to someone initially either out socially or messaging on here. No1 approaches someone they don't think has something about them. After that it's how well do you get on & can you have a laugh and enjoy each other craic.
If you don't have the 2nd bit the first won't be enough. |
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Personality is more important as long as there is some level of physical attraction. Sexual compatibility transcends both physical attraction and personality and is a seperate entity. Sometimes you just know."
Yes I agree with all this . |
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for just some no strings sex? physical attraction has to be there. a bubbly personality is a bonus. when I do NS, the last thing u want is to be seeing lots of the person in other facets. you have to remember what the situation is. it's just sex. now a one to one regular partner is different although that can get messy also if feelings become involved by one party but not the other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There surely needs to be some physical attraction!
Always amazed when personality is enough for people (not having a pop at you specifically), but cannot imagine how someones internet personality is enough to stir someones carnal desires.
I do get the need for both, looks without personality is a no no, but equally if someone is completely sound and great craic etc... but there is no physical attraction, i'd be equally turned off.
People are more sensitive about someone not finding them physically attractive however, so there is sometimes a dance around it pretty much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rarely people are good looking enough to ignore a shit personality.
That being said, I've stuck my dick in crazy before, if im gonna do it again they would have to be out of this world drop dead gorgeous.
^^^^^^^ Quote "Rarely people are good looking enough to ignore a shit personality." I disagree. It doesn't matter how good looking a person is, I can never ever ignore an ugly personality. The extremely good looking person becomes instantly ugly if they have a horrible nasty personality. I've dated some extremely good looking men but 2 of these men I dated had zero personalities...& all the physical/sexual attraction I felt for them rapidly disappeared.
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This is completely understandable tbh and I would agree if I wasnt thinking more along the lines of a ons. I can ignore an ugly personality if I knew I wouldnt be seeing them again. Might sound a bit wrong to some but sure we all have our faults. Mine just happens to be the thicness :P |
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Personality for me.
Makes it hard when everyone acts like they were raised in a basement and they have never met someone with a different opinion and when they do they treat that different opinion as if it's a hostile attack on them..
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"Personality for me.
Makes it hard when everyone acts like they were raised in a basement and they have never met someone with a different opinion and when they do they treat that different opinion as if it's a hostile attack on them..
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I've often met people with different opinions in basements as well  |
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"It's a combo thing, really...but your chances of getting into my knickers skyrocket if you can make me laugh AND I am physically attracted to you
Cherry
Would ya settle for one of them?  "
I'm the cherry, so I got it already  |
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"It's a combo thing, really...but your chances of getting into my knickers skyrocket if you can make me laugh AND I am physically attracted to you
Cherry
Would ya settle for one of them?
I'm the cherry, so I got it already "
Jaysus, I'm not even sure which one I have to offer anyway.  |
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On here a personality comes first as there are no face pics on show. If the laughs are there with that and it feels right a face pic will only clarify what you already know. It’s what’s in the inside that matters. |
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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago
Based in Kerry, work in Cork. |
Looks might attract me, but it takes a certain mentality/personality to turn me on.
I won't/can't have sex with someone who doesn't turn me on (obvs), so personality/mentality is always the clincher.
The best sex isn't always with the 'best looking' person in the room. |
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